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Iamsupaboi:
Dats rubbish! Simply shows they are involved in all this...
We shouldn't let them dictate for Nigeria except u all want this project to fall. One Nigeria One Nation. Peace be with you all.

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Go serve food to the soldiers in Borno and the refugees too.

We should not stop at buying food for the soldiers. We should pay them better, provide better packages for their family in case of death and equip them with better weapons.

ozoro:
Who will pay the oyibo people working there?

Who is paying the people in Nigeria who work there? 30 pounds is extortion.

This is disgusting.

Nairaland politics word cloud. Frequently used words as of tonight

The conclusion comes after a three-year research period involving nearly 670 women of all social backgrounds

Ninety-five percent of women who have had abortions do not regret the decision to terminate their pregnancies, according to a study published last week in the multidisciplinary academic journal PLOS ONE.

The study was carried out by researchers from the Bixby Center for Global Reproductive Health at UC San Francisco’s School of Medicine, and from the university’s division of biostatistics.

Its conclusions come after a three-year research period in which nearly 670 women were regularly surveyed on the subject of their abortions. The sample group was diverse with regard to standard social metrics (race, education, and employment) and on the matter of what the study calls pregnancy and abortion circumstances. Financial considerations were given as the reasons for an abortion by 40 percent of women; 36 percent had decided it was “not the right time;” 26 percent of women found the decision very or somewhat easy; 53 percent found it very or somewhat difficult.

The authors of the study concluded that the “overwhelming majority” of the women participating in the study felt that abortion had been the right decision “both in the short-term and over three years.”

These results offer a statistical retort to the claim that women who have abortions suffer emotionally as a result, as anti-abortion campaigners claim. Previous studies cited in support of this claim, researchers said, “suffer from shortcomings, leaving the question of women’s post-abortion emotions unresolved.”

The new study is careful to avoid generalities. It discerns between having lingering emotions after an abortion and regretting the abortion altogether — two distinct responses that pro-lifers tend to conflate — and concludes that post-abortion emotional reactions are normal, but almost inevitably taper over time, and that ultimately, very few women altogether regret terminating their pregnancies.

“Certainly, experiencing feelings of guilt or regret in the short-term after an abortion is not a mental health problem; in fact, such emotions are a normal part of making a life decision that many women in this study found to be difficult,” the study reads. “Our results of declining emotional intensity… [find] steady or improving levels of self-esteem, life satisfaction, stress, social support, stress, substance use, and symptoms of depression and anxiety over time post-abortion.”

SOURCE : http://time.com/3956781/women-abortion-regret-reproductive-health/

Adufetohposh:
There is no way they won't have kids, d lady @ 32 is desperate to be a mum hence her reason for pushing for marriage despite knowing the guy is not financially stable!



Op frustration will set in, Regrets and all.... But I'm not GOD so I can't tell d future, but I will advise u to get a job first.

You are right. @32, A woman is reaching menopause.

OP Is in a tight spot.

Phboy1:
I am a 33 years unemployed graduate and i have a girlfriend of 32 years and we have been dating for 3 years now. She is putting pressure on me to marry her and i have just yielded to her pressure by putting the wedding for next month. I m really scared if love is enough to keep our marriage since both of us are unemployed at the moment and i m just managing a room accommodation. some months i earn upto 15k from sale of shoes while some months i dont get upto 3k as earning and this money can hardly sustain me as a bachelor let alone getting a wife. please i need your candid advise so that i dont make the mistake of my life.

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you can both go to court or church to get married. No spending. Just you and your girlfriend. She is aware of your situation and still wants to marry you. Do it the easy way and cheap way.

She will come to live with you and maybe you can work/ find jobs together.

The only advice i have is for you not to have kids until you are financially stable. You dont want to bring your kid into this world to suffer.

This news is 2 years old.

Sounds like a good initiative...

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]You're now a male. Huh? [/color]

Yes

UniqueGem:
What advise can a person who have wholeheartedly resigned to washing pants adhere to? Its a lost case. Wallow on man, if you're by chance a victim, its well deserving for your person.

You make no sense at all.
Its unfortunate.

UniqueGem:
Pant Washewr.

Ignorance! Ignorance! Ignorance.

You are Ignorant. No class, No manners... nothing.

Husband-beater.

You should be arrested!!.

FannySwindler:
Some of us like our women abusing us physically. And we find it sexy and romantic.

Why his he putting all that in public. Looking for pity?


Bf and Husband beater ...kindly apply within.

You like your woman angrily beating you up and leaving bruises on you? Maybe thats your fetish?

A lot of men also die from domestic violence. Some women beat their husband to death.

This is not a joking matter.

Dragonking:
I have said it severally that many men suffer in abusive marriages just like women but they are ashamed to come out to say it..freeze made a bold step by letting everyone know that not only women suffer abusive marriages but men too.

The comment below is one of the reason men who suffer abusive marriages don't voice out.

Exactly!!

It is very sad to see the responses on this thread. A man was physically assaulted by someone he trusted and they are calling him weak.

Domestic violence against men should not be encouraged. I cannot believe that fellow men are against him. This is shameful.

I am in support of freeze. He did the right thing.

Truckpusher:
What iidiotic courage would make a man accept such a beating and still post it just to prove a point?

If it was a woman that posted this . What would you be saying??

ahsekeena:
This silly rabbit. When he's always running his mouth,why won't she beat him.



His colleagues at cool fm don't like him and I don't imagine why any woman would want to be with him. He's got such a bad attitude on air and off air. Met him once and I was like...whaaaaaat?! He's got bad attitude.


Come to think of it,how do we know he doesn't hit her as well? Why is freeze the only one coming out to cry wolf?

Was he such a perfect husband?


There are two sides to a coin,freeze is just being the fool I've always thought him to be anyway.

So you support violence on somebody you don't like?

Mobebi:
You were beaten by your wife, and u had the guts to show the world your injuries...... issoriat.....

which mouth I want use tell the world say my wife beat me, still injure me again?

I don't support violence on women, but a woman who has d guts and mind to inflict injury on a man should be properly dealt with....

But if he had hit her back and caused her injuries, you would call him a wife - beater. He did the right thing.

Mobebi:
You were beaten by your wife, and u had the guts to show the world your injuries...... issoriat.....

which mouth I want use tell the world say my wife beat me, still injure me again?

I don't support violence on women, but a woman who has d guts and mind to inflict injury on a man should be properly dealt with....

If he had beaten the wife back and she had bruises, he would be the one taking the abuse and being called a violent man.

Men are abused in regards to domestic violence everyday yet they are afraid to speak up because they will be called weak.

Let us support this man. He did a courageous thing. He restrained himself.

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ZUBY77:
There is no need advising him here. He didn't come to Nigeria at all.
I did something like this back in Europe.
Portuguese resident permit and I obtained Slovakia visa in Berlin germany.
When I returned to Nigeria, I went to Slovakia embassy in Abuja, thinking that since I have their visa, it would be easy to obtain a new one but no...

So the op is not telling us something here. Trust me.

You make sense!

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