₦airaland Forum

Ayorh4you: Rubbish! Lazy Nigerians dat always luk 4 quick, easy n fast money.......owon ole!

shyna501: 20 children cannot play for 20 yrs... Ä♌ð besides, wot do Ʊ xpect if Ɣ☺ΰя legs r getting bigger dan Ɣ☺ΰя shoes?

caseless: are u ok? Why are u supporting their breakup, of what benefit is it to u? Tell me who was wizkid before he joined banky? Dont forget, banky created the platform through which wizkid came to fame.

omicron: In My Humble Opinion....still IMHO sha

yuzedo: So it is ok to use and dump?
See why nobody wants to give his all for super eagles again? Cos we don't give a f(u)ck about these guys, as if say dem be our slaves. As if say dem no get family.. Sad! Osaze did very well for us. I respect him till 2moro.. Himself and Enyeama held the team down when we were almost near-zero. They inspired the country and the team with their selflessness, dedication and quality.

The labours of our heroes past shall never be in vain....... Amen!

k2039: To me it's the individual.

Frankly parents could add to it,by telling their kids you are not good enough,you are not this,you are not that(not just parent alone but every negative statement we have heard,our failures,rejection etc).
The point is jut that,once one start to beleieve this comments then one's self esteem is in trouble.

I think He was Ghandi who said this 'they cant take away our self respect except we give it to them'

The reason why I think it has a lot to do with personality is because for the fact that someone said you are stupid doesnt necessarily mean you are,it's his opinion and he is entitled to it.

So every thing then boils down to this,believing in oneself,liking oneself.

For example personaly I dont have a problem with my self esteem(some say I'm arrogant,just because I dont give a damn about what they say,some find it hard to believe in theirself,and for believing so much im myself they label me names,mtcheww),I understand I may not be able to influence what others say about me,but I have the ability to choose the way I respond to them.
I understand we all see the world the way we are and not necessarily the way it is(reality),so everyone is entitled to his/her opinion.

Whatever anyone says is just an expression of their own opinion.


So OP IT'S more of a personality thing(understanding that I have a control over my mood and how I feel),frankly parents and peer may shape it,it still boils down to taking full responsibility for ones life(even if your parents say you are good enough,if you still dont believe it your self esteem is in trouble and finaly if you base your self esteem on what people say,your esteem is still in trouble because as much as positive comments affect you so will their negative comments also affect you).

Individualy we are all unique,we are special

gistme24: He is likely afraid of being benched again.
He is one guy that Nigerians like, but why must these guys feel that the national team is their Father's property? Can he do the same if he is benched at WBA ?
He just wants an excuse to bail out IMHO.

seechris: A+B=C that's what we woke up to see scratched on the bonnet one very beautiful morning.

Siena: Siena: It's never happened to me.

kuntash: whenever you come to Naija , lets try and hook up and probably drive to Mushin and attempt to park somewhere to take a cool/drink....

Siena: Hell will most likely freeze over, before I make that trip.

redcliff: *NIGERIA SPEAKING* we have lost this soul

50calibre: Hahaha! And what genre is this? Lunatism?

great music appeals to all not just a select few.

binger: 4rm my lil xperience,girls are certainly moved more by sight.buh dis doesn't keep them 4 a long while...words and character do

optimist D: who told u that? Try spread the $2.5m with your N500 bra outside and see the one that will grow wings and fly away even before it gets dried. Please be real. You wont even wear it to start with. Yes you.

nikkyshyne: Anybody that believes that picture is a bloody MUMU.