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We all hope to return one day. I really wish I could work in Nigeria tho'. Nigeria needs help

janami:
Our house boy steals Too much. And he also lies. He is about 12 but he talks and acts like a wise thief. He cannot be sent packing because his salary has been paid in advance. His mother is not ready to for go that, instead she says we should beat him seriously when he is caught stealing and lying (i dnt really ascribe to beating because hand don dey pain me ) . How does one punish a little thief ?

Child abuse!!! Yes, child abuse!! You paid what? How much did you pay his family that you can't get over it?? your hand be hurtin now, huh? You guys couldn't find someone older?? Beating a child till your hands hurt?

Stealing or not, don't make a 12 yr old your slave. How d'u have such a heart? Either you guys want to help his family and train him well or send him back to his parents and find someone older.

A 12 yr old?? Got to be a joke!!

Wow!!! _{*mixed feelings*} Nigeria needs doctors so I don't understand why doctors will be looking for jobs in Nigeria.

Depends on the age gap but generally I think it matters.

Nigeria = Carousel

LMAO!!

Is Seun, an Obstetrician ?

Si, Romeo.

I just like Siasia. He don't take shit from no player no matter how big you are. Mikel, can't be bothered about you!

Who cares about Chelsea, neway!

Felicitacion Nadal !!! Que gran final! Te quiero mucho

Hannibal:
When rape is inevitable, relax and enjoy it!!!

Are you Clayton Williams

Funny guy

She might actually love genuinely but get her needs met else where. Abi, that one no follow?

tpia:
all these people saying someone shouldnt leave the house when there's a fight.

That works in Nigeria. Not so sure about overseas, where anyone can call the police on you. If your case goes to court, you'll get a restraining order anyway, telling you not to go near your wife and kids in the meantime.Violate this order and you risk jail.

If an argument is escalating with neither party willing to back down or placate the other, then better leave the house. I don talk my own. Though of course its better to try and defuse the argument and restore peace, if possible at that time.

Mister, it doesn't work only in Nigeria. It works for many people and not peculiar to certain people. Never make that mistake.

The poster never mentioned both of them "shout" at the same time. He made it clear to us that he's a calm person while his wife is the one always shouting and because "he can't stand her when she shouts" his only option is to leave home either to a girlfriend or else where. He doesn't stay around to listen to what she has to yell about and expects that when he returns home the matter must have resolved magically.

Now tell me, on what grounds will the woman call the cops 'cause from what we know there's no abuse? And again, tell me how you "restore peace" when you're outside?

tpia:
But from what the OP has posted here,he was the one who was cheating, not his wife. All she was doing was shouting. Since when do you divorce someone on those grounds? Educate me plz.

What d'u know about law and divorce? He can get a divorce if he wants.

_*sigh* You sure you're "always on time"?? It's not enough to have sex but to have it at the right time.

Better still, leave NL and go and see a doctor.

Is your door step ready?

Everyday Nigerians gather at different places all over the world to "discuss Nigeria". We start from the present President, all the way back to 1960 when Azikiwe became the Governor General, to Gowon, Shagari, IBB, Abacha, OBJ, and then to Ya'dua again. We analyze, argue, shout, make important suggestions to our ears and at the end of the day everyone goes home with a headache.

Patriotism from the leaders is what we should be asking for. When you have had failures as Presidents and subordinates then you have the country thriving on entrenched corruption eating up the nation to debris.

Many of us are willing to go back to Nigeria but honestly there's little or no hope given to us. The Government has failed woefully and until they sit up, our own patriotism is just minimally or not effective.

Yes, nothing is wrong with Nigeria but me.

Always speaking big grammar yet nothing to show. Let's just say Nigeria is a carousel.

Lmao! Anything for you

TOH:
No i don't! Ive been staring at it for hrs and I still don't get it

You've forgotten the big long awaited thursday It's over now _{Tiffy, pls get it this time}

Where is he?

Jakumo and Reindeer, your ideas are hilarious Reindeer, just make sure you don't end up being the victim

TOH:
Lmao. you were hogging up all the room! so i left to get some space. Lmao I'm fine darling, hope all is well with you

True. My Mom said I weighed 4.2kg at birth Sowey though I'm very fine. D'u understand my new signature?

Why should a pastor choose for anyone? Any T, D and Harry can claim to be a pastor and simply wreck people's lives. Ain't no Pastor telling me shit outside the word of God.

No where in the bible does it say, Pastors should choose husbands and wives for people. They keep deceiving us in that country and being so gullible we believe everything "the Man of God" says. Count me out. Nonsense. Just imagine this girl's situation. Very typical.

The height of negligence in Nigeria is so painful.These leaders don't actually have to do all they do. It's just greed and negligence.The poor are dying everyday and hell, no one cares.Yet, suppressing the pain with false promises

TOH:
So tired of people purposely rushing into marriages just to be miserable

It's beyond me.

LOL what bloody ass "my will must be done"? Babe, get your facts straight and hell admit this topic is simply vain.

RedHotChic:
If you are ill mannered, that doesn't mean we should all be painted likewise.

Refer to comments below from fellow Nigerians:

I didn't say all Nigerians. I said most of them. Your topic is still pointless, anyway.

Good! Shows you and I live in the 21st century so, leave the stone age

If you tell me how you light your gas cooker then I'll tell you my answer

TOH:
Good idea of course. It's the whole sleeping in a room separate from your husband that doesnt make sense to me

I wonder why you left my Mom's womb at 8 months and entered your Mom's Me sister, how u deh?

Honestly,I don't know how these "leaders" arrive at such decisions without realising they're making a mockery of the country as a whole.

Rofl

Hannibal:
Radiant is ma cousin on ma mother's side.

Yes. It's true