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lomprico:
If he respects her, he wont cheat on her!

GBAM!!!

Mancity26:
are u male or female pls? To quit after three yrs of enuf banging is not good.. If she can talk 2 d guy and possibly change him, i swear she wil be happiest girl ever.. Her wedding is december oooo. #funnyNation
comedian coming soon!

How can you change someone who gives a basic lie like 'he likes the condom color'.?
Marrying him will be the greatest mistake of her life.

HaneefahRN:
This is the most well-constructed NONSENSE I'av ever read on NL. Do u listen to ur own advice? I beg u don't.
I'm sure u av no fiance or husband, and probably if u av one, u'll be the one buying him condoms and hailing him when he sleeps with other women, maybe even a party will do well with u, since no man can do without cheating.
Listen to urself, he doesn't owe her faithfulness, but she owes him faithfulness right? Cos if she were the one sleeping around, it's a different ball game, right? Being unfaithful to a partner is not a good thing, whether from the male or female, so stop making excuses for nonsense.
My advice to women is never fully trust a man 100% cos when he shows his true colour as a cheat, it won't hit u too hard. Some women are in Aro because they av cheats as husbands.
And to think this lady said she is lucky! I can't believe someone thought this out. @ OP, this lady is telling u to go for testimony cos ur fiance is cheating on u with condoms, which is a totally good and beneficial thing for u and ur union.
Smh for some pple and their likeminds

Thank you for calling her out. This thread shocked me down to my bone

masonkz:
You'd be surprised how rightshe might be

She is not right at all. Would you stick with a cheating wife knowing that some guy out there is doing her every day before you get back from work?
It's easy to tell someone online to stay but in reality its a whole different ordeal.
Better to stay single than dealing with crazy men and women who are banging your spouse.

akike:
How do you transform a cheating man? It is either you are an alien or a teenage who have not seen the world

Ask me ooh, I am very happy to see a voice of reason like you in this thread.
Thank you for reminding us that there are respectful men and women out there.

mimicious:
My dear have also met people like that, U would also agree with me there is no perfect person. Op is not happy that's understandable. I just believe nothing good comes easy it's her choice to make if she wants to back out or remain in the relationship. Most people giving her advice are in a worse situation than her but they still remain in their relationship

We are not perfect people but there are some flaws that should never be overlooked. Cheating and constant lying are some of those.

mimicious:
Don't get me wrong, like I said am not in support of him cheating but u guys are making it seem like it's a new thing. Don't the ladies cheat on their boy friend? Using a condom doesn't translate respect, U right but what's the assurance of the next guy? What will u say about married men that cheat on their wives, will u say they should divorce.

Yet your husband and his family will kick and embarass you if they catch you cheating.

Why are you advising a woman to put her life in danger?
Cheating is not even the issue, the emotional pain is there. Knowing that the man /woman who you've given your all to thinks you are not enough.

Look the pains of cheating don't show now..
Its when you can't pay kids school fees because hubby is spending all his money on his hoe.
When you are constantly being told that someone else can do it better than you.
When during death, you have to fight another woman to share properties and children you didn't know he had.
Or when he kukuma leaves you in your 40's to run off with a younger woman.

He has no respect for her. He is blatantly lying to her face. My dear, I've seen my fair share of cheating men and they all think low of their wife.
One day, One man whose wife just gave birth an hour before, Told me we should go book an hotel to hangout with. Leaving his poor wife. He couldn't care less.
He will abandon you in times you want him.

Cheating in marriage or where the man is apologetic is different but if he cannot respect you few weeks to your marriage, he won't in the next 10 years.

Concerning the condoms, it only takes one day for him to forget to bring it. In the heat of things, he will knack his mistress raw after that, he realizes it tastes better and continue.

missyadorable:
He can only hurt me if he infects me with a deadly disease.Of course,he is bleeping other ladies but nothing to worry bt as long as he plays safe.He doesn't owe me faithfulness neither do I..We ain't married yet!

Sorry i meant, how would you feel emotionally?

missyadorable:
don't be surprised,am a realistic lady.i cannot know the truth and choose to deceive myself with lies.
Am not married but before the year turns over,I will acquire the Mrs title.

I am just wondering, how would you feel if your fiancé was actively cheating on you?
Would you be hurt?

Nicogen4us:
my heart bleeding,am facing a prob too heavy 4 me.am a graduate of S.L.T.(Microbiology Option) with 3.25GPA 4rm The Polytechnic Ibadan since 2009 av not got any job and av try so hard as a woman to provide 4 my family but things not working well because my hubby lost his job since 2010 and he has not got any1 since. i try 2 engage in agroallied but with just little money coming in the family needs always comes often since am with a kid and age is not helping things at all.am even thinking of killing myself since about some wks ago because i always ask myself dat: is it sin?,is it a course? Is it dat am not briliant(which i knw is not true because of various evidence i av)?,is it hereditry(because none of my siblings able to secure any job since their university graduation despite their good grades). Pls fellow NL help.

There is no curse, the economy is Nigeria is poor.
Forget about that certificate for now.

There are labourer jobs, Plumber jobs, painter jobs even mechanic jobs. He just need to find someone to take him as an apprentice to learn the trade.
Your husband has to look for a job to support you.
He is also a liability to you. Give him an ultimatum.He has to find something to do.

For you, Have you tried childcare job ( put out signboards and use your house as a daycare / nightcare). If possible, place signboards close to schools and churches. You can even offer to pick kids up after school in your area and care for them.

How about catering ( frying akara / yam/moi moi at night in front of your area if its busy).
How about laundry? Washing and ironing people's clothes.
There are so many small businesses that you can do to generate income. They will grow with time.

About your depression. I will advise you to talk to a friend / pastor / imam and let it all out. You can post on nairaland too for support. We will listen to you and comfort you.

suicide is simply not an option. You will be leaving your kids behind to suffer in this world. You need to be alive for them Please.

But you need to get up and do something.

4four:
yes u re right and other news that ur dp can cause APOLO or out right blindness of eyes

APOLO!!? But I don't like making people sick

demandtruth:
Wrong.

When they cast the news on CP24 in Toronto, Canada yesterday, the were
described as Nigerian-Canadian.

It was pathetic. The news caster tried to link the guys as only Nigerians.

Those guys are very lousy and boastful, if you've seen them personally.

I am referring to the article posted here.

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adroitish:
It's now they would remember their nigerian roots... if they won Olympics or Nobel prize they would be full Canadians

But the news article described them as canadians.

34-year-old Ikechukwu Amadi of Mississauga and 41-year-old Akohomen Ighedoise of Toronto. A woman, 31-year-old Pineo Molefe, was charged with money-laundering.

Even the Title of the article is "Three Canadians arrested in $5-billion money-laundering scheme"
There is no mention of nigeria in that article.
Its the title of the nairaland article that states them as Nigerians.

Eintelekt:



Make I advertise small.....

Holla for your Architectural designs

That design is lovely. You've got serious talent dude!

ThisMeansWAR:
you fight most when you are hungry.

You have a point.

Heartfelt post!
I think poverty is a factor in all this.
A lot of our youths are unemployed and searching for jobs day and night.
How can they fight when they're hungry?

Let those old men give Nigerian youths a chance. A lot of youths on nairaland with leadership experience can be senators and governors etc..

Johnnoah1st:
@bolded, i would have taken u serious, but with d bolded statement, am more dan convice u are JUST one of the dummy's on nairaland.

When I deal with dummies online I have to come down to their level.
If its okay for you to call me a prostitute because I know what a dick looks like, why can't I call your female family members that.?

Johnnoah1st:
@bolded, dats a typical example of word from someONE who have seen it physically and dont tell ME u searched google 4 it

I googled circumsized vs uncircumsized and just summarized the first page that popped up.
Secondly, How does looking at a penis or even having sex make one a prostitute? Probably your mom and sisters are prostitutes too because they have all seen a penis before and have had sex before.

Look, we are all adults and should behave like one. There is no reason to call me degrading names on-line just because you are unsure of how I got my information. A simple question should have been asked.

Johnnoah1st:
ONE of the nigerian prostitute spotted, she have tasted both uncircumcised and circumcised dicck and someone will marry u saying he have gat a wife.

You know that a quick google search will tell you exactly what I just posted?
Why label me a prostitute for speaking basic science?

ezteem:
Why this thing dey hurt u.... Did he reveal what you've tried on 10different guys?

No

doyinisaac:
Why can't u get the iPhone 6 with your own money

I don't want an iPhone 6. Besides no one is forcing a man to buy something. Its his choice to do so.

Why is your compound very dirty?

pongwa:
u sound pained

I am pained

doyinisaac:
Your Mother Is Using NOKIA Torchlight
With Broken Screen And Rubber Band Holding The Battery And Phone Together And Your Girlfriend Has Changed Her Phone Twice This Year, Now She's Using iPhone 6+ All From Your Account And You Sit There Singing, "Sweet Mother I No Go Forget You"
God Is Soaking Your Cane Inside Petrol.

Your mother is not your girlfriend. You love both of them differently.
Secondly, for fucxks sake, most old people cannot use complicated phones. I can barely work an IPhone 6 talkless of a woman in her 60's.

These are the men that want to marry virgins but are looking for naive girls to disvirgin up and down.

When an uncircumcised dick is erect, it looks like a circumcised dick. There's no difference. It all feels the same.
Its shocking at first if you are not used to it. She has nothing to be scared of.

Number 1 With a collection of dildoos

Don't break the law people !
Stay in the right lane while driving.

debbie:
Thanks my beautiful engineer.I will pass the info across to my friends.

Thank you!!

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Gombs:
Any gathering of two or more Christians ...is a church. God's in their midst.

The church is not necessarily a building.. Bible said we should not forsake the gathering of brethren.



See the above..



Your opinion ma'am.



Same Bible says we should not forget the gathering of ourselves, as some are in the manner of... From the OP, first paragraph, which category do you fall in?



I never said church going gets one to heaven... Did I?


Fellowshipping with other believers is a crucial part of our walk with the Lord. It must be a priority.

The church, is the ground and Pillar of truth... And I just told you it doesn't necessarily mean a building.

What if you don't have other people to worship with.?