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People can marry whoever the hell they want.

seetomorrow:
To be frank, not that i am bringing my secret family affair outside but the reverse is my case here. My wife made it compulsory that before i try to climb, i must first of all go down for like 20-30 mins first and she will refused to do the same. That she feel irritated to semen taste her tongue. Like seriously? But what about me going down to an open everlasting wound?
So such selfishness is really bad. Do you know i have gotten to a level i have became so addicted to this head and sometimes i find it very difficult to resist the urge of going down for another woman, due to i can not comfortably ascertain her neatness and STD free

She is absolutely selfish and you are a simp.

I am a woman take it from me women will push you to see if you encourage it they will keep doing it.


The rule with head is giving and receiving.

If one person don’t wanna give don’t ever give ever never.


My advice to you
Starting today never ever ever go down on her. Tell her sex is not meant to be selfish, you want to enjoy the experience as well, even if you’re honey and she don’t allow you to have sex with her no matter how long it takes don’t give in. Take your stand and act like a man, she will stop this foolishness.

If she starves you for too long get it from another woman and show it to her you are getting it from somewhere else. Just make sure you protect yourself.

She will come back to her senses very fast.






Unless you want to have this sort of selfish sex for the rest of your life.



Don’t let nobody play a fast one on you wife or not. Menh I don’t stand for bullshit.

If she don’t gives head too, no head so ya all have no head seeeex.

Everybody is someone ex. No big deal.

Yes please don’t marry her since you based the qualities that make a good wife solely on virginity.

Go look for your virgin wife and let the people daughter go please.

Nonsense!

Singing now I ain’t saying she’s a gold digger but…….

Just remain single for now.

Enjoy the single life it can be fun as well LMAO.

That is why tough love is important sometimes
From our love ones and family.

No one could tell this lady the truth? What sort of madness is this? And they are all
Part of the celebration like she’s marrying Jay Z the Billionaire.

Foolishness in high places.

Thebadpolitican:
Why una dey tag race for everything
So wetin happen to white people them nor carry eve gene

So much insecurity and inferiority complex coming from just one race in the world d black race

No they carry the Eve gene. What sort of stupid question is this?

This place must be full of teenagers because even white people knows they don’t carry the Eve gene.

Fu..ck off my mentions please.

Black women carry the Eve gene indeed…..beautiful wonder of God.

People say fear women I say fear friends even more.

Awwwww ya all look cute congratulations.

Bukola94:
thanks Ms. are you a doctor or u are in the health line? I like your comment,but the community Dick psycho got me LOL.

A doctor? Oooh I wish lol I am an RN but apart from that I take my feminine hygiene serious.

lecowas:
The OP is quite funny, the shame wey go catch am no be here

But some plates ehn, what oozes out from there, don't blame some men. As for me, I don't even fancy all this new stuffs. Old school is enough. Life is more than that.

Whether a woman is into receiving head or not a woman is supposed to be clean and neat always.

If your woman is not clean talk to her straight up. Some women don’t even realise they stink, also the female body is very complicated but many women don’t even understand their own body.

I am not here to shame any woman as I am a woman myself some women are actually clean and it ain’t their fault many men out here fucking hella bitches and coming back and putting that community dick in your pussy which can upset the ph balance as well.

Women just need to be careful who they fucking out here as well.


P.S everyone has their own preferences. If you only like good old missionary style, do you lol.

Sucking your dick is not the problem but do you return the favour?

Because many of you bush African men are very selfish and only cares about your own pleasure…..putting the lady pleasure last.

A real men knows a woman’s pleasure matter and will ever try his best to make her cums before himself.


If you want your dick sucked make sure you’re licking her plate as well.

Farfalla:
I am not asking you to put them down or go against them. I just feel that your submission isn't at all objective. It comes from a place of bias. I'm not even talking about them as life partners, neither do I discourage anyone from choosing one (that would be hypocritical of me considering I live with a Black man).

Let's be objective here Roki. I'm not talking about looks, sexiness, dance moves, etc. Let's look at important stuff like governance. Just look at the system of governance in African countries (most African leaders are Black men) -- we cannot blame the "system" here for their greed and inefficiency. If black men were generally the best in everything, we should be having the best hospitals and medical services in the world, the best transport system, the lowest levels of crime, the best universities, the highest number of innovations, the highest indices of development, etc. I could go on and on.

I do not even consider the shameless misogyny rampant on Nairaland to arrive at my conclusion. We all know the frustration witnessed here by these boys comes from a lack of financial resources, rejection from the girls they like, and their inability to cope with that rejection. The existence of a few refined/classy black men doesn't negate the fact that they're generally not the best in everything. I feel that's an exaggeration. There are things I'd pick them for, but there are things they really do need to work on. Let's be honest with ourselves.

Lmao you got some good points but you lost me the moment you started comparing an entire race of men to the weak African Leadership.

Africans are very funny, do you know the crime rate in other western countries? The gun violent? And the list goes on?

Do you see other race of women coming online and bashing their race of men based on this?


Only African women will comfortably sit down even with other group of women and talk shit about their men.

All in all we can agree to disagree we all have our preferences I guess.

Farfalla:
Black men are the best in everything?
Chai! Rokiatu! Let me just keep quiet.

Yes they are the best in everything just that the system is step up to constantly keep the black
Man down but still they are the best.

I am not here to put my own race of men down…..men that look like me I will always choice them a thousand times over other race of men.

Now I know nairaland is full of misogynist sexist and immature dusties that like to put their own Nigerian women down, that don’t discourage me one bit to go against black men, because I don’t gotta deal
With them anyways. Also in real life I deal with classic black men. Don’t let these ones acting a damn fool on here make you think black men ain’t all that.

pelumi2tu:
You Guys should be calming down ooo. Make Davido fans no catch una

I am actually a fan of Davido as well lol

He better find his own identity.

slam7000:
It was not a real or physical sex. Denzel played the role of a forensic expert with spinal injuries while Jolie was an inexperienced cop. Queen Latifah was in the movie as well, she was Denzel’s nurse who liked solving puzzles and crosswords.

The sex Jolie was describing was a mind/psychological experience and part of the movie….nothing real or physical. All of you above should watch Bone collector first before you continue with your “ once you go black, you don’t go back or black anaconda” chest beating.

Even though she is not talking about actual sex but the true of the matter is that black men are the best and every other race of women know this heck even other race of men knows this.

Even my ex back in school was a white guy (this
Was before I was woke hear me out lol) kept mentioning how he couldn’t match up to my previous man cuz he knew him and he was black. I kept reassuring him but deep down they know too black men are the best and this is not about sex, in everything.


Never again with these mayonnaise men thou.

The only track I like is no competition.

Ask for money.

That is dustie repellent. They will run as far away from you as possible.

This one is always doing the most. Learn from your co wife May and lay low a little.

All this na long tin. Let them promise to provide protect and keep no side chicks first. Something as simple as that is hard for many men and you are coming with a top 10 list.

How is this one even gonna perform in bed? What kind of sorcery is this? Who did this girl dirty like this?

If I was her I would even bring my young and fresh boyfriend in his home I doubt he can even see clearly to know what’s going on.

Nonsense!!

I have never done number 3 and I don’t intend to.

I like number 2 and 1.

Emotionally immature children having babies. So sad.

I normally never noticed but if I find out you unfriend me especially someone I know in real life imma follow you to your profile and block your asss.

I pray in the future my boys children don’t marry maniac for wives.

Panthetic and extremely unruly.

What is that compare to what women go through with child birth and pregnancy .