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Except you are someone that wants to show of. Wedding reception aren't sweet... well, only for the ladies.

The moment the reception ends, that's when you will know that it's just waste of time and resource.

Do the traditional rite, do the wedding service and go home. That's all.

Another complaining gov. Fr., kindly leave APC and their political issue and focus on benue state. After all, since you became the gov without going through the political god-fatherism, I see no reason why what ever APC do, should bother you. Infact, you can even declare yourself partyless if that will help you to work.

ImoleNaija:
For weeks, I have lost interest in sex. Even when I try to force the erection, I lose it before mounting, as there's no strength to sustain it at all. All her words of encouragement/motivation hold no water. She's so pitiful.


Experienced husbands, how do you manage your sex drives & financial depression?

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Boss... forget sex now and hustle. Na the economic situation dey cause this your issue. It's possible that your head is so full of responsibilities that your mind can't think of any sex and romance.

If any govt of Nigeria is serious, the first issue they should address is this banditry.

Bandits have caused more harm to the Nigerian economy that even boko haram.

The business of the average common man have been affected because of bandit. And the activities spread across all corners of Nigeria.

Something drastic need to be done.

If you have watched that video about the Nigerian police asking the Dutch Biker for money, one thing should struck your mind.
The old police officers who are still constable.

How come we have old police officers who are still constable. At what age did they join the force and how come they have not been promoted to higher rank where their brain and experience will be out to use instead of their brawn.

The FG need to start taking the welfare of the officers a priority. I feel such rank should be only for young guys who are below 40 years, guys who are still agile and strong enough to face criminals, not old men who can't even run a kilometer due to their age.

Our police need serious rebranding.

When the world was without stereotype and sentiments.
If na now, music for don dey para why that lady is kneeling before the pope

Most Nigerian always want to show off. They want to appear as big boys and big girls. So this shouldn't surprise you.

If it's the law of the Church not to get pregnant before wedding, then there is no big deal here.
The church is right in cancelling the wedding.

If cease fire can be extended, they should just call of the war.

Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

Try as much as you can to get up and continue life. Life waits for no one. If you mourn too much and lose your bearing, na you go still suffer am.

The last hope of the common man is gone. But what makes it more pathetic is the fact that the citizens who are at the recieving end of all these tussle are supporting those who plunge them into suffering.

It baffles me how somebody will just wake up and all he wants to do is to stir up tribal sentiments.

It's beginning to be clear that some people are paid to create such threads to cause divisions among the citizens.

Worst of it all, threads like this that have no meaning, instead of the mods to close it, they left it running.

Too bad.

Love800:
Ok.
Tankz alot.

But where can one purchase the okpa raw material?

Bambara nuts can be found in major grain markets across the country.

Then the major problem you might face is grinding it. Not many people knows how to properly grind and seive it.

Love800:
U dont have idea of the preparation?

I do .. but if you want to learn, na to use YouTube video. It's difficult to learn by description.

Love800:
Be like dis one go make brain o.
How is the okpa prepared?

Okpa is difficult to prepare, especially if you are not from the East. But the Bambara nut used in preparing it contains iron and protein which makes it better than other legumes.

igwebuike01:
For yoruba people who don't normally travel. Sullivan chime tore a virgin forest with bulldozer and build brand new road from Opi Nsukka to Abakpa in Enugu city and barricaded it. Therefore only trailers and tankers and big vehicles suffer on the expressway. Before you comment try to be familiar with the topic

The collapsed expressway is called Enugu Markudi expressway not Enugu Nsukka road

It's a shame that Enugu/Markurdi expressway collapsed completely under Fashola, they now follow inner roads built by Enugu state government to connect Abuja but we refused to allow abooki trucks. Let them suffer what their brother Buhari caused

Plz and plz, let's always be reasonable in everything. Everyone, especially Enugu people suffer from the bad state of that Enugu Makurdi road. Stop making it look like we are not feeling it. Let's all join hands to press the govt to fix the road. It will do all of us gud.

When the road was good, do you know the economic advantage of that road to those people leaving around it.

Let's stop all these supremacy fight between the south easterners and other region. It doesn't help us.

Our roads are bad, and our people are suffering from it, no matter what you say online, it won't change the situation.

Tapout:
Asin Quaker Oats abi there's something else called oatmeal that I don't know about ?

Buy okpa and cook...

You can combine with pap or garri.

spiSeyi:
How is a baby your replica dey whine yourself a child can look like anybody and not share 100% DNA with his/her looklike. Your type of SIMPle men are plenty out there nah after 3-4 kids their eyes dey open to do DNA He go soon clear for your eyes trust your wife but that trust must be earned.. ire ooo

I agree...

Even if na another person get the pikin, I will train him with my full chest. Shey you are happy now.

spiSeyi:
Have you done any DNA tests for your kids , if not you might end up quarreling with yourself in this life and life to come?
Every married man must do DNA for their kids don't be deceived by the serpent that let Adam down

For now, we have no child yet. But the baby we lost this year was a replica of me. So maybe na my wife supposed to do DNA test.

Married for sometime now... not even a quarrel between us. Divorce no go see my family.

Am here to read comments and learn.

@OP... kindly adjust the topic, let them also include what lead to their divorce so we can learn from it.

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Hope this NLC strike won't affect the exam

Having a favorite child is nothing special. No matter how much you try to hide it, as a parent, there is that one child that you will love more than the other. It only becomes a problem when you start treating the others badly.

But in all, as a parent just make money and spoil your children so that they wont even notice when you do something special for your favorite child

I was at a wedding yesterday. I saw one of the aseobi ladies. From her back view, the gown shes wearing is very long and beautiful catching her figure properly. Only for her to turn, the whole of the chest is just open. Looking as though na only the n*pple she just cover.

See beautiful cloth wey person just spoil in the name of showing cleavage.

I hope they are resettlement the IDPs back to their homeland.

The gov shld not allow Fulani men occupy people land by ensuring that these IDPs are sent back home.

I feel so pained watching this ... And look at the Fulani small boys torturing innocent people.

Seriously, I just wish there is something I can do.

If our security forces have failed, let govt give the locals guns so they can protect their self .

Every minute of the day, ladies keep showing that they are nothing other than sxx objects.

When you talk about their waywardness, they begin to attack you.

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Salvation2:
Good day my brother, sorry Iv been offline. The name of the Pope's Cap is called Papas Tiara. It used to carry an inscription written on its front as "Vicarius Filii Dei" DURING THE TIME OF POPE JOHN PAUL II but the Cap has been modified now with several new designs available, without any inscription on it. In the past, it generated alot of controversies as regards the position of the person of the Pope and that made them to do alot of damage control hence the modification made...

There are so many things that seem they are but are not, while so many things seem they are not but are...we are living in a world ruled by the powers and forces of darkness and from time to time make obvious modifications to keep their secrets mysteries before mortals. That's why so many struggle to know and some struggle to keep up with their pace!
I don't believe u knew all these because if u did, u won't have asked but all the same, it's good to study the word of God always and to show urself approved. God bless u my brother.

Shalom!!!

Ok... Thanks so much for coming out plain. Am fully aware of the controversy surrounding this phrase "Vicarius Filii Dei", but then there is no Tiara or Papal cap that bore such as inscription and also, Pope JohnPaul II never wore a Tiara or cap with such as inscription.

englishmart:
I'm planning to tell her husband, who happens to be an acquaintant of mine. On the other hand, I'm considering the consequence. He's been suspecting her of infidelity, and this could finally nail her.
I will be very glad to destroy that marriage if need be.

Shebi the husband dey Watsapp too...

Allow him to find out by himself.