The major CON is that your lineage may be lost , if you don't bring your children to Nigeria regularly ( which is very expensive).

Your children's highest honour will be to bring your body to your village for burial. Immediately after your burial, it's straight to the airport and may never return for ever.

Teleprompter:
Most people here are commenting with indifference and it’s a reflection of how they view marriage and family.
A United and close knit family that hold each other accountable would certainly feel much betrayal. There are many reasons why one’s father would have a secret family but how come nobody here said they would ask why it happened? If the father’s reasons are somewhat justified then that’s one thing...
But to just assume that it’s their fathers choice and they would accept the secret family is another. What if the secret woman is a promiscuous gold digger? And the children also fee no remorse on behalf of their mother?
What if the secret family was treated much better than your own family? Morally and financially? Would you just accept all and everyone like nothing unusual has happened?

What will be your judgement, if the main reason the father got a secret
wife is because he was denied sex by your mom for 6 months or more.

As a Christian Marriage Councillor, considered the type of marriage disputes we have these days, we are likely to have many secret wives / families in the nearest future.
Disputes like wife deny husband sex for 6 months or more because of small issues.

Diligent1:
If I have the opportunity of having this amount, I will first buy a land and build a room and parlor self-contained then the remaining amount will be invested into my passion business.

VILLAGERS WAY OF THINKING

When one them is arrogant and not ready to tolerates the partner.
Many husbands do snor and the wife may not like to tolerates him.

Congratulations 🎊

Jealousy of Obi's landmarks at his first outing!!!
He also realised that 14000 votes can not get him anywhere, it's better for him to join Tinubu for appointment .

Shameless and disgraced Sowore should go and sit down please.

Please I need answers too

Please I need an answer too

Shokoloko:

My dear, I have had experience for many, many years. I counsel couples. It does not matter who invented it ow whether it is a gimmick. The question is "when put into practice, does it work?" If it does, case closed.
I have seen more marriages restored with understanding and applying love languages than I have seen with people trying to force their partners into a mould that they want.
Nairaland people just want to destroy this marriage - these issues can be taken care of, yet they are all over this thread suggesting bad things

U just said nothing.

Deportation is not the right word

Fake blind woman with two children age 3 and 13 at Ajah BRT bus stop LEKKI LAGOS should please be given the same treatment ,before she destroys the future of the young girls .
Please is there anything like social Worker in Nigeria?

Only God can rescue this nation from corruption.

Sorry about that sad experience!!!
I knew her first in movie THE PALACE very young, innocent with small things.

MUMU MURIC would have declared WAR if any major party presents Christian Christian Ticket.

Old politicians and their useless system.
God will deliver Nigeria one day.

Old politicians that brought the nation to her kneels are just wicked people.

I KNOW THE EVIL MUSLIM MUSLIM TICKET WILL ONLY DESTROY NIGERIA

Muslim Muslim ticket os the cause of all these troubles in Nigeria.

yarimo:
Stupid man speaking like a real man of god

Why?
U just placed a CURSE in your generation.

yarimo:
Stupid man speaking like a real man of god

Waoh!!
U just placed a CURSE in your generation.

Anarchy loading!!!!

Good but not enough, she supposed to be jailed for at least 3years.

Can I enter a mosque with my shoe because am attending a program in the mosque.
Those with sense removed the hijab and those without sense will rewrite the exam next year

Great!!
Please don't disappoint your people and most importantly Jesus Christ.

Congratulations

Let me tell you the truth "nobody including your husband love to be in debt, he is facing challenge that is beyond his control, another thing is that the cost of maintaining the family has gone above the income of many Nigerians and a responsible man will still like to provide at all cost, untill it's out of his control.

Solutions
1. It will be great if you can secure a job fast and start supporting him financially to maintain your family

2. He needs your emotional support right now, deny him your body will only add to his stress, try to be part of solution and not another problem.

3. Spiritual solution, tel him to pay tithe of any borrowed money and devil will let go of his finance and he will stop borrowing in Jesus Name it's logical in the spiritual realm).

4. Marriage is for better for worse,, your attitude in these days of worse matter to him and it will determine how much he will appreciate you in the days of good.

If you can endure and stay by him, your GREAT DAYS will soon be here.

He needs your support and not anger or insults now than ever.

He will only open up to you, if he can see your sincere readiness to support him and not to insult him.

Devil is only after your happy marriage, by the time you park out, your eyes will open to the truth and a woman may come to his aid.

GRASS IS NOT GREEN ANYWHERE, SOMEONE WATER IT TO BE GREEN
GOD WILL HELP YOUR MARRIAGE

Very sad that the GMB and his INEC disappointed Nigerian Youths and I don't think they can ever forgive him.

Nigerian youths left Big Brothers for the first time to concentrate on Nigeria Election, expected that the election will be free and fair as promised.

Only for them to see shameful thing called election. Definitely JAPA after first degree will be the main thing on their hearts.

Reno must be broke and looking for appointment in Asiwaju government.

Youths are highly disappointed with the outcome of last presidential election.

LP will definitely clear the three states