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Family › Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Rickmann: 7:48am On Jan 18, 2022
uthlaw:
everything will be alright after she kill him,what is really wrong with so many of this SIMP... You are also talking about been love,where is the love...ogbeni,stop deceiving yourself!
Read careful and learn to digest people's posts before commenting ok?
Family › Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Rickmann: 7:47am On Jan 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
It could be mental illness.... I could happen to anyone of us. undecided

And the last thing OP should do is resort to violence. Two wrongs never make a right, especially in this case. lipsrsealed
Very true.
Business › Re: Help Me!! My Money Is Missing. by Rickmann: 3:15pm On Jan 17, 2022
kripen:
I transferred money to an account of almost 400k from an ATM machine of a bank. Since 3 days now the money has not hit the recipient acc which he even went to confirm, and me I have not receive the money back to my acc .

Please, is there any way this money can be lost without knowing where the money is. For now I called my customer care though I have not gone to the bank. He told me the money was paid to POS or withdrew from POS.

My question also is, can money go to POS without hitting account first? I confirmed the account with the name before sending it that day.

I don't want to lost this money. I need your help?
Oga rush to ur bank and stop crying here.
Family › Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Rickmann: 2:19pm On Jan 17, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:
Most married Men today will tell you BABY MAMA is now much preferable.
Ladies of today are completely different.
MEN changed to become supple rather than stronger. Misinterpretation of Religion caused all these. Even the Bible had stronger men.
In fact, we changed from being strong & capable to being weak & incapable.

Far back in Southern Nigeria, MEN married 4 to 6 wives & still had concubines. This was just from 60 to more than 200yrs years ago. Not too Far!
You are so correct.
Family › Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Rickmann:
Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,
My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding. It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife. Again this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young
Honestly stories like this makes me fear marriage.. A girl is all loving, tender and sweet in a relationship and suddenly after marriage she becomes a monster... I just don't understand.

This is a real test for you. It's obvious she wants to push you into beating her. I'll encourage you to hold ur ground and be strong. Everything will be fine .
Romance › Re: Graphic; What A Chinese Man Was Caught Doing To Nigerian (picture) by Rickmann: 10:10am On Jan 17, 2022
mojibbz:
lipsrsealed
Okay...and women have only sex to offer.
Education › Re: 19-Year-Old Virgin Graduates From Taraba State University As She Celebrates (Pix by Rickmann:
CampussNews:
Update from SIGGY .ng

A Taraba State University (TSU) student by the name Justina Dauda, has celebrated her graduation at the young age of 19 and as a 'virgin', Siggy reports.

Taking to Facebook on Sunday, January 16, the Political Science and International Relations graduate declared herself as the youngest prospective corps member from Taraba State.


https://web.facebook.com/justinamahmud.dauda

https://campusnews.medium.com/taraba-university-student-celebrates-as-she-graduates-at-19-still-a-virgin-photos-34900a1d0cd6
This country sef..
What's wrong with our reasoning for heaven's sake?
Why do we always celebrate stupid things?

It's arguably normal for a 19 year old girl to remain in check and still be a virgin.
If you celebrate a 19 year old, what will you say about a 27 or 28 year old virgin.

The mental slavery in this country is second to none, let's free ourselves pls..
These are thing the westerners see and continue to laugh and suppress us.
Family › Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by Rickmann: 7:16am On Jan 17, 2022
Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.
For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later. However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.
I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.
Or am I the one taking too much risk?
You failed to realise that she has to forge her own path. That may be what you want but that won't give her happiness hence her reason for declining.

Pls reason with her.
Politics › Re: The Ekumeku Resistance ; British Vs Igbo War by Rickmann: 1:21pm On Jan 16, 2022
EmmaJnr1:
THE EKUMEKU RESISTANCE
THE EKUMEKU One of the Reasons The British Hates the Igbos!
The British-Igbo War That Lasted For 31 YEARS:

The resolutions of the Berlin conference of 1884-1885, gave European nations the rights to lay claim to lands and resources in Africa.

Britain, who had engaged in the trade with coastal cities before and during the 19th century, made bold their intentions to covet resources and rule over indigenous nations all over Africa. Tribes resisted the British invaders, and this led to protracted wars. Many African tribes put up a great fight against the superior fire power of the suppressive British.

One of such tribes are the Igbo people of ancient Biafra, who are now one of the three major tribes in Nigeria.

The Ekuemeku Movement was the name of Igbo army, that held the British at bay and fought them for 31 years.

The Ekumeku movement consisted of a great number of attacks and uprising by the Anioma people of land, against the British, from 1893-1914.

The Ekumeku warriors were bound by a secrete oath, and meticulously utilized guerrilla tactics to attack the British Royal company, who were determined to penetrate Igbo land. The Ekumeku warriors were drawn from thousands of Anioma youth from all parts of Anioma land.

As the war rages on, the Ekumeku warriors defended their rights tom live peacefully without foreign interjection, while the British used heavy armaments. They destroyed homes, farms, and roads, by bombardment.

The British invaded Ndoni in 1870 and bombarded Onicha-Ado (Onicha) on November 2nd, 1897, from River Niger. This set the tempo for the rest of the war. The Royal Niger Company was commanded by Major Festing. They engaged the Anioma people of Ibusa in 1898.

The battle was so severe in 0wa/Okwunzu, in 1904, that the commander W.E.B Crawford requested for more arms from the British headquarters to crush the Western Anioma communities. The people of Owa again in 1906 engaged the British in a gruesome battle that consumed the life of the British commander S. O. Crewe.

Ogwashi-Ukwu faced the British on the 2nd of November 1909, and dealt a heavy blow to the British, who sustained many casualties, with the death of H. C. Chapman.

The Ekumeku became a formidable force in Igbo land and was a great source of nationalism for the Anioma people. It also served as a uniting cord that held together various towns who were independent of each other in the past. The Igbo were a republican people and each town had a leadership that was drawn from its oldest of men and families.

The war would have lasted longer, and possibly ended in a British defeat, if the Anioma people had equivalent fire power, and had more allies from other great Igbo kingdoms and towns. But even at that point, other tribes were facing the British on their own.

After almost 20 years of battle, decided to strike with great force. And in December of 1902, they sent a powerful expedition to Anioma kingdom. A great number of towns were destroyed. Civilians and soldiers alike were killed. And their leaders were arrested and imprisoned.

After this, the British were sure that they had suppressed the Ekumeku military cult, and that victory was theirs. The British officers boasted: “the Ekumeku and other secret societies have been completely broken.”

To their greatest surprise, two years later, in 1904, the fearless Ekumeku rose again. The Igbo are a proud and egalitarian people. They don’t go down that easily.

When the Ekumeku started their renewed campaign, they changed tactics, and abandoned the guerrilla warfare style of 1989, for individual defense of each town.

The last battle began in 1909. There was a succession dispute in Ogwashi-ukwu, and the British tried to remove the rightful king and enthrone someone else. One of the heirs to the throne, Nzekwe, the son of the last Obi, sensed the plot of the British and went to war with them to fight for his inheritance.

On November 2nd 1909, the British sent an expedition to Ogwashi-ukwu to capture him, but they failed. No amount of fire power at that point could defeat or quench the sympathy and dedication of the people towards the Ekumeku. In Asaba, the sympathy for the Ekumeku was so high that the people had a disposition to throw off the already British government in certain parts.

At the time, the acting Lieutenant-governor of the Southern provinces sent an agitated telegram to Lagos. It read: “Whole country is above are… is the state of rebellion.”

After this, reinforcements were sent from Lokoja, for another confrontation at Akegbe. The war raged on, till 1914, when the Ekumeku movement was defeated. That was the same year, the Northern and Southern protectorates of Nigeria were joined as one country.

Some of the heroes of that 31-year war included Dunwku Isus of Onicha-Olona, Nwabuzo Iyogolo of Ogwashi-Ukwu, Awuno Ugbo, Obi of Akumazi, Aggbambu Oshue of Igbuzo, the Idabor of Issele-Ukwu, Ochei Aghaeze of Onicha-olona, Abuzu of Idumuje-Unor, Idegwu Otokpoike of Ubulu-Ukwu. These men are remembered in Anioma land till date.

The Ekumeku war remains one of most bravely fought wars and campaign against British rule and plundering. It later inspired other rebellions around Africa, such as the Mau Mau of Kenya.

The Ekumeku have long been defeated, and that kingdom is now part of the greater Igbo land, in today’s Nigeria. But no matter how far we travel in time, history always remembers that a brave tribe defended their ancestry, heritage and legacy against the tyranny of Wilberforce.

Till date, in Nigeria, the Igbo remains one of the few tribes that still resist British rule over them and their resources. It can be said that these sentiments were at play when the British supplied weapons to the Hausa Fulanis in the Northern part and the Yorubas in the Western part of Nigeria to fight and kill the Igbos during the Nigeria Biafra War between 1967-1970 .

BRITISH EV!LS AND ATROCITIES AGAINST IGBOS ARE UNCOUNTABLE!!!
History has been so kind to us and we will never forget..

I am proudly igbo.
Romance › Re: Even With Konji, What Is That Thing That Can Easily Turn Off Your Sexual urge? by Rickmann: 1:09pm On Jan 16, 2022
EkiranAlexmedia:
Even With Serious Konji, What Is That Thing That Can Easily Turn Off Your Sexual Urge?

Everyone has various tastes and views about sex and their partners as a whole. As guys hate something about ladies, so do ladies hate things about guys also.

These days, people see sex as an art and a way of living. it is also a mean of earning to some people. There are various things that can turn someone off during sex.

Some people don’t get fully active when they don’t get the type or level of girl they want.

Some girls have some offensive odor during sex. Some don’t like partners that shout, different things etc.

Some guys like a lady with bushy private part while some guys like a private part that is dry and hair free like an Expressway on Environmental sanitation day ���

Today, we’ve got a question for you all �

Guys/Ladies – What Is That Thing That Can Easily Turn Off Your Sexual Urge?
We want to hear from you all.

Drop your comments.
A dirty girl no matter how pretty you look will turn me off instanta.
Romance › Re: This Is Exactly How SIMPS Disgrace Manhood In The DMs Of Random Wh0r£s!! (photo) by Rickmann: 12:03pm On Jan 16, 2022
TheGidRedpiller:
I have said this without number and apparently its beginning to look like i will have to keep saying it forever; NO WOMAN IS WORTH LOOSING YOUR DIGNITY FOR!!

Not i any walks of life will a real man ever deem it fit to bring himself down just to appear appealing to a female, NEVER!
I can totally understand the urge to get a random girl, i totally understand what it feels like for a man to crush on a woman, we crush hard and most times we just go in full because we could get overwhelmed! But it still doesn't guarantee you being stupid for a woman, it has never been that serious and funny enough, WOMEN THEMSELVES HATE SERIOUS MEN!!

Why would i look at myself through and through and then think it wise to belittle myself in the DM of a random girl who is probably not even worth but i just have to look in between the lines to figure it outhuh
I mean take a look at the photo below, i got it off facebook late last night undecided

Still Typing...
What planet is this fool from?
Cos he is even worse than simps from earth. grin
Celebrities › Re: My Sh*t Is Automated : Cubana Chief Priest Show Off His Super Automated Water Cl by Rickmann: 11:51am On Jan 14, 2022
Viralmagg:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUJXLnjp60g

Cubana Chief Priest is Full of Surprises .

The Celebrity Bar man and a Club Owner Show off his Automated Water Closet on his Instagram page



https://www.instagram.com/tv/CYr4BsPludk/?utm_medium=copy_link
When you die make you carry ur shit and toilet go heaven.

Nonsense !
Education › Re: Meet Lady With Bsc In Maths And Masters In Actuarial Science Who Sells Food by Rickmann: 9:11am On Jan 14, 2022
faith2kool:
Doris Obenewaa a First Degree holder in mathematics and a Masters holder in Actuarial Science has resorted to selling food due to unemployment.

Narrating her story in an interview, Doris indicates that she holds a bachelor’s degree in Mathematics after which she went ahead to study for an MSc in Actuarial Science, both at the Kwame Nkrumah University of Science and Technology.

She added that during her first year in Akwamuman SHS in Akosombo where she studied General Science, the brilliant young lady lost her mother and in the first year after SHS, her father suffered a terrible stroke.

She resorted to studying Mathematics and barely had any support from anyone as she had to virtually do everything for herself and rely on the kindness of some strangers throughout her four-year school period.

After national service, Doris was offered a 3-month contract and then moved to a contracting company (ESCO company limited) within Goldfields with a role as a Data Analyst.

In less than a year, she was able to gather enough money and enrolled for her Masters in Actuarial Science in KNUST as a distance learning student.

But after a month of starting school, my contract was terminated for the reason that my schooling was taking most of my attention,” Doris recalls.

All of Doris’ savings were exhausted and she never got any other job, for which reason she had to resort to the sales of hair products and then moved on to start cooking, which was always her hobby.

“I loved to cook, garnish & post on my social media page. So I had people admiring my work and encouraging me to start my own food business. In January 2020, she heeded to the advice & invested the little savings I made from my hair product business to start OB’s Kitchen,” Doris narrates.

Speaking of her future aspiration, Doris intends to grow OB’s kitchen into a big restaurant with branches all over Ghana. However, she still seeks a corporate job as she desires to put her studies into use and also pursue a PhD.


source: https://tigblog.com.ng/2022/01/14/meet-lady-with-bsc-in-maths-and-masters-in-actuarial-science-who-sells-food/
Isn't it better for her?

This is one major problem with our tertiary institutional system.. students wasting their precious time with stupid and irrelevant courses. How does one apply actuarial science or mathematics in a failed system like Nigeria?
Crime › Re: Loan Company Declare Lady Dead, Distributes Obituaries To Relatives - Photo by Rickmann: 9:40am On Jan 13, 2022
NaijaRoyalty:
A micro loan company has been accused of declaring defaulters dead, designing and circulating the obituaries of such persons to family and friends.

A customer, Azuwuike Chinedu Achiever recently shared his experience with the loan company on social media.

He said he had defaulted in his repayment plan for five days and the next thing he saw was his obituary.

On a public group on Facebook, another customer of a loan app, Victoria Eyo Ekpo revealed she was also a victim and vowed not to repay the loan.

She said, “This is what Deloan (app) sent to me oooo. I will never pay. They called my mum and insulted her. May God help us.” (sic).

Ekpo added that she borrowed the sum of N15,000.

When PUNCH Online spoke with one of the contact persons of Deloans, who the Truecaller app identified as ‘Scammer,’ he denied ever doing that.

The contact person, who simply identified himself as Somto “How can I do something like that? Am I not a human being?”

Pressed further, he said he doesn’t have the authority to speak on the matter and that our reporter would need to speak to his bosses before abruptly ending the call.

Further calls to his line went unanswered.

Meanwhile, the Executive Vice Chairman/Chief Executive Officer, Federal Competition and Consumer Protection Commission, Babatunde Irukera, has said that the regulators in the financial system are collaborating to address what is fast becoming a dominant and abusive practice targeting some of the most vulnerable in the society.

Irukera said, “In November (2021), the Federal Competition and Consumer Protection Commission hosted a meeting attended by the chief executive officer of the Independent Corrupt Practices Commission, and representatives of the National Information Technology Development Agency and the Central Bank of Nigeria; in leading an effort to address multiple potentially dubious conduct of certain money lenders, otherwise known as loan sharks.

“Continuing complaints about questionable repayment enforcement practices including public shaming and violations of privacy, arbitrary, unjust, unreasonable, or exploitative interest rates and or loan balances calculations, harassment, and failure of consumer feedback mechanisms among others have led to significant and understandable consumer aggravation and dissatisfaction.”

https://punchng.com/loan-shark-declares-defaulters-dead-distributes-obituaries-to-relatives-friends/?amp

Lalasticlala Mynd44
All these useless and hungry loan companies should enjoy the moment...CBN is warming up for them. Them go see regulatory policies, tear race..
Education › Re: Davido Didn’t Allow His Course Mates Copy Him During Exams – Babcock Lecturer by Rickmann: 9:36am On Jan 13, 2022
Anigreat:
shocked



I hate it when an academia disgrace himself like this just to be noticed , probably be given a light change to put in the pocket.

Tell me Davido was whatever, and I will believe you without doubt, but don't tell me Davido was sound in academics. Davido doesn't look like someone that has good book head
Lol..you don't just judge from a distance you know?
Neither does academic brilliance tell on one's face.
You will be shocked.
Phones › Re: Is Twitter Working Without VPN At Your End? by Rickmann: 8:59am On Jan 13, 2022
wpadmin:
The Federal Government announced that it had lifted the ban on Twitter today 13th of January, 2022.

it's past 12:24AM and my twitter isn't loading except I use a VPN.

I'm using both MTN and 9Mobile.

Is Twitter opening at your end?
Mine is working perfectly though..
Election times are here and now they think we will fall for this cheap trick for them to score cheap point. I laf at them.
Family › Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Rickmann: 9:09pm On Jan 12, 2022
Mypeople2:
That is just the problem. Guys are always looking at the size of the boobs, backside, the pretty face and shape only .We do not care about the main things especially attitude and habits.At the end we will start complaining
OP you better ban that Zee World in that house if not, she not will not change
E tire me.
Romance › Re: . by Rickmann: 9:03am On Jan 11, 2022
ChizzyBuna:
Im very very bored and there is this smallie girl that has been giving me green light.
The problem be say she ugly.
I never had sex with ugly girl before so i want to know if there is any difference when it comes to sex with fine girls vs ugly girls.
Orgasm or climax no dey look person face o.. The only variation in girls in terms of sexual pleasures is how good the person is, in bed...but when you talk about physiological responses in the body, it's same pleasure we guys derive.
Sports › Re: How Can This Guy Be 28yrs Old ? by Rickmann: 12:07am On Jan 11, 2022
kenzysmith:
So neymar Senior this guy with 2 yes, he and lingard na agemate? Bayern Munich coach senior am with 3 years, ronaldo Senior is uncle with 9yrs ? Chai me and this guy na agemate I senior with months grin Cameron 2 goals hero against Burkina Faso. Vincent abubakar
How do I explain to my unborn kids that as the time of filing this report, this guy was 28.

grin
Romance › Re: How I Ruined My First Date With My Crush Without Knowing by Rickmann: 11:57pm On Jan 10, 2022
Pukkalolo:
I went out on a date with my crush. After the date I arrived home feeling good. My big bro (cousin) who l was staying with at that time saw my happy face when I got home. I was very young, inexperienced and naive at that time.

He asked me how the date went. I said, "It was very fantastic, we gisted and laughed alot; it was very fun."
My cousin said, "Wow! That's good...but I wanna ask you one question."

He asked me a very weird question.

He said, "Throughout your date with her today, did you pissed her off or upset her in anyway?"

I said, "Big bro, I don't understand your question... I told you my date with my crush went great and you're asking me if I got her upset.... of course, I did not upset her."

Then he asked another weird question.

He said, " if you did not upset her, then how did you know the date really went great?"

"Now I'm confuse. Is it not when she happy and not upset that I know the date went great... she's my crush, why would I try to upset her."

My big bro said, "you can only truly know a person when they are angry or experiencing tension."

His last statement make some sense though, but I wasn't still cool with the part were he said I should pissed her off her so I can truly know her.
That one sound very silly to me.

Then he said, "I can predict how you and your crush will end up."

"Please tell me," I said.

He said , "She's going to break your heart"

I laughed his statement off.

Few days later, I asked my crush to be my girlfriend, she said, "let's just be friends....you are really nice guy to me."

After intensed persuasion and "pleading' for days, she later agreed to be my girlfriend. But our relationship didn't last long. 2 weeks after we started dating, she was back to her ex.
I felt really bad. She broke my heart. My big bro prediction came to pass.


Ok, this incidence happened years ago.

Years later, I have gotten more experienced and wiser.

Last 2 month, I was at a mall. I saw a lady and guy taking pictures together. From their demeanor, I could tell they were not really couples or anything of such. When the guy got distracted attending to something else, I quickly initiated conversation with the young lady, few seconds later the guy came back and met me talking to the lady.

He was a cool guy: he didn't try interfere in our conversation. He just hanged around and eavedropped on what we were saying.

My conversation with the lady was sailing smoothly. Even the guy had no problem with me being there. Few minutes later I asked the lady a question that instantly caused havoc and turbulence to our smooth sailing conversation.

I said, "so how old are you?"

The lady was taking shocked by my question. She was a little bit upset. The guy rolled his eyes and looked at me like I had 3 nose. He was also shocked by my question. There was a sudden earthquake. There was panic everywhere. The world was in chaos.

What's going on?

Rumor has it that one random dude at the mall just asked a lady an abominable question.

(Ok enough of the exaggeration, let's get serious)

The lady could not even open her mouth. She was still dumbfounde and yet to recover from the abominable question I just asked her. She stood there looking at me in horror like a damsel in distress that need a white knight in shining armor to come her recuse
So the guy quickly came to her rescue, playing the role of captain America. He thundered at me, "Don't you know it's wrong to ask a lady of her age?"

I was like, "Well, allow the lady to speak for herself."

The lady eventually opened her mouth. She said, "Yes, why would you even ask me of my age when we are just meeting for the first time?"

I said, "I asked about your age because I wanted to be sure that you're not below 18 years."

She said, "And what if I'm below 18 years?"

I said, "If you are below 18 years, I will discontinue my conversation with you because I only roll with girls who are 18 years and above....I don't do under age."

Then she told me her age. She is above 18 years.

Despite the whole turbulence that played out, my conversation with the lady later went great. We are very close now. This was what my big bro was talking about that time, but I misunderstood him back then.

On the phone, I told my big sis the whole turbulence that happened between I and the lady. My sis also told me that she heard that it's wrong to ask a Man how much he earns monthly on the first date.

"Please who made the rule that it's wrong for a man to ask a lady of her age or it's wrong for a lady to ask a man how much he earns monthly?"

I threw the above question on Facebook book and whatsApp to get people opinion about it. Surprisingly, I got lots of replies.

70% of people agreed that on the first date it's wrong for a man to ask a lady of her age or it's wrong for a lady to ask a man how much he earns monthly.

While 30% said that there's nothing wrong with that, and that it's left to the other person to decide if they want to answer the question. These 30% seemed smarter to me.

And it's no coincident that only 30% of people are really happy with their love lifes.

I tried to engaged the 70% of people to find out why they think it is wrong. I got responses like,

"it's disrespectful."

"It getting into someone's privacy"

"It is bla bla bla"



After analyzing most of their responses, I discovered something familiar: Most of us are simply scared of upsetting the other person, that's why we are scared of asking them those kind of questions. This still goes back to what my big bro was talking about back in the days.


When a guy tells a lady that he wants to get to know her or a lady say she wants to take her time to get know a guy before allowing anything happen, what do they really mean?

If a guy toast a lady, then he should be ready for any question the girl throws at him. And if a guy woo a lady, he should be bold enough to ask her any questions he wants.

Here's why-->.

First for all, here's the fact; You can't truly get know a person if you scared of upsetting them. This because you won't be real with them and you won't ask questions that are important to you.

Many ladies and gentlemen think that having a fun, lighthearted and entertaining conversation means you're getting to know the other person.

No, you're not.


This is why on first date, when a guy and a lady is talking...if they are laughing and chatting light-heartedly, then they aren't really getting to know each other.

But if the guy and the lady are talking in a low tone, quietly, closely, deeply and looking into each eyes, then they are the ones who are actually getting to know each other.

Some of us thinks it takes weeks, months or years to get to know person. But that is not true. In few hours you can truly get to know a person, if you can bodly ask them real, raw and honest questions, and see how they respond to it. These are the questions that will stir their emotions and force them to open up. These are the questions that would create strong connection between you and the other person.

Going on a date is kind of similar to going for a Job interview. At the job interview, the employer ask the right questions that are important to the progress of the organization. This is because they want to get the best candidate that would bring greater value.

They don't select the candidates who they love most, they select the candidate that answers their questions correctly.


If you are a man/woman looking for a long-term partner, it's not about who you love most, it's not about who you're more attracted to; it's about who bring less pain and add more happiness to your life.

Sometimes, the partners that will add more happiness to your life are the ones that you're not really attracted to; these are one's that don't really insight butterfly in your stomach when you see them, but they are the ones who will bring more happiness to your life in the long run.

I hope this was helpful.

Stay blessed.
Wisdom bro grin
I totally agree with you.
Romance › Re: Is This Girl Playing With Me Or What? by Rickmann: 11:36pm On Jan 10, 2022
nnamx4u:
From my last thread.

You see where I am talking about a girl I am seeing, she said she doesn't visit guys in their house

Through out this christmas. I called this babe to see her

let's go out and have fun together but

She refused saying that she has so many function to attend.

We did not see through out this last xmas

We stay in the same state but not the same city.

I called her today and told her that I missed her and I want to see her

she said I should not miss her, that she is not dead yet. hmmmm

I asked her when can we see.

she said she cant say for now. that she has a lot of things doing now.

I think she is just playing with me though.

I just love her. I don't know what to do now
Are you a child?
Can't you see she doesn't like you..or isn't it clear enough?

What wrong with guys sef? Must you force everything?
Romance › Re: Stop Having Casual Sex. See Why (photo) by Rickmann: 11:27am On Jan 08, 2022
siofra:
I thank God I'm a virgin. Being a virgin rocks. Proud to be a virgin and a child of God cheesy
I call this delusion..
Does being a virgin make you a Saint or does it make you better off than anyone else?

You see, life is deeper than just been a virgin.

Know that today.
Romance › Re: How Do I Peacefully End My Relationship With My Gf by Rickmann: 11:11pm On Jan 07, 2022
RedMac:
She does not fit into my plans... I just don't want to be the odd one out of us (3 boys) the other two have standard wife's... Doctor (working in Saudi) nurse (working in Canada)

The fear of settling down with someone not up to the class of my elder brothers wife is so scaring...

I have vowed to use 2022 to upgrade my financial status as well...
My advice for you is to polish her to whatever taste you want.

Character is everything and a good name is better than riches.

Do not lose that girl..gems like her are hard to come by.
Romance › Re: How Do I Peacefully End My Relationship With My Gf by Rickmann: 10:58pm On Jan 07, 2022
RedMac:
Good evening nairalanders... This issue is one out of many bothering me in 2022...

Let me first of all apologize for all the evil things I have said about women being so cheap, hence the reason they fall into the hands of bad guys... cos am now guilty of a bad guy here

My previous relationship was just about crashing, in fact I was totally fed up with KATE, I vowed to end 2019 with her, and so it was... I never wanted to have any serious relationship with any lady until I have a sustainable financial source of income... I was doing fine without a girlfriend until this one wriggled her way into my life, thinking she have found love...

So me and this girl (in her late 20's) started dating deep into 2019 to 2020...

Truth is she was the one who toasted me, she would come to our house to charge phone's and the rest, from there things started happening... I felt whatever that's going on won't last long, but hell no, she just wanted true Love... Which I have been deceiving her with

By standard of wife material (she's a perfect example to the core), very caring and loving

her limitations is her status... Way too local and not up to my standard...

We started dating and the truth is that we both have different reasons for dating each other...

I decided to keep her because of the services I get from her as I must constantly oil my engine... I felt everything will die off naturally as my previous relationship has, now am hooked up...

I got to know her intention of marriage in 2020 during the lockdown, but since then i have been looking for ways to end everything with her, cos I have no intention of marrying her and I feel I have deceived her a lot, She sees me as who I am not... And my plain character have deceived her a lot...

She did no wrong loving me, her only offense was that she could not sense that am deceiving her... If she was up to my social status I would have married her but she is no where close to who I can present to my people as my wife...

I have been looking for ways to let her know am not ready to marry er... One taught am having is teaming up with a false prophet to tell er this guy (me) am not the guy for her... She really deserves the best in life, but I see myself as the wrong guy for her... She has never given me any reason to suspect she's dating another guy, all her attention is always on me

This year she's expecting our relationship to move to the next level... Like introduction and the rest

Experts in the house, how do I pull this off... I just don't want her to feel so bad towards me...

Help me!!!
What nonsense social status of yours are you talking about? Yet when it's time to 'oil ur engine' she suddenly measures up to ur status.

This is how you guys disgrace our gender.
Well it's ur cross bro, carry it.

I don go sleep.
Romance › Re: How To Use A Girl For Ritual (graphic Video) by Rickmann: 5:50pm On Jan 07, 2022
KingZaddy:
HOW TO USE A GIRL FOR RITUAL




THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL: MONEY OR POVERTY?


To be honest with you I am not here to answer that question, I am also here to ask you that question but at the same time look into the life of the average Nigerian youth.



I know the topic is shocking but the truth is the truth… 2022 is yet to kick off fully and there is a trending video of boys slaughtering girls for ritual.




The world has set a quality for the youths and the upcoming generation, and that quality is the quality of getting money in every way possible without minding if it is wrong or not. It’s not a new development but of recent there has been a rise in atrocities and extreme evil and put do not regret being cut up in such activities.

The average Nigerian young man can hardly think of anything else other than to get into one form of scam or the other, and now they don’t shy away from slaughtering any available girl; I mean if boys can use their mothers for sacrifice why not the random girls they sleep with?


Neither money nor poverty is the root of evil but the heart of man is… Poverty is a terrible stage in a man’s life but poverty speaks and every day it gives you hints on how to escape. The average Nigerian young man has chosen scam over honest efforts to success…

I will share with you a video of a young girl getting stabbed to death with a knife.. the problem of young girls is either lack of contentment or wanting free enjoyment. In life nothing good comes easy and we all know it but the female entitlement mentality is destroying them; the less a woman can provide for herself the less valuable she will appear before men.


Killing for ritual is not the shocker but the guts to video record such act is the height of Satanism.


Nigerian young men spend more time now just to gamble, watch football, do drugs, smoke weed, have sex and scam… the girls spend more time scouting for iphone with her pussy so she can take filtered pictures of herself and upload on instagram and tinder or onlyfans.



The average girl today can never take a picture without wanting to flaunt the size of her back side or her breasts.

Less I forget, there is a rising pornographic activity in Nigeria and the casts are no longer ashamed to admit it…


There is a setting of give me what I want and I give you what you want, where girls give guys sex and guys give them money, we call it relationship but it hardly is different from prostitution, all we do is put a love tag on it just the mask the truth of lust over love.


In 2022 there is a high rise in desperation and boys are not smiling; I saw a video of young men dragging young girls into a shrine room and a video of a girl getting stabbed to death and being beheaded.



I fear for the future of the growing children if this generation is this messed up.

If I was born before this generation maybe it would have been better… if God thought Sodom and Gomorrah to the height of evil, what would he think of this generation?


In this generation being Evil is the rank for amateurs… Satanism is the peak…








Check blog for the video below

https://godhow.blog spot.com/2022/01/how-to-use-girl-for-ritual-graphic-video.html?m=1


Remove space between blog and spot to access site
Honestly ,I'm worried about these females.
What beats me is them seeing how much of the victim they have become , yet won't learn.

It's really scary.
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Is Heartless by Rickmann: 1:40pm On Jan 07, 2022
LiberatedGirl:
Yawn ! Thanks for your comment. The more comments I get the more this Thread Trends. I need more COMMENTS. Please Kindly Comment Again.
LoI...
You trend, yet not even a penny goes into ur pocket?

Oh my world grin
That must be the dumbest thing I ever heard.

Nigerians, una no go kill me grin
Wannabees everywhere.
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Is Heartless by Rickmann: 12:25pm On Jan 07, 2022
LiberatedGirl:
Another Pretender. My Title Got Your Attention. You read the entire Comment and you made a Comment. Stop pretending I did a very good with my " Catchy " Title.
'Delusion'
That's what ur problem is.

Learn.
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Is Heartless by Rickmann: 9:37am On Jan 07, 2022
LiberatedGirl:
After two female Strangers harrassed my Boyfriend to either buy bread or drinks for them my man's opinion of women has nosedived. I gave him the gist of how Women today are and he was shocked. So my boyfriend has hardened his heart towards Women, he does not want to be used by women. Luckily I'm in his good books and he sent N3,000 into my account as an apology for buying them drinks, he did not sit with them to drink anything , he just bought them drinks and went on his merry way sad and Angry that he had been used. The drinks came to N300 and he is angry. Anyway my man knows what's up now. No Free Drinks For Strangers either Male or Female.
Based on your caption..
Pls don't get too excited dear..
It was actually trash.
There are tricks on how to capture ur readers with captions and still make a whole lot of sense in the end.

Learn that before you talk abt journalism pls.
Romance › Re: My Experience With A 64year Ashawo Woman Today. by Rickmann: 9:27am On Jan 07, 2022
GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Haven had sex with many young ladies. Today I decided to quench my fantasy when I finally found one granny stepping out like she was going somewhere, I first thought she was the owner of the place until she asked me "Do you need something" with a wink...

I swallowed hard and replied "Can you do something?" She said "very well" na so we enter room.

She was tall and chubby, her room was nice not that dirty, she planted condom on my prick and I entered from the front, she was not that loosed as I was expecting, I was banging the Granny not MILF with full force and she later confessed that my prick is long and good..... I enjoyed her base on say that was my fantasy.


I was surprised as how an old woman like her will be doing that kind of job.... I shudder oooooo.


Have you had sex with an elderly person and what was your experience?
Come collect trophy.
Sports › Re: BREAKING: Cristiano Ronaldo Is Leaving by Rickmann: 9:22am On Jan 07, 2022
NaijaBookings:
BREAKING: Cristiano Ronaldo is considering leaving Manchester United at the end of the season. His decision will rely on whether or not he agrees with the club’s new managerial appointment.

(Daily Star)
He should buzz off and stop disturbing our peace.
Ronaldo by now should be in US or his home country Portugal retiring, but he is so obsessed with records that he endangers every set up he joins.
Romance › Re: Am Worried!!! She Masturbates Anytime She Misses Me by Rickmann: 9:08am On Jan 07, 2022
shegxy9:
I will be very quick with this guyshuh Anytime my girlfriend travels from when I am, she always tells me she misses me and she doesn't want to get disturbed emotionally bla bla bla.... So her only solution is to get herself masturbated... Guys it's becoming something often to her... Does it really make sense at allhuh
What the complaint for?
Would you rather she starts sleeping with every Tom , Dick and Harry?

You should be thankful

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