Romance › Re: Advise Needed Pls, I Am Planning To Start A Family by rickleye: 1:10am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Hatrick01: I am planning to marry and start a family as i am still young.
I am 24 yrs old boy (i am my own boss),that can stand his ground.
I am pretty sure that i can take care of a family.
I dont want to spend all i ve earned on clubing or any any dirty stuff.
I am thinking of bringing in a girl that will help me in my life.
That will also help me to manage all i have worked for since i am 17.
I dont want to squander them all.
Pls, fathers in the house, is there any other responsibility of a married man aside:
Paying children fees,
Winning the bread for family,
Taking care of ur wife?
Pls i need advise! Dude you’re still young . You don’t want to marry and realize you have not had fun nor your wife sees you as boring and unpleasant to be with. Set aside some money for fahji ( fun) be it 5% and live within that means. You don’t have to go clubbing but have fun , travel , see what this life has to offer. You want a wife - who has clear cut objectives . Someone with whom you share ideas would be best. Someone who is also into business like that Paris woman looking for husband. Or someone in your business. So she understands when you say you need to close a deal means exactly that and not code for another late night. Don’t rush into marriage. However if you feel that you have found that special person grow up together before you put a ring on it. Space the kids 2/3 apart. So by 40 you eldest would be 8years old at 50 - 18years and you can pass the business down to he/she. Good luck 🤞 |
Politics › Re: Obidients Close Alternative Result Collation Irev - Punch by rickleye: 11:41pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Obidients you guys are behaving like Trump - Fake News This, Fake News That. Wait four years get governors elected and then you will be able to do what a certain dude in Rivers did. May 29 is 11 weeks away lets begin to heal as a nation and support the President -Elect. |
Politics › Re: 2023 Election: The Legal Issues In Tinubu’s Victory. by rickleye: 5:37pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
UncommonLogic: The constitution cannot make any State a must, that means giving preferential treatment t that State against others. You don't need tk be a Lawyer to know that.
So you are saying that someone. Ust win FTC to become president? What a joke. FTC is jus6 considered as a state in that statement. Exactly ! |
Politics › Re: 2023 Election: The Legal Issues In Tinubu’s Victory. by rickleye: 5:36pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
What makes FCT that special that if you don't win 25% in that area, It should nullify the fact that a candidate won 25% votes in 30 states. I go with the first interpretation which is FCT be considered a state. I hope It is also made plain simpler instead of leaving it to vague interpretation by lower courts. |
Politics › Re: Court Ruled In January That INEC Can Use Any Method For Results Transmission by rickleye: 5:30pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
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Career › Re: CEO Back Home Now Cleaning Nyash In UK - Curvy Nigerian Lady Breaks Down In Tear by rickleye: 5:18pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
CEO - Chief Entertaining Office not Executive Officer. She was entertaining with her Nyash back home. |
Politics › Re: Fact Check: Did Obi Win 19 States In February 25 Presidential Election? by rickleye: 1:48am On Mar 10, 2023 |
OGHENAOGIE: you guys know nothing about politics Obi as PDP candidate would lose woefully to tinubu in four years time let obi contest under LP he ll still lose and if PDP gives him ticket which is impossible he ll lose too... The numbers say differently if the two combine forces they may defeat APC . |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Sympathises With Victims Of Lagos Train/Bus Accident by rickleye: 10:25pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Zandena: Your hypocrisy stinks to the sky. Why not visiting the site of the accident as you used to do before election? Peter Obi the charlatan in chief! Relax madam. Globetrotting takes a toll on the body. He may visit them when they are out of emergency. Not everything revolves around your timetable. |
Family › Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by rickleye: 10:22pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Join the band ... have an affair  Happy wife, happy life . |
Politics › Re: Why Buhari’s Quiet Over Allegations Of Irregularities Against INEC — Garba Shehu by rickleye: 10:20pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
It is not his role or position to defend INEC. If anyone has Issues, the courts will decide. The House will move a motion to remove INEC chair. |
Romance › Re: South African Lady Displays Her Certificate Of Virginity by rickleye: 10:18pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Zonefree: Joke of the century. 
How many virgin girls remain for Nigeria? The last virgin girl here died in 1969 during the civil the war. We're left with girls like siofra, iyaebe, persephone1, goodlady, sweeplum etc. You wicked bro, but truth be told, there are 1million ladies who have not had sex and are keeping for their husband. I aint talking about the city girls. I don't recall meeting a girl and saying " are you a virgin " - My question is " do you have rubber " ? |
Politics › Re: Fact Check: Did Obi Win 19 States In February 25 Presidential Election? by rickleye: 10:14pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Truth is that APC was there for the picking but the opposition split the votes. Hence why Tinubu won by just 1.5M
What would have beaten APC was an Obi president and Atiku VP. Obi had the momentum , he had the attractive charisma . People were ready for change but apparently 2/3 of the country ( APC + PDP ) were not ready.
Lets even assume Obi becomes president. He would be the lamest sitting president ever. With 5 senators and 5 House of Reps. How on earth does he pass laws. He would have to sign Executive Orders to get things done. This behavior is like a dictator.
We have just read an independent company reveal that Obi won 16 states with the electronic data, what more do you want.
Obi should continue his good work and lets try this again in 4 years time. This time make an alliance with PDP and get the presidency. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Regain My Virginity And Also Feel Like One? I'm In Regrets! by rickleye: 9:53pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Nia69: Okay. I understand now. But earlier you said stop trying to pee that was confusing. My bad. A case of typing too fast. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Regain My Virginity And Also Feel Like One? I'm In Regrets! by rickleye: 7:33pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Nia69: Huh? How does that help? I have a book the act of marriage. It describes Kegel exercise but a journal i read explains it as tightening the peeing muscles. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Regain My Virginity And Also Feel Like One? I'm In Regrets! by rickleye: 7:30pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
HanisahZuwy: I can't just get over the fact that I'm no longer one. I want to experience again that joy of being one. I can do or give anything to get it back honestly. It's not been long I lost it, but I'm full of regrets for doing it in the first place.
I usually do the kegel exercise you talked about. I hear you. I do not know you but I want to believe that anyone with whom you want to settle down with will love you unconditionally. I just do not want you to dwell on this to the point of depression. You may have lost it physically but I am sure you have a very good story behind it that share with whoever needs to know. If you really " want it back " there are these chastity rings/celibacy vows where you can take a vow before God to say, I will not have sex until I am betrothed . This may give you a " feeling " of committing to being celibate. |
Romance › Re: Paris-based Nigerian Lady Says She Will Pay Any Man Who Agrees To Marry Her by rickleye: 7:22pm On Mar 09, 2023*. Modified: 5:25pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Most guys in France either moved with family or came to hustle and are not prepared to settle down.
Advice - Travel home and marry someone younger. Since you own a restaurant, look for someone who loves to cook so that he can be employed by you. Do not marry someone with a Bsc or higher. Such people will not be content with you being the boss. You have to be submissive - You put your career ahead and have unfortunately passed the age of being chased / attractive (18-35) |
Romance › Re: Please Someone Needs Your Advice - Pregnant Palava by rickleye: 7:10pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
caution001: Dear nairalanders, Help me, I'm actually seeking advice for someone because the person is at a point she has allowed her past to dictate the recent trouble she brought upon herself. Anyway the person is my sister. She had several abortions years back. In year 2020, she is in her early 30s when she met a guy and they both agreed to do introduction, of which they did but the guy is not aware of her past. But it was quite unfortunate to discover the both of them has AS genotype at the time they were preparing for their traditional marriage and the parents of the bride disagreed, my parents. Later, the groom parents also disagreed considering the implications of two AS marrying each other. I personally pleaded with my sister that she should let the guy go but she wouldn't listen. Fast forward to this year. She told me she is pregnant for the same guy they are both incompatible as regards to the genotype. My parents are not yet aware but if they know they will disown her with immediate effect. What can she do please? Because she's seeking my opinion but I personally don't know what she can do because I have warned her several times.
Please advice. The best thing you can do is google and try and find people who are both AS and the experiences they are facing bringing a child into the world. If she does not do the proper thing, then you tell your parents. 1. You are saving her from being a single parent. 2. You are saving yourself from being an Aunt and being responsible in part to care for the child. 3. You are saving her from herself. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Regain My Virginity And Also Feel Like One? I'm In Regrets! by rickleye: 7:03pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
Get over the fact that you lost your virginity. What has happened has happened. Physically you can do Kegel exercises - Simply Start and Stop trying to pee. Release and tighten the muscles. |
Family › Re: 'Ashawo' Can Tackle 10 Men Daily; You Have No Excuse Not To Satisfy Your Husband by rickleye: 6:57pm On Mar 09, 2023 |
IamANigerianMan: I have never seen a useless generation like this generation , aside from TOTO this generation has nothing to offer, this generation allow old men like Tinubu, Judge Akume, Wike, Silva, Oshomele to rig election and nothing happened, the next TOPIC is SEX, Satisfy your man , Nonsense useless worthless generation. Sorry Ore, But what has your generation left this generation ? Terrible MMIA Defunct NEPA Horrible Roads NNPC ? No good paying Jobs Other countries are progressing - |
Travel › Re: Train Crushes BRT Bus In Ikeja, Lagos by rickleye: 10:35am On Mar 09, 2023 |
SmartPolician: How can a train collide with a bus? Truly, there are so many sick people in this country.
In fact, Lagos State has a lot of mad people, but those people don't even know they are mad. What the heck was the bus doing on the train’s tracks. You hear the sound of the train coming , the horn . |
Health › Re: Asa: Ogun State Community Where People Are Suffering — Man Cries Out by rickleye: 10:27am On Mar 09, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Lagos State Pays ₦1.2billion Pension Funds To Retirees by rickleye: 12:05am On Mar 09, 2023 |
Brendaniel: It still doesn't change the fact that...
Lagosians have chosen Governor Gbadebo Rhodes- Vivour(MON) I dont care who it is. I just want the Illegal checkpoints gone. Kidnapping dealt with and MMIA cleaned up. |
Politics › Re: INEC Postpones Governorship Elections By One Week by rickleye: 12:01am On Mar 09, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Poll: Don’t Turn Court To Protest Ground, Obi Tells Supporters by rickleye: 6:29pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
TheRealestGuy: You're looking for express international passport to Japa to Ghana cos obviously your N25K salary cannot take you to any European or American country.
I pity your life! Ouch ! That hurt. That's a low blow. |
Politics › Re: Poll: Don’t Turn Court To Protest Ground, Obi Tells Supporters by rickleye: 4:54pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
copyrites: Good one, my leader.
I wish Tinubu can tell APC rascals and thugs to stop burning people's shops in Lagos. Nope we wont ! Like the Mad King ... Burn it all, Burn It all to the ground with wildfire !!!!! |
Politics › Re: Lagos Government Releases Impounded Vehicles To Their Owners by rickleye: 10:13pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
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Business › Re: A Customer Paid Me With The Old #500 This Morning by rickleye: 10:11pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
ahnie: Lolz.... I just gave my lil girl to use it to go get suya,the aboki rejected it.  lol Wahala dey. |
Business › Re: A Customer Paid Me With The Old #500 This Morning by rickleye: 7:21pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
ahnie: A customer who came to patronize me this morning paid with old #500note. I majorly deals in transfer,than physical cash.
I was reluctant at first to collect it from him,but the condition I saw the man,I was forced to accept it,and secondly because I don't know if the persons I buy from would agree to collect it as a means of payment.
I hope I have not made a mistake by collecting it. Ill pay you N400 for it. |
Romance › Re: Man Catches Wife Having Sex In Matrimonial Home With Relation by rickleye: 12:03pm On Mar 07, 2023 |
elipheleh: This is what you get when you do not evaluate your marriage everyday.
My own marriage is Continuous Assessment.
I am ready to leave at any time or day. And my wife know this. I tell her everytime and she too can walk away whenever she want
I do and will always carry out DNA tests on all my children.
No time for foolishness and regrets at old age joor That’s is not marriage it’s a relationship . I mean how do you both cope with your emotions when either one of you can up and leave at a moment’s notice and not fight to keep your marriage intact. Most men who have frequent sex at home and loving wife so not have time to be unfaithful . Most women who respect their husband have no time to side hustle. Trust one another. I say |
Politics › Re: There Are Plans To Assassinate Lagos LP Candidate, Gbadebo: Bode George by rickleye: 11:50am On Mar 07, 2023 |
With all due respect Sir . Without proof stop peddling rumours. |
Politics › Re: Governor Sanwo-Olu Writes Eti-Osa Residents, Appeals To Them To Re-Elect Him by rickleye: 11:43am On Mar 07, 2023 |
tuoyoojo: True! A new governor who decides to continue on the legacies of the old administration and improve in those places where the policies of his predecessors were deemed anti people.
This is governance.
When pdp left power, apc continue with the rail lines and well as other projects.
However apc failed badly in many of her policies they tried in only a few Giving LP a state like Lagos. Hmm . Let’s see sha! |
Politics › Re: Governor Sanwo-Olu Writes Eti-Osa Residents, Appeals To Them To Re-Elect Him by rickleye: 7:38am On Mar 07, 2023 |
tuoyoojo: When any person becomes governor for the first time, what experienced does he have. The only experience any aspiring gov needs is to meet the needs of the people of his state, know what their needs are and solve them. What other experience are you asking about You need to be able to manage people and their expectations. Have an experienced team to continue existing beneficial projects and hit the ground running with projects to alleviate the people suffering . Deal with the various power brokers in the mega city. |