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Op, I just dash u 1 like now!!! Na truth u dey talk...in fact, if I say I no feel dis ur post, make I suspend for air!!! Most people on Nairaland wake up in the morning thinking of how to insult one person or the other on social media unnecessarily because useless politicians and political parties as if someone would pay them salary! SMH!

wristbangle:
Baba, make them go work abeg!

I dey tell u!

Things are difficult in Naija...hungry babes roaming the streets of Nigerian cities!!!

Tnycee:
lol bro e be like say you dey listen to my call sometimes...

Lol bro! I nor sey listen to una conversation o!

IamforGod:
Good points! But my major concern is why you had to give an example about ladies and nt give about guys. Are u saying guys are always faithful during distance relationships?

Secondly, why are u rude to people commenting? you are the owner of the thread, I expect you to embrace any comment that comes either good or bad cos it thier opinion.

I wasn't rude to anyone o! Am a cool and humble dude.

Namzy:
Kai this guy you are spot on. Send me your number make i apply some grease to your elbow

Correct man! Send me mail. Na kelvin.ukachukwu.nwosu@gmail.com. Cheers!!!

naughtynaughty:
1000000 likes for u biko! Good radiance 2bad rubbish

Thanks!

lacasera14:
Rapmoney remind me to buy you groundnut and gala tomorrow for this write up.

No, na Bobo and Caprisonne I want

wristbangle:
Superb writeup rapmoney.

Guy, I dey see you

charlesucheh:
Guy! You're a piece of facts dispenser. All what you highlighted can practically be experienced by at least 70% of a 100% of partners if a practical is to be carried out. Women are prone to this habit of cheating in a Distant relationship because of their expressive and frivolous nature. I agree with you on this bruv...... Sharing it right Now to my friends.....

Thanks! Peeps like u keep us going

prettythicksme:
Just gerraout here mehn with dis shit u wrote!so men don cheat abi?dey cheat pass devil self

Are u sure u did not take shots of ogogoro before typing this?

Nina4u:
whos nane?

Oga moderator!

Nina4u:
Wetin u dey una sabi ehhnn? Wetin b lalasticlala ? First time i hear am ..lol

Na person name na!

Cutehector:
Rapmoney ma nigga, nice one...

I see you my guy

Nina4u:
we r making plans ..thing is we never met face to face ..but we video chat every day ..talk on the phone every day ...we want to be together and when u feeling r that deep ..nothing can stop you from beeing together ....thanx though i aprishiate ..

You are welcome!

Lalasticlala, rocktation...

malele:
Leave that frustrated goat.

Hehehehe I wonder for am o!

StephanieEzeh:
If the question I asked is worthless that also makes ur post a worthless one.

Ok. I know you on NL as a controversial person who open threads and make comments to ridicule the male folks...please yourself!!!

blezzy080:
I came all d way to say.. Thumbup

Thanks! May God replenish your pockets for embarking on the journey to this thread! What means of transportation did you use? Airplane, car, bus or keke? Anyway, na joke I dey. Thanks

Nina4u:
Its not nesseserly true ...although i been there done that it ran out in the sand ..however i met someone new..but im in las vegas usa ..hes a musician in Lagos .. We talk every day on the phone ..we video chat ..message eachother ..there has to b trust ...and ofcause make plans to see eachother as soon as possible ...and making plans ..it can work ..but u gotto trust eachother ..and comunicate ...for me is a big issue because he got fans ... Preformans ...can i handle that? I voiced my fears and he has put me to ease ..but we shall see .

'You have voiced your fears and he has put you to ease' Really? Let's just hope he has really 'put you to ease' because people misbehave when the other person is not physically present!!! After all, why are they not physically present? Out of sight is out of mind my dear!

aktem:
Every relationship will sooner or later bcom a distant relationship, even if u guyz ar in dsame skul,what if u want 2 go 4 ur NYSC&she's still in 200l,300l or 400l,what ar u gonna do abt dat?..or maybe u guyz stay in dsame location @home&she's studying in a different higher institution, wont u guyz eventually go 2 ur respective skuls?.I'm in a long distance relationship(although nt dat long) bt i'm nt passing tru any emotional torment cos "babe wey go Bleep anoda guy go Bleep am,even wen u dey dsame hostel"&even in dis 21st century,most relationship is just like u're playing a game.I have my future 2 focus on than thinking if one babe is cheating on me,if she like,make she cheat&wen i'm ready 2 marry,i knw what 2 do.Guyz,just make sure u ar nt a loser in any relationship u engage in,datz d REAL DEAL.

Thanks for your opinion. Now the issue is not overruling cheating from a relationship where both of you are physically present. People cheat even if they are physically present but what am saying in essence is that the high level of jealousy, cheating and lack of trust that distant affairs bring is not worth it! You will soon realize it!

mylora:
Couldn't agree more with the op. All his points I subscribe to in toto. The dude who said that his parents lived apart for the first 16 yrs of their marriage didn't understand that the op wasn't talking about marriage!
The other guy can still ask to find how many relationships NYSC has killed even as a temporary separation. Distance..

Some persons who don't have the slightest experience of it do not know the unnecessary pains and wasting of time this situation can bring until they experience it. Thanks!

StephanieEzeh:
so what has luv degenerated to if I may ask?

Don't expect me to provide an answer to such worthless question.

StephanieEzeh:
Op are you trying to say only girls cheat in distant relationship?

I never said that! I only said observations clearly show that women are more likely to cheat due to romantic pressures and what love has degenerated to.

GahtU:
yes I live in Uyo n he stays in Akure n its going to work whether u like it or not. My parent lived apart for d first 16yrs of deir marriage, now dey r living together happily n till death. So OP its abt wat we want n our determination. So u can go n knock off ur head or neck in fact hit something BT if u think coming here to get supporters to destroy wat we av build is going to make us crack, den I can c how frustrated u r. Mind ur damn biz cos its enough trouble for u. Mtcheew....

Can you give me a good reason why you are taking this so personal? Nobody mentioned your name! I don't even know you or know whether you are in a distant affair or not!!! See problem o! Abeg, dey your lane!

NiRfreak:
Speaking from experience my brother.......I have once done the background massaging.

So u have first-hand knowledge of what some girls are up to...though, the painful aspect is that I don't think u knew what the other guy was passing through! It is an emotional torment!

stupidity:
Guys are having a rethink#

Breaking up things#

It is better avoided than solved. Solving it aint easy...it mostly lead to break up because so many lies and infidelity have piled up!

NiRfreak:
funny enough one guy massage her soft asss in the background while you call and whine about your painful love....smh

Hehehehe Some guys dey suffer o!

markpeakson:
seriously.

Yeah, of course.

Laveda:
Alright. . Nice writeup I agree with you on this

I appreciate!

ALKARULEZZ:
Lol bros.. Your teeth complete

I dey tell you! Na we we...na Warfi connection!

NiRfreak:
Distant relationship and marriage are two journeys you must embark on with sheer FAITH otherwise you will just end up with HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE coupled with SUDDEN DEATH. If you don't have enough faith desist from those two journeys until you must have gathered enough faith as your shock absorber.

When dem no know wetin to talk for phone again, the guy go dey ask the babe, 'What did you eat this evening?' !!! Hehehe See problem o! Tomorrow, e go still ask the same question! Is it not just so boring?