₦airaland Forum

Islie:
https://www.thecable.ng/full-list-lagos-beats-dubai-miami-ranked-19th-out-of-50-best-cities-in-2024/amp

FightingFalcon:
We met in Enugu 3 years ago, got married and relocated to Australia.
My wife told me of how close she was with her ex and all the things they normally do together.
When she started behaving funny, I installed a cctv and hidden recorders in my home just to see if there was something going on whenever I go to work.
To my surprise, my wife told her ex that she misses him and they still keep in touch and she said they don't have anything in common and that she just keeps in touch with him.
Whatever she does in the house, she wants to tell him about it.
When they are talking, you see them referring to her sex life.
I am upset but I don't know if I should be.
I have talked about it to my wife and she promised to stop communicating with him but she didn't know I installed a cctv in my house with the capability to record voices too.
She speaks to him often.
I am thinking of ending the whole marriage so we go our separate ways because it's too early for her to begin to make me develop trust issues.
I want to know if I am right or wrong.
I've spoken but she won't listen.
If she respects me, I think she should listen to me and let her ex go for ever because the dude is a married man too living in Nigeria.

AtoningBlood:
I need your input people.

3 years ago, my dad sold our house without informing anyone of us. Meanwhile, we all had things left at home, including my mum's items. He never told us where some of those things are till date.

He sold that house and went to the village, he immediately started having issues with the village people. Fight today, fight tomorrow. Everyone in the village I heard now disrespect him due to how he reveal his secrets to anyone who cares to listen.

My dad wants to leave the village to go rent an apartment in another state. His financial responsibility has been on me alone. My siblings abandoned him.

He's being nursing the idea of leaving the village and never informed me. Last november I spent almost 2 million naira fixing solar power and inverter for him in his house at the village and immediately after that he started saying he wants to leave the village..

I told my dad never to relocate to the village yet, that he should wait till his is older as he is still agile and all his friends are in the state where we lived or around. He also gets contracts once in a while so I don't bear much financial burden. But no, he failed to listen and sold our house and left.

My dad wants me to cough out another 1M to rent a house, he wants it big, 3 bedroom. I told him to look for a 2 bedroom but he said where would visitors stay.

I am not even comfortable seeing him in a rented apartment, what would my cousins say, they would mock us. I have some of them who are very naughty. He is bringing shame in us.

We have two properties and my husband wants him to come and stay in one, I vehemently disagreed because he will be controlling us, some of my extended family members will come visiting him and carry the news to the village, as well as discussing my own family and I don't want that. They contributed to what is happening to him now. Through him, some of them will come to stay and I can not start what I can't continue with. So I told my husband to dead that idea fast.

He wants to leave the village latest by February. How do I convince him to get a 2 bedroom flat? 3 bedroom would mean 3 mattresses, and everything triple. My dad doesn't like anything less. All the expenses will be on me alone. My siblings don't care.

I can't turn deaf ears to his needs. I don't want him in the village and I hate to see him in a rented apartment but that is what it is now.

I need contructive advice especially those of us with retired parents, how do you relate with their needs? I told him to think of a small trade so he won't be idle like he's been since retirement and he is talking about setting up electrical pole business, I laughed. Sebi he wan rek me. Same way he did not manage hid wealth.

Thisisvenuz:
I met this lady early last year and we fell in love we were Soo close and she was like the type of woman I wanted at that time so instead of playing with our future I proposed to her and she accepted then we started planning marriage. Then I noticed after the proposal this lady started being to demanding she wants this she wants that which I try my best and provide but when I don't this lady will call me names this and that the wrist chain this lady wears alone is about 150k but she always tells me I did nothing so I decided to end it all yesterday. Did I took the right decision?

dre11:
https://saharareporters.com/2024/01/24/nigerian-man-dies-24-hours-after-arriving-uk-postgraduate-studies

Lounge9NG:
Economy 3m, business class 8m: Seat na Seat ooh


Israel DMW, known for being a close associate of popular Nigerian musician Davido, recently made headlines after revealing his preference for flying economy class.

Many were surprised by this revelation, given his association with a high-profile figure in the entertainment industry. In this article, we delve into the reasons behind Israel DMW’s choice and explore the insights he shared regarding his decision.

Golan007:
For where?

Dem sabi trade reach Indians and Pakistanis?

Even for London, na Asians dey dominate African food market.

I swear you fit even order Jollof rice you no go know say na Ranjit cook am.

chigator2:
That is the thing, Organised Capital is a major force in business.

The earlier Africans understands this the better they stand to compete in the global business scene.

Organised capital is what happens when multiple investors and entrepreneurs galvanise their capital and business interest into one formidable business structure that builds up on their individual strengths, hides their individual weaknesses and works towards their common goal. Africans and Nigerians in extension have this "Solo Mission" mentality in business that is harmful in the long run especially when competing against deeper pockets. That is why we have several underdeveloped hospitals littered everywhere when all the directors of all the shrub hospitals would have merged capital to build a world class facility.

The Indians don't have this problem. Coming from a communal culture like Nigerians they use this to their advantage abroad. Indian families and communities abroad pool their resources together and form a business structure. Their capital can go towards any business that they agree upon and then they decide who among them or who should be appointed to be the face of the business. In this way, they set up pharmacies, shops, REITs, car wash, laundromats and other SMEs abroad with a capital base that is competitive enough.

I have not read anywhere sice this JAPA phenomenon emerged that Africans can pooling resources together to achieve something of scale and volume abroad, it is either how they are trying to make each other lose citizenship potential or sleeping with someone's wife. SMH

elipheleh:
Listen to the voice of the devil.

Ypur Options:
1. Become a single mom. Divorce
2. Stay and cheat on him
3. Kill him and or your sister
4. Hate all men and vow to revenge


Or listen to voice of God by conducting proper investigation. Then send your sister back home and forgive. Keep your family. Its obvious temptation has started on your husband.

Openfurum2024:
Hello everyone,gud day. So i had dis next door hostel neighbor nd friend, who happens to be a pussi-lover(these guy dey change babes like cloth) so there is dis babe he was knacking(una understand na). Not knowing the girl have a serious guy.

So it happens the guy location my next door neighbor room today, nd caught the girl there. Nor be some thing, dis guy nor come alone, he came prepared with other guys(it happens dat the guy is a bagger) omor na once i know say my gentle-looking friend na aye oo. Na once we begin hear aro-mates xx oo.

Na once guys begin fall out we cutlasses say dem one drill my friend with the girl. Everybody just fem(who dares talk when kings are talking) 😂 naso dem drag the girl out from the room,one drag my guy, na him lock door inside. The next thing make we hear, my guy they make call inside room say BG done price, say who give BG mind to enter him room drag babe make him dey knack, come say dem one drill am. About 20minuite, everywhere don full. Ayes don full everywhere dey para. Even the vikings nor know say my guy na aye before, but dem nor one gree say na my guy price, say him go dey knack BG babe, say he nor get fear, say BG nor dey share their babe with anybody not to talk of black bst.

Naso fight burst inside hostel oo, everybody scamper for safety even me, no be small stabbing nd cutting oo. Last last vikings come commot say dem go come back, because the ayes make come many pass dem, nd carry enough weapons(gun excluded) nd the vikings, don injure well well. After the vikings go, ayes follow including my friend(he was already bleeding from the cause of the fight).

As i am talking now, everywhere just quite, students are afraid, we nor know waiting fit sup next. Vikings dey para, ayes dey para. I nor know where my guy day, infact na today hostelers know say my guy na AYE.

Dem Really say der nor dey write frat for face.

KiNg0G:
Hi, Happy New Year.
I know some of you think I am dead but I am not.
I just am not getting the accolades I deserve from you all so I thought maybe I should take a chill pill.

But anyways...... Here we go

The top 5 ghanian musician Nigerians have supported in recent years

SARKODIE

This musician has been there for a long time he specifically dethroned mi when we talking about rap concern and have made several features with top Nigeria musicians. he came into the universal spotlight during the time of ice prince aboki inside and also during the hotness of run town. No one in Nigeria can say they don't know SARKODIE because we helped blew him internationally worldwide. What else does ghanians want from Nigerians?

SHATTA WALE

The pioneer of ghanians music right now can admit Nigeria has played a huge role in his life but the hate is still there. He once was the one who brought the notion of banning foreign music in Ghana but no one took him serious then. But right now he realised Nigeria wasn't really the problem but the Ghana entertainment industry.

His recent hit single ON GOD is still being played all over Nigeria by DJs and all and it seems Nigerians has forgiven him.

KING PROMISE

Right from day he has been a popular musician in the Nigeria music industry and not everyone knows he is a ghanian. Wizkid single handedly brought him into the mainstream few years ago and since then he has been on top as a A list. His recent hit terminator is been aired all over sound City, on radio stations and still they say Nigerians are not trying.


OLIVE THE BOY

Loving you girl nor get holiday, I do am everyday, girl I need no one like I need you.. oh no... Ahh

Who blew this song if not Nigeria tiktokers? This song went mainstream because Nigerians accepted it with all their heart and I tell you not everyone knows he is a ghanian upcoming artist and yet they say Nigeria don't support foreigners.
Don't ghanians see all this?


BLACK SHERRIF

Well much can't be said about blacko, Nigerians made him who he is today not Just burna boy. The whole Nigeria accepted him. I accepted him and yet he did what he did.


Respect

Jennyclay:
Just tell us you don’t have money and we’ll understand. You broke men should atleast package yourselves this year

Ordinary #550 can prepare yam sauce with that palm oil. You should have just buy #100 pepper, #200 tomatoes, #100 onion, #100 crayfish and #50 Maggi. Bleach the red oil very well, then put your sliced pepper, tomatoes and onion, then put your crayfish and maggi. Food is ready!!

May God help you struggling men this year!

Dilijingsly:
Just two babies, the breast are now skiny, i don't want to cheat on my wife. What must i do to make it firm or even bigger

MayowaTallguy:
So Guys
I left my Gf @ home to link up with another girl have been trying to bang since last year
After 3 rounds around 2 am I noticed her hot temperature when she's snuggle up with me
"IS EVERYTHING OK"? She Said she's its normal
Around 3am my nairalanders,that was how this girl started rolling on the floor at this point, I say my own don done! I started having flashbacks of those horrible news I do stumbled across on nairaland,ticktok,Instagram






Abeg na,u are scaring the shit out of me! Omo she did not answer me again o she started vomiting and shitting,she did It like 3 -4 times already
Around 6,30...she took her stuff and said she's going home to get drugs,I tf and escort her outside.

Till now my mind never come down.
Just because I want to change the taste of puna
I no tell anybody for house o
Chai
Thank God sha
She is fine now.

Truths9ja:
Wow congratulations to the 2 of them. What a big surprise from the man

Nigerian lady in shock as lover proposes during crossover church service

A Nigerian man decided to take a leap of faith and propose to his girlfriend at the crossover service in their church.


The video posted by the man, @adedayodm, on TikTok, showed the couple sitting together when suddenly he dropped to one knee and pulled out a ring.


The church members could not contain their excitement as they gathered around, recording the moment on their phones.

After moments of anticipation, the lady finally stretched out her hand, accepting the man’s proposal. The crowd erupted into cheers and applause, filling the church with incredible energy.


The man shared the video and captioned it, “Gracias she said yes happy new year fam, congratulations to me.”

@adedayodm Gracias 🎊🥰 she said yes🥰 happy nee year fam, congratulations to me🥂 #adedayodm #fyp #fypシ #mywife #attachment #yes #propose ♬ original sound – DMA👑
Netizens react

@Samuel Adanna Linda: “Congratulations I was also engaged too yesterday.”

@seraphic_being 🕊️🦋: “Na me mess up I for go cross over service maybe I for see ring collect😂”

@👸: “For small 31st wey we dey manage , congrats love.”

@Nedu: “So u go cross over carry wife come house?”

@Jenny ibuo: “This the best engagement ever,new year new status🤣🤣🤣”

@Ezechukwu: “New year wey we still dey celebrate una don turn am to Engagement/Proposal una no go fit oppress me Lol, very big congratulations to you both 🥰”

@gloria_princess_ogechi: “Sister shock she be like bros wetin dey happen😀😀😀😀
dear lord i be mosquito net 🥺”

@.theAnonymousperson: “Congrats. Wedding by Easter am coming😁”

@Kayode Adedeji: “You go Cross over as Miss…come back house as Mrs…God is wonderful.”



https://nigerianweddingblog.com/blog/2024/01/01/nigerian-lady-in-shock-as-lover-proposes-during-crossover-church-service/

bibianna:
Good for them.

jobbitto:
Hi family,

I hope we all are having a great time this festive season.

Quite a while, I have been looking for job outside Nigeria, care work to be precise. Since this is one of the easiest route to leave Nigeria. A friend in the uk gave me a Link, an agency to be precise that would help in the process. Although, he has not used them before.

When I contacted the agency via mail. They told me their terms and conditions, I accepted and proceeded with them to help get a care job. I paid in about 499 pounds as consultation and processing fee. After a month, an interview was conducted and I scaled through.

The agency now said they are going to conduct a background check on me of which I am to provide some documents. Below is the list of documents


Proof of employment letters
Payslips
Discharge / Resignation letters with the cause of leaving the employment clearly stated
Academic Qualifications
Recommendation Letters
4 References
CV

The entire set of documents mentioned above must be submitted for each of the following employers. If some of the documents are missing or unavailable, They could provide a self-declaration letter confirming the reasons for such missing documents

ALL THE EMPLOYERS IN THE LAST 10 YEARS

If there is any employment gap in between or from the completion of their education, They will need to write a letter of explanation of the same

All the documents to be put in a zip file with a separate folder for each employer

Once the screening is successful, The client would receive an employment contract to sign followed by the COS within 3 working days.

House my question now, is getting this documents visible? Or they are 419.
Please mod help me push to front page. I need help.

YelloweWest:


My sis got care job in uk and only paid admin fees of 350 pounds after successful interview and letter of employment issued by her company (NOT AGENT). COS was sent a few days later.

The asked for passport
Police clearance and
Relevant qualifications

I never heard of these requirements...

FeliciaOja:
I meet him July this year, everything about him is cool. My only worry is his fanatical support for arsenal which I consider the worst club on earth.

He keeps disturbing me of how his club will win the league, but whenever they lose he becomes super depressed and aggressive.

We have talked about this many times and he has sworn to change.
But this night he came back very late and was making so much noise, shouting and yelling
Then I googled scores and saw that his club lost today

I can't take it anymore
He is not the first guy I have dated that loved football. His own is that when his club loss it affects him very bad.

I have even suggested he should stop supporting arsenal but he won't listen.
After this night rubbish he just displayed I'm thinking of calling it quits.

Am I overreacting??

Jeon:
go find job. Or begin to lick the ass of this Op, he might help you.
Money is not his p!!


Hw far you don chop?

Jeon:
Nah all those chewing gum girls go even notice your stinginess.


Use your money to help your gender cuz lack of money dy flog their lives.

Jeon:
Nah all those chewing gum girls go even notice your stinginess.


Use your money to help your gender cuz lack of money dy flog their lives.

IamDora:
What's all that there? Looks like what one would take to the gods to appease them

ahnie:
I want to add weight and I have tried everything possible to gain weight all to no avail.

I have taken drugs aids one to gain weight but non worked.
I have eaten lots of noodles and fried eggs,eaten overnight,but the weight is not just weighting.


Please help recommend what to do so I can gain weight.
My current weight is 68kg.

Attached is a recent pics of me 26/12/2023.

ElohimShenRa:
These ungodly children of Shuku-Shuku Alabama from the East of the Niger are hell bent on killing everybody in Nigeria with their fake products simply because they lost a war in 1967.

In the 80’s, nobody knew about fake & sub-standard products until these cannibalistic bastards claimed to be more industrious & commerce-driven than the British.

“Importer! Exporter! We are all Billionaires in BIAFLA LAND”

Fake drugs, fake shoes, fake fragrances, fake phone accessories, fake electrical appliances, fake everything you can think of.

Yet, they will be beating their hairy chests like a Mongolia Gorilla.

Awon Oloriburuku!

HeatSeeker:
🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️🙆‍♂️

As I saw this your post, I hurriedly ran to my kitchen to check the soy sauce I have with me. Na Amoy'c I buy o!

Carcholce:
In 2024, one thing I really want to do is to be able to completely avoid threads that has to do with man and woman relationship. I don tire to read these things. Reading posts as these is not helpful to the mind, and if you are not strong minded, it plants hates towards the opposite gender.

OP, sorry for not contributing to help your situation. Happy new year in advance. Extend my greetings to your fiancée!