Romance › Re: Lady Shares Her Friend’s Experience After Traveling To See A Man by rickleye: 12:27pm On Apr 10, 2023 |
The risk some of you women take is laughable. Why would you go to a man’s house ( you didn’t say bf) and not have enough transport fare to return home. ? What on earth did you think would happen when you got there - Night Virgil ? Your friend went to work but on reaching there changed the terms of engagement. She’s to blame |
Romance › Re: She Goes To The Kitchen Naked by rickleye: 12:19pm On Apr 10, 2023 |
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Food › Re: Cockroach Entered Into My Pot Of Soup. Is It Still OK To Eat? by rickleye: 1:27am On Apr 10, 2023 |
Discard it . If I’d seen this earlier I would have paid for a new pot of soup . Sorry 😞 |
Romance › Re: She Goes To The Kitchen Naked by rickleye: 1:23am On Apr 10, 2023 |
Dude if you’re not interested let us know …. There’s a line up behind you of us interested. |
Travel › Re: How Do Families Pay Tens Of Millions To Japa Without Getting Ulcers by rickleye: 3:11am On Apr 08, 2023 |
sukkot: in fact you have said it all. Nothing more to add . Voluntary pillaging and voluntary enslavement. You pillage yourself and go give the bounty to the white man and then render your services to literarily wipe his yansh for cheap money ? No be juju be dat ? You have been enslaved and pillaged but you did it yourself. Most of these people get carried away by the pound strength but they don't know what you pay for rent per month over there is what we pay for the whole year. So whatever you make there it stays there. Bills . Unless you just are into crime then you can make money there. But if you are not into crime in the UK ? Forget that thing oooo. After working for 30 years you will look at your bank account and see just 1000 pounds saving 
NOT SUPPORTING CRIME OOO My 2 cents -// The age at which you Japa matters . If it’s a couple with no kids in their early 30’s. The two of them can make a balance sheet of income and expenses. They can have 2 jobs ( if both make 70k each a year. ) In 5 years you should have saved enough to put a down payment on a house. You rent out the house and continue to rent another abode. In another 5 years, you can remortgage the house , take out funds and buy another property where you can now start a family. It’s all about priorities and where your heart is . If you consider Naija your home , then you may be forced to send money home to build a property instead of focussing on where you are. Another thought is if you play your cards well your kids growing up with other kids make connections that could set them up to go into business or whatnot to help them create generational wealth. For those of you leaving in late 30’s and 40’s you need to have the mindset that your children will have a better future and access to resources than I did. They will buy you cars and houses etc. Timing is important |
Family › Re: 49yrs Old Woman Slumps As Court Dissolves Her 21 Years Maage Over Childlessness by rickleye: 3:00am On Apr 08, 2023 |
mymadam: I am very serious. I've just opened a thread in that regard. The Almighty Father will not come down from heaven himself to get this done. I see this as a divine call to service. May God help me 🙏🏽 I’ll give you #100k if you trace and marriage her . |
Politics › Re: Obidients, One Of The Most Repulsive Concoctions Encountered - Soyinka by rickleye: 3:40pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Misterc: In as much as he's one of our Most Respected Nobel Laureate..... I must say Professor Wole Soyinka is just all words and no actions.... If you're supporting Obi just say it... If you're supporting Tinubu just says it straight up... Rather than these sitting on the fence and all words... Just TLDR! |
Politics › Re: NCC Denies Leaking Peter Obi's Phone Conversation With Oyedepo by rickleye: 8:35pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
NCC dont have the resources to record calls or do they and what agenda would NCC have to release , doctor it. Now, if you mention foreign players - we have a few to choose from. Who stands to gain from Tinubu being president. Not US, Not Russia. Maybe UK or China. |
Romance › Re: How Did Your Last Relationship End And Who Was At Fault? by rickleye: 6:54pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
I am a serial confessor, so I will always say I am at fault even though I know pretty well I aint. |
NYSC › Re: Living Conditions Of Corpers In Asaba, Delta State (Photos) by rickleye: 6:46pm On Apr 04, 2023 |
Nice in 2023. So we should expect corper's to sleep in the bus parks in the next few years. What a shame of the CLO in the area. |
Travel › Re: This Is The Oyedepo Hangar They Plan To Demolish by rickleye: 1:43am On Apr 04, 2023 |
Unless it’s illegal I am not sure why it’s news. Usually private individuals should not be allowed to build in FG property so not sure what arrangements was made. He has plane it belongs in the airport it should be in a hanger there. |
Family › Re: My Husband And His Family Has Turned Against Me by rickleye: 11:25pm On Apr 03, 2023 |
Olamidegal: I am one year and three month old in marriage , my husband elder sister has her shop in front of our house , somehow the land belongs to there late mother who gave it to them . The problem is my sister inlaw is very intrusive, always trying to have a say in the marriage , one time I have resisted her interference, she reported me to their father who came to the house to warn me that the elder sister is there to be leading both me and my husband in the marriage as an experience woman who is ten years old in marriage , I find this annoying but I just had to keep quiet .her workers do come into my house to pick anything from my kitchen or the room and use it carelessly . One time I got back home and I saw one of the wrapper I use in backing my baby tied arround the waist of one of her workers and I wasn't so cool with it , I told her to wash it and return it for me that I do not joke with that wrapper , she refuses , the next day I saw the wrapper on the floor very dirty and I was very angry I told her to go wash it and return it , she told me she can't cos she's not the only one that uses it and that it's my sister in law that brought it out, I told the girl that she should never enter my house to pick anything again when my sister in law arrived she started blackmailing me with so u cannot leave ordinary wrapper , if you say she shouldn't enter the house that means u pursued me and all..I had to stand my ground it's not just about the wrapper anymore , it's the fact that the girl was rude to me I am 10 years older than this girl and that I insist that she shouldn't enter my house again, she said stuffs like i am rude to her as well so I shouldn't bother about the girl being rude and left . Now she started acting up , but I make sure I greet her everyday and move on , I no longer sit with her or discuss with her sometimes she doesn't answer and sometimes she answer somehow , this girl of hers never greeted me again after that day . Now the challenge is she had gone to report me to the father as usual , the father calls my husband and I don't know what they discuss but he has stopped talking to me in the house , he's always supporting his family anyway and his father has stopped calling me as well all of the calls themselves from time to time discussing me most times my husband run outside to answer there calls ..was I wrong in my approach, what could I have done better it looks like I am living among people that hate me they all stay close So the easiest advice would be to pack your load and leave with your child . But, I do not know how financially free . I mean are you career worker or have goods in the market to sell . I am not clairvoyant but it appears to me that you ignored some red flags going into the marriage. First off , your husband is what people on NL call a SIMP! ( I mean, no one should put his wife in such a condition to get a dressing down from his elder sister and dad) your husband ought to shelter you as not only his wife but the mother of his child. The red flags you know - this is not the first incident that would have occurred with the sister. In any case you have two choices 1. Fight and tell them you aren’t going anywhere and demand your respect 2. Leave with your head held high . There is a reason why we have the ardent of single parents.enough of the emotional abuse . |
Romance › Re: Is It Right For Me To Be Sexually Active Now? by rickleye: 7:05pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Bloommax: Wonderful evening to y'all.
I just discovered Nairaland few weeks ago and I've read so many informative things and people's story. Some get advised and some get bashed when they drop their stories here, I hope I wouldn't.
Let me cut to the chase.
I'm 19, I'm a virgin and I'm a 300lvl student. I have a boyfriend that is 15years older than I am and he's sexually active. We met on online. We've known each other for seven months. We both love each other really well, even with the ups and downs that we've had in our relationship. This relationship is a long distance relationship. Now the thing is my boyfriend who is sexually active hasn't had sex for almost a year and lately he's been craving for sex. Sometimes I'll tell him I'm ready to have sex and other times I change my mind because of fear. I've been undecided about having sex. I thought about having sex with him maybe it'll make our bond stronger. He isn't married, he has no kids but he says he wish to marry me as soon as I graduate from the university. To be a virgin in a university isn't easy, there are temptations everywhere. Sometimes I get so tired of being a virgin and just want to have sex but other times I just want to keep it. One of my friends who is also my age had sex in 2019 and she has been sexually active ever since, she told me sex with males aren't really worth it, that if I'm ready I should try having sex with my gender because it's freaky.
I need advice please, should I have sex with this guy and hope that he'll marry me. Or I shouldn't and just be patient. He coming to meet me in two weeks time.
Nah he’s not going to marry you . I’d tell you the same thing only to get in your pants. The temptation will increase especially during your service year . Look for like minded friends and flock together. If you must give it up. Give it to someone who loves you. Not claims he wants to marry you unless he’s been to see your parents etc. I would rather you gave it up to someone who loved you and you fell out of love rather than out of desperation |
Politics › Re: Obi Is A Simp Who Cry Like A Teenage Girl Dumped By Her Boyfriend - Omokri by rickleye: 6:49pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Dude can you please just shut up . Let’s reconcile not continue to flame such fires. Tone down the rhetoric! |
Travel › Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by rickleye: 7:00pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
EgunMogaji2: I’m not proud of what I’m going to say but in my 33 years in the USA I made a total of 5 friends.
We’re just generally bad people.
Hope you get your money back. Not sure if they have small claims court where you are. I have made the same number and I am very proud. |
Travel › Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by rickleye: 6:57pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Controlla123: If I report her, dem go say I dey find the downfall of my fellow Nigerian If you report her nothing is going to happen. Unless you go Judge Judy - Highest you will get is 5000$ Me, I hear you Nigerian, I am walking the other way. |
Travel › Re: Lagos Govt To Repair Third Mainland Bridge On Sunday by rickleye: 5:02pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Una too dey speed. They should post a speed limit on the bridge. |
Romance › Re: The Best Age For Man To Start Having Kids by rickleye: 12:39pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
MasterJayJay: Point is everyone should marry when they are ready. There is more to life than marriage. That is why I stated on my original comment. There is no best age. |
Business › Re: Moruf Oseni Takes Over As The MD/CEO Of Wema Bank by rickleye: 11:36am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Unless I am missing something Did Ademola die, tenure end, in a scandal, sick , , voted out of retire !? |
Romance › Re: The Best Age For Man To Start Having Kids by rickleye: 11:30am On Apr 01, 2023 |
MasterJayJay: You guys are funny.
Who told you early marriage is automatic early childbirth. Some married early and had their first baby after 15 years and above.
Some gave birth early only to die a year after, will the dead send the baby to school? I think you’d agree that those groups are in the minority not majority. Plus you could also add those groups that wait to have kids due to career changes or wanting to build a capital together. Or how about those that had kids out of wedlock and then got married or those that don’t want to have kids but want to adopt. Despite all the above , ON AVERAGE couples usually start having kids within 2/3 years of marriage. |
Romance › Re: The Best Age For Man To Start Having Kids by rickleye: 11:27am On Apr 01, 2023 |
[quote author=MasterJayJay post=122210577]You guys are funny.
Who told you early marriage is automatic early childbirth. Some married early and had their first baby after 15 years and above.
Some gave birth early only to die a year after, will the dead send the baby to school?[/quote ] . |
Sports › Re: Grace Nwokocha Suspended For Use Of Prohibited Substances by rickleye: 10:04pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
fergie001: Nigeria stands to be stripped of the women’s 4x100m relay gold at the 2022 Commonwealth Games in Birmingham, after an unnamed member of the quartet failed a doping test.
The gold winning team comprises Tobi Amusan, Rosemary Chukwuma, Favour Ofili and Grace Nwokocha.
Athletics Integrity Unit How fufu and eba be prohibited substance nau ? |
Health › Re: She Falls Asleep After Every Sex by rickleye: 10:02pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Wannabenz: I married a virgin(21yrs) sex use to hurt her at the initial stage but she's getting comfortable as days go by...so we normally do one or twice a day and it's good so I'm not complaining.
Recently I noticed that after every sex, she'll fall asleep faster...as in deep sleep. I also noticed that most times that she wants to sleep, she'll initiate sex maybe for her to feel better and sleep.
I'm hoping it's not a medical issue. Not at all. Seems to me that she's of a pure heart!. Just like most men when they cum have a refractory period and need rest, there are some women who just fall asleep, Some will prefer sex in morning cause they are awake and can't fall asleep. |
Romance › Re: How A Guy Can Sleep With A Lady On Her First Day Visit by rickleye: 9:58pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Easy Peasy !! - You have to set the mood. Days ahead before the date. You flirt with her.. connect with her emotionally. If you are really good with words, she could even come over to your house for sex, after which you can then go on a date afterwards.
If you very fortunate and it rains when she comes over ! Then what are you waiting for ?
But flirtation must occur prior !. Dig the foundation and house will stand well. |
Romance › Re: The Best Age For Man To Start Having Kids by rickleye: 9:51pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
There is no best age. It depends when you have the resources to take care of another soul. I wont even say maturity cause life will make you wise quick quick. Do he math. At 50 when you are 60 your child is 10 . Would you be able the match the child's energy and see your great grandkids ? At 40 when you are 50 your child is 10 . Would you be able to match the child's energy and see your grandkids ? At 30 when you are 40 your child is 10 . Would you be able to match its energy, send him to school and possibly see your grandkids ? Don't be governed by other people yet be wise. You don't have to be rich to be a father. You just have to be present in his/her life and provide basic needs. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria To Launch Two More Satellites Into Space Soon – Defence Agency by rickleye: 9:41pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
wink2015: Forget about space and satellite technology.
Solve the problem of irregular electricity in Nigeria. Bravo .... Instead of sending stuff to literary space. Let them solve irregular electricity - Satellite 1 Traffic Jam - Network of Roads - Satellite 2 Boko Haram - Satellite 3 Joblessness - Satellite 4 Inflation - Satellite 5. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria To Launch Two More Satellites Into Space Soon – Defence Agency by rickleye: 9:39pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
ChEkWaSIyKe: Advanced country where they run to has launch more that 10 and still counting but Nigeria is celebrating yet to be launch 2 and 3.
Who knowns, the launch might not even be successful. What did the first one achieve ? |
Politics › Re: Nigeria To Launch Two More Satellites Into Space Soon – Defence Agency by rickleye: 9:38pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
wiseone28: What was the benefit of the previous ones? Ask them bro ! Just to say that 9ja send satellite in space |
Politics › Re: Nigeria To Launch Two More Satellites Into Space Soon – Defence Agency by rickleye: 9:37pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
pweshboi: I guess you actually wanted to sound woke but bro... I'm dissapointed in this comment, we need Stuffs like this to thrive as a nation and to compete in the global stage. Y'all would still be the ones comparing Nigeria with other countries technological wise. So bro, this is a welcome idea and all we should be praying for is that these satellites don't end up like the previous one that got lost in space. What has prayers and space have in common. Is it science - physics and mathematics. Which Satellite lost in space or that it was never launched in the first place. Abeggi. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria To Launch Two More Satellites Into Space Soon – Defence Agency by rickleye: 9:34pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: . by rickleye: 9:31pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
It hurts because of time and money invested. It will hurt the other person more if him/her didnt see it coming. To recover 1. Go on a quick rebound - either through Hookup or FWB. You aren't looking for love but to vent !!! 2. Some will take the alcohol route --" Blame it on the Goose (Goose) , Got you in the zone (zone) , Blame it on the a-a-a-a-a-alcohol " 3. Some will cry - " Cry me a river , Cry me a river , Cry me a river " 4. Some will try and stop the hurt with Music " Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken " 5. Some will compensate with food " Ba Da Ba Ba Ba -I'm lovin it "
I recommend 1 and 4. I have a playlist of Sad love songs .... |
Education › Re: Covenant University CBT Centre Denies Candidates Wearing Hijab From Writing Mock by rickleye: 4:55pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
IMO .. Dumb move.!!! They came to take an exam and not attend Church. Would Jesus have done this ? I just hope they also stopped the girls wearing cleavage revealing and skimpy outfits from entering. What were you thinking ? When the northerners retaliate you will not like it. |