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This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

falcon01:
Honour, Not because of Karma, or because I feel Bad or I feel Cheating is wrong to me it's nothing, I wont feel bad or remorse for cheating I don't cheat because I'm a man of my word. But if there's no agreement, and want to, I would cheat without remorse because its not cheating to me, its just and adventure.

If your partner was to cheat on you would you think the same?

ahnie:
Nomarried man is faithful.kid yourself not.faithful for where?

They're only faithful because they haven't bn caught.

There are definitely faithful men not all
Men cheat.

Oluwasheyijossy:
Yes ma'am

Wow ok if you say so.

DrAbdulSuleman:
I or am I destined to have a fat cow for a wife?

Lord of our days you sure this woman is your wife? The same woman who birthed your lovely children? How can you use such derogatory words? Truly you are out of line and you should be ashamed of yourself.

Offcourse it is within your right to want your woman to keep in shape for herself and you as well but please don’t disrespect her in the process.

Seriously what is the meaning of this? Why they couldn’t get married when they were younger?

Videocaller:
Guys, Good evening, I’ll be brief.



For some context, she’s an Alpha female and I’m a sigma male- so it’s been like a 50-50 relationship.

Cough…. and exit thread quietly.

Because men have shown they just can’t do without pussy, and how important se…x is to them and so women use it as leverage against them.

Don’t hate the player hate the game.

And the sweet part of it all is that ya all would never stop needing it, and women knows this.

You can talk the talk but you can’t walk
The walk. Lmao a man getting angry and withdrawing dick from a woman is like a woman getting angry and not wanting a man’s money anymore. Who it go hurt?

SeaTrade:
As much as we try to deny this,it'll happen to almost everybody.
Men will get tired of their wives and vice versa.
One begin to wonder the point in marrying in the first place.

Marriage is not by force. You can stay single
And keep fu..cking around and see if that gets you anywhere.
There’s nothing in these streets but lies and STds.

The girl
is smart. Older men treat you better and many have reached their financial peak so soft life.

None of the above
They all dressed like they broke.

eepeepook:
He’s an actor, he can attempt the institution ten times in a row. We regular idiots have to struggle to catch one woman.

You’re probably just broke. Hustle my brother and women will come.

okoroemeka:
this is quite interesting what I observed,my fellow in-law confided to me that he has not cheated on his wife for almost 30 years of marriage which is very impressive but he further told me that he beats his wife anytime he wants to nack and she is not in the mood,his wife on the other hand who is my wife's elder sister also told her sister that she prefers her husband to cheat rather than to be beating and disturbing her all the time,now which is the better option?

This is clearly abuse, she needs to grow some self esteem and get the Bleep out of that marriage.

She married a bush animal and not a man.

Smartguyboy:
Have you heard of CR7 cheating on his baby mama before ?

Naw but if many of you had his resources and kinda money the case would be different.

Toks2008:
I think you all are missing the point.

That they have separate rooms does not mean they must sleep apart every night.

Ladies need space sometimes and even one big room is not enough for ladies in most cases.

We all need space sometimes but I want me and my man in the same room thank you.

BusinessPlan22:
1.The fear of God
2. The vows I took
3. My wife is my life. I love her so much

So sweet.

dawnomike:
Commitment and the fear of God

If anything can keep a man from cheating it can only be that.

Oluwasheyijossy:
Well we are humans like other guys but discipline and self respect is the key oh. We don't follow the bandwagon effect of jumping on everything on skirt

So if you had cristiano ronaldo kinda money would you still be faithful to one woman?

Rule 1 spend generously on your woman.

Rule 1 spend generously on your woman. 🤣🤣🤣

I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?

My Condolences in advance to her husband.

This is one of the disadvantages of a purchased body.


Team natural body. These surgery bodies infuriate me. I blame the stooped Kardashians for these plastic looking bodies.

Wow then life must be easy for me.

On a more important note I disagree, and this is coming from someone with a big booty. Having a big booty most times all it gets you is load of attention and sometimes jealousy from other women also finding a guy that truly loves you is difficult many just think about sex when they see you.

If you see my dms across my social media accounts and see the unnecessary messages and dicks pic guys just randomly send me a day you will be stunned. They just think you are looking for sex because of your body shape.

But physical Appearance matters especially for women so let no one lie to you but you can’t just attribute it to only big booty. Every men has different taste and every woman have their own attributes that make them beautiful.

He’s right but people with no money wouldn’t understand. Money don’t buy happiness but it makes life easier.

Are we going by who has the bigger azzz?

Is that supposed to be an achievement?

:-Broke?


Wait unemployed as well?

I reall wish you luck. All the best you will need it.