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What about the Christians in Arabic countries who have no church to attend? Or slaves and prisoners.
Your post reeks of privilege.

Thank God your Bible has explained it, you are not saved by your works but by the grace of God.
Even if you go to church 10 times a week, its not getting you to heaven.

OP.
How can you say women don't debate because of low intellectuals.
All your points are valid except that one

Uggh.. This their poses are bad. Doesn't show their pretty faces

Go Eniola!!
Make us proud!!

Sanchez01:
Sometimes the way you guys reason people out ehn... I don't recall describing what I wore and I don't see how the omo baba olowo part applies.

Thanks though.

Sorry for your ordeal OP.
It is quite a shame that people are blaming you.
You were harassed/ intimidated and defrauded right in front of law enforcement and they are blaming you for dressing nice!?
This is why Nigeria will forever be in shambles. We hate the truth!

kingIfey:
How come this analogy is being widely accepted?
men usually don't have shame discussing about being a master key. The day I hung out with some married men, I realised that University girls are most sluts. Their conquests were endless. And they are all married. Their wives will be at home playing the good wife. LOL. It is absolutely funny to me

So you are hailing married men who have vowed in front of God to stay faithful to their wives?

GistStory:
Women are now more like THUGS; committing blunders here and there. God help me with a better woman that wouldn't attempt cutting off ma prick

Why are you generalizing!?

debbie:
Nice thread,@op thanks for bringing it on.
Well i know this thread is for females and if a guy must comment gladly give your point and never castigate another...else just read the comments and walk away
Anyway i am a trained electrical and electronics engineering.Really EEE is very vast ranging from power,electronics,telecom,electrical,IT and microelectronic.If you intend to go into this area,try to discover the part you can specialize in after graduation.
There are other fields of engineering and i must say women are doing great in STEM.
I encourage our girls to come in and explore the world of endless possibilities and creativity........chemical,civil,structural,mechanical,petroleum,metallurgical and the rest.
I am working on a project on power......renewable energy.When the time is ripe it will be made known to all.
Note- Engineering is demanding and challenging,daily new techniques and innovation comes up and if you are not in tune with time....you will be left out.Many forces like the society and culture will discourage you,dont give in.............many women have made it and still making it.So you can.
I dont regret being an engineer....so proud of my self and what i stand for.

Very proud of you Debbie.!!!

McCarlito:
Before we start crucifying the man.....
I still believe there's something the woman is not doing right or is doing wrong that keeps getting the man hooked up with the maids

There are always 3 sides to every story...
The Complainant's side, The Defendant's side and, The Witness side
The wife don complain..... where the man version and the maids version

Somehow, it's always the woman's fault.
Is it so hard to say that a man was wrong on this site?

Another Misogynist article to bash Nigerian women.
But this time, we are bashing beautiful Nigerian women.

Some men have decided that beautiful women ( including their mothers amd sisters) are whores and disrespectful. They have no proof of this. Why such hate towards women on this site? Nigerian women are strong, respectful and beautiful.

Nairaland is turning to a shithole and a woman bashing centre.


Seun has refused to enforce rule 2 that explicitly states that we should not abuse or give out threats to members but look at the abuse all the girls are getting in this thread for simply stating their minds.

IamLEGEND1:
well,good for you

i just hope you have money saved up for vaginal reconstruction surgery.........coz the number and sizes of random,strange dicks you goin'a be taking will be something for the history books.

Women who Don born sef don't need surgery. What harm can a couple of dicks do?
Her punny will be just fine.

Kasimaramma2:
I know this post would provoke many Nls but i dont care.
When i was younger i dated a guy for three months he left me for my friend because i was not perfect and quiet immature. For two years the sore remained.
It was an inception of a new ideology ;that people who claim they are in love Stick with you when the grasses are in green and when they have something to gain.
I decided to follow that thread,date only wealthy guys. Yes, i was rejected because i had no perfection so i decided to use the same standard used on me by the guy who broke my heart on other fellows.
God understands my past pain so he is no furious with me for sapping guys financially and dumping them. My reason? I was hurt so i have to hurt.

You do you jare!
Everyone has standards and desires!
If you want a wealthy man, go for it.
I hope you find a sexy and handsome wealthy man who will meet your needs.

tosyne2much:
On a normal day, I don't comment on a dumb thread like this


That aside

Personally I think only a very dumb, myopic and silly person (just like the OP) will be walking on the street with such a ridiculous mentality. The truth of the matter is that any lady with this mentality have nothing to offer you even if you date them


There are thousands of graduates out there who have made the sacrifices of success yet no job. Does their inability to secure jobs make them worthless?

This thread would have made a little sense if you were actually referring to LAZY guys

Oh tosyne, you make my black heart happy!

Toks2008:
And you blieve him?

You must be a teenager...berrer wise up young lady.

I'm just a stupid teenager in love..

chimauk:
cos u look hungry.he just wanted to confirm

Damn with all that meat on my chest, Buddy must be looking at the wrong picture.
I am quite belleful.

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johnnycrew:
I can marry any,so far she's responsible

So a woman can choose to marry any man too without judgement.

darkskingoddess:
No, I am certainly not saying that. Lol I'm aware that there are legitimate reasons to end it with a man other than financial status.

To clarify, that particular comment was directed towards MATERIALISTIC women only; they are the ones "missing out" on the money that they shouldn't have been concerned about to begin with.

Gotcha!!

johnnycrew:
I have a good job dear

Would you marry a woman with a Job or an unemployed woman.

swaggerdgrt:
mke I hear.......,a ur type go run liv dia husbnd or bf wen d going gets tough,I hate d way u tink cos is so annoyin,job or no job guys go still dey fuckkkkkkk dia gf nd stil get more too.gne ar dos days wea gf dey hard nt nw.evn without job our dick go cntinue dey enter TOTO

Exactly, those jobless guys that are fucking for free, is it invisible pusssy? Some Women will bang whomever they want to while some women will consider financial status before banging. I see nothing wrong with both choices.

My quote that you mentioned, I said I would happily bang a labourer who pushes wheel-barrow. Do I seem like the shallow type to you?
Please next time before you mention me, make sure you have a grammatically correct and reasonable reply. I hate responding to ignorant posts like yours.

darkskingoddess:
A jobless man is a red flag, but it wouldn't stop me from dating him in the right circumstances. I am entrepreneur-minded and would prefer to help him out.

If the reason for not having the job is due to LAZINESS-- that is another story.

But there are plenty of millionaires who started from the bottom, and the women who once rejected them are left missing out! I am not shallow nor am I absorbed with a man's wealth. Who cares?

Missing out on what exactly. Money?? My God! We have gone full circle.
People break up with good men all the time for their own personal reasons.
This mentality that you are missing out is wrong. You are indirectly telling women to stick it out with their partner because "He might get rich" instead of love.

johnnycrew:
are u hungry?...just go straight to the point

I am not hungry!
Why can't you answer my previous question!