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PoliticsRe: The Writing Is On The Wall. VP Osinbajo Doesn't Have The Numbers by RaptObserver: 2:40pm On May 27, 2022
Sadly true
PoliticsRe: 2023: How PDP Governors Frustrated Peter Obi Out Of The Party by RaptObserver: 7:18am On May 27, 2022
PDP need the support of the goverors, Atiku need the support of the governors cos they control the delegates so Peter Obi stood no chance. But leaving the party was a bad move. He should have participated in the primaries and lose let the world see the gang up clearly. Now he is going to dash the hope of his supporters in the name of one small party that can't win a senatorial District. Obi should return to PDP and be a statemans. Jumping to small parties will not do him any good. It is only ppl with massive structure like Kwankwaso and Tinubu that can float small parties and they will have impact.
RomanceRe: I Need A Boyfriend... (requirements Included) by RaptObserver: 6:31am On May 27, 2022
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BoredBerry:
Hi!

My name is boredberry... I'm 19... And I need a boyfriend... He must reside in Abuja or be willing to travel to Abuja if he resides in other state... I don't discriminate but I would prefer a southerner, esp from these south-south states (Delta, Edo, Port Harcourt) or a south westerner excluding those from Ogun and Osun...

He must be tall... I'm 5.5 so he must be above 5.7...

I prefer dark men... Who doesn't love chocolate? But if he's fair and attractive I might consider...

He could be a Christian or a muslim... But I don't want someone who's too religious... I'm not really a believer but I'm very tolerant... I hate fanatics...

I need a man who's a lover of science! And mythology, astrology, history and so on...

A pan-African...

An avid reader...

He must be creative... Someone who sees things from many perspectives... Thinks outside the box...

He must be funny! And polite enough to laugh at my lame jokes...

Be considerate and kind... I need someone with a heart... Emphatic and with a vision to change the world in his own little way...

I need a man who is a lover of life! Drinks, smokes, enjoys going out and meeting new people...

Someone who takes risks... Loves adventures... Anything but common...

He must enjoy travelling... Excited by foreign cultures, esp those that are African...

Be a foodie...

I love public display of affection! So he should love holding me and being held... Kissed... Etc...

Be a dog person... Love the idea of having pets... I grew up with dogs and cats even chickens! So I love animals!

Someone who's childish and fun to be with... Silly and cute... I love men who are boyish...

He shouldn't be an alpha... He should love himself and all that... But I like men who are sensitive... So he shouldn't think feeling sad or even crying is a sign of weakness...

I'll continue... smiley
Am in Abuja. I love animals especially cats, I like Africa so much and the positive values of our continent. I am bored though.
PoliticsRe: Wike: Atiku Is An Elder, I Am The Most Experienced Of All The Aspirants by RaptObserver: 12:21am On May 27, 2022
In politics every party needs a noisemaker. Wike is doing it well.
PoliticsRe: Wike Blasts Obi: You can be the best Economist, but you don't have character by RaptObserver: 12:12am On May 27, 2022
Wike will give APC headache if they give him the ticket. He will expose them seriously.
PoliticsRe: Na’anyil Magdalene Dakogol Kidnapped! APC Aspirant Abducted On Election Day by RaptObserver: 7:27pm On May 26, 2022
APC say they want to give women chance yet they are harming them. Standard police investigation will first arrest the brother for complicity. They should just release her after the primaries safely na. Wicked politicians
PoliticsRe: President Buhari To Participate In AU Extra-Ordinary Summit In Malabo by RaptObserver: 5:39pm On May 26, 2022
Okay normal movement. APC and PDP should do Nigerias a small favour of featuring younger people on their tickets. It is better we have a vibrant president who is not doing too well atleast we can drag him and he will be seeing the vawulence always. We don't need another adonkia old man
CareerRe: Advice Me, I’m A Graduate, I’m Considering Learning An Handiwork by RaptObserver: 4:06pm On May 26, 2022
Learn how to fry akara
PoliticsRe: NNPP Belongs To An Igbo Man, Not Kwankwaso - Peter Obi's Supporters Tell Critics by RaptObserver: 3:27pm On May 26, 2022
XerXers:
Their loyalist and admirers from PDP will follow them. More defections will also follow after primary. That's the difference with Buhari CPC
Okay let us see how it plays out.
PoliticsRe: NNPP Belongs To An Igbo Man, Not Kwankwaso - Peter Obi's Supporters Tell Critics by RaptObserver: 3:16pm On May 26, 2022
XerXers:
CPC had no national spread, with east joining force with north in NNPP the results will be different
NNPP doesnt have presence in South West, North Central, South South and large parts of North East where PDP controls. These places are largely for the taking by any of the major parties if they get their acts right. Kwankwaso is not Buhari and he will equally not surrender the ticket to Peter Obi. So NNPP is dead on arrival.
PoliticsRe: Police Arrest Ibadan-based Broadcaster, Oriyomi Hamzat by RaptObserver: 2:41pm On May 26, 2022
Attack on press freedom. Lai Muhammed come and talk now. If someone is advocating for justice for a murdered person why arrest him again? Well, the truth is like smoke...
PoliticsRe: NNPP Belongs To An Igbo Man, Not Kwankwaso - Peter Obi's Supporters Tell Critics by RaptObserver: 2:37pm On May 26, 2022
Peter Obi is a good man. But presidential elections are not won on social media. The real voters are in the villages with no internet connectivity, clean water, super highways or sophisticated lifestyle. That is where PDP and APC agents and foot soldiers are working. It takes time for a new party to even cover one whole state not to talk of a region. As popular as Buhari is back then his CPC only won Nasarawa state. So make Una calm down.
FamilyRe: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by RaptObserver: 2:08pm On May 26, 2022
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!
It is common for young women to have psychological disorders after child birth. Try to understand that she will recover after sometime and realise her mistake provided it is not too late. Just be calm. This is why our forefathers married multiple wives. No time for nonsense.
Jokes EtcRe: Five Kinds Of Ladies You'll Find On Nairaland. by RaptObserver: 1:14pm On May 26, 2022
Some violent women dey this platform hmmm wahala
Car TalkRe: Affordable Cars/regular And Premium Cars Lagos by RaptObserver: 12:46pm On May 26, 2022
DioriteAutos:
Kindly feel free to make your orders
We appreciate you all
I just need a car on HP
PoliticsRe: Senator Ben Murray-Bruce Spotted With Kwankwaso (Photos) by RaptObserver: 12:27pm On May 26, 2022
handie:
I'd have loved nothing more than that.... Particularly after seeing your siggy but it's just not its not possible
Thanks man!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Work From Home - Remote - Chat Operators by RaptObserver: 12:27pm On May 26, 2022
TeamAdapt:
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Is this offer still available?
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by RaptObserver: 12:17pm On May 26, 2022
nurullah:
Uber/Bolt drivers needed urgently in Lagos.

Please call or What'sapp 08151217544 if interested.

Candidate must be experienced and have a valid driver's license.
If you need any in Abuja contact me
PoliticsRe: Sharing Of Money: No Evidence But Delegates Are Selling Their Conscience - Adamu by RaptObserver: 12:07pm On May 26, 2022
Acidosis:
You mean democracy?
There are different systems of government in democracy. I am referring to presidential system here.
EducationRe: Nigerian Army University, Biu Resumes Session Despite Strike by RaptObserver: 12:04pm On May 26, 2022
I see. That doesn't mean govt should not answer ASUU and others.
PoliticsRe: Sharing Of Money: No Evidence But Delegates Are Selling Their Conscience - Adamu by RaptObserver: 9:44am On May 26, 2022
This presidential system we adopted from America is very expensive and corruption laden. Sharing money during primaries is normal even in the USA. That is why it is hard for one candidate to be given a party's ticket twice in the USA except you are very rich. See how naira lost value this period because of politicians. After sharing money you will expect the winner to work for the masses? Even Buhari who didn't share money in 2015 had to compensate those who shared money on his behalf hence, he can't sack them even after obvious failure from them.
PoliticsRe: APC Primary: Lagos, Borno Lose Jumbo Delegates by RaptObserver: 10:11am On May 24, 2022
A soldier is basically more tactical in power play than an average civilian. OBJ proved it. Buhari is doing it.
Jokes EtcRe: Five Kinds Of Men You'll Find On Nairaland by RaptObserver: 7:54pm On May 23, 2022
Not compete yet
PoliticsRe: 2023: Only Five APC Presidential Aspirants Are Serious — Fayemi by RaptObserver: 7:23pm On May 23, 2022
No be mess wey loud pass dey smell pass o. Fayemi calm down.
EducationRe: ASUU Gives Update On Strike After Fg’s Payment Of Arrears by RaptObserver: 7:22pm On May 23, 2022
ASUU must drag them wella
PoliticsRe: APC Fixes May 24 and 25 For Presidential Screening by RaptObserver: 7:20pm On May 23, 2022
The fear of Atiku
PoliticsRe: Reasons Buhari Is Not Disposed To Signing Amended Electoral Act by RaptObserver: 7:18pm On May 23, 2022
We re watching
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by RaptObserver: 9:30am On May 22, 2022
donfortune48:
He gave you 3weeks grace. So pick up the car and drive it for 3weeks. You might notice some problem cos it's a naija used vehicle.

If the Engine works fine and don't short oil, the A/C and gear also works fine with no issues within the 3weeks, just go on with the Agreement. Cos every other issue that might come up can easily be treated.

else

Drop the car before the end of the 3weeks grace.
This is a smart counsel. You are a sage!
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by RaptObserver: 9:13am On May 22, 2022
Felicity001:
Oh! Ic! No wonder the offer seems nice if it were Lagos that car is worth 3m and above despite being a naija used.

Just get started already you should scale through but try be diligent and honest with the deal so you don't break trust.

You know one business leads to another, break the 1st trust you miss out in everything.
You are right. I can't afford to violate the terms cos the man has other cars and I may be able to get more assistance from him in the future. He even showed me a chat with one of his drivers where he was begging him to recommend only someone as trustworthy as he (the driver) is to him. So trust is a currency for sustaining relationship.
PoliticsRe: Two Million Pounds ‘stolen’ By Ex-minister Jeremiah Useni Seized In Jersey by RaptObserver: 8:38am On May 22, 2022
He should have donated the money to IDP camps all over the North. He could have formed an NGO and donate the money to it for that purpose. Now he lost everything. Jerryboy the Abuja landlord.
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by RaptObserver: 8:27am On May 22, 2022
Gudvibes06:
2.6 not bad if you are sure the car engine and gear and ac is okay and I'll advise you to do 30k instead of 23k you can leave the agreement at 23k but try 30k it is very possible even with repair since it is HP you'll pay up earlier than expected. Good luck.
Yes I agree you with. I will up it to 30k but I may leave it at 23k and rather do contribution so I gather a lump sum towards half way through the contract and pay him off.

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