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chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people

Cloggym:
We started a relationship at the end of August. She was the who wanted a relationship, and I liked her too so I accepted since I’m single.
We live just 1hr apart in 2 different cities in the east. So I wouldn’t completely say it’s a long distance relationship.

She visited, and I happen to check her WhatsApp while she was asleep. I found out she’s sleeping with a few other men, not a relationship cos I didn’t see endearing names or any romantic chats just stuffs like “ where are you? I’m at your house “
Are we seeing today?”

Should I confront her or use her for sex only , with protection of course

Keepamsafe:
Please help. Im in a big Dilemma.

The single spinster who is my neighbor brought food for me again last night, but left angrily with the food after knocking and noticing there was a girl in the room with me.

I just greeted her this Sunday Morning, and she ignored my greeting.

Do you think i owe her an apology? What do I do? Does she have any rights to be angry with me cos she overheard another woman in my room? Please help

Im in a dilemma. help please.
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Westchester:
Just saw this on Social Media, bro we’re living in hell in this country, just imagine what someone bought with only an hour’s job wage
All these just for ten pound sterling

EtinosaDLaw:
We all know of that one guy that graduated 4 years BEFORE his alma mater was built.

Uptheante:
Let's Bleep, I will pay you 60k.
I can add if you are sweet & can give me more styles

Testimony988:
When I was staying with her... my dad and siblings she had showed me shege pro max ... if my mum didn't rushed to picked me up maybe I wouldn't be alive to tell the story..... the issue is my dad passed away last year .... my stepmum and her 4 children are really suffering.... she begged me for help since September but I ignored her message...... I am married .....I did my traditional marriage in April this year.. ...
.my hubby and I are capable of helping her to start up something for her to cater for her children .... or to even accommodate one of her children .... her only daughter who is 12 and put her in school..... although my mum and her family will be against it ..... because we all hate her with a passion ...but I am find it hard to help her because of what she has done to me....... she had mistreated me to the extend of asking her children to beat and spit on me ..... and she will be laughing asking them to do it harder.... I know is not the children faults they were innocent ......they only did what they mum asked them to do ..... but still I don't feel like helping them .... just to clarify my late dad was a irresponsible father to me..... he denied the pregnancy and returned back after 12 years he took me to his house where his wife and children mistreated me .... most of the abused were happening in his presence .... but he didn't care...... my mum picked me up from him when I was 14....... he didn't bothered about me .... my mum and grand mum had suffered a lot for me... althought they've done so may upsetting things in the past that made me so angry but I still love them because they were there for me when I needed them the most.... please if I were you will you help them ?

marvellous2222:
Can a man be this wicked to the wife of his youth? 😭

I am a legally married woman with no child and My marriage is 15 years. I reside in Lagos.

I am not the type of woman that monitors or interfere in my husband business or his staffs. Though I know some of the staffs but not much closeness.

7 years ago 4 youths corps served at my husband office but one lady among the 4 corps member was later retained and employed as a secretary to the director who is my husband.

Though my husband told me when his secretary wanted to do her wedding at Port Harcourt 4 years ago. I didn't go but being my husband staff, he went with some of his friends. Less than a year after the wedding the Secretary gave birth to twins. I even went to visit her at home in gbagada, Lagos with gifts for the new babies then. When I asked for her husband I was told he is out of the country. I never knew I was being fooled.

December 22, last year, the Secretary gave birth to another baby in a private hospital where my immediate sister got employed less than 3 months as an accountant. It was my sister that witnessed everything and told me.

The lady I thought is just a secretary is my husband-wife. The wedding the Secretary did in port Harcourt then was between her and my husband. The twins she gave birth to then and the new baby she just put to birth are my husband children. The house I went to visit her in gbagada was bought to her by my husband with a saloon car.

My husband didn't deny it when I confronted him. Even his parents and siblings all knew about it. I didn't know I was in darkness for years.

I am still in the shock because all is still like a dream to me. I asked him of my offensee to have punished me that way but he said I did nothing wrong.

Since the day the whole secret was exposed I have been mentally sick and disturbed.
What should I do? pls admin approve some men can be extremely wicked.

doctore212:
In Uni, one Jehovah witness came to preach in our hostel.

She invited me for a mid week service, the next day she came and entered the room for me to prepare.

I just remove my cloth and boxers , my gbola come hang out.

As I wan begin dey wear another cloth, na so

her Bible fall from her hand . We knack two



rounds and yet we didn't go anywhere that



day.









ENYI, AHU ÓDIKWA GI?

After then, na steady knacking.

I even stored her name as Angela Knackimura

jrusky:
Hahahahaha una neva seen anything. Biko na who wan give obi appointment? Obi matter don cast in Nigeria forever.

Even let me tell you we are going to appoint one of Obi sister soon and pick another of his cousin for appointment to embarrass him for been stupid.

If Datti no take the appointment na hin headache be dat we don't give a f u ck.

Angelfrost:
Portable get money pass which state governor??!... For your mind, na only 'salary' governors dey collect.

Una funny for this forum.

Meanwhile... Isn't the UK several degrees colder at this time??! Why this guy wear Shorts??!

seunmsg:
Datti the rogue again at it. This dude rigged his way into the senate until the appeal court sacked him and handed victory to the rightful person. Ordinary to maintain the the quota given to his school by law school, he greedily violate the quota severally thereby graduating innocent students who can’t admitted to law school.

Sadly, these are the fraudulent characters in Labour Party that go about claiming they want to change the country. These rogues just want to grab power by all crooked means for their selfish interest and nothing else. God will continue to expose them one after the other.

GoWithGood:
What left of the shell

Zooposki:
Igbo people got to change. Them use drugs swear for una. These are the same fools that want to rope us into their criminal Biafra. This is getting too annoying.

CoronaVirusPro:
The entire South-East itself is a village!

People call it a town out of pity.

codedgalaxy:
Nlanders pls a quick question.
My guy straffed one "ent" yesterday.
He told me that normally the babe was sweet, but his concern now, is that during sex there were milky stuffs like "garri" coming out of her vj.
Pls what is this, is it okay?
and has anyone experiensed this before?

Bobloco:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/11/why-i-deserve-to-be-listed-in-guinness-world-records-tinubu/amp/

gratefulheart:
Igbo girls only fall in love with money.
Caution. ...be careful.
Your eyes will soon clear

KingKO22:
Is this brown or black roofs?

Is my eyes paining me ni ? 😀😂😂😄


So this unfortunate children of hate also have slums?

Testiebobo:
Just this faithful morning, i woke so early this morning doing some house chores, and decided to fetch some water in my kitchen bucket so that i can use them to wash plates and cook. Na so i drop bucket for the tap side, just to go and pump water to the tank which just took me 30 minutes. That was how i was ready to fetch my water and i saw huddies in my bucket. I am seriously annoyed with my cousin, and i dont want to take jungle justice on her, what should i do?

CoronaVirusPro:
I guess it because Yoruba`s are the most enlightened, educated and law abiding tribe in Africa.

FriendsAndFans:
If you can see this
am not feeling well
Please help me
Please

ILoveNG:
Can someone explain what's happening to Elupe in Imo?

I thought Elupe won the presidential election; winning a governorship election in their stronghold should be easy. Should we blame APC, INEC, DSS, Yoruba Muslims, Fulani, and the military officers in Imo for rigging this election?

I was told Elupe is the best political party in the world and I'm sure all Ndigbo want Elupe. Or is it possible that Ndigbo only want Elupe for Nigeria and not for Imo?

Persephone1:
Micro what !

God abeg

God abeg

God abeg ooo

lavylilly:

If he wins the election, I will join the seminary to become a sister.

Iwantslavesgone:
Igbos are the most dangerous species in Nigeria. I'm more afraid of an Igboman than I am of a lion. Very aggressive and greedy lots

Nicepoker:
when sense is about leaving your body it doesn't take too much time.

plaindealer:
With LP candidate in the same Imo state.

LP brand of politics is all about the destruction of anything in Nigeria, this clown is supposed to be the leader of the Nigerian labor union, but he is a politician running errands for the Labor party and even destroying Nigeria in the process.

We've had labor union leaders for so many decades with zero issues, but it's a different story today with the labor union leader from the SE.

This is why it's impossible for Nigerians to trust them with power.

Sad.

Dotar:
Pls before conji kee me.. I am 27 years old, dark in complexion, slightly chubby. I need an older late 40s up, healthy, neat man with a “good dk” … must be married.. single men are coming o but I don tire for love, i just want a matured and decent married man who will make me a mistress,i don’t want to keep increasing my body count in the name of love biko.. people think I’m seing different men because i av good ass bt am pretty lonely because I can’t imagine opening my legs for different men. I want just 1 loyal man.. I started watching bf recently and tried satisfying myself once bt felt bad afterwards… I base in Enugu and nt willing to travel when better dk full here. Enugu base only…

Note. We will go for a test to know our health status because I like it kin to kin..

Emekaphilip360:
I think she’s arguably the most beautiful female senator in the history of this country. What a MILF!