gentlekay2017: Dear people here, Pls don't mind my long story and some bad expressions, I couldn't sleep and had to put this up here. I hardly do it. I need your advise. my elder sister, the first born in our family died in year 2010. Before her death, she had four children, two males and two females. Her husband who is the father of her 4 children had consistently proved irresponsible before her death, this man had another wive even when my sister was on sick bed, we later discovered that one other woman has a child for him apart from this second wife while my sister was still alive. The man asked my sisters children whose eldest was just 12 when their mother died to go and learn a trade since he cant afford to put them in school. One of my other elder sisters had to take the two youngest of the kids and trained them through primary school while the two eldest lived with their grandmother who is my mother. By the time the eldest finished JSS3, i had graduated from the university. he is a very brilliant boy so i had to take care of his senior secondary school in a public school which happened to be what i could afford then. The boy lived with me for 8 good years and by the grace of God, I saw him through university. When he was in 300 level, his younger sister entered Adeyemi College of Education for a degree in education, that made my load heavier. My sisters were helping them with foodstuff and little pocket money while I paid school fees, accommodation and other fees for the two of them. The elder graduated in engineering a year before his sister. After his NYSC he called me one day to tell me one of the paramilitary organisations in Nigeria under the ministry of interior was recruiting and that someone wanted to sell a slot, I had to borrow 250k to join with what he had to buy the slot for him from one northerner. A year later, I used my closeness to a particular Ekiti politician to secure teaching job for his younger sister in a federal government school. At this point, their younger sister was in the polytechnic and to my dismay, these two guys will always refer this young girl to me each time she asked them for money. at first, I thought its because they were yet to settle down fully so I had to continue to really stretch myself more to take care of the education of this young girl. If not for the little side business I run, each of these two guys earns more money than myself being FG workers. I works with state ministry. The girl completed her national diploma last year, she is on IT now. Now the last born is in the university and these guys still sends him to me for his school fees. They told him point blank to go to uncle. The boy is in part two, I actually paid for acceptance, school fees and all those stuffs last year. I was thinking they have assisted him with this session only for him to come home because of ASUU strike and inform me that he is yet to register for the new session which started since late January. His brother and sister told him to go to uncle as usual. Their father who never contributed anything to their education is also telling everyone who cared to listen to him that I am the one who told these two not to help him financially. So these two are not helping their father, they are not helping their siblings, they are not helping anybody. What manner of people are these? I feel like stopping any form of assistance to these young girl and boy but my sisters and my mum are insisting I shouldn't. You know all those, "you are doing it for God" kind of stuff. These guys are mean men, they hardly pick my calls and I have stopped discussing their siblings issues with them since last year. How do I handle these guys pls? I am tired and my own responsibilities are mounting up daily.
Brother, you have done so well and heaven is a witness already. Even if you choose to withdraw now no one can point fingers at you. But please ,for that girls sake , God and ur mother, just hang on a little more so she can finish up and you will be fulfilled and have ur inner peace.
It's good the plans and gimmicks of the two older boys have come to light. Stick with that girl till she is done so she doesn't fall prey to any social pressure.
300whitewolves: Jejely sitting in the office and waiting to attend to the next patient, my girlfriend just called me, she said she wanted to tell me something, that I should check my whatsapp chat, she later changed her mind, the question was like babe, Can I go out with my ex ex boyfriend , he said he wants to take me out on a lunch date, and my reply was, just do what you think is right for you. As soon as I said that her voice just became low, abeg nairalanders what should have been my response abeg.
She is a liar and a cheat.. She only needs ur validation, reason she asked you..
TheGidRedpiller: Something have been trending online as of recent and i can't help but feel satisfied over the increasing number of woke men, i'm loving the fact that over time, there is a growing tendency that the future could be secured from these rouge females.
Here i go: If She At Any Point In Her Life Said That Broke Men Don't Deserve The Pvvssy, Then She Should Not Expect A Rich Man To Stick To Only Her!! Women will always come up with stupid notions to degrade men and of course only validate themselves, i love the fact that men are now getting very creative with response to there low life biittches with problematic sense of entitlement mentality!
Your stupid self is saying only rich men deserve your body but when we check, you are not even a virg!n, you are some street thott with outrageous body counts, obviously, men do not gain anything from women, but at least you could have kept your hole from random rods to make this "rich man" have some sense of belonging
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Nigerian ladies have suddenly turned their P***y into a bargaining chip..
Icandream: A lady has opined that a man who truly loves his girlfriend will never watch her use an android phone.
The lady identified as Speedy on Twitter, stated that a man who truly loves his woman will never watch her use an android phone.
Her words,
“I swear! A man who truly loves you, will never watch you use an android phone”.
This generated mixed reactions online. A user identified as Marv wrote:
Buying you iPhone means d guy loves u.. na ur Toto go suffer, no go work. I fucking hate it when woman can’t pay her bills and depending on a guy how una dey feel like like self. A woman who pays her bills gets more love and attention from her man… I come in peace
Idiot.. Deceive urself all u want but pls don't deceive other girls.
Maxwell775: My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.
Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.
Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.
The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)
Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!
Truth be told, I use to have strong erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, coco-cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.
Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her to dress decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.
Honestly I don't think she has any sort of ulterior motive. I think she already sees you as a brother...so her dressing isn't intentional at all.
If you aren't comfortable with it, simply talk to her like an older brother will talk to his kid sister without her suspecting anything.
You know she doesn't sleep with just anyone... though that's not applicable to billionaires only...
Even prostitutes/pornstars are selective to some extent.
And who says rich people don't catch STDs as well. Besides, these STD bacteria and fungi can also be contracted outside the body, it mustn't be through sex.
The all time complain about Nigerian girls having high taste even when they are jobless is getting out of hands.
I met a girl in school sometime, we were friends for a while before we decided to date.
One time, she told me she was hungry, I suggested we go to a popular food canteen in school to eat, I was already a graduate then carrying out my final clearance while she was in second year, she declined going to the canteen and suggested chicken republic, reason is she doesn't like the food there. This is a canteen where the low and mighty go to eat in school.
Well, not that I didn't have the money but I felt it was odd, someone two drinks garri in her hostel has an opinion about eating spot.
We later drove to the nearby chicken republic in school and bought food in packs of 4,300 each totaling about 9k.
She told me about how one guy usually takes her to chicken republic and even asks her to take away a pack after eating there.
I asked her, does the guy buy for himself? She said No, that the guy doesn't like rice, that the guy prefers Eba� Lol
So I tried to explain to her, do you know how much a pack of rice, chicken, salad and moi moi with Ice cream costs?
She said No.
Okay, this thing costs from 2k and above, if that guy buys you a pack to eat there and another for takeaway, he has spent about 5k, how much is his weekly allowance as a student if he spends 5k on a seating with you?
On a second thought? Which human prefers Eba and egusi soup to rice and spiced Chicken?
During the analysis, she was quiet, I further asked her if she knew how many days she could go if she asked for the 4k to cook instead of eating rice and chicken once and going home to drink garri till God knows when.
Most times, I think it's lack of knowledge and “long throat” that's bedeviling our girls, you keep fantasizing over little things, things you could get for yourself at the right time.
One time this babe called me that she wants to eat pizza, well, of a truth, I haven't tasted pizza even as I type this, I wasn't born with a silver spoon so I don't fantasize over rubbish things, I told her I can't buy her that cause I haven't tasted it myself.
I could go on and on about this particular babe, she is an orphan, that's why I still have her contact till this moment cause I see the need to help.
Last time she asked me for money, someone I have known for about 3 years now, I asked her if she knows my surname, she said No, I asked her if she knows my state of origin, she said No, I asked her if she knows what I do for a living, she said No, Lol, so how do you expect me to give you money in such scenario?
Our girls need orientation, you would never have your broke guy ask you to take him to chicken republic or any Behind place, it's always “guy, anything dey your hand make I take buy fufu and soup”
Girls too can't even ask their fellow girls what they ask guys, You don't give me sex, you know nothing about me, I'm not your family member, and you even try to get angry when I don't give you money, no be juju by that?.
Girls don't even know the responsibility a guy has to shoulder, as a guy, your immediate family, mum, siblings and dad are all there, your guys and yourself too yet they go about asking for irrelevant things senselessly.
I tagged this post “why do poor girls have high taste” cause I stay in an estate and see a lot of rich kids (girls) when they need anything they just order it immediately, jumia foods, mega chicken and all, this is cause they can afford it, but you, bibanke, your father is a carpenter, your mum has a kiosk by the road side, you want to use Iphone 12 promax and hair of 200k.
You want to dine with the mighty without a skill or job, well, it can only be one thing, you get frustrated when you can't keep up with this lifestyle. Shalom
Well said bro..
You see, it really hurts me to hear girls trade themselves and even lose their lives for just a pack of food.
Like you earlier stated, for me I don't think they lack the knowledge cos they are fully aware of what they are doing, their problem is simply the latter which is (longthroat).
XshegzzyeeiX: Pretty sad some girls will have to fend for the unborn kids alone coz alot of guys are not mentally ready or financially stable to raise families.
Wisdomkosi: BREAKING!!! IgbereTV to Withdraw Abba Kyari's 2020 'Leadership Excellence' Award over Multiple Indictment in Drug, Fraud
Following his multiple indictment in drug and fraud related cases, popular online medium, IGBERE TV has concluded plans to withdraw the 2020 'Leadership Excellence' Award bestowed on embattled "supercop," DCP Abba Kyari.
This was revealed by the Executive Director of Igbere TV, Emeh James Anyalekwa, who doubles as National President, Online Media Practitioners Association of Nigeria (OMPAN), in a chat with journalists on Tuesday in Abuja.
It comes barely 24 hours after the Deputy Commissioner of Police was arrested by the Police after being declared wanted by the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA) over his alleged membership of a drug cartel.
Anyalekwa disclosed that the decision was made by the Leadership Excellence Awards Organising Committee, adding that a World Press Conference would be held on a date to be communicated later to formally withdraw the Award.
Recall that following the massive nomination and voting by Nigerians, Kyari was in 2020 awarded as 'Security Expert of the Year' by IGBERE TV, way before his indictment by the Federal Bureau of Intelligence (FBI) in a case involving Ramon Abbas, popularly known as Hushpuppi.
Reacting, the Igbere TV boss said: “Our Award is based on public nomination and voting. As at the time (2020) the Award was presented, Abba Kyari was rated as the most effective security expert in the country by available information. He was massively nominated and voted by Nigerians for the award.
“Following his indictment by the United States' Federal Bureau of Intelligence (FBI), We waited for his possible extradition and outcome of his trial. But with the current NDLEA indictment and the report and indictment by IGP, we have no other option than to take action,” Anyalekwa added.
nairavsdollars: The moment the international criminal arrested the local kidnapper and we hailed him as a super cop? Some Nigerians even prayed that he will be the JGP someday.
When the law enforcement officer we thought was the best turned out to be the worst.
Was Evans, the evil kidnapper arrested by Abba Kyari led IRT because he didn't do the needful or too stingy?
Swankygist: Unbelievable as a course rep was caught satisfying his sexual urge by fingering a coursemate during lecture period. In the video, he was puting his hands under her private part and scrubbing it profusely.
In the bubbling of Valentine's day, while engaging in one of the activity planned out by I and my baby girl of having dinner at a continental rooftop restaurant, I taught a redpiller a lesson he will live to tell its story.
While I cruised into the environment of my dinner date, I noticed that her car was already packed. An indication that she must have been there before me. Also, I wasn't expecting her to come with her ride because, after the dinner, na my house straight. I shrugged it off and jetted up to meet my baby.
After the pleasantries and all, I asked her why she came with her ride. She told me that Bolt and Uber were delaying and she didn't want to be late. So, the idea was to go and pack one car securely while we use the other to cruise to my crib after the date.
While I was driving out, I saw something quite overwhelming. Two seeming love birds who their valentine was ruined. As I approached them, I observed that they were having an altercation.
Wanted to get some gist for my baby so I wined down ready to eaves drop. I am a graduate of Mass Communication anyways and I recall them teaching us to always "have a nose for news", so i guess I applied that theory succinctly.
Closer to them, I first heard the male's thunderous voice "I don't care if you leave or not!. To hell!. I don't care!". The female was like "really??". They made other inaudible talks sha. But the male's countenance was heavily bossy.
I swerved left driving away from their scene and shaking my head, while also recalling the low budget redpillers we have here on Nairaland, I noticed from the rear that the female was already on the move for the exit.
I waited for her, when she was close, I wined down, hunk at her and told her to hop in. She was sobbing silently. I told her she'll be fine and asked the direction she was heading.
I noticed from the rear again that the male had been standing there, watching everything that happened. When I made to move, he started gesticulating that I should stop. He was advancing very fast to the car; running. When he was close, I hit the ignition and zoomed off.
Stuck my hand out the door with the middle finger clearly so he could see. 30 seconds wasn't enough. I think I lasted 60.
The female told me that the male treats her like trash. Doesn't consider her feelings and was always nonchalant about her ideas.
Redpillers especially in Nigeria see "Alpha Male" as being trashy and bossy to women. How short sighted. Most of them are even introverts, keyboard warriors, bitter, multiple times rejected by women and are very broke. They take out their frustrations on innocent ladies while consuming toxic information from fellow broken redpillers online.
htdot: my girlfriend of 1 month posted the gift her friend boyfriend got for her friend on her status... This her action reeked of low self esteem... I like me a girl that does not like uploading things on her WhatsApp, a girl that isnt picture freak and a girl that doesnt like social media... I just have to start going to church , may be I will find my self a naive person.
I think the problem is with you.. Why feel threatened?
Bekeey: Today Valentine, I decided to test my girl, 7month relationship. And I was hoping to tie the nut with her hopefully by December this year. So one thing just came to my mind that I should test her small.
So this morning, around 10am, I purposely wired 80k to her acct, like 5minutes later I called her but before then we have already spoken in the morning that lasted for more than 30min, we just wished ourselves happy Valentine without asking each other how it would be celebrated. Because she will be going to work and I too will be at work. Like 3hrs after the conversation we had in the morning, I decided to surprise and test her as well. So I decided to wire her 80k and later called her back after 5min, she picked and asked me how is work going I replied fine and yours, she said kul. I called her babe, didn't you receive any alert this money, she shouted and said no oo, I told her to check that I mistakenly transferred her 80k instead of 8k that she should please use 8k get herself a pizza maybe whilst going home from work and please transfer back the balance to me ASAP that am waiting. She said ok and thank you. I called my girl back around 2pm to remind her, she still said ok, called this evening, she still said ok that she just got home, I told what will it take you to pick up your phone and do the transaction that won't take you up to a minute. She said ok again.
My brothers and Sisters, till now I haven't seen any alert oo, my girl haven't called to even ask me how was today unlike her. I now asking myself, na japa this babe wan japa ni abi she go still send the balance. And funny enough, my plan was to send her back the money if she transferred it back and tell that I was joking that the whole 80k belongs to you.
What do you think guys? Though am still waiting shaah before I would conclude, just that I have beginning to have triple mind over the whole thing and her changes since she got the money.
Aderewah: It's really sad as you'll expect they'll atkeasg be level with SS. Ibadan has more igr than all of SE for God's sake. Nwafors, yourubas and Nigeri deltans have gone far ahead. Our brothers will rather be selling cassette in lagos, ogun and even ile ife than ever spend 2 weeks in our region because nothing is there.
How can we correct this? Can yorubas ever also want to come to the East for opportunities?
Ibadan you say? Yet they still nest in their ancient corroded zink roof houses that lived before my ancestors.
So much for IGR.
Oga take 100 seats and sit down if you have nothing to say.
richeeyo: Abeg shut up already He was in the south East with Your God fathers been worshiped at a party. The cow never said from the force Kanu still remains a Cow and a coward
Stankovic22: Youths of a community (orifite anambra state ) in South east Nigeria have angrily destroyed a shrine where they discovered the names of a lot of people tied to a fetish padlock and prevented from making progress in life.
JimiJunji: It's not even an issue of new money, it's just foolishness. Like someone rightly said, 99.999% of Nigerian billionaires have done some really dirty stuff but you hardly see them misbehaving like some Yahoo boy that just ran a scam.
Not just Nigerians but billionaires all over the world.
It's difficult to get rich and more difficult to stay rich.
Romance › Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Rickmann: 9:12am On Feb 21, 2022
