₦airaland Forum

michigang:
One bad turn deserve another. He did the right thing to save face and reputation.

Kobojunkie:
When I think of it, you are right that I do not understand homeless in the Nigerian context since what i have mostly known of it is how it is here.
But I refuse to make concessions for two grown women living in the same house blaming their woes on a man. Women, like men, are born capable of changing their situations should they desire to do so, even if it requires temporary discomfort of some kind, including homelessness. So the question remains, is this girl really interested in changing her situation or is she comfortable in it.
According to her, her aunt seems OK with it, but what about her?

If what she is afraid of is loosing whatever support she gets from the man in this - roof over over heads, food , etc., then maybe she she not ready for change. I mean if she reports the man, chances her she will have to face that loss anyways. So, she may be refusing to take action for just that reason.

Klass99:
This has always baffled me, but I guess I'll never understand until I am married.

But, I also know me and I know that ''dem no use marriage swear for me .

There are certain things I will neither tolerate nor endure in this life, for the sake of staying married or being called a virtuous and good wife.

Klass99:
@ Mmadu2 & Richy,

Nice ideas/suggestions.

Audio or video evidence will be extremely helpful, otherwise it may start to seem like she's lying about the rape.

@ OP, I think there are NGOs in Lagos which help women/female children in situations like these, but I can't recall their names.

lifenija:
slug or buhari

lolu2019:
I believe that any child that want to learn will still have to go through some kind of discipline.they r undergraduates not professionals.

Theunbothered:
Without mincing words many Nigerians still think like they are in the stone age.

Maybe its frustration that's making them think this is acceptable.

When they go abroad this stupid behaviour magically disappears.

I tayaooo my dear...
In some parts of the world, Some students were helping their lecturers to carry out a research on Covid-19 and other important research that might help humanity...

In another part of the world, things like tucking in shirts were more important.. Humiliation was as normal as counting ABC in primary schools.. it's just heart wrenching.

kode12:
Now ask yourself which is better? Ask him to leave the class and make him miss a possibly vital portion of the course or ask him to kneel in front where he wouldn't have the opportunity to disrupt the class but hear all the lecturer will say?
The fact that you're in a university does not give you the license to misbehave in a class. Moreso, the student's outfit seems to be a dress code, which some specific departments in various universities do wear. If indeed it is a dress code, then part of the code would require that your shirt is tucked in.
Law students will not fly their shirts in class, medical students do that either, so a lecturer maintaining the university code is not out of place.

mikezuruki:
Ode.

lolu2019:
Lecturers are like father's,so nothing big about what he did.my Hod used to do that when I was in school and we don't make noise about u.children of nowadays don't have respect.

Fiscus105:
I guess in else where , students allow to do all kinds of shit.

Oga anywhere in the world, if u do nonsense you will see nonsense.

You are free to mention just one country where students are boss to lecturers oooo.

Gentlerespect76:
I do more.

Sometimes you just come face to face with a situation where you need to just act; even to treat them as children they are. Being an undergraduate doesn't mean you behave like an animal. I have at times taken unconventional steps and even received applauses from students. It happens at the spur of the moment. If you are not in the shoe don't complain because you don't know what obtains today on our campuses