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FamilyRe: Why Are Some Women So Stupid? by Rokiat(f): 2:07pm On Mar 28, 2023
Why are you asking us?? huh Ask the so called baby mamas you are talking about.

You’ve clearly been in their dms, go ask them go on.
FamilyRe: Wife Beats Husband Till He Faints After Catching Him In Bed With Another Lady by Rokiat(f): 2:05pm On Mar 28, 2023
Berrityga:
so can you forgive your cheating husband? Ehn ma??
Even if I don’t forgive him that doesn’t mean I should be physical with him. I don’t believe in violence.
FamilyRe: Wife Beats Husband Till He Faints After Catching Him In Bed With Another Lady by Rokiat(f): 1:56pm On Mar 28, 2023
Physical abuse is not acceptable and doesn’t matter if done by a woman or man this wrong.

I am in no way condoning cheating but the way she emasculate her husband maybe this is the reason he went cheating on her in the first place. She’s too masculine for my liking.

Just walk away if you can’t forgive him leave his azzz no need for all this.
RomanceRe: Dark Skin Girls Only by Rokiat(f): 11:42am On Mar 28, 2023
I am not even gonna quote you anymore the fact that you couldn’t even understand my previous post shows shows I shouldn’t even have wasted all this time in you.

Peace.
RomanceRe: I Snor And It's Affecting My Relationship by Rokiat(f): 11:33am On Mar 28, 2023
ears plugged May help her but she try sha because it’s not easy. grin
RomanceRe: Dark Skin Girls Only by Rokiat(f): 11:15am On Mar 28, 2023
Danisaint112:
Rest. You are just into Lupita's movie a lot. Watch Justin Skye's own you will love her as much as Lupita too.

The are both famous African American actress. And I love both of their personalities so no qualms but things ought/got to be be said the way they are. Peace..
No you rest sir, what do you mean things ought to be said the will they are?
grin

You will now force your opinion on me? Lol

Offcourse I know Justin Skye isn’t she more famous for been Kylie Jenner friend/ side kick than even her movies you can’t even compare she and Lupita in that regard.

Lupita is in a league of her own. Lupita is in the Premier League and Justin is not even in La Liga if we are comparing the two.



Maybe because she has eurocentric beauty features especial when it comes to featurism most of you have been brainwashed into believing people with eurocentric beauty features are more beautiful then those with Afrocentric features but that’s a conversation for another day.
RomanceRe: I've Found Every Woman's Weakness by Rokiat(f): 11:10am On Mar 28, 2023
Babara1994:
Yeah, same reason women don't need sexual satisfaction. Sexual pleasure was designed for men only
Side eyes undecided

Women are not humans right? You are the type of man that will have your babe cheating on you and fffing these 18 yr old kids behind your back because of this your backward mentality.
TV/MoviesRe: The Vampire Diaries and The Originals Fan Page by Rokiat(f): 5:26am On Mar 28, 2023
Bimffo:
I miss the TVD and The Originals Universe.

One of the scene I can never forget was when Klaus and Camille met for second time at where a man was making a painting. And Camille was telling Klaus how the painting meant, the painter is fighting a demon.

Then when Camille died in Klaus' arms, and she said a particular bible verse should be written on her tomb stone.

Emotional Emotional scenes
I missed tvd and the originals too I have to now rewatch just for nostalgia.
CelebritiesRe: A Man Who Has Two Wives Knows The One That Moves His Heart – Yul Edochie Speaks by Rokiat(f): 4:47am On Mar 28, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Last paragraph is so true, most women who built with their men from the scratch end up living a very sad life due to the betrayal of this so-called men they built with. Please go and build on your own first before we can talk meaningfully else find your square root.
You get it. cool
RomanceRe: I've Found Every Woman's Weakness by Rokiat(f): 4:43am On Mar 28, 2023
pointblank247:
Lobishi
The real thing with ladies is a very deep pocket and the mind to spend. Only young and naive girls see your red lips and ripling abs, they get tired of seeing it when they notice that it's all you gat . My Potbelly and aura of comfortability have attracted more ladies than i can handle .
Tell him, a generous man with money is a handsome man. grin

Only man care for looks because how your woman looks absolutely reflect on you as a man and the respect you get among your peers, that is why billionaires and millionaires go for pretty women and even walk around with them, and go to lavish parties as arm candy.

But how a man’s look? How does that affect his ability to provide and protect? undecided Only small girls go for looks only nonsense.

A man’s look is last on my list when I am looking.

A man ability to provide and protect is what women find attractive.

And a woman’s look is her currency fact!!
CelebritiesRe: A Man Who Has Two Wives Knows The One That Moves His Heart – Yul Edochie Speaks by Rokiat(f): 4:38am On Mar 28, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Your last paragraph is really hurting to read, the worst thing any man can ever do to me is to bring in a second wife, i won't even stay a second. I may forgive him if he ask for it but I'm going very far away from him never to return.
That is why this is so hard for May, because of the betrayal of it all. Yul didn’t ask if this is something she wants, he just went out there pregnant another woman had a whole baby on his wife, quickly married that woman without his wife consent and then forced it on her, like who does that?

If May refuse to take his foolish azzz back I am with her till the end.

On a last note never build with a man because they are quick to drop your azz the minute they make it and go for their actual preference they actually couldn’t get when they were poor. And your sorry azz will be left looking like boo boo the fool. He’s not your child, don’t build with him. Go for him when he built himself up already and then after marriage you can help him build on more.
CelebritiesRe: A Man Who Has Two Wives Knows The One That Moves His Heart – Yul Edochie Speaks by Rokiat(f): 4:25am On Mar 28, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
You are so wrong on this, second wives are mostly for pleasures(to satisfy lustful desires) but first wife will always own the heart. What a first wife will do and go away with it, if second wife try am he will send her away. Men are aware that only their first wife in most cases truly love them, though things may go south some times sha. As for Yul his first wife's refusal to forgive and accept his second wife is really dealing with him emotionally, check his emotional posts recently on forgiveness and how no one will live forever lmao.
I never used love anywhere in my post I said favourite.

Also love is an emotion and can change at any time.
Not everyone stay in love forever many people fall out of love, if he was so in love with his first wife they would have sort out their issues instead of him to go out there looking for another wife to satisfy his lustful desires as you said.


Most times the reason men let the first wife get away with things is because they can about their reputation and what people will say, he knows this people knows this woman as the first wife, usually first wives are the struggle wife, the one that built with them, the bob the builder type so after building with him he will now bring in a second wife his actual preference in term of physical beauty, to now enjoy what the first wife suffered and build with him.
RomanceRe: I've Found Every Woman's Weakness by Rokiat(f): 3:52am On Mar 28, 2023
I don’t know who lied to you but attached is our weakness and not that.

FamilyRe: Is It Possible To Forgive A Cheating Partner by Rokiat(f): 2:43am On Mar 28, 2023
Many women are not gonna like what I am about to type.

But before you get married to anyone you have to check for red flags, and certain patterns or behaviours. and if these are red flags you can live with for the rest of your life.

We all infact have red flags but you have to see if you can live with this for the rest of your life or not, the problem with most people especially women is that they think these things will changes after marriage or that the person loves you so they will change no nobody changed just because they loves you.


So before you rush into this thing called marriage think, study and don’t rush just to settled down or because you are desperate because marriage is not like dating where you can just up and leave because now you are not happy. You are ripping your whole family apart especially if you have kids.


This is why there are so many divorces nowadays because people are rushing into it and ignoring all the red flags thinking marriage will change their person. No it wouldn’t.




I really can’t give you a solution because I am not in your shoes, so you have to take this decision by yourself. You have to think of all the pros and cons of leaving this man and decide. So ask yourself,
how is this man with you? Is he a great husband? a great provider? and only the cheating has been his down fault so far? Can you trust him again? Are you willing to look pass this?

Ultimately the decision is yours and yours alone because we are not there with you and him behind closed doors.

Good luck.
CelebritiesRe: A Man Who Has Two Wives Knows The One That Moves His Heart – Yul Edochie Speaks by Rokiat(f):
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed :-XHe don’t have to tell us, we already know na the second wife.


Else what else would you be looking for again when you had a beautiful wife and family already?

Unless offcourse you weren’t happy with
Her. Every polygamy marriage it is never the first wife and the first wife know this too and even the second wife knows she’s the favourite.
RomanceRe: Help, My Fiancé Cooks Her Best Meal When We Are Broke by Rokiat(f): 1:44pm On Mar 27, 2023
And 10 years from now she will be asking “why hasn’t him married me yet?”

Let her continue being a good girl good on her lmao.
RomanceRe: Dark Skin Girls Only by Rokiat(f): 1:40pm On Mar 27, 2023
Danisaint112:
Hahaha 😂 your weird opinion ofcourse certainly won't be the opinion of honest many.
I don’t care for what majority thinks I have a mind of my own.
RomanceRe: Dark Skin Girls Only by Rokiat(f): 11:41am On Mar 27, 2023
Danisaint112:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, Sure. Meaning even women love women sometimes which is disgusting but beautiful in their eyes.

What I keep telling people is that everyone is beautiful, none is ugly, but there are some who are just more beautiful wether or not you found another more beautiful or refuse to accept the fact. Note this.

First two pictures is Justin Skye (I think the Op even posted a picture of her) while the last two pictures is Lupita

If you are honest to yourself you will agree that they are both beautiful but Skye is more beautiful wether or not she is the Apple of your eye

Let say things the way they are and stop deviating from obvious facts.
Lupita is more beautiful to me, you can’t change my opinion undecided
CrimeRe: My Experience With A Scammer This Morning. by Rokiat(f): 11:39am On Mar 27, 2023
Lmao this is too funny. grin
RomanceRe: Dark Skin Girls Only by Rokiat(f): 4:59am On Mar 27, 2023
Danisaint112:
But In terms of facial beauty and shape/figure she can't match up to half of the girls on this thread alone. Fact. 💯✔️
Again your opinion is not a fact, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder hence the reason we both have different taste and opinion.

Yours or even mine is not a fact but an opinion.

To each their own you are entitled to your opinion thou I stand firmly by mine.
RomanceRe: My Landlady Issued Me A Quit Notice For Hosting A Female Friend by Rokiat(f): 2:57am On Mar 27, 2023
Sounds like a miserable soul. If audacity was a person da f..ck. I pity her husband. I stay far away from such negative grumpy no good folks like this.

Get out of there ASAP.
RomanceRe: Dark Skin Girls Only by Rokiat(f): 10:40pm On Mar 26, 2023
Danisaint112:
You mean Lupita Nyong'o? Nah! character wise, yes. Facial beauty, No.
Your opinion though not a fact.

She’s stunning to me.
RomanceRe: Dark Skin Girls Only by Rokiat(f): 5:51pm On Mar 26, 2023
Lupita will always be that girl. kiss
RomanceRe: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Rokiat(f): 5:39pm On Mar 26, 2023
EmiDon11:
i dey pray make i jam this type wey be my mate... grin grin

Aswear na marriage straight... grin grin

Ah no go ever cheat on her....

Nevaaaaaaa!!!

Bcuz;

She has all i want in a woman.

God really blessed u jare...

Golibe n' inwere ya

Golibe n' chukwu enyego gi yaa
Smh men lol
RomanceRe: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Rokiat(f): 5:03pm On Mar 26, 2023
EmiDon11:
omo see yansh ooo grin grin grin

U gather no be lie grin
grin
RomanceRe: The Most Attractive You Like About A Woman Or A Man In Relationship by Rokiat(f): 4:58pm On Mar 26, 2023
A masculine provider man is a fine azz man to me.
RomanceRe: . by Rokiat(f): 4:38pm On Mar 26, 2023
depressedlad:
i hate myself i hate my life im tired nothing works for me god hates me i am a failure i am useless i need courage to kill myself
If you knew the power of self love you would be kinder to yourself.

What you think you become. Think hardly of yourself pour love into yourself, be gentle and kind with yourself be patient with yourself and new to be content with whatever little you have while working towards better.

Happiness is a state of mind.
RomanceRe: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Rokiat(f): 4:30pm On Mar 26, 2023
You can help your family but know that you come first, you can only do what you can but you have to look after yourself as well. Else it will take a huge toll on your mental health and well being.
RomanceRe: Masturbation: How To Stop It(a Masturbator Experience) by Rokiat(f): 4:18pm On Mar 26, 2023
Mermaid123:
Are u serious ,u must be joking
But wait are u really serious.
Joking for what? I am very serious.
RomanceRe: Am Sorry Worried About My Relationship by Rokiat(f): 4:16pm On Mar 26, 2023
She’s emotionally immature. Run as fast away from her as possible.

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