maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds.

What advice do you need again

If na abino u want then carry go, we can't choose wife for u but be sure u are physically attracted to her totally package plus the stigma else u will regret it bitterly later

Personally I can't even imagine sleeping with an abino even if I am paid, they are so unattractive to me but then that is me n my choice.

I can't even have a hard on seeing abino no matter her curves that wrinkled skin, colour and white hair is a turn off. They smell somehow too n their eye color too, enough said abino is a no no to me.

engrtee:
Must you have a child

Yes what is marriage without a biological child

they should go and learn handwork school na next year

OcVoice:


40

U are of age biko, marriage should b in ur priority list now

There is no guarantee u will make it even at 50

Get a productive woman and settle down, to get it cheaper target young single mom or divorced mom with good source of income most of them are lonely n she will kill u with love lol

Ask ur ppl to support you to start a business too

U don't have to spend to marry every lady, some of them esp 35+ na carry go but make sure u get one with good skill, business or working.

OcVoice:
How exactly do you guys manage marriage pressure from family members?

I and my family members had a function together some weeks back and out of the blues my elder sis asked if I don't want to get married.
I told her I want to, but I need to have a confirmed source of income....That how does she expect me to get married when I'm still struggling to even feed.

My in-laws (brother's wife, sister's husband) joined in the discussion. They said I'm coming of age and I need to get married and start having kids so i can train them when I'm still strong and agile, not when I'm much older and weak!
They even opted to support financially when I'm ready! They said marriage brings good things....that i will surely get a job or business when I marry.

They said a whole lot.........like telling me marriage is not when you have it all. My elder brother even said he had nothing when he married his wife.

All talks from left to right was just ringing in my head and making me feel bad, like I purposely don't want to marry. I have no job nor business, not even a gf! The thoughts alone is just tearing me apart! The worse of it all is the pressure from my mom!

So bachelors in the house, how do you suggest I handle this?

Matured responses pls.

First thing first
How old are you

Ur age will decide the advice for u.

Graceboi1:
please where exactly can I go, I've Been to so many good churches for deliverance and I ve even tried to pray myself this life no balance at all

Any mfm closest to you

Graceboi1:
please help me cos am on the verge of ending it all ...

am almost 27 with nothing to show for.. I happened to be one of the best and most intelligent child not only in my family but in my kindred at large which many taught by now I would ve settled for something splendid.

nothing seems to be working right in my life since I left secondary school. I have tried business and 2 years I was robbed and left with nothing, I left uni becus of lack of finance and no one to assist me I have worked and raised money and eventually problem came up and swallow everthing,no helper no one ever promise me and it came to pass and I have tried all kinds of good things in life but life seems unbearable, things that work for others always turn sour wen it came to my turn

Now when I noticed tht things ain't ok I ran to God, I ve Been in different kind of churches for solution, I ve prayed day and night and I still remember fasting and praying for 48+hrs last year in one of the famous church last year but still nothing happened sadly early dis year a friend that knows what am passing through took me to a medium who he said helped his friend out when he had similar issue. initial I didn't want to go but because of my situation I followed him. The medium after looking at me told me everything that I ve been through, suffering, hardship , troubles it was just lik a movie he told me that I have a bright future and he equally told me dat two things are the only cause of my problems
1 there is something he called it AGWU (things done by my ancestors)in Igbo language that need to be settled long time ago.
2. dat I equally have a spiritual wife that I needs to settle too that they are behind my success. he said I need to buy or give him money to buy somethings needed for the settlement and he will conduct the thing and once it's done they will live me alone and everything will come to normal again and if I don't do dis dat I might end up being useless in life I was shocked and I told him that I don't have any money Which truly I don't have. I later cried and confessed to God still continue my prayers cos I believed he could do it for me but right now I don't just know how to describe my life it's gone worst I can even boost of 1 kobo , property, certificate or anything.. please help me on what to do cos am absolutely tired of dis life and don't know where else to go and no one else is there to help me out of this problem.. mom is dead and dad is very old and sick. At 27 I have achieved nothing .. Just failure and disappointment help I don't want to be useless and I think God is far away from me...

Better go for deliverance as soon as possible or keep running around in cycle.

Foundation curse is a reality
DNT worry at 27 there is still time to get alot done

Lol

Go and try the street u will get sense and stay humble after that

Experience is a good teacher

She is only trying to control you using sex don't fall for it. I believe u know what to do.

AnonymousRebec:
What does it mean when the person you are getting to know does not reply your WhatsApp messages even after 3 days and you can clearly see that this person is online or was recently online.

I got to know this person through a mutual friend. The mutual friend made it clear to him, that I'm someone he should take seriously and the mutual friend gave him my number and he contacted me.

So we have been talking from time to time. But he behaves wierd sometimes. Sometimes, especially during the weekends, he doesn't come online for the whole weekend and only sends a message on Monday morning. Even if I send a message on whatsapp during the weekend, i will not get a reply until monday morning. He has done this a couple of times.

Recently, I sent a message since Friday last week but he has not replied and this oga is online oo and he is looking at my WhatsApp status. The guy in question is in his mid 30s and I'm in my mid 20s.

I was thinking we can get to know each other, but as it is now, I don't have energy for stress.

Stop wooing a man, it will lead u to premium tears.

A man should woo u not the other way round.

He has more interesting babes that he is begging for their attention

Free him I don't know why it is hard for some people to read sign messages

longetivity:
who did he kill in ur family that made you call him a criminal

Illiterate

I said criminal not killer

This criminal again

Ill gotten wealth

It will end in tears

This criminal again

Somebody is about to buy benz

May be they had little disagreements

Women self she couldn't pretend for the camera

Manure

Mayflowa:


Housewives are never jobless. They just do Payless job. Caring for home and children all day is definitely harder than working in an office

As if we don't have house helps better quit that weak defense. House chores doesn't earn one an income, so anyone without a paid job is jobless.

She didn't go to school to become a housewife (liability) let her find a job to earn money if it's easier than house chores.

Housewife is old school it should be called liability or jobless wife.

Who wants to be a liability?

The name represents one Nigeria

Heartheart:
Hi I just needed to bring this here. I am 22 years of age and I am not happy at all. My boy friend and I are in a long distance relationship. Not long perse. He is in lagos while I'm in abeokuta. I served in lagos so that's how we met and we got to spend quality time together. Now since I've passed out I've been at home. I passed out in June. So it's been June that we saw last and now we're in august.He has been disturbing me to come visit him as it has not been easy staying alone, loneliness and all. I promised to visit him next week which also happened to be my birthday week. I have super strict parents but I still promised I will find my way.

I told them(parents) that I was travelling to visit a friend(girl). I could not tell them it was my boyfriend I was going to see because I knew deep down they wouldn't allow me travel to another city to see a guy. But my parents have blatantly refused that I cannot visit this girl. I had to tell my bf that I was not going to come. He was so sad and angry and he let me know he has wasted a lot of money preparing to surprise me for my birthday. He was so excited to see me and he had made a lot of plans. He told me he was disappointed in me and he doesn't think he can continue a relationship like this. Yes he comes to abeokuta sometimes but he mostly lodges in the hotel. He told me he can't continue lodging in the hotel that if I love him I will make effort. I tried to convince my parents they did not gree. Imagine, I told them I wanted to see a gf that they knew and they refused. What if I had told them he was a guy. Pls guys how do u advise me to save my relationship, I'm in a tight spot right now and really sad.

Call that relationship off its a burden and focus on getting a job. What nonsense relationship are u having with an irresponsible guy.

At 22 boyfriend should not be your top priority.

If he wants to have you always then he should come and see your parents.

He just wants to keep fucking u until he is tired and dumps for the next dude

Better give yourself sense ooo

He is a northerner the most important qualification

Super story

This happens when u marry for beauty only

Beauty without brain ladies have killed many men

Op ur live has been destroyed, u are not only broke but deep in bank debt & very soon bank will seize the remaining properties u have.

Lesson to men

10 million is too much

Just 2m and tell me when to start

Esther880:
Good day Nlanders.
I am Esther by name, I am a Nlander but had to create this account because of these, am 23years of age, I graduated with second class upper from a university in nigeria, just finished serving in Jos, during my service I was able to do a professional course (ICAN), and currently need a job..

Please i need your assistance, i am a young graduate, certified accountant and need to practice what I have always longed for thanks

No job is too small for a start

This is my contact 08132959038

Better go and learn a skill or trade before u waste years searching for non existent job.

If u are depressed now that u are still fresh from nysc with some savings what will you be after 5 years. It's over tough now bc Covid 19 has messed up things Soo badly.

Only a skill or trade can save u now

Lol

Age is a number

U better face ur marriage

10 years older is even better, now show more respect she is not ur mate.

Since u r a weakling and can't stand firm why are u always starting a fight u can't finish.

Women will always ride a weakling and she knows u will always apologize.

Just manage her like that since u lack the balls or beg her to change on ur knees who knows she may agree

J111333:
Yea, your sister is doing the right thing. The man should at least kill his mum or chase her away before planning to get married so as not to discomfort his wife.

Biko advise your sister to keep waiting on the Lord for a good man.

U have PhD in sarcasm

OluwaLina1:
Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed

Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.

Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them.

Is my sister doing the right thing?

It depends on the size of the house
It depends on the financial strength of the man
It depends on the number of people living in the family house

idiopathic:
Greed impairs peoples judgement and hence yahoo boys have thrived. The biggest hedge funds in the world who trade commodities, forex and other products don’t even make 50% annualized returns. Yet you believe MBA based in Nigeria is making over 250% per annum. That will make them the most successful forex traders of all time �.

If they are this profitable why do they still need your funds? Ignorance and greed unfortunately is blinding our countrymen.

Get ur facts right before coming online to blab like a broken speaker

Individual forex traders I know make 40% monthly not to talk of masters like MBA.

MBA can easily average over 40% monthly bc they are masters in the game n can buy any trading robot no matter the cost.

There is risk associated with everything in life so also is forex hence we are not doing it with our life savings or borrowed fund.

Now get lost already