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Are you that easily influenced by what other people think and their opinions?

Accurate Af

Because people are getting married for the wedding and for the sake of settling down without actually having a clue what marriage is all about and how to make marriage work/last.


Many get married very few stay married.

The part she left out is what she did that got the Groom to literally disappear like the flash like that?

Chie that Guy too wicked Sha.

Is it part of your contract for your boss to be getting you phones up and down like this?

You are indeed funny, don’t you know that you are just a number as an employee and can be replaced in a blink of an eye?

Now that you have resigned over nonsense go and rest and stop disturbing our peace please.

This could be a skit for all we know.

As he should.

viyon02:
Africa still have the best marriage system, in the world, and the white are envious of this, so they try to sell to us devilish ideas, in order to destroy our traditional view of marriage, they brought feminism, sodomy etc.

No lie told my brother.

Who told you only penetration is considered sex?

Oral s…ex is even more intimate if she let you do that I wonder why she didn’t allow penetration. Smh

Ignorant is bliss.

None of the above is for you, but if you are desperate and the type that can just settle for anything then choose one I suppose.

EriMma1:
It's because bodyshaming gang that they keep putting their lives at risk.

I pray for a safe surgery for her.

Well she needs to work on her self esteem because caring what people think is deadly and many of those people are full of imperfections themselves.

I am all about looking after yourself and your appearance but I am against surgery strictly for cosmetic purposes. Because once you start it becomes an addiction and it doesn’t fix your low self esteem either……I wish her all the best but most of all I wish her inner healing and self love.

That’s major congrats to her.

Is this a skit? I just can’t believe this. What the fu..ck he’s been doing since 2021 that he can’t even afford to rent a house?

This is so pathetic…….learn to love yourself baby girl smh.

Yes Good men do exist but don’t go online praising them too much, give word of affirmation to them and show appreciation to them but don’t talk about it with your friends because trust me females can be very jealous for no reasons they make it their life mission to make your husband cheat just to prove a point.

Afterall your man is still a man with a dick, and blood running through his veins so he’s not above temptation. Even Joseph a prophet almost fell to a woman’s temptation.

They look beautiful together.

May this one last.

Old man was really busy chie.

Two can play that game should be the name of this movie.

You and your husband are really compatible beautiful couple I must say.

May your union last forever.

Talk is cheap. She could promised and still leave you.

youngZee23:
And i would have love to see u creat this topic with ur original flat ass..dey play

Hahaha so now my azz is a doctor hand work
Lol lol lol lol

I take that as a compliment thank you.

Ya all can’t even tell the real thing from fake anymore loolzzz these BBL women really got ya all confused out here.

Clearly your wife is emotionally immature and runs to her family for every little thing. Seems like her mother raised her this way to depend on her, one of the many traits of narcissistic mothers. I can clearly spot a lot of issues in this your marriage and if care is not taken you are headed for trouble because lack of communication between you and your wife is glaring as well. Why haven’t you call your wife since she left to find out whats going on? Is this battle of the egos or is it that you actually did something wrong to your wife but left that out of your write out?

The lack of boundaries with her family is shocking to say the least. No matter what their daughter told them, they shouldn’t have allow her stay without her husband approval for this long a married woman for that matter.


Also seems to me like you have a grudge against her family just from the way you wrote. A mature husband would call and ask his in laws why his wife is still over there.

My man you have a lot of issues to work on, if you still treasure your marriage I suggest you put your ego aside and work on your communication with your wife. She also needs to grow up she clearly don’t know how marriage works or what marriage is all about, she’s has a lot of unlearning and work to do. She probably don’t know any better, if this is how how parents are behaving just imagine how she was raised by these folks clearly she doesn’t even know if she’s doing anything wrong her parents are her enablers and she’s immature. She needs serious help.


If you and your wife can work together, then the in laws issues will be easy to handle. What you encourage is what will continue they are just doing this because your wife has encouraged them.


Lastly you have to do better as a son in law. Don’t be so proud and arrogant with your in laws, try to bring your shoulder down a bit. Call them once a while, visit them once a while, check on them maintain a healthy relationship with your in laws, no one is asking you to kiss their asses but be a kind person and Learn to be respectful especially to your mother and father in laws. I have seen a lot of husbands be jerks to their in laws and expecting to have a happy home with their wife impossible!!!!

You can be respectful and loving to them and still set boundaries with them.

MrBrownJay1 You win lol

The never ending gender war is getting boring.

No cap though Akon is right.


Not including the likes of billionaire Jay Z Kayne Rihanna P Diddy etc that wouldn’t be a fair play.

MrBrownJay1:
you should also start to feel sorry for a lot of women as well.... as now we have the below type of women pretending to be men:

You can’t tell me these dudes were women Lord of our days society is fu..cked.

Gerrard59:
It is economics. I am willing to wager she is a black African, not an African American. The solution is for black African countries to be rich so that their inhabitants are not desperate in marital pursuits.

She clearly is not FBA she looks African,
And many Africans so desperate and still brainwashed thinking been with these transparent people is a flex.