₦airaland Forum

my dear not all our men with only a green passport see a potential wife as a way to get them out of the country - i think putting that in ur mindset may help.

don't u have friends who can help with a introduction

this stupid boy beats his girlfried up in 2009 and is expecting the media and industry to forgive him in the same year, and pigs are flying outside my house

the small boy is a fool. is he forgetting he is black, idiot

for him to put this statement on twitter just goes to show u the arrogance of the boy.

to answer the question yes. If my husband cheats on me with 14 women i will divorce him and take what i am due financially.

whether he is rich or poor remember women make numerous sacrifices to enable a man be at the top of his career and keep his home in order - although its an unpaid job it is still worth something financially, plus the children will need the life they are accustomed to, plus i will need compensation from giving up my career. (yeah i know tiger's wife was a nanny)

anyway - i can maybe forgive 1 transgression but 14 i a 5 year marriage - trust me the problem is not the wife - the man has a problem. all these women saying no are just giving their men free rein on cheating on them, tomorrow they will start crying when they get a STD or their husband brings home illegitimate children, come on Nigerian women is it when ur husband banishes u to the guest room and brings in his bit on the side to sleep in ur matrimonial bed.

the same ones saying no are the ones visiting native doctor to kill the other woman - forgetting to address the problem - the problem is the man making a nonsense of ur marriage vows.

anyway infidelity is a lot more complex to say whether u will divorce or not divorce - its when ur in that situation then u will know. from what i can see from the answers above its no wonder men back home cheat as if the act is the same as drinking cold water.

how much are your washing machines?

not all women hate on beyonce - however, some of her recent outfits and her new video with lady (i use that term loosely) gaga - is a disgrace. beyonce is above this kind of video and if at this stage in her career she still feels the need to use sex to sell herself then its sad cos i admire beyonce. she is one of the hardest working female stars out there,

this post is soooooooooooooooooooooo funny - imagine in 2009 someone is asking how to toast bread.

next u will be asking how to boil water with a kettle

this black women bashing is becoming immature and boring.

all u men complaining should begin ur charity at home and tell ur own sisters to act right b4 looking outside at the rest of us.

women under 35 not married in nigeria?/ ha ha ha - jesus wept - so all u men in nigeria are marrying white and chinese women in nigeria abi!

please,

IS THIS TOPIC FOR REAL bags for $1,000 - come on now how many people can really afford that in nigeria or in the UK for that matter.

i mean come on we are in a recession and after paying ur bills can u really go to selfridges and part with £700 for a handbag when u have a mortgage to pay for.

anyway if you all have that kind of money - i envy you. i'll stick to waiting for the sales to buy my handbags (gosh i am soooooooooooo waiting for boxing day!!!!!!!!!!!)

all u people complainig are making me laugh - abeg let them be asking me 20 times a day - do i look like i can be bothered to get up and make tea and coffee for everyone!


let them be making - and cos they love tea they always buy biscuits and cakes to go along with it - sometimes self when i'm too busy for lunch or the weather is too bad to go out - some cups of coffee and cake can tide me over till 5pm

as for the fake smile - its their culture and i have stopped greeting people outside the office - i wait for them to greet me.

50k wow u are really cheap,

to be honest if this story is true (which i doubt very much) u better not take that money and leave the girl alone - if the mother has assessed u and decided that all it will take is 50 k to bribe u to leave then that family thinks nothing of u.

ha ha 50k - what an insult.

raymond raymond raymond, its a pity that there are still people who think like you do. So if a woman marries after 28 its cos she has been "wild" when she is younger - I laugh, has it occurred to you that both men and women are marrying late due to a number of reasons.

those saying to marry early - well good for them, if it comes for you at that age then good but if it doesn't is it a bad thing - is it written in the bible that all women must be married by 24 and have all their children by 30, Nigerians and their bush mentality sometimes i don tire for unna

its better to marry at the right time for the individual involved and marry right then marry young and then stuck in an unhappy abusive marriage all in the name of saying you are someones wife. I have heard of plenty of those marriages where women are stuck, man is cheating beating and abusing the marriage and the woman and where can she go - abi she married at 20 and has not financial Independence as she has never worked a day in her life and is fully dependent.

my advice to women is that life is short - but it can be extremely long if you marry the wrong man and live a life full of unhappiness.

going to church - by the way most of my friends and I fall under this ur "marrying late" business and not one of us ended up in church so what point exactly are u trying to make.

NONSENSE AND INGREDIENTS YET AGAIN

WOW anyone exchanging their spouse for 10million is really suffering from poverty of the mind.

so after spending all that money what next after its all gone. abi its the money that will give u companionship

why is this a question - its like asking what is it with ibo men and palm wine.

i have no idea why the british love tea but i can't go a day without a hot drink and with this cold cold weather i say drink as much tea as u can b4 u catch a nasty cold

i grew up in england and learnt ibo at home - so if ur that desperate for ur kids to learn the language speak it at home.

learning culture is good and everything - but again this can be taught in the home.

inspired_m:
The colonial mentality is rampant everywhere in Africa-including our beloved naija! Just last summer, I was waiting for the porter at Transcorp to take my luggage outside, what did he do? sidetracked me and attended to a white man that came after me. And there were many instances where this happened- locals will give better treatment to foreigners than their own country-folk. The best cure for this colonization is to ship them abroad for 3months!!! When they see how the West really think about blacks, their colonized mindset will revert to normal

very funny - this happens alot at the airport - i remember one oyinbo that tried to jump in front of me in the queue and I looked at him and said excuse me there is a queue wait ur turn, i boldly told him and the stupid immigration officer that wanted to serve him b4 me that i too have a red passport so mr white should wait his turn - london is a leveller and that is where we are both going - colo mentality indeed.

ah the joy of being a woman - i usually come back with the money i travel with.

anyway back to topic N200k should last if you keep a low profile but if ur going for christmas in the east forget it. the first night u and ur "friends" go out and ur the one picking up the bill then u will know.

anyway enjoy naija - hopefully be there soon

if you want to see bad tailors try living in London. cut and sew is what we have here

for pete's sake

cream the butter and sugar until soft, whisk the eggs until creamy, add your flour and baking powder, fold the mixture add vanilla essense and it should be soft and creamy.

put in the oven and voila it should be a nice fluffy sponge cake

lmao

WTF, why o why do people still do this.

which one is witch again honestly ignorance is not bliss

beyonce?? abeg

thats just disgusting - na wah o - is lace front by force.

people should cut their coat according to size- if u can't afford lace front then its not for you. God willing one day you will get there

Demain_man:
Maybe, Just maybe the son inlaw has been wronged. You know with our nigeria women abroad. becoming too 'independent' for the man's liking. Just my own opinion!

maybe na the husband's girl friend (in naija) that caused this.

but please what they did is wrong

platinumnk:
If you do something that is crimminal-like, why go running your mouth?

ur really asking this question - u no sabi our people again.

the one that is surprising me is that people on here think what he did was ok. then tomorrow complain when a relative can't get a visa.

IF WHAT THESE PEOPLE DID IS TRUE then it is wrong as for the person who reported them - i don't know what to say but it really does reek of someone who was out to get this man as who the hell photocopies all those documents and sends to offices in nigeria and the UK. THAT IS COLD!

HNIC:
I don't think this is new.
I have heard of stories about this kind of scam many years ago.
Desperate Nigerians
and bet this Adesanya man would have been gloating all over about it!

true talk, thats probably how the fool found himself in this mess.

all i have to say is that these people are the ones that make it hard for legitimate people like you and me to marry a non- eu citizen and then bring them over - as soon as they see nigeria their ears stand up,

u see how these bad eggs are ruining it for everyone else.

i'm sick of these kind of stories

anymore prices people

tegasgirl:
No one is making out that not living in south London makes you a snob. The snobs are the people on here who came on in the first instance going on about how much of a ghetto south London is, like those of us that live there are church rats. I just wanted to point out that it's not as terrible as people are making out. Besides they probably pay more rent than most of the people on here making out they are living the good life because they are not close to peckham. Making a point is one thing, being ignorant is a whole new ball game.

Are you talking about the 'bush meat' you grew up eating?


As per not living in London, there is nothing wrong with it. All of my sisters are based in Kent, most peoples reasons for leaving London is to buy houses where their kids can play in a garden, people leave London quite simply because they want to. I don't think they look for a deposit for a mortgage just because they don't want to live near where they sell 'bush meat'

what are you talking about - do they sell bush meat in this country? i have never eaten it.

as for all this rent biz ur talking about - i don't know o.

look people are entitled to their opinion and i personally think peckham is a dump - yes even with its muti million pound properties

http://www.channel4.com/programmes/dispatches/episode-guide/series-43/episode-1

In 2008 a Bafta and Emmy Award-winning Dispatches told the story of how children in Africa's Niger Delta were being denounced by Christian pastors as witches and wizards and then killed, tortured or abandoned by their own families.

The film, which prompted international outrage against a practice conducted in the name of Jesus, forced the Nigerian authorities and the UN to act.

Child rights legislation came into force making it illegal to brand children as witches and some pastors were arrested. Financial support also poured in to assist a small British charity (Stepping Stones Nigeria) providing the only safe refuge for hundreds of youngsters attacked after claims that they were possessed by the Devil.

In Return to Africa's Witch Children, Dispatches reveals what happened to some of the children and church leaders who originally featured, and discovers that even now children as young as two are still being stigmatised as witches and treated as outcasts.

Gary Foxcroft of Lancaster-based charity Stepping Stones also returns to Nigeria and discovers that since his last visit the rescue centre that houses many of these children was the target of an attack. He also learns that the number of children living there has in fact risen.

Two-and-a-half-year-old Ellin is one such child. She was found at the side of the road, her body having been severely burnt with boiling water. Nwanakwo Udo Edet, around eight years old, wasn't so fortunate. He had acid poured over him after being labelled a wizard and later died.

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Monday 23 November 8PM Channel 4
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spikedcylinder:
What kind of fuckery is this? Bleaching cream for babies?
The end is near.

LMAO

THE END IS VERY NEAR - OMG can u imagine a mother and i stress the word motheris looking for bleaching cream for a child under 5. i'm sure if she has a daughter she will start relaxing her hair at 8 months abi

http://www.starwoodhotels.com/lemeridien/search/ratelist.html?requestedChainCode=MD&requestedAffiliationCode=MD&numberOfRooms=1&numberOfAdults=1&arrivalDate=&departureDate=&lengthOfStay=&propertyID=1818&ratePlanName=&lpqRatePlanName=null&lpqRate=null&roomOccupancyTotal=1&city=&stateProvince=RIV&country=Nigeria&corporateAccountNumber=&searchObject=SearchResponse&iATANumber=

http://www.proteahotels.com/Port-Harcourt.html

http://www.hotel-presidential.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=58&Itemid=74

OBVIOUSLY when u get to nigeria u can look for the hotels without a website that might be cheaper