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During sex your body releases endorphins and oxytocin, Which can help you relax.

There’s nothing wrong with her she just enjoys the sex. She should even be falling at sleep in your arms after sex. She’s your wife, love her tender.

Damn it is really rough in these dating streets . I feel
For ya all single people.

unrequited love

Regret

Everyone had/have a crush that doesn’t mean you are gonna marry them
Wake up and smell the coffee.

galantjoe:
It is only in Nigeria that open marriage does not exist.

Let me educate you more on open marriage . It is a situation where both partner / spouse live in same roof or separate roofs, but they re free to have sexual relationship with other person other than his or her spouse.

It is allowed scenario, it doesn't make the man or woman being taken as a prostitute or sex material. There is always terms and conditions of such arrangements.

So I will advice her to allow her maid to have sex with her man since she has been allowing him before

Did I tell you I needed education on open marriage or that I didn’t know what an open marriage is?

A 29 yr old masturbating recklessly like an 18 yr old kid.

Get a job and get doing something better young man what is this? Nonsense.

tetralogyfallot:
am very good Rokiatu. It's nice to see u back on Nairaland.

Thanks have a great day.

Lmao this is definitely virgin behaviour hahahahahaha .

You guys are just getting started you have no idea lmao I feel for you. You guys will stay long inside. Hahahahahaahba omg.

You either married her sharp shard or you guys can continue this roller coaster ride. Enjoy the ride lmao lol

To add to that,


1 Make sure you work on yourself and that you are going into it a happy, and healthy person mentally as well, don’t think marriage is just magically going to solve all your problems.



2 Develop a strong a strong emotional maturity and look for red flags don’t rush into it else you will be rushing right back out of it. And knows that you wouldn’t always be happy heck even when you are single you ain’t always happy so don’t depend on your relationship for your happiness.


3. Last but not least do not I repeat do not go to families or friends with your relationship issues. Keep your relationship issues private. If there’s an issue you two can’t solve better to go to a family therapist.
The problem with going to relatives or friends with your relationship issues is most times your friends could be projecting on to your relationship, your family most times I don’t care what anyone says argue with your keypad are going to have a biased in your favour. jealous friends would give you bad advice, real therapist are trained not to do that. Also even after you guys have settled your issues they wouldn’t look at your partner the same again. So never never take your relationship issues to relatives or friends.



I also recommend every couple wanting to tie the knot to read these two books before and after your marriage trust me they are top tier.


1 The 5 Love Languages
The Secret to Love That Lasts

And

2 the seven principles for making marriage work.

Because he knows Ronaldo is the real GOAT that’s why.

That is not your husband that is your costumer and he treats you like a prostitute.

Why would anyone stay in such relationship?


This can not be real.


And the fact she even knows his side chicks and he don’t even hide it smh. What you allow is what will continue. This woman clearly don’t love or respect her self and the husband is just treating her the way she treat and view herself.

This is mind boggling to say the least. I can’t believe women like this exists.

tetralogyfallot:
wow! Rokiatu it's been a long time. U just went off after marriage. How r u n your husby. It's really been ages.

I am good n yourself?

achiever12:
You are a beauty, you know that, right?

Yes I know thanks for the compliment.

Hatrick01:
update ur profile nah...

Damn you really do check frequently because I changed that like just three days ago.

canada123:
Price is $500 for one hour and I’m looking at booking a 2 hours session.

WTF moments like this make me appreciate that I am a woman sir you are not ok ooh wasting that sort of money for just 2 hours on top pussy matter wow.

How about getting yourself an actual gf? Go out and meet people naw.

Small girls yes but not grown women who knows their worth and have high self esteem.

Only kids with emotional immaturity love jerks.

Women loves a self assured gentleman that will treat them like a lady.

Ok we hear.

iInjureHerYansh:
And when the woman's looks diminishes what should the man do? Withdraw himself from giving her money right.?
Just like the woman will also not consider him anymore if he goes broke. Right?

Na why men will keep using women that can't take their eyes off other people's money.

I expected one of these comments.

Hatrick01:
chaiii

Pls how do i stop looking at ur profile?

Anytime i jam u for comment section, my spirit will be like: if u no click and view that girl dp, u go die...

Interesting then keep looking. Looking is free right?

In this instance, if she did that to your mother no hard thinking even. Just do as she did your own mother.

Find somewhere for her mother to live and someone to help look after her mother.

She don’t have to live in the same house with her mother to look after her mom she can visit everyday.

Fu…k being the bigger person sometimes you have to return the same energy people give out. People
Know exactly what they be doing trust me. Else they will take your kindness for granted and will step out of line and walk all over you.

You have to understand human Nature and knows how to deal with humans be it your own children spouse parents or friends.

EriMma1:
It's excuses like this that make people to still continue to mess up their life's.

I don't know why you guys are trying to deviate from the main purpose of this post by citing flimsy excuses. Ok, leave what is wrong with her and at least speak against promiscuity that is on the rise in our society.

No this is not excuses this is just common logic. I am not saying cheating is good or anything but your case study is weak.

EriMma1:
My dear, if you see this one, you go no say e don enter full blown AIDs. Of I know other sicknesses can make one lean but judging from the death of the her husband a few years ago and she now coming down with such illness, you only guess it the dreaded. She told me he was ill when I asked her years ago what killed the husband. So I don't just know

Mrbrownjay above you has stated exactly what I am thinking and more. You can’t just assume if you don’t truly know the story.

This is very true many people especially men are bringing in all sort of STDs to their partners.

But with this your case study you can’t be 100% certain because she hasn’t disclosed this to you.
You are only making assumptions.

For all we know she could have some other illness.

When sickness comes do you say the same to it?

When death comes do people say that to death?

If that was the case Micheal Jackson will be alive today.

So because your career is been a public servant because that is what celebrities are really your fans made you and your pay comes from them and you think you are above others?

I don’t know what gives the audacity to people to feel they are better than other people. Humans are funny creatures really.

Dust you came from and dust you should return you need to humble your damn self.

odinson1:
Do you not know that Women who are attracted to feminine men are a small minority, which makes them an exception to the rule? Which was why i initially responded to you by saying no, women can not be masculine because Most men don't want a woman who talks and acts like a woman. The same way most women want their man to be masculine at all times.
You once again evaded my direct question. You're arguing for something you and most women don't even want.

Well said. Truly feminine women don’t go for feminine men they go for masculine men as nature intended it to be anyways.

Infact the two are attracted to each other.

Offcourse there’s someone for everyone so they end up settling for feminine men they can control.


God created women to simply be, a woman which in itself is what femininity is all about being a woman.

it is exhausting being masculine as a woman because this is not our nature same way a feminine man is even embarrassed of having those feminine traits.

Happiness is a choice, you don’t just wake up happy or let your mood affect your happiness, offcourse we can’t be happy all the time but you have a choice to most times choose happiness.