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A broke man for that matter….some women are suffering Sha.

Lmao she has a point. Even if you are in love in 10 years with the same partner it wouldn’t matter much,
Smart women knows to look for a good provider man, because love wouldn’t put dinner on the table.

Irupetepete:
After my last experience in relationship, I will, don't go for looks or body features, you will end up regretting it...

Lmao your breakfast was hot ehn? This is just all talk for now when you move on you will go right back to your old ways.

Men will always go for looks and body features. That is just how they are. Telling a man not to go for looks is like telling a woman not to go for money.

There is a reason billionaires and millionaires go for pretty women. How a man’s woman look is a direct reflection on the man. That is why rich men like to take their pretty wives/gfs to lavish parties etc automatically there’s this level of respect that come with been seen with a pretty woman.


If georgina rodríguez weren’t beautiful Ronaldo wouldn’t have look her way fact!

Fryx:
You’re right.

It’s common among people that have a childhood like mine.

But I’ve learnt that already, and I am learning to put myself first above others. (Not easy)

One step at a time. Be gentle with yourself. Have a good day.

Fryx:
True, I am not a guy to follow the rules.

Like, I don’t do things the way others did. So, I just do things that makes me happy.

But that doesn’t mean I want something from the people I talk to. I just like to adore people that loves me.

Problem is I do not have a mom growing up, so I adore people that shows love to me. But that’s just it and nothing more.

Maybe you are right.

I am also still more about my career than about a relationship (Relationship can be sooooo demanding)

Thanks for this. Think I found a solution.

When I am ready, I will modify the way I relate to people.

Yep you know the solution already.

A little advice stop trying to find love and your worth in people.

Learn self love first and foremost it will change your life.

Poster is a liar I just checked he’s following nobody.

I am so disappointed in wizkid, so he could not follow his baby mama but he followed this fake snow bunny ? The same ugly surgery body shaped like an ant smh even me with my natural booty is shaped better than her.

Wizkid really fall my hands this time one thing these men will do is embarrass you out here, I feel for his baby mama this is second hand embarrassment.

From your write up along I can see you are not serious and likes to flirt around.

You ain’t ready for a serious relationship yet and women can see right through it.

Who the Bleep would choose a so called intelligent rude woman over a woman of character? One that will bring peace and bliss to your home? You must be out of your mind bro………follow your heart and see where that leads you. Some people prefer to learn from their mistakes I suppose.

The lady getting close to you is just a manipulation tactic to get you to keep hush.

Secondly your boss office romance is none of your business, keep quiet do the job that pays you and go home. You will find that minding your business will get you really far in life.

OfeAchi:
I'm talking to her to refrain from accepting roles that involves sex scenes. Maybe that would help our relationship. I hope I'm not being unreasonable.

If you are this insecure dating/marrying an actress is not your best bet.

Sunshinehappy:
That’s the problem, no father figure. My dad passed away since 2012. My sister and I have been together since then. No uncle or if there is an uncle then we don’t really know him. My mom tried introducing us to a family man that we can take as an uncle or elder family person but my sister said she doesn’t see any other person as her father apart from our dad. She doesn’t have a friend or husband that I can at least explain to. She’s always indoors. She doesn’t regard anyone as an elderly family person.

Your elder sister is obviously the bigger problem here from the little I have gathered from what you wrote. Nothing you wrote about your mom that shows genuine concern. But your sister is downright disrespectful to your mother, she’s bitter and acting as if all her trouble is caused by her mother…….the poor woman has it rough already her husband is deceased and your elder sister is acting like a 15 yr kid that just entered puberty no sense of direction what so ever.

I am shocked she’s the eldest with this her behaviour, if I was her little sister I would give her the truth raw and undiluted. Also I wouldn’t stand for her to disrespect our mother in my presence ever I would give her a taste of her own medicine so she can see how it feels when you are disrespected by your junior, then she will learn not to disrespect the mother who birthed us.


She needs to let go of the bitterness. Maybe she needs some dick in her life a man perhaps. She need to start putting herself out there and stop being indoors all the time. Prince Charming wouldn’t come knocking at her door looking for her.


Let her please stop putting her frustration on the oldma….your mother have her own issues she’s dealing with as well, she don’t have to add an over grown angry brat to that.

Sunshinehappy:
Hmmm
I can surely say it’s better to live alone than be in a house with a nagging person.

Is there a father figure in the home?

You people try to meet partners from here?

I heard they are making robots females now. You can get one of those programmed ones to do and behave exactly as you want.

Good luck.

Lol poster this is how most women live, they hardly get along. Be it mother and daughter, sisters, friends, in-laws, as soon they live under the same roof and for too long there are bound to be problems.

Draslo:
There's something you're doing or have done that makes you seem weak to her and trust me, there's a guy or guys out there that have shown her more manliness. Either way you don fuçk up.
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Next time you're in animal style session with her...when you're feeling her climaxing and her walls are tightening against your shaft, pull out and give her the hardest smack on her butt. When she turns around to ask you why, before she finishes grab her and flip her on her back violently while her vjayjay is still pulsating rhythmically with her heartbeats, place your strongest arm around her neck and reinsert yourself with your other hand. Thrust very hard while slapping her mildly with the weaker hand, then ask her again if she still thinks you're weak.

Disclaimer: This is not guaranteed to work. Witches must be broken up with. Don't try to change anything. Just end it.

Lolzzz so to you everything is about sex ehn?

Notorioustroll:
I am not weak emotionally or physically it's just that I hate to insult or beat up any lady not to talk of my girl. Generally I hate to hurt women not because I am weak or disrespectful but I see it as a sign of weakness and disrespect when a full grown man like me engage violently with these weaker vessels. And for your advice, I am considering that, seriously.

I didn’t mean it in that sense, I meant it in the sense that why would you be putting up with a woman of her type? Someone who can belittle you like this, as to not recognise the king that you are. Your kind of man is rare in these streets. You need to know your value and not settle for less. She should treat you like the king that you are and not belittle and disrespect you like this.

In case you don’t know this is a direct attack on your manhood. Telling a man he’s weak/not man enough do you know what that means? My nigga she have discredited your entire manhood.

Don’t even think about it, what do you mean by you are considering it? Dump this woman ASAP and move on to something better please.

I really hate these stupid immature small girls that be giving value to these bad boys and jerks thereby putting down nice respectful men. I hate it. Because of them these dusties out here thinking they are doing the right thing and they got game.

The truth is bitter, but it looks like you are indeed weak. Because what are you doing with this low self esteem damaged no good for nothing woman?

Someone who wants a violent jerk azzz for a man? She must clearly have daddy issues.
Clearly your values don’t align. What you need to do is kick her out your life so she can go mingle with those misogynists jerk azzz men. They are dime a dozen in these streets shes sure to find her match.


Find you a matured lady that appreciates a gentleman.

Many people ain’t shit. Just so wicked.

So what advice do you want us to give you? To leave her? To tell her to quit her job or what?

Because she’s an actress she has to do her work.

Mama the mama so are we to believe this? Hmmmm

Lmao omg nothing a man hates more than a beautiful woman who’s confident in herself. They just hate it and feel the need to humbled her, they will go to any length in their little minds to humbled her.

They will call her names, ugly, a slut, she’s think she’s all that, she ain’t even pretty, you name it.


The psychology of man is very funny but one I know very well, I understand them so very well.

See all these grown azzz men quoting me and so pained because of a statement I made. One that doesn’t affect them whatsoever.


I am out of this thread even I can’t waste my time on these grown azzz retards when I already understand their game plan.


Deuces!!!!

ruffhandu:
If your husband doesn't cheat (you are 100% sure of this), and he doesn't beat you (over 6 years of marriage he has never lifted a finger on you), and he is financially ok, not wealthy but has two cars and able to provide for the family. Also, he can knack for life (has a relatively big dick and can use it). What else could make you disrespect him or want to leave him.

You will do better to ask the woman that wants to leave you and not us, because we truly don’t have the answer you are seeking.

TTPAAR:
He is not just into women.

If he’s not into women why are you looking for a wife for him? Do you want somebody daughter to suffer in his hands?

God knows what the hell he’s into if he’s not into Women.

Every woman swears that she got a better crotch. If you like you can have two vaginals and one gets wetter than the other he will still drop you and go to where he can find peace of mind.

That’s the most important.

hardbody:
Ageless Rokiatu. We've been here a whole long time and yeah you say it the way it is. Known you for that.

Thanks

franchasofficia:
Hmmmmm, you wrote perfectly like a man, are you sure u are a female? If you are a female, then it means that u really understand life and relationship so well, kudos oh, wow

Lol I am a woman.

ObiaboAdoka:
U r a man or try nd change ur pic to prove who u are.

The OGs know I am not a man, no female in the history of nairaland have ever changed their profile pic as much as me.

I will change my profile pic when I want to I have nothing to prove to nobody.

linearity:
Some (at least 2) of my exes (at least 3, since the ‘some’ is a subset of ‘exes’ here.

My ‘current man’…making at least 4+ body counts….all happening within a space of 8 yrs.

For an irreplaceable women you sure got replaced four times too many within a space of just 8 yrs.

Replaced? Nîgga please lol how Lori Harvey played the game is what I did……I never settled and I ended up with the overall best and better man.

They all got dumped duh.

It’s not just about sex but some women are truly irreplaceable.

Some of my exes stay salty and in my inbox begging me to come back 8 years later while my current man stay obsessed.

donproject2:
Africans still strongly show that we are doomed. Have we ever seen a young oyinbo guy getting married to an old Africa woman...

This is just disgusting

Thank you my brother you get it.