₦airaland Forum

SLAP44:
At least he is better than Jonathan, there was no light in Nigeria all 6 years Jonathan ruled

ur lie even pass apc, buhari, lie Mohammad and d whole federal govt combined. Linus MBA u re doing well

pane22:
Are you ppl not tired of this trash comparison.
Is it you people's money.
Allow consumers buy what they want to.
Haba.
This tecno xiaomi thing is becoming annoying. Channel the energy into making Nigeria better

my brother the tin tire me oh

awon no it all main while
dem no fit make ordinary pin mouth charger

Diijerr:
He is stupid out of all the issues he can protest in naija

make em protest for Nigeria make ur buhari trow am inside jail abi

u doing well
ooin

mumu tribe pple

na so ona fight dat time drive almost all d companies wen de warri

make ona continue na ona go still suffer am

I usually don't comments on dis Ona school comprehension tin but wit wht I see here

op no vex
na disaster u upload
wht d Bleep is dis rubbish
na school be dis
gosh

and one idiot biased mod brought dis fuckery to FP

nairaland is finish

f**k!!!!

HornyTave:
It would take a courageous and bold leader to steer this country to greatness, I don't think Buhari has any of those qualities.

he never had and ll never have

u no one tin I love about davido he knows how to publicity stunt

with dis he ll always in d news
wit more followers and endorsement coming wit a banger hit swinging in but you know we humans especially Nigeria we'll give him dat attention and make him more popular. I must say davido got a gud PR team. davido ride on keep making money from all dis aproko bloggers and busy body Nigerian fans. I love wizkid for his pure talent and I love davido for his kind gesture and humility. so guys keep d gud work and make him more relevant .

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

I see dis film u de act if u don't stop it

it ll end in tears

u re playing wit original fuckboy
don't worry we de here
u go still tell us how e end.

donbachi:
Delsu

u right

Fatbabyfart:
Transion that can't handle ordinary chrome, Facebook app and WhatsApp simultaneously without closing one app.

It is the 3 you mentioned that it can survive

ona too de lie abeg

Bleep wit nonsense u re doing

were is ndidi
wht sane
pogba even rashford
nonsense list

all dis over hyped players dem

all dis mumu mode
de think banning me ll solve their problem

pple who re tribalist hypocritical here ona no go ban dem but those who try to dish d truth out ona go de ban

if u like ban dis one too I don't give a Bleep
in as much u don't buy me data of feed me
may god punish all d bias mods on this forum

idiots

seankafor:
Oga go Hustle

u think say na hustle kelechi take reach der. na wa oh

but wait which ministry was abike office was supposed to be placed I guess under foreign ministry so why d quarrel with communication minister, how come her office was in d ministry of communication complex.

well who no go no know

Bobby4090:
Attention seeking woman, you have no reason to attack your superior publicly. Before you know it She started playing the Woman card of gender victimization.
For God sake what is Buhari doing. This woman should be dismissed at once. In a private organization by now she would have been sacked. She took it too personal maybe because of her ego and I have lost all the respect I had for her.

make I hear word

did u read d story at

I tire for some pple sef

Finnese001:
okay


abike is a tribalistic bizzy body, always playing to the gallery. SHAME ON HER

abeg shot up
did u read d story at all dunce

fuckingAyaya:
If the ghost bang the gate again then bang the ghost

chai see advice wen person de give

fada lawd

Ebus12:
I can't fight him
He is older than I am

He is bigger than I am
Forget his age.... His stature is like that of a giant

bust bottle for em head em go give u chance

na so I do one of my uncle wan de bully me back wen I de young since den d uncle de respect em self. u Ve to fight back if not he ll kill u one day.

ok bye

Acmepreneur:
This my guy is not serious at all.

I used to tell myself change is the only permanent thing in life bla bla bla. And I really believe that once you take the right steps, you can be anything you want to be. This made me to be very soft with people.

When I started dating my Boyfriend, I really was not choosy or judgy. I accepted him without a second thought. I'm not the type of lady that actually do all those lady stuff, I'm a very serious person and I don't play games at all.
My BF is very cool, like not bad looking, normal behaviour etc and I like him a lot.

I'm a very ambitious person, with an extremely big dreams, my boyfriend is also hard working, but I'm not seeing any future at all with his career/prospects/life. When I say I'm with big dreams, it's means I'm working on discovering (new innovations), planning big business that would compete with top brands etc. I'm that big in dreams.

My children is also very important to me, I don't plan for their sufferings at all.
I'm an introvert, I find solace in my aspirations, dreams. I have books I work out those formulas (I mean how I would execute my business plans), I research a lot, think a lot etc

Our fight now

Since day 1, I do tell him to do this and that. I really hate company works, so I would tell him to have savings, and be building something sideways where he works. Also, I wanted him to do Masters, since he said he would love to travel out, he's always saying he hates Nigeria bla bla bla. His dad also wanted him to do Masters, but he's in the crew of Masters is a waste of time, and he can't do Masters in Nigeria bla bla bla

Baby try this business, he would say he doesn't have money, he needs 2 million to start a business etc.

Meanwhile, he doesn't have money to travel out of the country to do Masters, nor 2m to start any business. So I would tell him to manage what he has first, and that would propelled him later, but he likes to talk like illiterates that Masters is meaningless.

Meanwhile, while that is true, those things are just like investment, you don't know when you will see an opportunity to use your Masters certificate, and since he studied computer science, I told him that it can even help him get a job outside Nigeria when he leaves, that it can be useful there. I understand the situation of the country, but not having masters doesn't mean you will get a job as well, so why don't you just have it.

My bf would shut me off, and also his dad, the dad even asked him to take job at the federal university where he works, but my bf said he can't work in that place, this is a federal government job o, he would say the salary is too small and people there already knows him, because his dad is in a big office in the university.

So it won't seem like I'm disturbing him, I went quiet, but might chip it in in discussions, but I don't fight him on those things. He works in a small company, and he rose to the position of a Manager, he spent all his time in office, the little time to waste with his friends. It's a good thing but I'm not comfortable with that, the pay is about 90k, which is not enough for his expenses, also he's the first born.

Fast forward to last year, his dad died, it looks like a film trick to him, he now have to take care of his siblings and mum (mum is nurse, but retired long time ago, her pay is little because it wasn't normal retirement). Everything I was telling him finally came to pass.

He rented an apartment with His friends, he later hated it, and said he wants his own, he went to rent an apartment of 600k (he gathered it from different places and he borrowed), which I really hate and we fought on that as well. Because he could have used the money to secure his life in a better way, since his complain when I told him to start a business is that he doesn't have money bla bla bla

He will not apply for better jobs as well
He's practically doing nothing to grow, and would say he hates Nigeria and he would like to leave, but he can't even apply for scholarships or even google schools.

So this 2020, Jan 1, I started fighting him, that I'm not going to continue with him like that, that he should go apply for MSC, start a business or just do something. He now started saying that he has responsibilities which are his siblings, I told him this is the nonsense, he would do till the year ends, we will fight and later resolve it.

He won't even talk about it, or get reminded, he makes me feel Hus boss is using him. I have told him several times how he would be used and dumped, in fact, he makes me say negatives sometimes, and that's because I have seen people that get dumped while working with companies and they fall back to grass, my mum won't even accept him because he works in a company, small company, not cocacola or big companies. My mum hates company works like shits because we've heard and seen people falling to zero due to company jobs.

The problem
1. He says I'm disturbing his life, and not allowing him to rest

2. I'm not happy with him living that way, with no future, no investment, hes not building himself while working, hes not doing courses, not learning any skills, and I think its too risky.
His current salary is not enough for him, not to talk of me collecting part of it. But he gives me money though, has not been more than 1k, 2k and data subscription which I really appreciate.

3. I can't introduce him to my family because I want him respected. Truth is I don't know what he would say to impress my parents because I'm not even impressed with him. And I want him to be superloved and respected. I believe in first impression would last very long. He has introduced me to his family and all friends

4. He never ask me about my own life, aspirations, advice me etc, I'm always the one to do that. Yesterday he had the gut to tell me I'm not caring because of just two days of not showing care

5. Corona has turned his company outside down and he's highly affected. Just like all what I was telling him finally happened, and he has nothing to fall back at. He has a car,

6. I can't marry him or anyone this way, and I'm getting old, though and I want marriage next year. He said he wants too, but I can't marry him like this. And I don't want to get to late twenties, and he breaks up and I start looking for husband, people would be thinking maybe I have a problem that is why I'm yet to marry, they won't know that its him that caused my delay. Plus I have a very high esteem, so I would hate to be desperate for marriage with a man or be the one to be wanting marriage so much in a relationship

7. Right now, we have temporarily break up, so I'm asking if I should break up or make up? Because he was saying rubbish last night

Note: I'm not a fan of dating and rubbish, I love him very much and I don't want to leave him at all. I don't think there's any man I can date as I do not like dishonesty at all and 95% of men are dishonest. My BF is very honest and good I'm every other aspect

my dear it just an advice
take it or u live or better still say I want to destroy ur relationship e no concern me but d truth is, if u end up with dat guy u ll live to regret it all ur life. some times I love u is not enough but being a better person for ur husband/wife and kids.

ok bye

the way members re living the group eh
they re living in droves
from 1.4million it now 1.3million

I pray her doesn't fall

Latashia:
Don't find customers for logo o , be mentioning me.

my dear am trying oh

but u do u Ve any
I guess no
don't worry one yahoo boy ll locate u soon since u don't want to do some tin meaningful

Latashia:
I just hate guys like this.

Don't start what you cant complete.

see am
na dem

well

for me

shud Ve a great sense of humor
respectful/intelligent
supportive

ok bye

shounited74:
g my brother, marry her first and after a year come and give us the situation report

oboy no reason am. nothing is perfect in dis world so marriage is not excluded

all dis olosho dem

well na der life
e no concern me

Chuks2706:
Wait... till the tide turns around my friend

I reject am for u. can't u guys just be positive for a nigger for once

zcee:
it's very hard to see such ladies with these traits you just mentioned because the kind of evil spirit that posses some of these rich ladies ehh is quite alarming, just pray all these traits won't vanish suddenly...
Ladies dey get brain touch oo

I wish this kind of luck comes my way though..

my broda I no even blive such women exist but since meet dis one. my brother na to hold am tight cus dis type u only see dem 1 in 1million

SUGARCyprian247:
Haha.. Come back here you can't tell us bye just like that!!!

How can only you carry all the good qualities in just one lady..


Bring your babe here jor. We must do balloting

Hahaha

bros no vex I de frotect my fropaty

Tayor23:
with all these accolades,I hope you won't still cheat on her!

if u truely love some one u won't even tink of cheating. as for me, my self and I. I won't cheat. so help me God