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Family / Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Realdeals(m): 11:52am On Apr 01, 2022
Let him know you are aware he's cheating, but don't nag, complain or show him attitude, continue to play your role as a wife, that will invoke fear in him more.
Make jest about his escapades and ask him to tell you more. If he didn't drop money at home, feed him and don't forget to make jest of his sexual escapades while eating; make the statement in a jovial manner. I bet, he'll become scared of you.
Cheerycherry:
Good evening family landers, I created this account because of this and I need advice from people that have been married for a while.

I've been married for almost 3 years now and we were in a relationship for more than 6 years before then.

Since I married my husband, I've noticed that he's an emotional cheat so to speak. One time I stumbled upon a chat with a girl saying things like if I catch you I will wound you with d ick.

When I bring it up he will tell me he was joking and even swear with his life that he will never cheat on me he's just joking.

Earlier this year, I stumbled upon his chat with a girl who I happened to know as well, a very young girl sending his shirtless pics and asking her if she knows how to ride d ick well if she can kiss and suck his whatever well.

Asides this, he sent her money up to 13,000 in the space of a week while he kept telling me he had no money and I was managing my personal money to run stuff.

He apologised and said its because I don't kiss him when we have s ex and he didn't even intend meeting the girl that it was him catching cruise.

This week again I stumbled upon his chat with another girl, he has known this girl for a while tho and I've met her too. He sent her a message saying Je ki n do e kara e bale in yoruba which means let me f uck you let your body calm down. I've been mad since I saw this one cos he apologised and afterwards said he was just joking.

I'm tired of the disrespect the whole nonsense brings to me and I'm considering leaving. I have a well paying job, I take care of my personal expenses and send money to my parents and siblings myself and we have a child together.

It's not s ex cos we have sex not less than 2-3 times a week; very satisfying s ex.

I need inputs from married people please.
We have an ongoing building project together which we are both sponsoring 50:50. I'm not an uptight person at all, I talk, I make jokes, I'm not boring!
Politics / Re: Lagos Visit: Buhari Directs Rail Linkage To Lekki Port, Commends Pace Of Work by Realdeals(m): 10:43am On Mar 23, 2022
Where the rail go pass? On top lagoon? That project is beyond just wishing, the easiest is to link it with the Apapa rail and that won't come easy.
TV/Movies / Re: Customer Review Of TSTV Services by Realdeals(m): 10:40am On Mar 23, 2022
Osilama1:
if our NPFL is well organized tstv can be showing it and Also bid for some AFrican football too who says we must die to watch European soccer
Absolutely, I was thinking same too

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TV/Movies / Re: Customer Review Of TSTV Services by Realdeals(m): 8:18am On Mar 23, 2022
Nice review, might go for it soon.

Our preference and taste for foreign goods and services is what is killing the economy we are all complaining about. Until we domesticate our development we are not going anywhere.

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Politics / Re: Deletion Of Section 84(12): Malami Effects Judgement In Line With The Law by Realdeals(m): 9:42pm On Mar 18, 2022
Impunity at its peak, only under Buhari
Politics / Re: Bianca-Ebele Fracas: Soludo Apologizes For Breach Of Protocol by Realdeals(m): 1:21pm On Mar 17, 2022
You mean the same Obiano wife that is aspiring to become a senator?

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Politics / Re: Ogun State Completes The Ijebu Ode-Epe-Sagamu-Benin Expressway Interchange by Realdeals(m): 12:32pm On Mar 16, 2022
Dapo Abiodun is trying and ensuring fair distribution of road infrastructure around the zones, unlike the onifila gogoro man.
Crime / Re: BRT Driver Told Bamise, 'Fine Girl, It’s Only You I’ll Pick’ – Brother by Realdeals(m): 11:05am On Mar 12, 2022
This is looks more like a rape case, the family should talk less, the frequent calls if tracked will provide a glimpse of what transpires.
Politics / Re: ‘it’s Fake News’, Lagos Govt Denies Appointing MC Oluomo Lagos Parks, Garages MD by Realdeals(m): 12:57pm On Mar 11, 2022
Even if he's not going to be the MD/CEO of the agency, he's going to be part of the board.
Politics / Re: Do We Have Any Of These Helicopter gunships In Nigeria? by Realdeals(m): 10:03am On Mar 11, 2022
Almost all the countries that have these, are capable of manufacturing them. So, they have internal capacity to build them.
Politics / Re: Ibrahim Musa Kazaure: I Deserve To Be Jailed Over How I Served Nigeria by Realdeals(m): 4:36am On Mar 11, 2022
That Obasanjo still helds the franchise to NNPC mega station at Abeokuta got me, that is greed unparalleled.

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Politics / Re: ₦700m Fraud: Ogun Lawmakers Forged Fuel Stations’ Signatures – EFCC by Realdeals(m): 6:33pm On Mar 10, 2022
Obasanjo again, must they be the one to corner everything? I remember when the station was constructed then by NNPC.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia Hits Back At Western Sanctions, 48 Countries Will Be Affected by Realdeals(m): 5:39pm On Mar 10, 2022
Las las, it will be everybody to your tent.

You'll have to cater for your own needs locally, this is where I pity Nigeria.

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Politics / Re: Electoral Bill: Malami, Amaechi Barred From APC Primaries by Realdeals(m): 10:02am On Mar 10, 2022
The best is for them to resign now, if they try an manipulation, opponents will drag them to court and win based on the existence electoral law.

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Food / Re: I Caught This Pigeon Flying In My Room, I Cooked And Ate It by Realdeals(m): 8:22am On Mar 09, 2022
See superstitious comments everywhere, if the OP does not considered them sacred, why force your beliefs on him.
Same manner a man was telling me to allow them stay on my ceilings, despite the nuisance and damage they are causing, just because he consider them sacred, I shut him down to go somewhere with his beliefs.
Celebrities / Re: How Many People Can You Identify In This Picture by Realdeals(m): 12:34am On Mar 07, 2022
This picture was taken when BB (Blackberry) was the champion of the street.
Crime / Re: False Accusation Of Theft: New Fraud In Town by Realdeals(m): 11:46am On Mar 04, 2022
Now that is known, anyone that attempt such could be lynched.

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Politics / Re: FG Approves US Request For Abba Kyari’s Extradition by Realdeals(m): 7:16am On Mar 03, 2022
They don't want additional stain to their already stinking dresses.
Politics / Re: Modele Sarafa Yusuf Declares Intention To Run For Governor Of Ogun State by Realdeals(m): 7:14am On Mar 03, 2022
She is chubby now, Modele was skinny back then.

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Sports / Re: Sunny Ojeagbase Is Dead! Complete Sports Founder Dies At 71 by Realdeals(m): 2:24pm On Mar 01, 2022
Goan research more! complete football was by Sunny
msughdoo:
Complete Football was by Emmanuel Maradas. Complete Sports was by Sunny Obazu Ojeagbase.

Politics / Re: Sowore Declares To Run For Nigerian President In 2023 by Realdeals(m): 1:34pm On Mar 01, 2022
There is nothing like wasted effort.
IKBARUTEN11:
Wasted effort no dy tire hypocritical Sowore

He will still contest again in 2031
Business / Re: Nigeria’s ₦993.38 Billion Imports From Russia At Risk Over War by Realdeals(m): 6:04am On Mar 01, 2022
Nigerians, not Nigeria, are largely unproductive. An import driven economy will remain stagnant.
Sports / Re: Sunny Ojeagbase Is Dead! Complete Sports Founder Dies At 71 by Realdeals(m): 10:37pm On Feb 28, 2022
Great entrepreneur! May God grant his soul eternal rest. I remember the days of Complete Football and ISR in the 90's; all glossy paper, he rules the sport print media.

Larry echiejele (Now Izamoje) was king on the radio, while Godwin Dudu orumem (Best of football) and Masters sports Paul bassey and Mitchell Obi reign on TV.
Politics / Re: President Buhari Signs Electoral Act Amendment Bill Into Law by Realdeals(m): 1:11pm On Feb 25, 2022
You are quite right, but, it all depends on how INEC decide to practice it.
eldoradoxx:
Finally, smart card readers are recognized by law,.meaning that if u don't have a PVC or ur PVC is not read by the machine u cannot vote, the result will also now be transmitted electronically from the polling unit where result is declared to INEC central server where nobody can manipulate figures or write results that he wants. Again, excessive thumb printing and criminal stuffing of ballot boxes with criminally thumb printed ballot papers is over, a polling unit cannot return more votes than total number of voters whose PVC were read by the Smart card readers.
This is a heavy blow to election rigging in Nigeria. Tell the politicians that rigging and result manipulation is over, every vote will now count.

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Politics / Re: Julius Berger, Setraco, Others To Manage 12 Highways by Realdeals(m): 1:17pm On Feb 24, 2022
Good decision!

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Romance / Re: I’m Giving This Phone To My Girlfriend's Sister Without Her Knowing by Realdeals(m): 12:59pm On Feb 22, 2022
Nothing bad if you're doing it out of abundance.
kyber:
I’m Giving It To My Girlfriend Sister Without Her Knowing

Just bought my girlfriends sister a new Tecno spark 5 pro without my babe knowing

Her sister has been phone-less for 3months now
She’s been begging me to get it for her but her elder sister who is my babe refused saying “she doesn’t deserve it” reasons best know to her though.

I also feel it’s not my responsibility but she keeps on bugging me to buy it for her and that I shouldn’t don’t tell her elder sister !!!

Well I just decided to buy it for her today at a mini Plaza close to my area

(Picture below)

Have I made the right decision
Sports / Re: Ronaldo Celebrates Reaching 400 Million Instagram Followers by Realdeals(m): 7:42am On Feb 22, 2022
Had CR being a Nigerian, he would have been heavily criticize for not doing give-away for the celebration.

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Politics / Re: Obasanjo Tells Old Politicians To Leave The Stage For Younger Ones by Realdeals(m): 7:09am On Feb 22, 2022
You only stated Balewa and others as at the time they're killed, most of them were much younger when they attained power.

Mooh247:
cool


Sakamaje....

Tafa Balewa was 56 when Kaduna Nzeogwu Obasanjo's friend a 29 years old Military youth and his killer squad killed the then Old men to take over Nigeria

The excuse youth of Obasanjo 27, Gowon 30, Murtala 29, Babangida 22, Abacha 22, Abdulsalam 22, Ojuckwu 31 ,generation gave was that they were better than Awolowo 59, Tafa Balewa 56, Azikwe 61, Akintola 58, Sarduna. 60,

The youth of Obasanjo's era brought, Destruction of Agricultural based florishing economy, they destroyed education, caused civil war, devalued Naira by 1000% , increased Poverty , unemployment and mortality rate, stole blindly, borrowed and threw us in debt without any infrastructure, destroyed power sector and sold it, privatised every of Nigerian asset

Saraki was 39 when he became Governor, Orji Uzor Kalu 39, Yahaya Bello was 40,
Dino melaye was 37 when he joined National Assembly, Anyim Pius Anyim 39, Ekweremadu 41, Ahmed Lawan 41... What did they all achieve as a youth





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Sports / Re: Doping Violations: Blessing Okagbare Reacts To 10-Year Ban by Realdeals(m): 8:39am On Feb 19, 2022
This case remind me of Marion Jones, only few athletes get back after such issue..
Politics / Re: Aregbesola: I Begged Oyetola For Two Years Not To Tamper With My Legacies by Realdeals(m): 8:36am On Feb 19, 2022
What legacy is Aregbesola talking about, had it been Oyetola is a Christian, the criticism could have been worse.
Sports / Re: “life Is Just Unfair, I’m Tired Of Trying” – Asisat Oshoala (photo) by Realdeals(m): 6:19am On Feb 19, 2022
Where is she seeking happiness and joy?
One thing that has personally help me is that I don't expect validation from human beings, I don't look up to anyone for satisfaction.

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Romance / Re: Advice On How To Deal With My Ex-girlfriend Who Is Married by Realdeals(m): 12:14pm On Feb 17, 2022
Block her, not all relationship are meant to be kept.

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