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Science/Technology › Re: 15ft Snake Swallows Entire Cow Before Its Stomach Bursts Open In Thailand by Richy4(m): 11:21am On Aug 27, 2021
I noticed that most cows around the world are just docile.. Nigerian cow cannot just wait to be strangled by a snake... The Cows in Nigeria are kind of aggressive just like every other thing there grin grin
Family › Re: What She Said: Marriage And Children Are Not Tickets To Heaven by Richy4(m): 11:13am On Aug 27, 2021
I like the restaurant scenario aspect of the interview grin grin
I can just imagine the shock registered at the restaurant owner's face with that behavior
smiley
Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Actor, Victor Olaotan Is Dead by Richy4(m): 11:04am On Aug 27, 2021
I never knew that was his name... rich roles always suits him...Confident and very fluent in English Language( he doesn't even force it like his peers)... may his soul find rest in God his maker sad...
Crime › Re: Is There Any Law Banning Making Of Calls At Police Checkpoints by Richy4(m): 8:26am On Aug 27, 2021
Cellphones were used to ignite bomb explosions'... So they are scared... especially in cases of suicide bombers that targets police checkpoints...
Family › Re: Does Genotype Affect God's Will In Marriage? by Richy4(m): 7:55am On Aug 27, 2021
God is no longer in the business of finding wife for people since Adam blamed him.... ......." the woman whom you gave to me gave me the fruit and I ate..." grin grin

Now, his job is to endorse relationship..." he who finds a wife, finds good thing and obtains favor from the lord"... Take note on 'HE'

So if you are an AS and you find an AS, you can marry.... because you found her... You can marry for the purpose of marriage(union between two people)... but do not.. I repeat, do not procreate because it will end in tears...

God said I will be with you always, I will protect u and guide your footstep... that does not mean before u cross the express road, you won't look left, right and left again before crossing just because he promised to protect you...

In life we make lots of sacrifices... both of u can sacrifice having your own biological children and decide for an adoption if u were into each other so much that u can't let go... That's my opinion and where I stand as far as genotype is concern...
Politics › Re: Open-grazing: Uzodinma Will Be Excommunicated In Igboland, Says Ohanaeze Ndigbo by Richy4(m):
I wish they can invite him somewhere abroad for New yam festival cheesy

Health › Re: Organisers Suspend Saudi Arabia Recruitment As DSS Disperses Doctors by Richy4(m):
Indeed Nigeria is not a democratic country.....If not, how do one explain this...What has embarrassment got to do with it?....They were not embarrassed when the president goes abroad to seek medical help right huh... ..

Family › Re: Just 4hours Before Giving Birth A Woman Discovered She's Pregnant by Richy4(m): 7:59pm On Aug 26, 2021
I find it difficult to believe this... I don't know why.... what did she think she was carrying for nine months? the baby was not even kicking? no morning sickness? She did not even check if it was a tumor that needed to be removed? shocked

The doctors that put her swollen tummy down to be the effects of her birth control did not suggest for thorough scan/ examination? just unbelievable...Assuming it happened in Africa, I would have said cost of thorough examination made her to believe whatever the doctors told her...

Family › Re: Why Do People Die by Richy4(m): 6:17pm On Aug 26, 2021
If you visit the cemeteries, U will be surprised...it's just heart wrenching to behold....
Family › Re: My Friends Elder Brother Slapped His Wife by Richy4(m): 5:51pm On Aug 26, 2021
bukatyne:
I am picturing the scene and I am just praying no mad person joins my family.

My husband can't try such, my SIL can't try such so let me be praying my baby sis don't jam such.

On the flip side, I can't try such never can my brother.

I am tempted to think the story na cruise.

A fiancee that can look her elder BIL to be in the eye and tell him that his dead mother did not train her kids well that's why they are misbehaving?

This story na cruise abeg!
I know that some people can say so many unbelievable and unprintable things when they were angry just to score a point... Some people can even say worse that what that lady said cheesy..
Family › Re: My Friends Elder Brother Slapped His Wife by Richy4(m): 5:06pm On Aug 26, 2021
bukatyne:
@bold:

Na wa o!

You mean the slapping rounds has not ended?
grin grin grin
I can't just watch anyone disrespect my mother..... Though I wouldn't have slapped the lady if I was in that situation.. I would have given her "the Look"( looks given to scums) or a serious warning with red eyes...
But since the big man has slapped her already, he should have used the opportunity to reset the younger brother's brain for standing there while his late mother was disrespected... I am guessing it was not the first time she was saying such...
Family › Re: My Friends Elder Brother Slapped His Wife by Richy4(m):
She did not only insult the late mother but she have to also include all the brothers.... what a girl with runny mouth.....That younger brother should have been slapped too for tolerating such transgression ...

Sports › Re: Anthony Nwakaeme’s Statue Erected In Turkey (Photos, Video) by Richy4(m): 10:52am On Aug 26, 2021
They also have Rochas Okorocha kinda people in Turkey...1m likes... grin

Business › Re: My Ordeal With My Worker Today. by Richy4(m): 10:45am On Aug 26, 2021
Some people just have the habit of insulting others just because they wanted to give an almighty advice....so many careless words here and there... embarassed
Politics › Re: Imo’s Uzodinma Breaks From Southern Governors On Anti-Open Grazing by Richy4(m): 9:56am On Aug 26, 2021
He understands which side his bread is buttered on....

Family › Re: Should She Return The Money? by Richy4(m):
Maybe the man no do simple interest and him senior brother compound interest for junior secondary....Her indirect investment don yield plenty pikins for her. abi she no teach the husband that? cheesy....

Anyways OP your choice of word "insubordination" in this case got me cracking grin grin the last time I heard that word was long time ago in my boarding school days..
cheesy
Family › Re: Kaduna Man Collapse As Wife Makes Savings From Money Given Her To Cook, Builds A by Richy4(m): 2:17pm On Aug 25, 2021
greenie77:
After Enugu, Calabar will be "hosting" the recycled story. cheesy
hhahahha..I'm guessing the original fainting happened at Ibadan.. I was even really happy for the man and praised the woman profusely...but the location has changed cheesy
Family › Re: Kaduna Man Collapse As Wife Makes Savings From Money Given Her To Cook, Builds A by Richy4(m): 2:01pm On Aug 25, 2021
Recycled... it keeps on getting interesting every 2 year it was told...2 years ago was Ibadan... this year Kaduna... in the next two or three years, it will be Enugu... smiley
Family › Re: Ok by Richy4(m): 11:59am On Aug 25, 2021
The first option will be the better one for now except in a situation where you have a nice job waiting for you in the country u intend traveling to in this pandemic?...
Many countries are closing their boarders because of Covid-19... They open, close.. Open again and Close.... How long will you have to wait for things to normalize? Just use that money and start up a bike logistics business.. As u are doing it, do not remove your mindset from traveling abroad though...

As you are doing the business, Find some time to look at the skills needed/ required in the country u wanted to travel to and see if you can get some of it...IT is always desirable everywhere around the world..

As for u being confused,U don't have to be buddy.. if u don't smoke weewe that will turn your brain, U don't drink and fall inside gutter daily, got business mindset and takes care of your kids.. I will say you are on the right track...

Family › Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by Richy4(m): 11:33am On Aug 23, 2021
She is an Adult and she can make her own decision... But advise her not to be in a haste to leave her marriage... she should think it through and draw a final conclusion either to stay and work out a fine line between both of them or go...

Your sister's husband and the other woman have something in common which is the baby girl...Your sister can throw all the tantrum she wanted from Jerusalem to Jericho it will not change anything... that man can deny all he wanted that he will have nothing to do with the other woman for those that cares to listen... the reality is, that baby girl has come to stay... and will always connect them both....The earlier that sinks into her, the better for her.
Celebrities › Re: Dorathy Bachor's Estate After It Was Raid By EFCC (Video) by Richy4(m): 11:12am On Aug 23, 2021
That's Part of Change...A whole lot of you voted for this administration..so why whining now? Endure it like a man

Family › Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Richy4(m): 6:14pm On Aug 21, 2021
Klass99:
Richy @ the bold, does that really work in real life?

I see the advice a lot on NL and it is often directed at women, but men are sometimes told to try it as well and it makes me wonder......does it change anything?

Do the defaulting partners actually listen to this "respected person" in their lives and change their behaviour afterwards?

I am a firm believer that, actions speak louder than words. While verbal communication is good in any relationship it can never be enough with certain kinds of people. Some people need to be shown through actions that their yeye don do, no be only them get craze for body.

I simply call it - giving people a dose of their own medicine.

In the mid 90's when I usually get forced to attend marriage ceremony of cousins as a young boy, I usually notice that couples used to have elderly couple they appoints as their mother and father in marriage.. those were the people that will support them should such cases we were presently talking about now comes up as they journey into life as man and wife... But nowadays, we don't have such because we do not want third parties...Nowadays it has been changed to marriage sponsors...ie elderly rich couple that helps foot the bill of their marriage... all their activities ended on that wedding day only.......

I don't usually talk about my family but I will this time just to drive my point home...My uncle, who was my mums younger brother was one of them those days... my mother and his immediate younger brother had a real good bond when they were growing up more than the rest of his siblings ... myself and my siblings grew up loving him...

The thing is that he fell in love with a particular woman whom my grandparent did not approved of.. even when he was married, and the lady was married to another, they continued seeing secretly without anyone knowing....But my uncle's wife knew about it but was enduring without saying anything...But what annoyed her that made her to bring the complaint to my mother was that she read where the lady was advising my uncle on the best cream he should be applying...... She could not hold it anymore ... we did not know until the wife brought the complaint.. it was really funny and surprising to us because we did not see our uncle in such light.. but my mum who can reach out to my uncle's based on the bond and respect they had for each other intervened... That was how the illicit affair ended...

That was why I always believe that if spouses can figure out someone that his/her spouse respects it might go a long way should situation like that arises...
Family › Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Richy4(m): 10:12am On Aug 21, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You believe what he is doing running away? undecided
I believe that it has not sank into him that he is married yet....He has zero idea of what marriage is all about since he got such friend whom he was still looking up to...Who is also married just like him.... he needed someone that can speak to him... and also caution that friend of his to focus more on his own family too... That behavior is most time common with white guys...I don't understand that emoji though... is it for me or the man in question?
Family › Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Richy4(m): 2:44am On Aug 21, 2021
The man was scared of that bold step called marriage... all your friend have to do is to look for an adult that your husband respects, who understands the institution called marriage very well to explain to him that he doesn't have to run away from it/ responsibilities as a husband....Someone that can explain to him that the wife is also scared of that bold step but if they can open up to one another and share their fears, they will be OK....

In my opinion, I believe your friend does not know what was playing out at the background before the marriage, The man would have loved to be a bachelor for life.. he was forced, pushed or could not bear the taunting of " why are you not married" speeches by family/friends...
He is not gay because that was what people here will be telling u... you know what they say about birds of a feather...
Family › Re: Psquare’s Paul Okoye’s Marriage In Trouble As Wife Asks For Divorce by Richy4(m): 1:56am On Aug 21, 2021
Marriage is indeed not really an easy institution no matter the status..... How I wish Peter can use this opportunity to reach out to his brother whom his Umbilical cord was buried alongside with his sad
Family › Re: Should I Stay With My Extended Family?? by Richy4(m): 7:07am On Aug 20, 2021
OP... U said "Getting an apartment outside will make me focus on my part-time job"... There's one important 'reason' u deliberately left out...I will not say it... let's just grudgingly believe it was because of your part time job grin..... after all we know what extended family were like when the REAL REASON happens in their house daily cheesy...
Crime › Re: Corpse Of A Lady Refuse To Be Buried As She Fights Pallbearers From Burying Her by Richy4(m): 4:57am On Aug 19, 2021
embarassed

Family › Re: Lost My Elder Brother. by Richy4(m): 10:58am On Aug 18, 2021
I'm so sorry dear.. May God give you and your family the fortitude to bear the loss..
Foreign Affairs › Re: Talibans Vow To Impose Islamic Law Worldwide by Richy4(m): 12:19pm On Aug 17, 2021
bepositive11:
And a lot of soldiers who survived are battling PTSD, struggling with hallucinations. Really sad. Wars aren't made for humans. It's very cruel
You are right...the whole scenario made it look like their leaders just sent them to go and die there... after all is said and done, nothing was achieved
Family › Re: Pls How Can I Report My Landlord To The Lagos State Government? Pls Help!. by Richy4(m): 12:15pm On Aug 17, 2021
GenAbacha:
Your mumu dey smell.

Stay there and be talking rubbish. Don’t inspect your house na
E-warrior... I have given you enough attention already...I can't afford that kind of luxury to waste on a scum anymore ... Have a good day.. sad

Foreign Affairs › Re: Talibans Vow To Impose Islamic Law Worldwide by Richy4(m): 12:02pm On Aug 17, 2021
I feel bad for the innocent US army officers that lost their lives in that country... Now what was the use?... The reason why they died, was what they were fighting for achieved or not?
Family › Re: Pls How Can I Report My Landlord To The Lagos State Government? Pls Help!. by Richy4(m): 11:48am On Aug 17, 2021
GenAbacha:
So you plan to rent a house and you don’t see a drainage hole in the bathroom you’d be using and you’ll be fine?

Oh well. Na why una dey always fall for ponzi schemes.

No sense at all
You are just being unreasonable.... U are the type that act as if you have sense online but very far from it in reality... If someone has a bathroom, it is safe to conclude that there must be a channel for the water to go out... If the op did not see it, That was not his fault... no one can inspect every detail of a home in a day... especially if time is involved..
Stop that all tough and almighty Wiseman u were trying to portray about yourself because I'm not buying it ...

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