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ol boy .....is the city gonna be for the poor .. and will it carry everybody along......

aywhy93: Getting married early or late depends on individuals, for me... there is nothing bad in getting married early if you have got MONEY, SENSE, GOALS, PLANS and some other neccesary things..

I am 19 now and i am planning to get married by 25 provided everything works out well although no girlfriend yet...

see the way you think you think makes one feel like marriying early is the surest thing to life..when there are more to life,,,.you have to take time to scrutinize a girl..before you put am for house thats coutship ...its time not these days you just catch one babe nak am belle. ..ol boy by 25 its d time you should start looking for real money and start the real bachelor hood and hussling..to make it big...and plan well its folks like you that this topic fits..25 years wey suppose to dey enjoy life...and plan how and study how relationship be before...thinking of keeing a woman and children at home....well ....na una sabi....as for me the age of 35 is the right for a man....and girls are much luckier ..22 is just ok

imagine pistorious in jail with his blade...legs...living dangerousl with all those criminals...hey dis guy life is bleeped up oo...oscar...dont drop the soap oo......sometimes i wonder how prisoners cope with sex urge....na wa ooo!! e no easy to be locked up wasting ya life

Hey omo see runz oo for road side dem even put matrass..sha omo na all those truck drivers wey get big belle go dey nak dem oo !!! See business !!!! Benin gurlz r hussling hard!! If you go benin city..if your daughter no dey europe or family member no body dey see your face!!!!

You see american style of killing don dey enter naija..oo but I was the first to post this na and this barawo opps!! Agbarawo guy came front page !!! Ojoro mods

See the issue is not marrying due to age...what am look at at large..is if they can take care of the product of the marriage!! Children properly!!!! Finiancially and well brought up , needs..una no go rush marry start to born pikin wey una no fit care for..while your mates dey hussle find way to make am big na marriage !! Hiss !

2. For the men: whether Nigerian men like it or not, male fertility also reduces with age. Blame it on diet and lifestyle. The men also get desperate to have children and may be tempted to have kids outside marriage.
Getting the love of your life is also more difficult if you are already "made". It is when you're nobody that you can tell who loves you and not just who came because of money.
If you're already comfortable, the girls may fight to get your attention, making the selection of wife material very difficult.

Marrying at an older age means you can't connect with your children because of generational gap. You will be analogue and your kids will be digital.

You risk making a young wife a widow. You pay school fees with pension money.

story na who tell you say a man cant get a woman pregnant even if he dey 60 years its possible ..

Wow steve ogah don hammer oo!!! You see dats good inter tribal marriage...but some yeye girl go say if no be dem tribe dem no go marry

Na wa o...death !!!! RIP uncle justus....

If dem like make dem get first class na dem sabi na BIG problem dem just give demselves- in naija if you too know book na you go suffer pass,,,, I pity dem!!!

~Bluetooth:
Jonathan is busy on how to win election in 2015,so he doesn't care about you or the commuters that use that road daily.Despite the importance of the Apapa road to Nigeria economy,till date nothing has been done about it same with the ibadan road,benin road and east west and, one begins to wonder if there is really a president ruling Nigeria.

Jonathan is a disappointment to Nigeria.

Ol boy easy ..apapa road is being repiared by julius berger ok over a long time!! And works is still on..oo!! Its a federal govt road..fashola dey try weller at least some street are being tarred in my area some retarred... I support your sayings jonathan is a big dissapointment sha

Hahha and tgey say blacks are too violent...all dis yeye whiteboyz nkor stewpid americans..shame to dem!! Too much video game grand theft auto 5

Bastardisation of civilization

folanaira: @Poster:
1. Are you married?
2. If not, how do you expect to have a clue what its about. And please, seeing and perceiving is very different from experiencing. Its like losing your parents: you will never know how it feels until you go through it.
3. If you are, then you should get a divorce because you clearly are with the wrong person.

That aside, the problem with most marriages today is that people get married too late!
1. You see, there is a wise saying in most Nigerian tribes that goes something like: you can't teach an old dog new tricks (or similarly you can't bend dried fish). What this means is that once you are set in your ways, you are just that: set in your ways.
Just imagine a young maiden, learning what a relationship should be like from an idler who is only out to 'catch' fun without a care in the world. Where does she learn about trust, responsibility and how to treat a man? - from a carefree playboy. The same applies for a young man.

2. What is marriage? What forges a strong marriage are the hardships and trials you face and overcome together while building your home. Struggling to build a career, counting pennies, crying over just how difficult things are and encouraging one another. Such experiences are the fire that forges the core of a solid union.

You miss the point. What you call 'boring', 'painful' and inconvenient: that is what is called life. It is not a bed of roses and neither does your financial wealth dictate the wealth of your experience in life. True wealth comes from love, companionship and knowing in the eyes of another that they have your back 'come what may!'

Respectfully, your comment is laughable at best.

i dont mean that i wanna marry so late...the way i see some boys sef d way dem dey ive girls belle dey vex me before you know not all of them will take resonsilities to take care of the child leaving the girl to struggle anyhow.

i have seen two girl that prostitutes now to survive she is just like 22 years and the other one 23 am sure beautiful girls who suppose to be responsible somewhere..its because they did not use their sense when choosing a spouse..they think marriage is the surest way to happiness...na lie ooo!! now what they are doing for a living now they did not expect it now e be like home video movie...

B***h come over here

**his girlfriend family disapprove of their relationship, and he decides to wipe out the whole family.
**the killer is also threatening to wipe out the extended families living in Delta State.

In what seemed like a horror film when a man walked into his girlfriend’s family home at Igando, a suburb of Lagos and shot dead seven persons, including an eight-month pregnant mother of three. He also shot and wounded two others.

The tragedy occurred between Saturday night and Sunday morning, when Johnson (not real name), a native of Imo State, visited the homes of Mr. and Mrs. Henry Ekene Ozor and that of Mr. and Mrs. Odia in the night and shot his victims in cold blood. Johnson was said to have had a relationship with the late Sandra Ijedinma, which the family did not approve of. Their disapproval infuriated Johnson and he decided to wipe out the entire family.

According to an eyewitness, Johnson, who first visited the Ozors, first saw Katherine, his girlfriend’s twin sister at the door, pointed a gun at her and directed her to lead him to others. On entering the house, he shot Katherine; Sandra, his girlfriend; Mrs. Ozor, who tried to escape; her first daughter, Happiness and second daughter, Bethel. While others died on the spot, Katherine, as well as Bethel, who was shot in the stomach, survived and were rushed to an undisclosed hospital.

Not done with his killing spree, Johnson went to the home of the Odias, and killed Mrs. Ngozi Odia, elder sister to the girlfriend and her three children: Angela, 12; Chidinma, 10 and Chinenye, 8. Thereafter, Johnson used Sandra’s phone to call Mr. Ozor to know his whereabouts to gun him down. Johnson, however, spared three-year-old Miss Victory.

Narrating his ordeal, Mr. Ozor said he received a call at about 9.30p.m on that fateful day with Sandra’s number. On answering the call, it turned out to be Johnson, who asked him his whereabouts and threatened to get him.

Ozor spoke further: “I was surprised when I received the call. He said, ‘this is not Sandra, I am coming for you. Anywhere you are I must get you.’ I asked him, who are you and what is the threat for, but he off the phone.” Startled, Ozor said he quickly called his family- wife, Sandra and Katherine. Although their phones rang, none of them answered. “I had to call my landlord and he told me that something tragic has happened in my flat and that I should come home immediately.

That was how I started going home but for security purpose, I had to stop over at Igando police station. I was there throughout that night until the early hours of Sunday. The policemen and I then went to my house and to my greatest horror, I saw my wife and others dead and soaked in their blood.”

The distraught man called on the Inspector General of Police to beef up security around Igbodo and Agbor in Delta State, where the extended families reside. According to him, since the dastardly act, Johnson had been threatening him on phone, saying he would wipe him out and his entire village.

Johnson’s whereabouts had remained unknown while the corpses had been deposited in the mortuary. The matter had been reported to the police. - Sun Newspapers.

Ol boy una dey sure say na one old man curse am or na from family arrow...cos anybody fit go dey accuse one innocent papa

Stupid topic -- are all d high school shooters and cinema shooters black!!! All d serial killers are white psychos...

When will dis tonto dat can't sing leave dis music biz and focus on her acting career...dis gal is wack.na cos of her money we dey see all dis promo!!!

Na so some people go dey drink like say na their talent ..especially ashi babes for hotel if you see when dem dey drink ..u go tire !!! And dey do this almost everyday drink anytin wey man buy dem

Wow jonathan , david mark, babaginda, OBJ, farouk lawan , d pension stealer what's his name , sef, tafa balogun, cecilia ibru, james ibori, bankole, atiku, akingbola, even pastor oyedepo also,ayo oristejafor.. frank atuche,all senators @aso rock all of dem sha wey dey loot are also included...in this statistics cos they need psychiatric attention!!! Including you reading this post !!!

Wow tiwa some guys go don bust nutz ooo women r d essense of fornication

Many people are marrying early these days. They would like to get into matrimony as soon as their courtship is over. Tying the knot is important to strengthen their relationship. They feel settling down in life early would help them set up their independent home.

Whatever may be the advantages of settling down early in life, the fact remains there are problems to be faced if one gets into matrimony too quickly.

Examples are :
1. Responsibility has to be shouldered at a very young age. One has to take on household responsibilities, child rearing responsibility etc. There is no adult to guide or help out.

2. Missing out on the fun of teenage life and being young. The drudgeries of married life can get to you. They deprive you of your youth.

3. Health also can get affected as early pregnancy can have a negative impact on overall health.

4. Breakdown of marriage is possible. Often the young couple is immature to shoulder major responsibility and end up fighting with each other. Adjustment problems may arise.

5. Education also gets affected. The young couple may not be able to pursue higher education as they have to take on the responsibilities of family budget.

6. Work opportunities are limited for the youngsters. Since their education levels are low, they cannot get highly paid jobs.

7. Bringing up children may be difficult. Their knowledge of child care may be limited and parental guidance is also not there. They may not be able to provide the appropriate care for their child.

Marrying early may seem very romantic and convenient, but it has its problems. Couples need to get to know each other better and this takes time. Rushing into a marriage, which may not last long does not appear the right thing to do. In some countries, where child marriage is prevalent, efforts are on by respective Governments to dissuade such a practice.

Kim bye bye B*I*T*C*H !!! Cum back next time !!!

Darey art alade is one of Nigeria greatest vocalist with a matures sense of music touch...dis is the second best after tuface

JideTheBlogger: depends...

If you just want to be copying and pasting gossips, abeg stay with blogger but if you want to do more than that, go for wordpress.

Oga jide don talk am ashawo blogger

Oga pls see my site signature and can u crest me a Logo with green background something antertainment..

naijaspeak: Please I need help on how to download, instal Aol Desktop 9.7 and most importantly type in the settings for it to work. I presently use multilink nigeria as my internet service provider but desire a USA ip for my online business.

U need to be wooped for dis post bro haba download and run it then log in with your aol email account US ip or France IP

chucky234: .
I got iPhone 4s,sold my GS3 to buy HTC One X and compliment them with a BB torch2,does that makes a BB fan? The answer is capital NO,I am only trying to correct his dumb brain.
Well as for me comparing Nokia and blackberry,attached are pics of the Blackberry 850 and Nokia 640 both released in 1999 as that will give idea of what Nokia was manufacturing before RIM emergence.
The BB 850 device had a full
keyboard, which was unusual at the time. It could send messages, access email, send and receive pages and act as a basic organizer.
But the Nokia 640 could not even send a full text message,give respect to whom respect is due.
For that idio:t called Frostyzone to say Iphone pioneered smartphones is a big insult to RIM as Job got all his ideas from RIM existing devices.
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What do you mean by" give respect to Nokia because it started way back before RIM" because as far as I know RIM was founded in 1984 ,started manufacturing Wireless devices in 1988 and that to me is a long time,HTC was incorporated 1997 and was originally making laptops/notebooks before venturing into the mobile phone market in 1998.

This guy has said it all this is the most current dude here so accurate in post and not to sentimental about bashing- all ya band wagon smart fone users oya make una learn now ok !!!! Three Gbosa for you jare tell dem

Blackberry ...all the way....I remember those old fones model...I hate dem dat time because our network provider don't have internet packages.those old models did not sell here jare!!! Because there was no official BB company here and the fones look awkward compared to nokia models as at 2003 2004- but today BB na baba over nokia anytime