Amb1045: This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.
He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.
He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.
What do you advise him?
How do people marry these days sef? Wasn't he sensitive to these things in his wife while they dated.
People just cry over everything, especially things they could ve avoided. In most cases, we are the architect of our problems.
GoodHardDick: My brother's friend who was a medical doctor had a girlfriend and things were going quite well for them. Along the line, he had plans to settle down with the girl and then bought a Voltron car for her.
Fast forward, the girl had another guy whom she was always having a (secret) affair with but claim "they're just friends". How the doctor found out the girl was cheating, no know ones. He was too smart that he had to set up a recorded and a tracker in the car, which eventually led her to exposure.
Now, he has broken up with her, collected the car and the iPhone he bought for her (please note: he bought the car in his name, the receipt of the car had his name boldly written on it). The girl has been begging and apologizing for the doctor to forgive her and accept her back, that it was a mistake. But the guy has refused and has obviously moved on.
Guys, If you like buy a girl heaven and earth, you're just wasting your time. If you like buy her a phone, she'll use that phone to call and meet up with another guy who will still bang her. These ladies ain't loyal at all. Trust them at your own peril.
Seun, Mynd44, justwise. Lalasticlala.
Fall in love with a Nigerian girl at your own peril. They will exhaust you financially , mentally and move on to the next guy.
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This is not the first, second or third time i will be coming out here to say this, obviously this will not be the last! Single Mothers are nothing but baggages left on the sidelines, why would you punish yourself by carrying these unnecessary loads
Understand that single mothers come from two situations; Its either she got it from her hoe phase with the BAD BOYS she would rather be with OR she got it from a DIVORCE. Now which of these two situation sound nice to you THINK!
Single mothers deserve NO PITY! Never sucumb to the lies of men being at fault, believe it or not, she knew those COOL GUYS she was having fun with back then would never be responsible for anything but her hypergamy wouldn't let her reason! There were always good men asking her out but she turned them down because they seemed lame and boring! She is out here blaming the men for the bad choices she made all by herself over the years! DON'T BELIEVE THOSE STORIES!
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For once at least,I agreed with you on something. Nice one, mate.
KulHeadedHuman: I recently got an offer as dsa with a bank but I'm scared of the targets n all. I'm not so good with marketing and really doubting if it's the right job for me. I need advice pls
Note: It's an outsourced contract job, not full staff
Hmmm..very difficult job I call marketing "modern day slavery".. They will drain you to the very last and the moment you can't meet those targets anymore, you ll be asked to go, ..Marketing no be job bro. I ll advice you to relax and get something worthwhile no matter the pay, at least you will have a good night sleep.
MarquisKelvin: She told me about a guy who got her an Iphone sometime ago (before I met her). The guy asked her to be his girlfriend, she didn't give a reply yet, but she was gonna say yes anyway
The guy stopped calling and texting her... She tried reaching him, wasn't possible...
After some months she was told that the guy was robbed and all that...
Then I asked her if the guy calls her and gives her a genuine and justifiable explanation of his reason for not being available, then requests to get her back, what will be your reply? Then she replied to me "I don't know"... Asked again yet she gave the same reply
I walked out angrily... Never answered her calls since then...
And she's my girlfriend.... Infact I need advice
Below are the messages i sent to her... So that she will explain things to me
Love is just a delusion, especially with most Nigerian girls.
MsDoris: Nigerians React To Video Of Pretty Lady Who Hawks Fufu For A living Flaunting her Business Online (Video) . . A young Nigerian lady has caught the attention of netizens after she was spotted hawking fufu on the streets despite her beauty.
In the video which is currently making rounds on the internet, the young lady showcased the production process of her business uptil the packaging process.
She then called on Nigerians to patronize her. Reacting to the video, many Nigerians stated that the lady is too beautiful for her job.
While some were of the opinion that with her determination and hardwork, she will attract the eyes of a fine man who would change her life.........
silvoclaira: A statue of the late legendary basketballer, Kobe Bryant and his daughter Gianna was placed on the site of their helicopter crash in Calabasas, California, on Wednesday, the second anniversary of their tragic deaths and that of seven others. The statue was created by sculptor Dan Medina and showed Kobe, in his Lakers uniform and with his arm around Gianna, who is also wearing a uniform while holding a basketball by her side.
alphaNomega: Are you advocating they pay a B.Sc holder 20k salary? This your post wreaks of desperation.
I'm far from desperate ok.. I'm just tryna speak for people in my little way cos it's all around us.
Take for example : how do you explain banks paying tellers who are OND holders 70k and the marketers how are the BSc holders 30-40k
And they will still tell you dey can't pay Bsc holders as much. If you employ Bsc holders as tellers and pay them that 80k and also give them a career path, will the heavens fall?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RIG0BQsyZ_c I feel like one of the issues with one guy is really my hair, he made feel really insecure about it, I like short hair says kidwayya. I don't know why alot of guys are not attracted with ladies with short hair, it's really annoying, because I'm the same person, just because I cut my hair doesn't mean that I'm ugly. It makes me feel like, am I suddenly ugly?, I'm done with that pressure of we have to have weave upto the floor, I don't want to wear a wig right now, I'm studying, I don't to have to worry about that, so I cut my hair, and I think that's okay, I'm still the same person, I feel like as Nigerians and as young black people, we need to stop being so on the surface, for putting ourselves so much under pressure. Even with make up, nails, lashes, we cannot kill ourselves. Bone straight hair and so on wearing them is stressful, CUPPY Said we have to stop putting ourselves under pressure and bring back short hair, let's bring back being natural Kidwayya said, you need to take me the way I am, who I am CUPPY said in her podcast with Kidwayya. If you want to see your partner, your partner want to see you on your good days and bad days, if you are always wearing wig and attachment, one day your partner will see your real hair, eye lashes, who you really, except you want to remain fake in the relationship, I go on date without make up, I can't come and kill myself CUPPY Said, it's even better she said
Can this girl just get out of social media for once and give me a break?
Honcho156: A SS1 student of Alapoti High School in Ado-Odo-Ota Local Government Area of Ogun State has been arrested for wearing charms to the school premises.
The young boy who is identified as Bankole Kamoli was arrested by men of the Ogun State-owned security outfit, So-Safe Corps for wearing a charm which is known as igbadi.
franchasng: In most field or sector, OND holders can do the same job a Bsc holder will do, and sometimes even better, and they are not as greedy and entitled as most Nigerian Bsc holders who believe that their Bsc certificate have qualified them to become the next Aliko Dangote lolz
In Technical or engineering related job roles, OND holders perform better than most Bsc holders.
OND holders are usually younger and smarter.
OND holders are not greedy in terms of salary expectation.
OND holders are more humble too.
Most Bsc holders are criminal minded, they can steal for Africa because they have high expectation and want to cash out fast like Bobo Chicago
And OND holders are Saints? Oga pls relax and stop being bias.
tutudesz: OND graduate has 6 months working experience, because of their IT and adding the HND IT experience translate to 1 and half years work experience when leaving school.
Mmm..i totally agree with you but this isn't the answer..besides, What has working experience got to do with the civil service commission even when you have 5years working experience as a BSc holder?
They hide under the cover of "we can't pay the BSc holders"... Why not pay them same thing you pay the OND guys, millions are ready to grab the offer.
InvertedHammer: / Because salary scales are based on certificates. OND/HND graduates are cheaper to employ and their productivities are at par with B.Sc holders. People with B.Sc have not shown any remarkable skills that could differentiate them from OND/HND holders. Do we blame "sorting"?
Crossboy: Nigerian military man carries his fiancée who is a nurse after rescuing her alive in war front in inspired pre-wedding photoshoot. The second picture where the military man lies on top of sick bed as his wife-to-be who is a nurse poses by him. Maybe the man needs treatment after the war!
LIVINGICON: This is a yoga class, nothing out of the ordinary. It improves body coordination, balance, flexibility and mind concentration. She will really need it.
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Seun, lalasticlala, myn44 please push this to front page
That's the delusion the society has planted in our heads. There shouldnt be any such thing as "they can't pay bcs holders". Why don't you pay them whatsoever you pay the OND holders.. Millions of Bsc graduates are ready to accept.
BKayy: And I thought I was the only person that noticed this. Information reaching us is that companies now boldly declare that what they want is OND and HND.
Isn't it worrisome that the OND holders stand a better chance of securing jobs now in Nigeria. Banks, companies and even the civil service now prefer OND certifications to the Bachelor's degree.
Question now is, aren't university undergraduates wasting their time?
CaptalnMitch: I noticed since a month ago, once I resume work and it gets to around 10am, my Dick starts getting extremely long and hard. So hard my black trousers start to make sounds as if it wants to tear.
I can't stoke it or pet it to please be gentle because of my office space. Dude gets so hard and long I am ashamed to leave my office or stand up from my desk.
It's becoming too often and embarrassing and to top it off, I don't have female colleague in my office Please who else experiences this. What's the solution, what's the way forward?
pls help me I don't no wat to do I'm in a state of confusion I'm 26yrs in a relationship of 4years now with a guy dat is broke I mean he doesn't really have a good job he's just moving frm one petty job to d other and I've complain alot nd endured alot but he said he's working on it and up till now no changes though he's trying different tins but it's not fruitful and meaningful to me because he is still always broke I can't even ask him for money because he will always say he doesn't have,he hardly buys cloth, shoe,he doesn't have an apartment of his own he scots with someone I ave my job so I'm not really depending but d problem is he is like a burden to me because he has turn it to a habit of asking for food nd sex all the time without shame and other petty tins so I'm extremely tired of him nd d relationship and I want to break up with him but I don't ave anyone yet so I don't no if I'm doing d right tin because he's d only one I ave because I've been very loyal to him despite everything
Michaelbjune: Good afternoon my Fellow Nairalanders
I want to write the story short
I saw my babe miss call yesterday so I now call her back, has I call her we start talking. so has the conversation was going on she now ask me if I'm not interested joining Army again. I answer her that I'm still afraid she also said that she is afraid too and she doesn't want to lose me. because of boko boys in the north so my brothers and sisters I was still talking to her on phone , she said I should try POLICE I replied nooo I don't like POLICE instead of me joining POLICE I will prefer to join IMMIGRATION .
see the next thing she said......
Just try you know age is not by your side and you are 23 already didn't you know that your mate are doing yhaoo boys
I replied : God forbids Soo you're supporting yahoo boys. that thief people money and doing ritual too,
I can never in my life do such a terrible thing this is frouad do you know that I can hate you because of this statement.
she replied: I'm sorry you know yahoo boys it's just a game , but just give me a kiss before going to bed
I replied : back to sender I will never called you again I hangup the call
so I was thinking maybe some boy that join yhaoo boys is because of girls or some girls or big bombom push them to yhaoo boys
Xwizard: I don’t really know why everything no just balance for this world. We’ve been dating for over a year now, no dramas no issues than, each time we having sex, she’s always fortunate to cum before me, I suffer it a lot, she always squeeze my neck during her moment of cumin, like she’s possessed. I have a normal long d1ck, so no way no how she come on me, she’s gonna cum, the problem is she’s always choke my neck down shouting out loud, everyone in the compound knows we fucking each time this happen, I’ve told her severally, but she’s always get amazed she’s doing that, like she’s can’t always remember she Dey choke my neck. What if one day, she just kill me ?
Is this a red flag ?
Every other thing about her can be tolerated except this issue.
Why you dey act like novice like this? You never hear or orgasm or climax?
Well that's ur girl's way of expressing her satisfaction ok.. it's an involuntary action and she isn't even aware she does that.
FriendsAndFans: Just like that, it's 7 years already! It's been rough! Very rough and tough but I give thanks to God. Life isn't always as we plan it... Life charts a different course of its own. I have seen few folks doing ok with their wife (wives) and kids, I have seen folks who can barely stay afloat financially.
My eyes have seen a lot after NYSC. I have travelled far and wide with no roof just to attend interviews. At a point, I slept on the streets of Lagos job hunting and understood life the harsh way.
The last interview which I did and which got me this current job, I had to sleep on a bench in a market, and my bag was the pillow: because I got to the city around 11:52pm or so and my interview was the following morning. A City I knew no one in
An unknown folk in a known city earning sixty It's a blessing
God1000: Chinese engineers have built amazing infrastructure across China with their expertise, but what baffles me is the crummies they often construct for us in Nigeria, you won't see such in their homeland.
Who do we blame here? Maybe our leaders because it's the amount of money they award some of these projects and they will still embezzle part of it
Seun, lalasticlala, myn44 please do the needful
Bros, they say " soup wey sweet, na better money kill am"
Your leaders are damn too corrupt , stop blaming the Chinese.
Family › Re: My Wife Hates Sex And Prefers I Masturbate by Rickmann: 4:34pm On Jan 28, 2022
