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elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.

I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.

She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.

Since I met her, I have overworked myself.

Story long..

Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.

If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.

I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.

Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going


Getting the intelligent and highly professional woman you want has its own downsides as well....you know.

Your wife has fulfilled the major requirements, you said she birthed fine kids.

You are just being a perfectionist.
Calm down and count yr blessings.

CSTRR:
Delta north is the most progressive part of Delta state.

Now imagine joining folks with their "monday sit at home" madness.
That is backwardness.

Talismann:
the more you earn, the more your taste buds grow.

One Man with a wife and 3 kids dey earn 55k every month and they are doing ok

slimstanakacns:
Washing the fence is neither slavery nor a despicable act, as long as the individuals doing the work are being paid for it. In Europe, many buildings are contracted out to us for maintenance, which includes tasks such as washing the exterior windows, cleaning and vacuuming the stairwells, and ensuring that the walls of the building and the small back fence are cleaned twice a month. So how can washing walls be considered
slavery if I am compensated for the work?

SUP3R:
Please is it possible for a person to reschedule his COREN exam and interview to the next day?

deji17:
Only Yoruba practise this nonsense inclusivity. In South East you will see job adverts that only indigenes can apply for. How many Yorubas have benefited from free WAEC and jamb forms in South East? This inclusiveness is killing Yoruba gradually

iCauseTrouble:
I am not ready nor prepared for the exam now.
Can I register and choose end of the year for the exam?

jmoore:
Parents are losing their children. If the police had acted fast, none of these death would have occured.

24hrs is enough to track a kidnapper after the first call for ransom.

Robinmido:
It is a good thing but they're like hydra, cut off one head and two heads will replace it

Babangidapikin:
May be someone should tell Gov Sanwo Olu to renovate the Atan Cemetery at Yaba so the spirits would stop vexing.. make it a beautiful cemetery with lovely gardens and orderliness.

Godwin4444:
Many people like me wonders y igbos hate tinubu so bad that they never see anything good in him, it’s understandable cos if u read these facts carefully n u put yourself in igbo peoples shoes u will understand that they have to hate what they can’t defeat n tame

1….when Jonathan was in power, igbos were indirectly ruling through him n even encouraged him to marginalize other region. Igbos felt on top of d world n wished that moment lasted forever but d greatest shock of their life came when tinubu brought buhari…..End of d game for igbos

2….igbos as master propagandist did everything possible to stop buhari n even went as far as bringing back Biafra, them chop wotowoto, they declared buhari dead d no work yet buhari still lock nnamdiot Kanu up in dog cage

3….the greatest shocker for them was when tinubu declared intention to run for president, igbos couldn’t believe what they were seeing, e too shock their inner man n they vow with their lives it won’t b possible…..they did all propaganda against tinubu sote one of them said a doctor told him tinubu will die before election

All their pastors turn pundit, all of them combine still chop am wotowoto

4….since jagaban has been sworn in, it’s from one mumu to d other
25%
Tribunal
Certificate
Date of birth
N all other madness n still tinubu no dey shake

N he’s still standing gidigba till now


Now to d question, if na u b igbo shey u no go hate Tinubu?
Imagine a whole tribe trying to bring down one man n them still no fit to, just tell me y dem no go hate an?

U self reason am, if u fight person 5 times n u no see draw at least once, wetin remain?

Na to hate am ooo, like seriously if I b igbo I will hate tinubu too so many of us shouldn’t b surprised if igbos open 500 threads on tinubu per day

If I were in their shoes I will do same

So try to reason along with them, their pain is understandable


Ireeeeeeeee ooooo

Didi2d:
I graduated from Lagos state university in the year 2011, and yet to collect my certificate.
So if I go there today to collect my certificate and person that was there 2011 had resigned and the person that is there presently signed it. Are you saying the result should be considered fake?

TemplarLandry:
When spirit of death possess someone, that's when they start getting suicidal thoughts. This life is deep…

dominique:
The person that reported her womb missing is a suspect! How did come to this conclusion? The "womb" without a fetus in it is almost unnoticeable especially for a non medic.