Bankowner:


Bro!
First of all, you didn't look for a job for him, all you did was send him links to search for jobs he could fit into. Secondly, it hurts that you let him lose out on that job prospect. If the guy was trying to scam you, he won't be asking for 1k for transportation. And even if he was, 1k is really nothing to cry about as being scammed of. The fact that he didn't go for the interview showed that he didn't have any other option to get transportation fare to the venue. Let it be on your conscience that all you did was bring food to your starving friend's table and only allowed him to savor the aroma.

Well said👍

MrBroke:
For me OP your response was not good, you should have said you low on funds than being rude to the guy and for the guy he should have asked someone else for the 1k. But you for just give am nah, even if na scam na him self him dey do no be u.

Exactly.
You have spoken well, my bro

westlius:
I met this guy 2020 at Calabar, we worked in the same project in Calabar (8miles). After the project I returned back to my base in PH and he was in UYO for another job.
2 months ago he chatted me he is in PH and badly in need of job. Then his calls and messages became constant.
I gave him several job links, this morning he sent me a FB message that one of the job has sent him an invitation, I was happy at least if he gets it he can pay his bills. He then drops his account details that I should send me 1k for transportation which I declined. I bluntly told him I can't look for job for you and give u transportation for the interview.
This evening, as I came back from work I called him to know if he went for the interview, the funny guy send no he didn't go because of no transport fare, I just hang call

His persistent calls showed he was so in need of a job. From ur statement, it can be said you had the money but just didn't want to help. It's no big deal. It's not written anywhere that you can't help him with one thousand naira after giving him a job link. If he had it , he wouldn't ask.

I'm sure we wouldn't be reading this story if it was a girl.

In life , when you want to help, you help through and through, you will be happy and ur conscience will be at peace.

MSN1:
Uuhmm...
Good day NL's, this post was inspired by a lot of FIRST HAND experiences i have noticed about LOVE.

Love is d sweetest and also the most bitter thing that can happen to ANYBODY.

When i see threads of guys making posts about girls being bad and ungrateful; I JUST LAUGH because; These pipo are either being gender sentimental or ignorant of d truth.

If any reasonable person decides to trace the root of why women are nis behaving, then the person wud know; A LOT OF MEN ARE THE CAUSES!.

I currently have a Nigga's girl i have known for almost 12 years now.
This girl has really been loyal to this guy, Supported, stuck with him (even when the guy is a chronic womaniser, THE GIRL HAS CAUGHT HIM A LOT OF TIMES).
This girl never let go, she kept on saying; He is my first love, bla bla bla.
I am typing this with serious anger because; A lot of pipo don't know, wen to let go and prioritise their mental well being.
This is a girl i know that has sacrificed a lot for my nigga for more than, 13yrs of relationship .
Parents, siblings and relatives kicked against the girl, but she didn't let go.

Now after so many sacrifices and 13yrs + as a first love.
This guy has suddenly see this girl as a nobody and can't even relate with her or give her ANY reason / wrong she did.

I have tried my best to speak to this guy but up till today; He haven't said anything bad about her,yet; He treats d girl like thrash.
SUCH A PRETTY AND WELL MANNERED GIRL

This girl is currently passing through hell and i feel every bit of it because i know wot d girl has done for dis Nigga and d way family threated her because she didn't listen to their warnings.
This is som1 dat has 2 pipo abroad that usually sent gifts, which she shared with this Nigga, being loyal and faithful to him.

In the end, this good girl is getting this kind of treatment, VERY PATHETIC!.

We have to know dat; All minds are not equal because wot Mr. A wud take easily, Mr. B wud not b able to.
2moro, when these kind of girls change attitude towards men, society wud blame ladies and tag them evil. Some pains takes ages to heal, because ALL hearts are not equal.
Check d story of Adele and Juice Wrld and know wot love cud do to pipo.

The way Yul Edochie acted foolishly is a point guys won't take note of, yet they tag ALL ladies BAD, very foolish way of reasoning.

My points are;
*Lets stop tagging all ladies bad because; I have seen and know a lot of gud ones out there and;
* Wickedness and disappointments is not a gender based issue.

LOVE IS INDEED WICKED!.

B4 d negative comments, know that; I am a man with two big scrotum and I use my brain b4 taking stands.
So, the nonsense sayers; DON'T EXPECT MY EXPENSIVE QUOTES / MENTIONS..

You have spoken well my friend and I totally agree with you on this. Good girls truly exist and the bad ones are just a product of heartless and ungrateful guys.

[quote author=Artiiclebeast post=127201163]Cristiano Ronaldo is known for his goalscoring exploits but on Monday night the Al-Nassr forward convinced the referee not to award him a penalty.

The 38-year-old went down in the second minute after a challenge in his side's Asian Champions League 0-0 draw with Iranian side Persepolis.

But when Chinese referee Ma Ning awarded a penalty, Ronaldo argued the case for overturning the decision.

Ning was sent to the pitchside monitor and ultimately changed his call.

A combination of the video assistant referee and Ronaldo's honesty came to Persepolis' rescue. The match finished goalless, with Al Nassr's Ali Lajami sent off in the 17th minute.

Al-Nassr had already qualified for the knockout stages before the match in Riyadh. The Saudi Pro League side is top of Group E with 13 points after five matches and five points ahead of Persepolis in second.

Source: bbc.co.uk/football[/quote/


It shows how small and irrelevant the Saudi league is.

codedgalaxy:
They were three guy's who came into the supermarket, one was a well known "notorious gangbanger" in our neigbourhood, very popular for his numerous attrocities.
from a glimpse you could tell he was a little bit high. As curse words flew from every corner of his mouth. What was his problem nobody could comprehend, but he did well in dishing out his venom to everyone present, even the manager of the establishment wasn't exempted from his vile charade of shame.
Unluckily, my girlfriend happend to be present at the time,and she too received a fair portion of this rogue's tongue lashing.
Moved by her tranpled emotions She tried to confront the guy about his behaviour but she was no match for him, as he even threatened to go physical on her if she doesnt back down.
In tears she called me on phone to narrate her ordeal, of which i calmly told her that i will look into it.
Truth was, i never looked into it, but i was later informed that he repented of his actions and appologised.
.
Have you ever man(ed)up?

Truth is, not everything needs a reaction..sometimes you just lay back and observe cos you never know who has a weapon. Lots of guys have lost their lives just cos they wanted to play hero.

allsaint2000:
Hookup refers to casual sex or uncommitted and consensual sexual encounters, usually done for financial gains.

To put it plainly, hookup is just a fancy word for prostitution.

Typically, there is an agreement between the parties involved on what the expectation of the arrangement is and the responsibility of each party.

Hookup has become a fast spreading culture in Nigeria that has been especially aided by technology. These technologies ranges from the plethora of hookup or “dating” apps, e-hailing cab services, online hotel booking, etc.



In recent times, an incredible amount of women ( single and married) have been indulging in this trend either openly or discreetly. While economic reasons are attributed by some for their involment in this trend, a good number do it to finance their craving for a luxurious lifestyle.

In this article, we highlight ten signs to shows that a girl is into the hookup business.


She stays out all night

A woman always staying out all night is an unmistakable sign that she is into the hookup business. Of course, the exception is if she has a job that requires her to work nightshift.

Church vigil is also an exception. However, don’t be fooled! Some use church vigils as an excuse to leave the house at night. They actually might have a skimpy dress and make-up kit concealed in their handbags!


She has “Dating” apps on their phones



The rise in popularity of dating and “Hookup” apps is one factor that has significantly boosted the hookup trend.

Some popular apps that are used for hookup include Tinder, OkCupid, Bumble, Badoo, Olosho, Bingdum, Zoosk, SnapChat, EverMatch, Ablo, SweetMeet, OnlyFan, CodedRuns, etc.

These apps or sites are platforms for finding partners for hookup activities. Finding a partner on them is as easy as swiping right on a profile photo. This has made the trend increasingly popular as a huge number of hookup females are registered on these platforms either openly or discretly.

Therefore, If you find any of these apps on a girl's phone, chances are high that she is into hookup.


She gets a call, dresses up in a hurry, and leaves the house

One good sign that a girl is into hookup is when she gets a call, and then proceeds to dress up in a hurry and then leaves the house.

When a randy fellow discovers a girl that he likes on a hookup app, he then contacts her. After terms and conditions have been agreed upon, this often prompts the girl to up and leave the house in a hurry.

The need for haste is often so that the clients does not change his mind – or connect with some other hookup girl.

That’s right – when you notice a girl scurry out of the house, especially in a provocative attire, and straight into a waiting Uber, she is likely off to a hookup venue.


She often posts pictures of hotel rooms on her status



After the hookup business has been concluded in a hotel, guesthouse, or serviced apartment, the client – especially the married ones – would depart to their homes, leaving the girl in the hotel room.

This period affords her the opportunity to take as much selfies as possible in the beautiful ambience that the hotel room provides.

Therefore, if she is always posting pictures or videos of hotel rooms or mirror selfies on her Insta-stories, WhatsApp status, tiktok, etc – especially when she is wearing white towels or bathroom gowns – then she is most likely into hookup.


She twerks on her whatsapp Status or tiktok
Twerking, dancing seductively or posting obscene picture of her body on social media is a fantastic strategy for attracting patronage for hookup.

Posting sultry photos or videos on her social media account is bound to lure randy men on her contact list.

So if she does these frequently, then there is a huge possibility that she is hunting for patrons for hookup.


She lives in a shared apartment with other girls



In big cities in Nigeria, hookup girls typically live in shared apartments. This is especially common in exclusive areas with close proximity to rich potential clients.

A hookup girl typically cohabits in the shared apartments with other females, who are often in the same line of business. This way, they split the expensive rents amongst themselves, which are paid either weekly or monthly.

In Lagos, these sort of shared apartments are common on the Island especially in places like Lekki Phase 1, Chevyview Estate, Ikota Villa Estate, Osapa London, etc. On the mainland, they abound in places like Festac, Allen Avenue, Opebi, etc.


She flaunts expensive stuff without any identifiable source of income

She is always flaunting expensive phones, hair attachments, bags, jewelries, etc but she has no identifiable means of income.

Chances are high that those items were acquired with the proceeds from the hookup business.


She is into hard drugs or alcohol



Hookup business is no easy business. It requires energy, boldness and fearlessness to deal with and have sex with strangers. To overcome these issues and to boost their energy and confidence, women in the hookup business often turn to hard drugs or alcohol.

So, a woman who is into recreational drugs such as Marijuana, tramadol, Colorado, shisha, etc is most likely into the hookup business.


She poses as an online vendor

Hookup girls often camouflage as an online vendors who sell clothes, jewelries, perfumes, hair, bags, etc. Some also claim to be actresses, social media lifestyle influencers, video vixens, makeup artistes, etc.

However, a keen observation would reveal that their inventories or type of work cannot possibly be the source of their expensive or luxurious lifestyle.



She is facinated by Body enhancement or tattoo



In the hookup business, a banging body attracts high patronage, especially from the big spenders. This is one reason why most women in the sex trade are often obsessed with the idea of enhancing their bodies by surgical methods.

If a girl is facinated by body enhancement, or she has undergone medical procedures such as Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL), Breast augumentation, etc, she is most likely a hookup girl.



Bonus

She keeps an extra phone

A smart business move by hookup girls is to own a dedicated phone for the hookup business. On this phone, she advertises herself flirtatiously on her whatapp and social media account to elicit interest from randy clients.

Typically, none of her close friends or family are on the contact list neither do they have the phone number of this line. In this manner, relatives and friends remain unaware of her hookup activities.


Credit: https://jojonaija.com/how-to-know-if-a-girl-is-into-hookup/

Ur article was making sense until you added ur last and "bonus" point.

In case you don't know, anyone one, just anyone can own a spare phone. Ok..

So delete that thrash you wrote there.

Thanks.

Kemistri3:
This house was built entirely with mud🔥🔥😍


What are your thoughts? Drop them below

When primitive technology meets modern-day engineering /architecture.

This is applaudable.👏👏

Kobojunkie:
1. How in the world does that constitute valid proof?

2. You without experience of any kind, you simply belief anything you are told?,

I have had my experiences too, don't get me wrong.
I'm only saying the Bible also made it expressly clear that the spiritual realm exists, that's all.

ChildOfDoom:
So I got paid yesterday, it's almost all gone today.

Even when I try to stop one addiction, the other consumes me.

Seems difficult to stop all

One leads to the other, I noticed

When I masturbate hard, I get dehydrated and take lots of junk and pepsi (at times two or three a day)

I then long for sex. Currently had sex with four girls in two different brothels within two days. One of the rounds was during office hours today (imagine)

Then when broke, I think of betting to 'recover'

My body seems wired for evil

It's the only thing that thrills me

Over 84k gotten yesterday. paid betting debt of 30k. Food and Olosho took some

Left with 27k for the next 30 days. Had to give it to a colleague to help me hold and give me little by little

I don't trust myself

Damn, you are so finished, man.

Kobojunkie:
You mean your special interpretation of that verse is proof of your belief in the spiritual?

No...thats just a valid proof that the spiritual realm exists, nothing more.
One doesn't need to experience anything.

AwokenVawulence:
I'm sure we have all been in the position of thinking if a close friend is helping situation or bringing more problems. I'm currently in university and every is feeling the heat from the current economy, I recently entered university as I came I couldn't buy gas cylinder and other equipment that would enable me to cook as it's cheaper than eating out, so sometimes ( about 4 times) I use gas from this friend, note we bought the gas together.
Sometimes we go to the market to buy some foodstuffs I average contribute about 30% of the amount spent. About 10 days ago his family member gave him 10k he used it to buy perfume , chain and other stuff worth almost 8k I was angry but didn't show it ( why not use it to buy more foodstuffs ) . Sometimes when I go out to eat he comes and meet me there and due to the fact of I don't like eating when a friend around me hasn't eaten I buy him food or we share the one I bought .

Now on Friday I went home bye my gas and foodstuffs because it saves money and since I came back he has been eating with me daily,this has taking a great stress on the foodstuffs I brought back because what my parents gave me wasn't ment for two people and I am to use it till December.
So please how would do I go about this , I don't know how to tell him to stop coming because I used his gas when I didn't have and he is close friend.And also what scares me is that he currently doesn't have any provision due to the fact that he spent it on perfume and does stuff I listed before which probably means he is going to keep coming for a while

Note - I only used his gas and the foodstuff 4 times mainly because I contribute less( 30%) and know am not entitled as much as a higher percentage , and I only go to his room when only I haven't eaten due to maybe my parents not sending the cash on time not every f**cking day

You need to man up bro.
Manage ur resources alone.
You no lap anybody come school besides you are still a fresher and you don't need to be anyone's responsibility.

Lance008:
Most of us don't believe on spiritual stuff till some event that made us believe it's exit
Mine was when a pastor die days after fighting the gods in the community

The Bible says in Ephesians 6:12 "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places"..

This alone , is enough proof.

There is a realm beyond the physical and the spiritual influences the physical.

Joystic:
My life is about to take a downward spin again.. just few months after getting my shit together, now it's all being threatened and I'm about to lose everything again.

I got a bike, which I'm using for logistics to make ends meet. Just this morning I was arrested by traffic police for taking one way.. I tried to explain to them that from the design of the road, it's impossible to tell if it's one way or not. I didn't do it intentionally. But they wouldn't have any of it.

They seized my bike and are demanding for #50,000 before they release it or it's going to be auctioned. I'm so down right now.

I have absolutely no other means of survival. I spent a lot on maintenance this past week, I've not recovered and now this.

Please any kind hearted person should come to my aid and raise me, I'll be very grateful.

Mmm..na wao.
This is sad.
First, don't you have any savings?
My only advise to you now is to try running around and see if friends or any acquaintance of urs can help with anything promising them to pay back the moment you get ur bike and hit the road again. Whatever you can raise you take it to the traffic police guys and plead with them, I don't think they will refuse it. It's tough on everyone right now añd they all know it.

I'm really sorry my friend.

Cruise777:
I hope 🤞 if someone created a thread and made similar reference to Igbo claiming hunger has battered them

You won't cry or wail

Because I wonder why someone with proper home training would just try and look for trouble of 41 million Yorubas minding their business

Using Yoruba man's platform

You westerners don't like hearing the truth.
Why?

Where is the lie in what he said?
Even with the hardship you are experiencing currently, ur tribalism is what is more important to you.

God forbid.

LoveUdie:

1. Don't marry her if you don't love her, you must love your wife in marriage, I mean you MUST!

2. Don't marry her if you can't accept her past including the baby she had by mistake.

3. Don't marry her if you don't want to have anything to do with all her family members.

4. Don't marry her if you hate her looks.

5. Don't marry her if she hates you or finds you disgusting.

6. Don't marry her if she does not believe in your vision and future.

7. Don't marry her if she is an unrepentant waste of resources.

8. Don't marry her if she is lazy, completely laid back, and incorrigibly idle.

9. Don't marry her if she shamelessly flirts around.

10. Don't marry her if she is proud, rude, pompous, unteachable, abusive, saucy, sassy, arrogant, snobbish, and high-minded!

11. Don't marry her if she is an unrepentant feminist and you hate feminists.

12. Don't marry her if you are the very jealous, hot-tempered type and she is very beautiful and intelligent. No matter how faithful she is, you will distrust, cage, and abuse her. Men with borderline personality disorder, chauvinists, narcissists, and paranoid can't handle an extremely beautiful and intelligent woman.

13. Don't marry her if you hate her religion.

14. Don't marry her if she earns more than you and you are jealous of her success. Either you go out and earn more or appreciate her, respect her, and encourage her to earn more and succeed otherwise, marry a woman below your size.

15. Don't marry her if she is not God's will for you.

The bottom line, marry someone whom you completely agree with and agree with. That is what is in Amos 3:3.

Marriage is the complete acceptance of someone else while helping them to become better.

If you can't accept her totally and help her become a better woman, please, don't marry her. Marriage is not by force so that... https://www.gistreal.ng/?m=1

© Seun Oladele.

You will never find a perfect woman. Just follow ur heart and marry for love.

nelboy:
I noticed that many older single ladies have anger issues and many times are very stubborn. Could this be the reason why they are still single

Many are just frusterated.

LoveUdie:

"You are stupid!"
"You are ugly."
"You are not attractive to me anymore..."
"You are fat!"
"What is that? Stretch mark?"
"You are a failure in bed."
"My EX is far better than you are."
"I regret marrying you?"
"Why are your breasts sagging?" (Who sagged them? 😂😂😂)
"You are a failure."
"You are lazy!"
"You will never amount to anything in life!"
"You are a bad wife"
"You are barren!" (If she is still looking for the fruit of the womb).
"You are a non-entity." (Because she came from a poor background).

And so many other derogatory names I'm not comfortable typing. Women respond to words. Words can make a woman blossom or wither. There is no perfect woman anywhere! Virtuous women don't drop from heaven, their husbands made them. If there is anything you don't like about her, loving and prayerfully correct instead of abusing and destroying her self-esteem!

Women are very concerned about their body image. We love to look beautiful to our man and sexually appealing to him as well. When you focus on the physical effects, criticize, condemn, and abuse her, you register your rejection and her self-esteem goes down to zero!

No woman thrives on abuse! She thrives on admiration, affection, compassion, and love.

What are the areas she is doing exceptionally well? Appreciate her, admire her, sing her praises and she will be more confident to face her challenges and deal with her weaknesses.

Never use her family background against her. Her family means. a lot to her. Don't compare her with your EX, if your EX is better, why did she dump you? Never tag her as a bad wife or mother because she didn't perform to expectation. Be careful what you prophesy on your wife because they will come to pass ...he shall have whatsoever he saith..." (Mark 11:23).

That you are facing challenges in your marriage does not mean you should regret your marriage; you are simply going through a phase and that phase will pass. Be careful with your utterances.

Many women are suffering from depression, paranoia, psychosis, mental disorders, and satanic oppression due to the constant abuse they are experiencing in their marriages. It is like going through hell! Verbal abuse and rejection are like going through hell. No one experiences them constantly and keep sane!

A happy wife is the product of a wise, godly, mature husband.
Use your tongue wisely and your wife is going to..https://www.gistreal.ng/2023/10/5-quick-ways-to-get-over-your-past.html

Good post but pls this shouldnt be for women alone. No human being, man or woman should be told those words.

Nigerialabalaba:
We’re In Lagos Because Wealthy Igbos Are shunning Home – Kidnappers Tells Victim

Alexa News Editor

A Lagos businessman who was abducted in Ago Palace Way, Lagos two weeks ago has been released after paying N30 million as ransom. He was kidnapped by four hooded men who cornered him, midnight, as he was going to enter his car, packed in the garage.

His abductors called a day after, demanding a ransom of N100 million but family members and friends were able to raise N30 million before he was released.

His abductors called a day after, demanding a ransom of N100 million but family members and friends were able to raise N30 million before he was released.

The middle-aged Chief Executive Officer, CEO, of his company who pleaded passionately that his name should not be used because the kidnappers threatened to come back for him if he spoke on the incident told Crime Guard that he was taking a big risk by narrating what he suffered throughout the two weeks he spent with his abductors.

“I felt that I could only talk about the trauma and psychological torture they subjected me to so that it will arouse consciousness and alert security agencies over what to expect in the coming days,” he stated.

According to him, I saw hell in the hands of those kidnappers and they were boasting that they will soon take over Lagos and the police cannot match their firepower.

“They abducted me that weekend as I was coming out from my bar to enter my garage and drive off. They came with an SUV and as they were flashing their light, I pulled out my car and was heading towards the main gate when a mini bus popularly called Keke blocked the main gate. I thought they were avoiding the bad portion of the road but while I waited, the SUV blocked my car.

“They came out from their car, one of them was flashing what looked like an identity card, shouting DSS while another started releasing gun shots at the same time, pulling me out from my car. They pushed me into their car, forced me to lie low and sped off. We continued moving while they tied a cloth over my eyes. Notably, when we raced for some minutes, one of them who I suspect to be their informant and probably, a force man, got down from their car. I said a force man because of the way he spoke to them while we were leaving my bar.

“We moved for interminable hours until they got to a spot. They stopped and led me into a building like a flat and chained me on the legs. Then, they started beating me with different weapons, some as strong as iron, some like the normal sticks. They warned me that if I try to remove the cloth over my eyes, they would simply ‘waste me’. So, I was just receiving severe beatings and torture with my eyes covered. To me, it was as if a stone would fall on my head any moment and kill me. I was crying like a baby.

“For the period I was there, almost two weeks, they were feeding me with an apple and water daily. Earlier, they wanted to know what I would eat but I was afraid of being poisoned and I told them just apples.

“The beating and torture continued until I heard another of their victims who was kidnapped, raising his voice. He was boasting and telling them; “Is it not money you want? Don’t beat me. I will give you money.” On hearing this, they calmed down and I used the opportunity to open the scarf they used blindfolding me slightly. I saw three of them. It is like they divided themselves into groups. Those that target their victims are different from those that guard the victims and those that negotiate for ransom. This is because the moment the man said ‘I will give you money’, they made frantic calls while at the same time going through his phones.

“The story took another dimension when they saw only N10m in the man’s account and they rebuked him and quickly transferred the money into their account. Unfortunately for the man, as they were complaining that the money was not commensurate with his boast, alert was received in the man’s phone and from the way they jubilated, it must be a huge sum. They did not waste time in releasing the man. I saw that there were other kidnap victims chained in the room. Some were chained in both hands and legs while some, like me, were chained only on the leg.

“After that, as I quickly covered my eyes, they turned towards me and started telling me that they have now landed in Lagos and would go to any extent to get all they wanted. They said that while they were operating in the east, they did not know that they were just getting akara money. That now in Lagos, they were making real money.

“They said that they decided to relocate to Lagos when they noticed that wealthy Igbo people in Lagos refused coming home for fear of being kidnapped. But now, they have landed in Lagos and both the police and any other security agency cannot withstand their firepower. They boasted that they will face the police, fire for fire, juju for juju, and nobody can stop them until all the wealthy Igbo people in Lagos pay through their noses . Their targets are Igbos.

“While they were boasting, they were threatening to kill me if I failed to pay N100m. Luckily, my family and friends rallied round and were able to pay N30m. At this stage, they told me to get ready for my release. One of them whispered to me to beg his gang members to release my bag and phones which I did and they obliged me. The polythene bag contained all the beverages I bought for my daughter who was to go back to school a day after I was kidnapped.

“They took me in their car and when we got to a tarred road, they pushed me out with my eyes still covered. They also warned that I should not remove what they used in covering my eyes and I was wondering what they expected me to do in that condition. However, few seconds after they zoomed off in their vehicle, I opened my eyes and could not say where I was. I was on a tarred road and I managed to cross over to the next lane where cars were passing. It was not easy for me to walk again because they tied my legs throughout the period I was in their den and it was as If I was learning how to walk again.

While across the road, a bus passed by and all efforts to stop the bus failed. Few minutes later, I saw a keke passing by and I flagged it down. Luckily, the driver stopped and I asked him to help me, that I was kidnapped and just released. The driver asked my name and when I told him, he shouted saying he heard about my kidnap. He told me that I was at Governor’s Road. Ikotun. That’s how he graciously brought me back to my place at midnight,” he stated.

When asked if police visited him since his release, he said;”Nooooo, I was told that after they kidnapped me and released bullet shots, some policemen came and hovered around. That’s all. Up till now, I have not seen any policeman.”

Meanwhile, Crime Guard learned that some concerned residents of Ago Palace Way have been complaining bitterly about the state of affairs at the Ago Police station following the rising cases of crime in the area. One of them who was interviewed but refused to disclose his name for fear of victimization alleged: “We had been lucky to have two female Divisional Police officers in the past and they performed excellently well. If they were here, what is going on now would have been nipped in the bud, all these criminals would have rounded up.

“The ceaseless rate of kidnappings and other serious crimes going on here is not encouraging at all. I know as one of the stakeholders that the DPO has been inundating us with requests for money to put the three patrol cars they have on the road. I can say authoritatively that as I speak, none of the vehicles is on the road while we continued to pay for them to be on the road. The menace of commercial motorcyclists in the densely populated and ever-busy area has quadrupled since the DPO who came for election duties took over. Perhaps, he is seeing his continued stay in Ago as an entitlement for one that conducted election and not a police officer posted to maintain peace and fight crime.

“I am aware that all these kidnappings were reported at the station but no significant effort was made to get to the root of the matter. I was told reliably that there is disquiet even among officers and men of the force working under him because of his penchant to chase shadows while criminals have taken over his area of jurisdiction. The new Commissioner of Police should not hesitate to overhaul officers and men in that station so that we can sleep with our eyes closed.”

Meanwhile, sources hinted that members of the gang normally position themselves at any of the numerous speed breakers that dot the long road from Ago Roundabout to Apple Junction and look out for flashy cars. It was gathered that the moment they spot any flashy car, they could trail the owner to his destination and come for him thereafter. So far, it was also learned that some wealthy business men living in the area have relocated for fear of being kidnapped. More than five cases of kidnapping have happened in the area in few months.

https://www.alexa.ng/2023/10/21/were-in-lagos-because-wealthy-igbos-are-shunning-home-kidnappers-tells-victim.html

What an ordeal..

Na wao

Validated:


What is this one saying? Who is talking about election here? Does FBI sound like INEC to you?

you dey mind the ode.

gunners160:
This is me

fvck
who be this

2aces:
So I was helping my four year old daughter today with her home fun, reading the queens primer given by her school, and I was shocked to my marrow at some of the words and sentences these kids are being psychologically indoctrinated with into homosexuality. Children were made to say a sentence like "LET US BE GAY"
I was alarmed and had to immediately call the owner of the school to lay complaint and she too screamed blood of Jesus, that she always go through all materials before handing out to the teachers but this very one being the popular "queens primer" she never expected such to be inside and she had returned several books in the past on social studies that contained homosexual contents like two dads and two mums etc. She even told me some school owners get paid huge sums of dollars to intentionally circulate these materials in their schools!
She thanked me and promised to withdraw the "new queens primer" from her school.

Dear parents, always be aware of the information your kids consume cos nowadays you dont have to be in us or uk for your kids to be at risk of indoctrination. Be alert

the word gay can also mean cheerful or happy.

so no fear, they were correct in that book

wrongnumber:


Now that CSU has also confirmed he presented a forged certificate to INEC.

The outcome is clear... If supreme court does not remove him. The military or Nigerians will

its that simple

Toks2008:
When Atiku was doing all he can to dig out Tinubu's records, many people thought he was not aware that indeed Tinubu graduated from the school but Atiku was looking for something else.

He was indeed trying to lay his hands on many falsified documents presented to Chicago state university by Tinubu at the time he was admitted.

This was why Tinubu was fighting tooth and nail to stop Atiku from laying his hands on his academic records. But now that it is out, we have seen beyond every reasonable doubt that indeed Tinubu falsified Documents to gain admission into Chicago state university.

Now this is where it gets interesting...

Many universities have policies in place that allow them to revoke degrees if it is discovered that a student falsified any documents, including those used during the admission process. This is often considered a serious academic offense and a violation of the university's code of conduct and ethical standards.

If a university discovers that a student provided false information or forged documents to gain admission or secure a degree, it can result in disciplinary actions, including degree revocation. Revoking a degree is a significant step and is usually taken after a thorough investigation and following due process.

This is a standard practice in many universities, including Chicago State University, and across the United States for degrees to be revoked if it is discovered that a student gained admission or the degree itself through falsification of documents.

The question now is which document was falsified by Tinubu?

Among the documents released to Atiku, It is clear that Tinubu falsified his graduation from Government college Lagos as seen in the image attached.

Tinubu submitted a forged document to Chicago State University claiming he graduated from Government College Lagos in MAY 1970 but the school was formed in 1974.

This singular act is more than enough reason for Chicago state university to revoke the degree awarded because the institution will waste no time in clearing their name off the mess Tinubu has created for himself.

Well, time will tell.
We are all waiting to see where all this drama ends.

englishmart:
Mature mind only

As a lady your boyfriend took u to his family house for the first time and u met her mother cooking, are you suppose to join her in the kitchen or u seat as a visitor and allow her to finish the cooking and serve u ?
Remember it's the first time meeting the family

its polite to ask his mum if you may be of help, but at the same time you must know your boundaries cos he hasn't proposed to you yet...you are still and just his girlfriend.

just use ur head.

Artiiclebeast:
What a disgraceful ambassador.

That guy is a disgrace. Dude forgot he is in a country and society where the law allows women to wield more power than men. she can easily accuse him of harassment or even rape and he ll rot in prison for something he didn't even do.
He is a complete idiot.

guobe:
I always love helping people and felt it will be better I empower individuals instead of doing giveaways which will not yield any meaningful impact at the end of the day.
I came up with an empowerment of 100,000 naira and expected the money to move from one individual to the other.
The first person to benefit was Mr Dexcelin and he said he was good at garri processing.He was initially given the sum of 100,000 naira transfer I did but some couple of days later he said he was stalk and would need 10,000 naira for transportation which I first sent 10,000 naira to him but network bank issues occurred and I sent another 10,000 naira to him again which he received and claimed he didn't receive the first 10,000 naira.
To cut the story short this Dexcelin stopped communicating with me and his phone went unreachable.
A couple of weeks later he claimed he received that 10,000 naira and he has used the money to buy a phone.
Couple of days later Mr Dexcelin blocked me on whatsapp and through phone.
I had to tell a police inspector to call him and when the police inspector called him and told him to pay me back my money.
Mr Dexcelin called me and promised to pay me in 2 days time and in 2 days time Mr Dexcelin did not pay me and blocked me and blocked the police inspector also.
This necessitated me using my connect to track him down as he was tracked and arrested at Portharcourt yesterday.
You can now see the way people use in blocking the way of other people. It is well.

If this is true then more grease to ur elbow
As a matter of fact, evil will always thrive but that shouldnt stop you from doing good.
May God bless you.

Emma1Oj:
I'm even tempted to say MARRIAGE IS A SCAM even the ones that are married are looking for a way out.

you arent far from the truth sha but at the same time,its a necessity.

Pukkalolo:
The girl you love says "I needs space..." Or she gives you any other "I'm breaking up with you" epistle...

Or if she just threatens to end the relationship....

Do you know the BEST WAY to respond to her?

Well, here is it:

Just say, “Ok”

And end your interaction with her.

Don't attempt to try to Change her Mind.

The more you try to change her mind, the more she’s going see how needy and desperate you are... This will even then harden her mind more.

Just say, “Ok”.... and move on with your life like it's doesn't bother you.

As long as you don't go back chasing her, and you confidently move on with your life, then life with randomly open doors for other women to come in to your life.

You are a true king.

Kepukepu:
I'm not trying to talk down on girls as I'm not that kind of person. I respect every girl in the house but this is a very big concern for me.
I have observed that at least 6 out of every 10 new ladies I meet usually come down with vagina odour. The odour is characteristically "not very good" and it affects my sexual behavior towards such ladies. Not just sexual behavior, it affects how I behave to such lady in a negative way. This odour become more pronounced when having sex in a doggy position ( I hope most guys can relate). I don't like that odour sincerely, I am very sensitive to smell and thus can determine if we will last or not.

I usually feel like it's of no use discussing such issues with them because I can just move on, so my question are:

1. Do other guys perceive this odour in many girls?
2. Is it okay to discuss this issue with them?
3. If yes, then how can one discuss such sensitive issue?

The reason why I'm asking is because I have a girl that matches almost everything I want in a woman but she has this odour, I want to settle with her but sincerely, I can't even have sex with her anymore because of this odour. The last time she came to my house, I touched just her just once and that's it for the next 2 weeks. If I keep perceiving this odour and I ignore it to marry her, our sex life will be messed up and I will definitely cheat on her because i won't feel like having sex with her.

You aren't alone in this my bro. Most of us guys have experienced it once or twice. But the thing is, i think most girls aren't so sensitive to their body, no matter how curvy or beautiful they look. Most don't wash down there frequently. For some its just poor hygiene and for others it could be an infection. In ur case, i think you should man up and tell ur girl since you have future plans with her so as to know steps to take.