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Why are you asking us?? Ask the so called baby mamas you are talking about.You’ve clearly been in their dms, go ask them go on. |
Berrityga:Even if I don’t forgive him that doesn’t mean I should be physical with him. I don’t believe in violence. |
Physical abuse is not acceptable and doesn’t matter if done by a woman or man this wrong. I am in no way condoning cheating but the way she emasculate her husband maybe this is the reason he went cheating on her in the first place. She’s too masculine for my liking. Just walk away if you can’t forgive him leave his azzz no need for all this. |
I am not even gonna quote you anymore the fact that you couldn’t even understand my previous post shows shows I shouldn’t even have wasted all this time in you. Peace. |
ears plugged May help her but she try sha because it’s not easy. ![]() |
Danisaint112:No you rest sir, what do you mean things ought to be said the will they are? ![]() You will now force your opinion on me? Lol Offcourse I know Justin Skye isn’t she more famous for been Kylie Jenner friend/ side kick than even her movies you can’t even compare she and Lupita in that regard. Lupita is in a league of her own. Lupita is in the Premier League and Justin is not even in La Liga if we are comparing the two. Maybe because she has eurocentric beauty features especial when it comes to featurism most of you have been brainwashed into believing people with eurocentric beauty features are more beautiful then those with Afrocentric features but that’s a conversation for another day. |
Babara1994:Side eyes ![]() Women are not humans right? You are the type of man that will have your babe cheating on you and fffing these 18 yr old kids behind your back because of this your backward mentality. |
Bimffo:I missed tvd and the originals too I have to now rewatch just for nostalgia. |
IyaebeTheGreat:You get it. ![]() |
pointblank247:Tell him, a generous man with money is a handsome man. ![]() Only man care for looks because how your woman looks absolutely reflect on you as a man and the respect you get among your peers, that is why billionaires and millionaires go for pretty women and even walk around with them, and go to lavish parties as arm candy. But how a man’s look? How does that affect his ability to provide and protect? Only small girls go for looks only nonsense. A man’s look is last on my list when I am looking. A man ability to provide and protect is what women find attractive. And a woman’s look is her currency fact!! |
IyaebeTheGreat:That is why this is so hard for May, because of the betrayal of it all. Yul didn’t ask if this is something she wants, he just went out there pregnant another woman had a whole baby on his wife, quickly married that woman without his wife consent and then forced it on her, like who does that? If May refuse to take his foolish azzz back I am with her till the end. On a last note never build with a man because they are quick to drop your azz the minute they make it and go for their actual preference they actually couldn’t get when they were poor. And your sorry azz will be left looking like boo boo the fool. He’s not your child, don’t build with him. Go for him when he built himself up already and then after marriage you can help him build on more. |
IyaebeTheGreat:I never used love anywhere in my post I said favourite. Also love is an emotion and can change at any time. Not everyone stay in love forever many people fall out of love, if he was so in love with his first wife they would have sort out their issues instead of him to go out there looking for another wife to satisfy his lustful desires as you said. Most times the reason men let the first wife get away with things is because they can about their reputation and what people will say, he knows this people knows this woman as the first wife, usually first wives are the struggle wife, the one that built with them, the bob the builder type so after building with him he will now bring in a second wife his actual preference in term of physical beauty, to now enjoy what the first wife suffered and build with him. |
I don’t know who lied to you but attached is our weakness and not that.
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Many women are not gonna like what I am about to type. But before you get married to anyone you have to check for red flags, and certain patterns or behaviours. and if these are red flags you can live with for the rest of your life. We all infact have red flags but you have to see if you can live with this for the rest of your life or not, the problem with most people especially women is that they think these things will changes after marriage or that the person loves you so they will change no nobody changed just because they loves you. So before you rush into this thing called marriage think, study and don’t rush just to settled down or because you are desperate because marriage is not like dating where you can just up and leave because now you are not happy. You are ripping your whole family apart especially if you have kids. This is why there are so many divorces nowadays because people are rushing into it and ignoring all the red flags thinking marriage will change their person. No it wouldn’t. I really can’t give you a solution because I am not in your shoes, so you have to take this decision by yourself. You have to think of all the pros and cons of leaving this man and decide. So ask yourself, how is this man with you? Is he a great husband? a great provider? and only the cheating has been his down fault so far? Can you trust him again? Are you willing to look pass this? Ultimately the decision is yours and yours alone because we are not there with you and him behind closed doors. Good luck. |
:-XHe don’t have to tell us, we already know na the second wife.Else what else would you be looking for again when you had a beautiful wife and family already? Unless offcourse you weren’t happy with Her. Every polygamy marriage it is never the first wife and the first wife know this too and even the second wife knows she’s the favourite. |
And 10 years from now she will be asking “why hasn’t him married me yet?” Let her continue being a good girl good on her lmao. |
Danisaint112:I don’t care for what majority thinks I have a mind of my own. |
Danisaint112:Lupita is more beautiful to me, you can’t change my opinion ![]() |
Lmao this is too funny. ![]() |
Danisaint112:Again your opinion is not a fact, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder hence the reason we both have different taste and opinion. Yours or even mine is not a fact but an opinion. To each their own you are entitled to your opinion thou I stand firmly by mine. |
Sounds like a miserable soul. If audacity was a person da f..ck. I pity her husband. I stay far away from such negative grumpy no good folks like this. Get out of there ASAP. |
Danisaint112:Your opinion though not a fact. She’s stunning to me. |
Lupita will always be that girl. |
EmiDon11:Smh men lol |
EmiDon11: ![]() |
A masculine provider man is a fine azz man to me. |
depressedlad:If you knew the power of self love you would be kinder to yourself. What you think you become. Think hardly of yourself pour love into yourself, be gentle and kind with yourself be patient with yourself and new to be content with whatever little you have while working towards better. Happiness is a state of mind. |
You can help your family but know that you come first, you can only do what you can but you have to look after yourself as well. Else it will take a huge toll on your mental health and well being. |
Mermaid123:Joking for what? I am very serious. |
She’s emotionally immature. Run as fast away from her as possible.
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Ask the so called baby mamas you are talking about.

