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daniska3yaro:trust me, there are.....I av seen it before, it happened to a friend who lost his mum, they are six in numbers, and they all collected a lil bit over one and half a million each. |
babyfaceafrica:may u not witness this IJN, but watch how u make fun of ppl's predicament bro, its today u knw can't say tomorrow. Just a piece of advice, if u can't contribute, don't distribute nuisance. |
May God bless you OP, and even as I speak, its so painful and disheartening. In such a case there are still some minor question to ask. The mother should have a next of kin, meaning the next of kin to her mum may receive the money in her father's account. I think that's first tthing to do, she shud try and contact the GTbank and find out if she is the next of kin to her mother and if not, who is it. And to explain everything. She shud nt stop at the customer care staff, she shud demand to see the Operations Manager dat can take the shot for her. Secondly, as educated has her father was and working class, I wanna believe he may have insurance policy somerwhere. She shud try and find out n go for the claims. Even me wey no reach him level have insurance ffor my kids. Lastly, she shud try and gget a lawyer iif no money to fund, u may go to National Human Right commission. If its in Lagos, she may go to Departmen for Public Defender, I think its at Barracks, surulere. They shud assist to acquire her properties, she may sell them, start a litttle busness yet continue her studies. I don't support signing anything, becos wen they finish selling her father's properties, these set of ppl can't personally pay heR fees, then she will be back to square 1. U may try this. I really feel for her. Its do pathetic. May God bless u bro, n noot get tired doing good. |
This is total miss |
God.....I done laugh so tey I spill water for body....na that ATM funny pass.....lmao |
God!!!!!!! What's going on in this life? How can u possible slap ur mum left alone kill her. Olorun ma je ki a bi omo adanu oooo. It is well. RIP to the victim. However this will teach or deter other parents from protruding into the love affairs of their wards and their selection for marriage. Afterall the lady was with her grand child. If ur ward is old enough to make a pick n u see its wrong, admonish him/her but if he/she insist, bless it and wish tem well.....Lobatan!!!!! All this murder won't av surface. |
Last2comment:u are even saying a pestle what if it was a Pistol, the story would change direction to 2 homicide or/and 1 suicide. |
kestolove95:what is making Nigeria great in all said now for the love of God? When I said this old man has no senses in that cranium of his u ppl say we are wrong. How can I make friends and business with someone who does nt want to see my kids in his house regardless if the kid is a good or bad kid? This is absurd, its as telling me too am nt welcome too, for I represent my kids n my entire family. One thing I still respecr one leader for (Idi Amin) amidst all his cruelty, he has the balls to send the white out of his country. Why is nigeria like a prostitute which can take any nonsense. Back in those days, USA did something like this to the Brazilians, and the Brazilian pay them in their own coin before US readjust. Yet all we can do his Ghana must go! Our fellow west african sister country. It crazy n killing. This Bubu is a dancer and always dancing to every tune played to him. I am really ashamed of this country and the kind of beggers we have as a president. I trust Abacha won't take this nonsense. Back in those days he is the only Nigerian Head of State to tell the US to go to hell. This are men with ball. Bubu shud know Nigeria is a sovereign state that needs to be respected n not respecting or fearing any state. Left to me, if they place such policy against my citizens, maka y, I go take the deal to more receptive country. Na only Quater dey? |
If all said is absolutely true, I think the matter is self resolved. |
Kondomatic:gbam....u said it all......she just said the marriage was abusive but dint say wat kind of abuse she went tru. U know the saying, a bird in hand worth millions in the bush. |
[quote author=Moppsys post=43450691][/quote]u mentioned that the marriage was abusive and endangering ur life. Can u kindly expand wat for. Was ur ex-husbby battering u? Throwing u out of the house etc. It might be that God is pushing u back to ur husbby. Seriously. Let's know the "abusive" meaning n we can know if to advise u to go back to ur home or just forget the both of them. |
Seriously, OP u were just too faulty beyound words. However, its nt too late. A mistake don't repeat itself to the wise but fool1sh. First of all what made u divorce ur first man? U need to address that. Secondly, its nt advisable to go to ur ex, fully knowing u guys have seperated to the extent u even got married. Is he the only man on earth. Ppl just don't get it, love is nt base on "I dated him before" "we known each oda for long" etc, its just natural. U dnt force ursef to love neither can u force sum1 to love u. Learn from this, n stop hating him, u doing nobody harm but ursef, scientific studies revealed that hatred or malices has some detriment to the heart. U may google that n see why happy ppl usually live longer. Be free, open minded, count hhim as a lesson of life n learn frm ur mistakes. Wen there is tru love u won't even know wen u will be the one answering ur man's call by his wish, left alone perusing his phone. I remember back in those days wen BB was rampant I and my gF used to swap fone in the weekends. We reply eachodas bbm,whatsapp,2go etc messages. That's love n trust. I dnt think its the guy's fault to be honest with u, u came to him at the right time n he decided to take advantage of u. I used to tell ladies, the day u know ur worth, that day ur man will know his luck in finding u. Imagine the saying "monkey no fine, but him mama like am". Avnt u asked ursef, sum ladies are nt that gorgeous nor rich but find n ideal gentleman every woman maty desire. Its becos that lady knows her worth. Done her assignment appropriately before such man could cross her way n captivate his heart. |
This is what Yoruba ppl will call "Oju enieleni ko le dabi Oju eni" in other words words, having someone care for her child may not be satisfying than having the child after her nose. Abeg make una no blame the woman o, who knows what she went tru before she had the child or what the child means to her or if that's her only child. That's a mother for u. |
I guess many may say What for? Some may say its jst to tell her n nt seeking approval. She is ur wife, and as a wife, if the friend is so close to u, there is every posibility she knows the friend too n they are in terms. However if its nt so, seeking approval is very good, not that this will make u look weak or a woman wrapper, its simply showing her some respect, let her have the sense of belonging, knowing that she is also the owner of the house and also av a say. Women love this very much. Jst because u are man does nt give u the right not to tell her or tell her at the 11th hour. Even if she doesn't av a problem with this, she will grow to have a probem with it or jst be pissed for nofn. Even wen u tell her n she says no, politely ask reasons, n if they are cogent enough then ur friend may book an hotel, n if they aren't, then try a way to make her understand, not being bossy n politely. Trust me she will come by. In this way peace will reign n no one will feel like a nobody in that home rada than wen ur friend has come and gone there remains chaos becos of that visit which is one thing u won't like if u truthfully love ur wife. I may be wrong but this is my view. |
Reading this thread reminds me Shaggy's song "It wasn't me" lol. Back to the matter, OP I congratulate u for nothing but for being lucky. Couple of weeks ago we read abt a wife stabbing husbby to death on infidelity but on different scope like urs. Why cheat in the first place? It baffles me o, the same thing u are putting ur joystick into ur wife has it, the same front grapes u suck and caress, ur wfe has, except if the other lady's is golden, wch is imposicant. The deed is done n no need of crying over a spilt milk. Trust me, I am saying this from experience, it takes ur wife time to trust u, let's me give u an allegory, imagine a house built to 5th storey for 1year, then in 30mins the caterpillar crushed it, do u think the builder can rebuild it to that same stage within a month with same workers? Am sure the answer is no. But perhaps they can build it in 2 or 3 months, with conditions, like trippling the worker, pay for extra time and wrong the clock work. So my dear OP, u have demolished the trust, u can't attain it quicker than before, but u can still acheive it by being remorseful, sobre, loving n caring than before, come home at right time, no secrecy, no passwording fones, no closest chat on fone, be nicer to her and rebuff her insolence, she is trying to get at u, if u react to it, my guy u just detonate an atomic bomb in that relationship. U are the man in the house but nw u are the wife, trust me. Be calm, she knows wat she is doing. We men usually think ladies have fish brain, abeg no think am o. Only sometimes the are emotionally fragile, but they have nothing like fish brain. If u do this and constantly apologize, even if it means going on ur kneel abeg do am. No pride abt it. She is ur wife. Just try and turn the table around. Wat if she was the one that cheated, will u easily forgive n forget it? Of course no!!!!! So pedal softly, pray hard and be genuinely change. She is nt blind. She is human. She come around. Good luck. |
This is a leader nt an idiotic ruler |
sonOfLucifer:no! Na road patching. A typical example. |
Number 2 was my first. |
Mynd44:some ppl sha....please can u technically tell me the difference in a new road and constructing a double lane where there is none. Even a triple lane. The Ibadan - Lagos is a perfect example. Its just a double but the guy started contructing to 4 lanes. Please for the love of God if oshibajo has a God, was the road a maintenance? Was 4 lanes there before? Was it a patching of roads project? Weyting una dey talk wey sweet for una mouth sef. If the guy no build am, any body go arrest am? Abi una think say na joke make a particular road is contracted to a double giant construction company (Berger n RCC) una think say na millions d guy spend? That contract alone shud be up to tens of Billion. Yoruba dey say eniti oluwa ko she lore ko nowo....ayafi ko to ni oya" u can say the guy built roads but he could av done better. That's a very good statement rada dan discrediting the man entirely. We all know that man has a good heart only the greed in him and the goons surrounding makes this dents on his image. Abeg am nt a GEJ fan, not even 10%. But we talk tru we go die, if we no talk tru we still go die. So let's call a spade a spade n stop spotlighting the man short-comings instead u take it a challenge and do better than he did. I dnt know why but I must say this, APC u are bunch of HYPOCRITES, simply has ABC. The new road u are talking abt is it necessary? The BRT lanes in Lagos, is it a new road? Abeg let's call a spade a spade. Yet u guys credit BRF and Ojuyobo (tinubu). Let's credit the man small. Even he was greedy n a thief, at least he still did something. APC the so called "Saint" n "incorruptible" wat have u done, see ppl dying becose of no PMS, just saw one today on NL roasted like a barbecue. Yet u are talking of bygones. Wen will continue to dwell in the past then I pity my country. U said sumone is bad, have u done better. Y is ur pot calling kettle black? We u see a faults, a sensible n reasonable preson would ask u, wats the solution? But if u are nt able to proffer one then u are senseless and shouldn't be given attention. I was even surprised the Prof. Can still insist on his baseless points but rada, he relied childishly. Its one a kid that will counter allege after being corrected. |
Am so suprised the OP can say this. But I rethought about it and realized its abt 13years ago I did my JAMB. Back in those days this happens. OP, this is to know if the candidate knows what he/she is doing. They are expecting u to be sure abt ur answers nt to guess it. If u were sure there was no answer in the options, they expect u to leave it blank. If u left it blank they will mark it for u, for they knew u know wat u are doing for it can't be possible u coincidentally left that question which has no answr blank. It done tey wey this dey for JAMB o. Imagine I asked u, in what region is Lagos, a. North West, B. North East, C. South East, D. South South. Trusst me there is no answer in the option, n if u choice any, it means u guessed and don't know ur geography. Lobatan |
This is a rapist in the making......God!!!!! Konji no good o. |
Almighty God, the omni potent, never let me or any of my family and friends "rin arin fese shi" walk by when a mishap is on the way. Its so unfortunate for her, but I thank God for her, at least she is still alive. I wish her a quick recovery. |
Well the Englishman said it all, "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" left to me, this face looks like that of an embalm cadaver. |
End time mini skirt..... |
"Bring me to life" by Evanescence |
I was here Beyonce Knowles, this almost always bring tears off my eyes. Its on auto-repeat. |
YourMain:before nko, what will u say as a lady, Yes?. OP, Back to the matter, well in my own opinion its not all of them have same value for love shown. Like my wife will say "Won ti get eee" them don catch u. There are some ladies/wives who knowing the endless love their men have for them will become a daredevil, having in mind that their man so love them and will be sympathetic with them. Therefore, they still do it. This category end up biting their fingers when the man takes more than enough he could take. Though its prevalent while dating than wen married. The other category are those who at all expenses would trust their man becos they know his love for them. Even if they heard a rumor, they won't hide it from him because they knew he won't do wat they said he did, especially infidelity allegation. It also applies to men too, especially when married, they knew there wife loves them endlessly then they start misbehaviing, like hitting them, not eating their meal like before, noticing and complainig her looks, shouting and getting pissed more frequently, not caring how they feeel, not asking for their woman's opinion abt a decision, not attentive to wife's need, coming home late unnecessarily e.t.c.However, its not wrong to show ur woman/man indefinite love, but u shud know that he/she deserves it and does loves u the way u do for him/her. |
Like seriously.....This is the craziest silly Jamb question. For u to have voiced it out now, it means its not the first time. For the love of christ my sister he never marry yet he hits u and throw u out of his house becos he is broke and yet in the middle of the Night. What if a mishap happened to u that night (God forbid) I don't think u will be asking this question because its self resolved. Use ur senses now. Haba!!!!! I think wat u are scared of his its been long u av been dating n the fear of uncertainty. Pls, oru olorun ni ko si, eru ayan wa janturu. Abeg come over it and dnt let us read abt u in NL like the lady butchered by her pastor hubby. Abeg. Its an advise n u nt obliged to do as I say, but think abt it deeply b4 u continue n bare in mind this is a guy u may live with for the rest of ur life. |
RadicallyBlunt:lol.......correct doctor |
I am totally heavy n speechless......God pls guide us from the wicked. So saddening. RIP to the dead. |
Yet when I stated this yesterday, a wailer said I don't understand the grammer of the VP. Am nt PDP either, but the truth must be said. Wrong statement by the VP in a wrong place to a wrong audience. I like that. |
Armed robbers have attacked two private
hospitals in Okitipupa, in the Okitipupa area of
Ondo State in two separate attacks. The attacks
were carried out last week Sunday and Monday
by the same gang.
A source said on Sunday that the robbers, who
stormed the hospitals between 10pm and
11.30pm in the two days, collected undisclosed
amount of money from the nurses and others at
the hospitals.
According to the source, the hoodlums also
collected some money from the patients on
admission, while patients and nurses who had no
money to give them were beaten up.
A victim, who spoke on condition of anonymity,
told Punch that, “The hoodlums were four in
number; masked, and they came to the hospitals
on motorcycles. They threatened to shoot
anybody who did not cooperate with them, so all
of us lied down and allowed them to carry out
their operation without any hindrance.
“They asked everybody, including the patients, to
bring out money and those who did not have
money to give them were seriously beaten. It was
very unfortunate. We tried our best to call the
police, but we did not succeed because they also
collected our phones and other valuables.” He
added that nobody was killed or rap*d during the
operation.
It was gathered that immediately after the attack
on the first hospital, the victims reported the case
at the police station in the town where the
policemen promised to take action. But less than
24 hours, another attack was launched on
another hospital in the town by the same gang.
An officer in the Special Anti-Robbery Squad said
police were on the lookout for the hoodlums. Source: www.olashegzy.com/2016/02/crazy-armed-robbers-attack-hospitals.html?m=1 |