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Celebrities › Re: Davido Shouldn't Have Said This In Public, Fans Faults Davido For This by Rickmann: 10:07am On Feb 07, 2022 |
Johnsown1: Nigerian Afrobeat Star, Mr. David Adeleke, popularly known as Davido has shocked the fans about his state of wealth when compared to his siblings He revealed this during an interview with a celebrity OAP, Mr. Ebuka Uchendu on wednesday. OBO was asked about his fight with Wizkid and Bourna Boy, and the cause of the fight. Ebuka and the fans watching the show were left in total surprise when OBO told the whole world about his relationship with Bourna Boy.
" Bourna Boy was my childhood friend, We both nursed the dream to be celebrated artiste in Nigeria, and we worked tirelessly towards our dreams till we made it.", he said.
When I noticed Bourna made it to the top just like I did, I was genuinely happy for him. Also Read Fans amazed as Davido reacts to Chioma's post on Instagram, check out what she wrote Moment Wizkid and Davido shared passionate hug as they settle their differences Skiibii's recent single with David could be his best yet- King We were cool, till I rated Mayorkun as the best artiste in Nigeria. (This was during my interview with an OAP in the United States), that was when things started tearing apart between us, he said.
He expected me to name him as one of the best in Africa, but I didn't. That was the cause of the fight, he affirmed.
He further alledged that Bourna Boy went to pair with his former enemy, Wizkid to make him feel jealous.
They stay mostly in Ghana, they are not always here (Nigeria). They feel they could gang up against be in an effort to bring me down. They tried all they could, fought me in an effort to make me go out of the industry but failed woefully, I'm still here, and will always be, he said.
One thing they don't understand is that I'm not in the music industry to fight anyone and I won't take anything to mind, life is short. I'm a free man with a big heart. There's more to this life than music, he added. The "Blow my Mind" crooner said he is not in the music industry to make enemies. I'm not even making money the way is should.
I'm in the music industry because I love the craft, I love the fans and the love they show me, that's why im still here.
I can't be fighting no one because I'm not even making enough money compared to my siblings.
Let me have you know this; my siblings are richer than I am, it's the fact. They dash me money whenever I ask them for help. If I quit the music industry today to join my father inbhis business, I will make more money compared to being here. I can easily join my father in his business I will make hundreds of millions daily, he said.
Davido's father, Mr. Adedeji Adeleke is considered one of the richest men in Nigeria with a networth of Nine hundred million dollars (US$900.000.000), and has been rich before Davido was born.
he is just being himself Wow |
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Romance › Re: ... by Rickmann: 9:58am On Feb 07, 2022 |
motionarena: Is it ok to sleep with another guy's girlfriend.
I mean dating another guys wife is serious Taboo which I can never do.
But does dating another guy's girl carry the same weight. Even if you don't know d guy Why ask a question you already have answers to? Or you just need our validation.  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Long Can I Use My Statement Of Result To Apply For A Job by Rickmann: 9:54am On Feb 07, 2022*. Modified: 1:36pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Tissyjay: Good day house. I opened this out of curiosity. I graduated four years ago and I haven’t gotten my original certificate due to personal reasons. I want to know if I can still apply for a job with my statement of result. Thanks. Ur result isn't necessary..Besides ,employers hardly request it. Just have a well-drafted CV and you good to go. |
Romance › Re: My Experience With My Jehovah Witness Lover . by Rickmann: 9:49am On Feb 07, 2022 |
Nonexisting: I don't believe in relationships and don't have one. Relationship is meant for fools and some wise people who decide to deceive themselves by themselves. Everyone comes into relationship for something and when that thing is no longer there, the relationship dies. Unconditional love and faithfulness are things of the past. If you doubt me, pay a private investigator to monitor your lover male or female for just one week and see things for yourself. Come take a trophy.. |
Romance › Re: My Experience With My Jehovah Witness Lover . by Rickmann: 8:06am On Feb 07, 2022 |
Nonexisting: You are a simp and a fool too, bad combo. I have no further comment. How is ur own relationship going? Is it a healthy one? If you have nothing to add to people's life, you move on than use strong words like that on them when all they needed was a simple advice. We just human remember, and no one knows it all. |
Romance › Re: My Experience With My Jehovah Witness Lover . by Rickmann: 7:58am On Feb 07, 2022 |
adetula148: Thanks bro and i truly cried �. I was in theis alone all this while �� Someone who will love and respect you will come someday..just be more careful with ur feelings. Use ur brain more this time and not just the heart. PEACE. |
Romance › Re: My Experience With My Jehovah Witness Lover . by Rickmann: 7:48am On Feb 07, 2022 |
adetula148: There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness. We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends. You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them. Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends , going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself. Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues. Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working. So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work ,we spend 2months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together , like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her . She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" . Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry . Here is my question, why are witness like this ? This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste? So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast . Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on. I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do. Do have a nice day . Bros you get mind o, so of all the girls in the country na Jehovah witness you fall for like this? Personally I have never heard anything good about them. It was obvious she wasn't feeling you the way you felt her..i mean, all the vital signs were there but you just refused to see it. It really hurts when you are in love alone. Pls move on and stop crying here, she isn't worth ur love or tears at all. "A failed relationship is better than a scattered marriage" always remember that. |
Properties › Re: Please What Is Happening With Nigeria And Rent Issues? by Rickmann: 7:13am On Feb 07, 2022 |
Dshocker: In Nigeria there is no price regulation on commodities,if by 2023 we hand power over to the same Northerns,then by 2030 the least bread will be sold for N500 and the least self contain you can get in lagos,might have jacked up to N400k. Funny enough,most graduate will still be earning N20k or thereabout,then yahoo yahoo/ritual will increase and the level of prostitution/runz will skyrocket and by 2040 every runz girl will get married to a ritualist (non negotiable)
Nigeria sinks at every cockcrow  |
Family › Re: My Married Elder Brother Is Having An Affair With An Igbo gold digger by Rickmann: 7:06am On Feb 07, 2022 |
NotoriousBiggyS: My elder brother who is married have a side chik who is from anambra state. I have so much love for my elder brother wife because she's such a good woman. My brother use to call this gold digging anambra girl so much that he tells her everything going on in his nuclear family affairs even in my present I feel jealous about that because I like his wife so much that I feel like telling the wife about this. Will it be bad or good idea if I expose this mothe*fuc*King gold digger of a girl to my brother wife before she breaks her home? Oga close ur mouth and mind ur business.. If ur mouth dey scratch you, talk to ur brother . |
Family › Re: Marry From Your Tribe: You Will Be Saved From Lots Of Headache by Rickmann: 11:39pm On Feb 06, 2022*. Modified: 11:50am On Feb 07, 2022 |
Naijabad: I know alot of people will come for my head for this thread.
But the truth is, if you are a Nigerian, please marry from your tribe. You will be fine.
A lot of women and men are crying in secret today because they married outside their tribe.
Please, consider the words of your parents, do not make the mistake of marrying outside your tribe. It almost always end in premium tears.
Learn from what happened to others. Ask questions, do research, you can find love among your people and folks.
I have seen alot. A greater percentage of inter tribal marriage is on manage mode.
Finally, 50% of marital problems are solved when you marry within your tribe. It might interest you to know that inter-tribal marriages in Nigeria today have proven to be the happiest unions as against marrying from same tribe. Most importantly, only God is the determinant for a happy marriage , any human theory is BS. |
Crime › Re: Rayan: Moroccan Boy Trapped In Well For Four Days Has Died by Rickmann: 11:27pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
arantess: Damn
Broken bone, hunger, asphyxiation
May he rest in peace And Also, he was just a kid |
Crime › Re: Rayan: Moroccan Boy Trapped In Well For Four Days Has Died by Rickmann: 10:46am On Feb 06, 2022 |
Hisbah21: Rescuers worked round the clock to free the boy A five-year-old Moroccan boy who was trapped in a well for four days has died, despite painstaking efforts to rescue him. A royal statement announced his death soon after his removal from the well. The bid to free the boy, named as Rayan, had gripped the country, with hundreds of people gathered at the well and thousands more following online. The boy plunged 32m (104ft) through the well's narrow opening. The rescue had been hampered by fears of a landslide. "Following the tragic accident which cost the life of the child Rayan Oram, His Majesty King Mohammed VI called the parents of the boy who died after falling down the well," a statement from the royal palace said. Footage on Thursday from a camera lowered into the well showed that the boy was alive and conscious, but there had been no update on his condition since then. The mixture of rocky and sandy soils meant rescuers deemed opening the water well's narrow shaft to be too dangerous. Instead, bulldozers were used to cut a huge trench next to the well. Rescuers then started digging horizontally to reach the boy. On Moroccan social media, the hashtag #SaveRayan has been trending across the country and around the world.
lalasticlala front page please Oh my God.. So this boy eventually died. Chai! God accept his soul |
Family › Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by Rickmann: 10:08pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
arantess: Well, lots of persons kept themselves till after marriage and it's working out well for them... Very true but as you've heard from the story.. Life no get formula. |
Romance › Re: Dear Women, Men Don't Like You. by Rickmann: 7:57am On Feb 05, 2022 |
Ladycewhy: Yes you heard me right, men don't like you, they like your biological makeup ,they may like the fact that you have a vagina , womb and breasts but as a fellow human being , they don't like you.
Let's look back at history, in the days of old, Virgin girls were a thing for sacrifices and blood gift to the gods, then came the snatching of babies frome their mothers all in the name of twins was an abomination, then there was the selling of their daughter all in the name of bride price and the only time she was allowed to return to her father's house was in a body bag.
Still in doubt if men like you as a human first?
Ok then came the widow maltreatment, then there was a concensus to mutilate the vagina of women just to keep them under control, then came the refusal to allow them go to school. Still in doubt?
Do you still doubt the anti women campaign going on in this forum and even on the streets? Have you checked the ratio of ritual killing and see that women are the most victims?Have you heard the phrase " daughters of eve, fish brain, after devil fear women?" Well I am sure you atleast get the picture . Stop it..will you? |
Romance › Re: Could it be kayanmata, How Do I Get Over Her? by Rickmann: 6:28pm On Feb 04, 2022 |
Supremedrizzy: I am in a very unpleasant situation right now, a situation I never envisaged I would find my self in. I met a girl early this year and things have been so fast paced between us that it seems we have known each other forever. She has spent every weekend since the day we met in my place.
I've a serious girlfriend of over four years but I'm scared this lady is pushing her into oblivion. She came around after one of the lady's visit and she noticed I wasnt feeling her like before, to be honest I was thinking of the other lady.
Some might say the sex got me hooked but its far from that, the sex was just average in fact I still enjoy sex with my main gf more. She just has this ability to make me happy, most times guys are tasked with the responsibility of making ladies smile but the reverse is the case here. Any time spent with her is simply glorious. I was suffering from depression before I met her but her presence makes me forget all my problems, we would play around like kids all day. We would make plans of her spending like two days with me and she would end up spending five days and that's cos I would eventually force her to go. Even when she leaves we still talk on phone every four hours, we spend almost 3 hours gisting on whatsapp call late into the night before we sleep on daily basis.
My issue is that this lady has a boyfriend that is bankrolling her expensive lifestyle, she claims not to love him and they argue all the time over the phone but she can't leave him. She's never asked me for anything, in fact she rejects anything I give her even transport fare.
I don't want to fall in love with this babe cos she seems to have a lot of baggage, I planned this to be a FWB just like I do with other side chicks but I'm here catching feelings which is so unlike me. I am enjoying the moment but I have a feeling this wont end well.
How do I cut off from her totally, I know this relationship won't lead to anything serious and will only complicate things for me. She clashed at my place last week with another babe that I have known for over 3 years and I surprisingly asked the older babe to leave. My guys were shocked.
She's making me weak and needy which is something I detest so much. I asked her to come over for the weekend and she declined because she has a serious appointment on Sunday. I felt bad, ladies are the ones that usually call to come over and I make my choice.
I once deleted her contacts but still had to go back to Facebook to get it from our chats. I know her kinda girl, she would eventually get tired of everything and probably dump me which is something that has never happened to me, I want to dump her first. She is in control of our relationship and I want to turn the tables. The spirit is willing but the heart is weak.
My fellow gees help me out please Relax bro.. With the way things are beginning to play out, I'd suggest you tell her about your girlfriend if you want to help urself. Let's see what happens. |
Family › Re: My Husband Left Us by Rickmann: 5:47pm On Feb 04, 2022 |
Amazingbaby: It is kind of surreal
My husband took his bag and left the house after an argument and have been gone for over a week now, trouble started when he came back and told me he wanted to hire a particular girl to work with him,this girl was working with his friend before he closed up.he told me his friend beg him to hire the girl. Earlier in the week my husband told me he was going for a convention,I checked his phone and saw when this particular girl was asking him when he will be leaving the house at 7:44 in the morning,I didn't talk or made a fuss about it,so when he told me he wanted to employ this girl my suspicion grew,I asked him how does he want to pay her he told me the lady said she would work for free. I started laughing,which girl on this island would want to work for free if you don't have anything to do with her.i started bombarding him with questions; If the girl is your friend's employee how did she know about your business?My husband said he has not talked to the lady since last year but he never knew I saw the messages.
I told him to give me his phone only to see that he has been exchanging Whatsapp calls and phone calls with her.i got angry and was asking him questions he took his bag and left that night.
That was when I confronted him about the messages I saw the week before only for him to say he doesn't owe me any explanation.
I am deeply hurt that he would want to employ a person he has a secret relationship with and has the mind to tell me about it.he deletes any conversation he has with this lady,he hides his phone and would never pick a call in my presents.
Pls how do you think I should handle this,I told him the only way I would ever listen to him is if he tell me where he went with that lady on that Saturday. Calling her sounds desperate and I don't like fighting my fellow lady because of a man.your opinion pls Its a good thing you have caught him red handed.. I would urge you to call the girl in question if you have her contact..dont sound harsh or desperate, just make her understand you aren't ignorant of what's going on btw she and ur husband. After that, focus on ur children and let them. "Agaracha must come back" |
Family › Re: My Husband Cant Make Love To Me Without First Masturbating To Porn by Rickmann: 5:37pm On Feb 04, 2022 |
Amb1045: I got this rather weird message to my inbox. This lady wrote in from Abuja. She is in her late 20's, gainfully employed and had been married for 6 months to a Successful Engineer. She noticed an unusual thing about the husband. They would smooch and all, pre-intimacy and all the works, she would be 'ready' if you know what I mean and he would just excuse himself to urinate. He wools be there for like 10mins before rejoining her to make out.
This had been happening for months and she thought that was odd. So on this fateful day, she tiptoed to find out what he always did in the Bathroom and luckily he didn't lock the door like other days and to her shock she caught him masturbaring to a porn video. She was reallt angry, shouting and raving and he refused to say anything to his defence till this day. Infact they haven't been talking since that day and it's been 2 months already.
She wants to know what she has to do? Gbogbo Awon "my pastor said , no sex before marriage" I greet una o  |
Education › Re: What I Discovered About My GF by Rickmann: 5:32pm On Feb 04, 2022 |
acecouture: I met this my new Girlfriend last year, it was a non sexual relationship, and we are both fine about it. But last week she told me a shocker of my life ,she has hormonal disorder (PCOS) and PID (pelvis inflammatory disease), and when I goggle searched it , what I found wasn't good at all, .I'm thinking of ending things with her I really thank God nothing has happened between us,this lady looks too discipline and innocent to have this stuffs .I wish to marry her , but I have made up my mind...I just don't know if I'm doing the right thing. She needs you now more than ever. |
Crime › Re: Nigerians Call For The Arrest Of Young Men Captured In A Viral Video On Ritual by Rickmann: 5:26pm On Feb 04, 2022 |
Nksleek: A cross section of Nigerians are calling for the arrest and prosecution of four young men captured in a trending video on rituals.
This is as Nigerians grapple with the effects of escalated incidents of ritual killings across the country, Focus Naija can report.
According to the visuals, the young men said that the sure way to make success is to engage in ritual. That it is better to use girlfriend or outsiders than to use biological mothers and sisters.
They also stated that all ritualists do not necessarily end up mad especially those that patronize their sure plugs.
In reactions, concerned Nigerians wrote;
Igbuku Mamus: “Just imagine the audacity...the rubbish coming out From their mouth....these boys are ritualist they should be arrested immediately.”
Gizzo Clothings: “All these ones days are numbered...their arrest don dey near”
Imasuen Odion: “Fetch these f**ls and have them Arrested to serve as deterrent to nuisance like them. Very stupid f**ls. Trend it Wong Box so the authorities will be aware
Adebanjo Saheed Adeniyi: “These guys needed to be tracked down and interrogated...They are definitely a Ritualists”
Holy Walter: “This boys are pure ritualist bro, watin our police dey do to track down this people...”
Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CZjNNYHLQas/?utm_medium=copy_link I weep for this country |
Romance › Re: Is It Appropriate To Ask My Cousin To Be My Valentine? by Rickmann: 5:16pm On Feb 04, 2022 |
Datboredberry: If my boyfriend doesn't ask me to be his Val... Then I'll ask my cousin!
He's 4yrs younger... But I think he likes me...
We were very close... And since I've relocated, he's called every day... 
He's cute...
He's my half-uncle's son...
We wouldn't do a thing... But I would love to have someone say, "happy Val Datboredberry"... Just once!!!  When you realise the true essence of St valentine's day, you will answer that ur question yourself. |
Politics › Re: What If Nigeria Was A Picture! Describe Nigeria Using A Picture. (Photos) by Rickmann: 5:09pm On Feb 04, 2022 |
Xenry: What if Nigeria was a picture? Which picture do you think it would be? What would it look like? Describe Nigeria using a picture. Below is mine. Drop yours . lalasticlala...
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Romance › Re: Married For 10yrs But Never Seen My Husband D**k by Rickmann: 7:41pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Amb1045: This was sent last night by a lady in Lagos. She has been married for 10yrs with 4 lovely kids. Her husbands loves her so much and dotes on her and provides for the home. They have the usual couple fights and make up just as soon. Their sex life is on point, the husband morw than satisfies her in bed all the time but she has a problem that she really wants to resolve.
In all the 10yrs they have been married, she has never for one day seen her husband's D, he refuses to shower together with her, he always go to another room to change, he sleeps face into the pillow to avoid his wife taking even a peek when he is sleeping, they make love at night with no lights on, she has talked to him about this to no avail and she is threatening to quit the marriage if he doesn't do a full disclosure.
Omo! This matter tire me like this. What do you advice this lady For 10 freaking years? Nah, that's impossible.. You think we are idiots here abi? |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Did This To Me... Was I Wrong? by Rickmann: 11:52am On Feb 03, 2022 |
Slaysor: Good evening nairalanders, I will try and make this as short as possible,i and my girlfriend have been dating for three years plus,, initially when we started dating, everything was rosy,she will call in the evening and we will speak for hours,she brought food for me each time she came to visit,she made a very nice cake for me during my birthday that year and I also got her an expensive wrist watch during her birthday. I felt I had met my wife,the mother of my children.... She insisted that we wouldn't have sex in the relationship,that she wanted me to have a taste of her Honeypot after I had paid her brideprice and we settled down..I begged her most times but she refused,there were nights when we were alone and my thoughts wandered and I became hard and I will beg her she will refuse,I promised to send her money,she accepted but after I transferred she will start laughing and tell me she was just joking,then sometimes she will pity me and allow me to touch her body parts... I stayed without sex during our relationship because I hated cheating... Back to this year, I was discussing with my girl how I was planning to come meet her people so that we could get married(konji wan kill son of man) Me: babe I would like to meet your people,so that we could start preparing for marriage. Her:which marriage? Me laughs) which kind question be that Her hisses) jamb question Me: I am serious here babe. Her: you never dey ready to marry,phone wey you promise to buy me since last December where I'm dey? Me: I thought I told you my salary was delayed Her: na why I talk say you never ready to marry,you want marry me,you still dey collect salary,go join boys learn work I felt insulted Her: how you wan take pay brideprice abi you wan make my people wait make them pay you salary Me: I am not happy with all this things you are saying (She kept mute,as she was smiling and typing on her phone,I stood up and made to drag the phone from her,she put it inside her bra,I put my hand there and grabbed the phone) Her: you dey crase?...when that one start? (I went through her chat and found out she was chatting with a intimately with a girl) Me: who is this you are chatting with Her: you don see am, na my grandpa (I seized her angrily) Me: are you stupid? Who is this?
She struggled to free her self but she couldn't, then she spat into my eyes,freed herself and gave me two hot slap at both cheeks and zoomed out of my house,I regained myself and ran after her,I got to her before she left the gate,I held her dress and went down on my knees and begged,she removed my hands and stormed out I went inside,I tried calling her several times but she didn't pick,I sent messages on whatsapp but she didn't reply. I later reached her friend and asked her to help me talk to her that I am sorry..her friend told me that my girl told her that she was done with me...I told her friend that she should tell my girl that I am sorry and I will get her the phone she requested... I later got a call from my girl and we discussed Her: hello Me: baby I am sorry, I never meant to act the way I did Her: it is okay Me: where are you?...can I see you please Her: I am busy Me: tell me where you are please Her: I said I am busy Me: I just want to see you Her(sighs):are you coming with the phone Me: which phone? Her: the one you promised to get me Me: alright I will come with it Her: I am at sunshine eateries Me: okay I checked my balance on my union account,it was up to 250k,which I had plans for. And which I was using to hold myself as I didn't know when salary will be paid...I left the house and got to the store I was to get the phone...I went in and asked for a Samsung s9,the man there told me it is 130k,I tried negotiating but he remained adamant...I paid and left there..I got to the eateries some minutes later and approached my girl's table,she was eating peppered chicken with spag and a pack of chivita juice..I knelt down and started begging her,she told me it is okay,she asked for the phone and I gave it to her,then the waiter came to our table and asked her for money,she pointed at me and said I will pay, I was surprised but I still asked the waiter how much...he said 3,500, which I paid for. Then she picked up her bag and told me she had to be somewhere urgently. Later that day,I tried calling her,she didn't pick,I tried texting on WhatsApp and I found out that she hadn't read my previous msg. Some days later she called me and told me she needed to fix her hair as the one she had was old and bad,I asked her how much....she said 30k..I screamed and told her I didn't have that money,,she said if I wasn't ready to give her the money I should forget about her...I still told her I didn't have that type of money,she hisses and cut the call ...my neighbor was with me that day and my phone speaker was on,he heard everything and he asked me who was that....I told him it is my girl,he asked me why was she demanding such from me..then I opened up to him and told him everything...he then told me that I should forget that girl and delete everything about her as she was only using my head, he collected my phone and deleted her number from my phone,then he told there are millions of girls out there and I should stop wasting my time on one I haven't been able to call her this past days and she hasn't contacted me,I feel so sad bcus I know how much I invested,my time,my emotions now I am hurt..... Ok let's assume ur story is true, na better slap I for like give you now. For A girl u aren't even married to?... Keeps draining you and on top of that ,she slapped you twice? There are no words to qualify you Oga. |
Romance › Re: Don't ask What We Bring To The Table, Women Aren't Suppose To Bring Anything by Rickmann: 6:03pm On Feb 02, 2022*. Modified: 12:12pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Princess80: Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.
Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.
If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies If u give us groceries, we have to give u food If u give a house, we give u a home Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.
In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.
When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does. U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night. Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.
Oya let the insults pour 123 go. Lalasticlala mynd44 Dominique seun u have been moving awon redpillers thread for a while, oya come and do the needful here, let the war begin And tomorrow you complain when women aren't given equal preference as men in the society.. It's ok. God created a woman and called her a helper and not a processor...not in one aspect but in every endeavour. You ladies just cook up shit in ur 2kilo byte brain just to support ur baseless philosophies. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Lacks Patience. by Rickmann: 5:33pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Goodvibes8: Happy new month Dear nairalanders. Pls i really your advice on this issue.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and 3 months, I intend to make her my wife. She is always on her recommended glasses because of her eyesight, She is a great, beautiful and brilliant girl but she lacks patience, she is not always patient with me.
She is a kind of girl that if she need something from you, just be ready to give her what she asked instantly and immediately else she will give you attitude.
I take good care of her, we go out on dates, I send her money for up-keep, I always try to be a good and better man for her, she is not a bitch and I love her so much.
Exactly this time last week, I sent her 35k for her up-keep. So yesterday evening (6pm) she called me and she said her glass lenses has expired, she can barely see and it's causing her serious headache, that she needed 25k to renew the lens.
I gently told her I can't do transfer at the moment, let her use the money I sent to her last week to sort it out first, then I would send everything back to her including the money for her glass lens in 4 days time.
She started giving me attitude, she said the money isn't up to 25k in her account, that she has used part of the money. I also explained the reason why I can't do transfer but she didn't listen, from 7pm yesterday till today she refused to pick my calls.
This morning, I have to make some calls to my friends to help me with some cash, then I sent her the 25k to go see her optometrist doctor. Infact what happened is just a tip of an iceberg, I can't even narrate what she done on several occasions, She doesn't care if you have what she need. Everything about her is urgent!!
I see this her behavior as a red flag. What should I do? I love her, she's a first class graduate. Pls don't call me a simp. I just need advice Pls. My father once said to me "a failed relationship is far better than a scattered marriage" This line has lived in my head ever since. Open ur eyes my friend, She is giving you vital signs already, run while you still can and stop all this complaints here. |
Family › Re: I'm So Confused On What To Do. I Need Help. by Rickmann: 7:47am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Thermidehby: A very good morning here. This is going to be a bit lengthy but, I'll try to abridge my words here.
Well, I studied biology and education in my first degree. So I applied for masters of education in evaluation and measurements in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria and I've been given admission.
I teach in a private school and I have few home lessons I take. Though as i type I really do not have much funds to start this programme being a 25years old female teacher but I'm so keen about furthering my education before settling down. I've been having doubts if i should go for the programme or not. My fears are:
1. I have my younger brother to cater for (he lives with me in my self contain apartment), though he has handwork (fashion designing) and a school cert holder but I've not been able to get a parmanent place where he can work for now. I've been the one shouldering all bills ever since I graduated from the university and I really do not want to bother my parents because they are not too financially buoyant and I have 4 more younger ones.
2. My friends told me not to go for the masters programme because biology education and masters of education in evaluation and measurements aren't correlating.
3. Getting to starting the programme and at the long run after finishing I'm not able to get a good paying job cause I'm putting all my savings into it and the aim is to get a better paying job and not the token I'm receiving now.
4. I might lose my Job if I get to go for the programme because I applied for a full-time programme which is just a year unlike the part-time which is close to two years. Many of my friends asked me to resign because they feel what I need now is just a little change to sustain my brother and I when I eventually start the programme. As regards me resigning from work, I'm thinking of pleading with the management if my work time can be reviewed to be a part-time job even if it involves reviewing my salary I don't mind, so as to have the remaining days to attend lectures while I still keep doing my home lessons.
I'm so so confused. Everything seems so confusing and what I need right now is just a candid advice on the best way to go about this, cause I don't want to get married before furthering my education. Must ur master course option be Education related, can't you go into the biological science part like say public health or something? Secondly, I think it's a good idea to talk to ur employers to reschedule ur work hours. See if that works. But babe, it's going to be so tasking and stressful on you combining both. |
Romance › Re: Guys share Your "Are You Still Coming That Never Showed Up" Experience by Rickmann: 7:26am On Feb 02, 2022 |
NoahHadNoArk: I sent her tfare, 3k to come from pH to UYO, she gave me all assurances that she's bigger and better than a meagre 3k, that as soon as she sees money she will head to park to spend the weekend with me. My mumu sense made me send the money plus 16# and 10# wey zenith bank charge for transaction fee, as I send am finish, I message am, "u don see am?" She first talk say she no see am, before she come gree say she don see am. Oya now, begin dey come. She first tell me say she dey on her way to park, before she tell me say she no go come again say she don dey hear plenty stori of girls wey dey loss, wey dey disappear, say I fit be yahoo boy or Ritualist me!!? ritualist na dia e clear me. she say she no dey come again make I drop my aza make she return my money. I been knw say e no go ever happen but I still drop aza sha as per say my last bar na 5k wey I comot 3k send am, sapa don dey already give me 5 miss calls. I come dey preach give am say I be crypto genius and guru, say dt 3k no b anything, say I been no say she no go come, say I been just wan test am. I was already staring and a very long weekend, alone and broke , say if she wan scam me next time make she do am 30k, 100k even 300k, say I get am, e no be anything for me say i for send am. Dz na on top the last 2k wey dey my zenith bank acct. Read the screenshot below for her final lines before she blocked me.
Well done Uju You were smart, smooth and clean Made me realise the heights of my Mumucity Thanks so much for teaching me some sense. I will never forget that lesson I learnt the hard way  Congrats to you, do well to use that 3k to buy a property in Banana Island. Its going to be a very wise investment in the nearest future.
My peace I leave you Welcome to the school of hard knocks bro.. This is why guys no dey pity them when they get their chance. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Npower. November Stipend Payment Issues by Rickmann: 10:39pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Olalite1: good day, trust you are doing well, my name is olali dabafagha junior and i have an issue with my november stipend, my november stipend displays FAILED, TRANSACTION DOES NOT EXIST, i received my september and october stipends without any issues but all of a sudden november stipends popped up with this failed transaction issue. pls I want to know if others are having similar issues and how are they going about it. thanks and Godbless below are my details Olali Dabafagha olalipete3@gmail.com NPWR/2020/001262984 N-Teach - NPR Beneficiary Na every month dem they get payment backlogs? Which kind stupid and cursed country be this Nigeria sef? Nothing seems to work . Tufia kwa |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Npower. November Stipend Payment Issues by Rickmann: 10:39pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Olalite1: good day, trust you are doing well, my name is olali dabafagha junior and i have an issue with my november stipend, my november stipend displays FAILED, TRANSACTION DOES NOT EXIST, i received my september and october stipends without any issues but all of a sudden november stipends popped up with this failed transaction issue. pls I want to know if others are having similar issues and how are they going about it. thanks and Godbless below are my details Olali Dabafagha olalipete3@gmail.com NPWR/2020/001262984 N-Teach - NPR Beneficiary Na every month dem they get payment backlogs? Which kind stupid and cursed country be this Nigeria sef? Nothing seems to works . Tufia kwa |