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Why do you care so much about your boss extra marital affairs?

stxrlight:
In your bid to talk down on women, you went and commit a faux pas. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Na heli, the jagaban army and tribalist striker, a proponent of perverted process, you dey call woman?

Smh.

Talk down on women heck no but I am just a woman that’s have no issue holding my gender accountable heck even myself if needs be.

God1000:
It's misplaced priority.

I pity guys that are after such attributes, old age will come

Old age will not come when you have flat ass right?

This girl
Is damn funny that’s like saying why the obsession with big di..ck is that big di.ck going to pay your bills? No but it will do something even better it will blow your back out and take you to cloud nine and give you intense pleasure. (That is if he knows how to use it)

if a guy is into big ass he’s into it haha why you so pinned? You are a woman and wouldn’t obviously understand duh for men that find it attractive it looks appealing and having sex with a woman with a nice figure and big ass is something else when a nigga taste it he never wants to go back.


They don’t called it child bearing hips for nothing men just feel this woman has nice wide hips she will bear my children with ease.

Let people be attracted to what they are attracted to haba.

There are billions of men in this world some like very skinny some like thick and curvy some likes skinny and tall some petite, why so pinned if a certain group of men finds big ass attractive? Nonsense and it’s the same ladies that say they don’t care what men think but you carry their matter for head so till you’re so pinned why they find a certain body type so attractive.

helinues:
Your first paragraph indicated this is a self denial comments.

I am a guy who is concerned about our ladies abandoning their future dreams because of ordinary marriage.

Cos you are married as a lady, then you can't hang out with your friends at night.. say wetin happen?

Sacrificing so much to get what exactly?

Who said that a married woman can not hang out with her friends sometimes? Just because you have seen some bad marriages doesn’t mean you should come online and project.

Also as a married woman you can hang with your friends sometimes heck you can even go out alone yourself and have your you time. You are your own Individual and you can’t clings on your husband 24/7 like who does that?

But the problem usually arise when married women want to be hanging out with their single friends going clubbing almost too frequently to quote you on your last sentence, what would a married woman be getting exactly by doing that?

This thread must have definitely been started by a female because most of my gender is in perpetual denial.

Ask all the so called career women that abandoned marriage for career if they are truly happy, you will be shocked at the answers.

Offcourse don’t abandoned your dreams or career all together but your home comes first as a woman I don’t care if you are a CEO of a corporate company or a cleaner, your home comes first. Your husband and children comes first before any job.
If you don’t understand this just stay as a career woman and not get married at all.

Before you marry make sure you are financially stable. Simple as ABC who’s going to look after your wife or children for you? Your parents her parents? Your friends or neighbours?

A sane man will make sure he’s financially stable before rushing into marriage, love wouldn’t pay the bills on put food on the table duh.

Junni0r:
would you believe that mods banned me for admiring ur ass?

Dem say i dey harass nairalander.

Pls tell me; is ur husband a mod?

I dey laugh ban? Must be because you opened a thread that was not related to romance in the romance section. You broke the rule.

Junni0r:
this woman again

Chaii

If not because of ur profile, i for don go organise protest for this ne nairaland theme

Lolzzz

P.S thank God we are back to normal.

Bukola94:
thanks my sister . On that maintenance costs, please take it easy with ur man. I remember when my brother and is wife to be were dating, my bro can only afford 4k cream, gf want cream of 7K or 8k,I have to come in,because it nearly cause disputes. Dad used to buy cream of 10k for mum, but he has never buy me 7k clothes before. but dad will buy u books of 10k.lol, I used to SMH,because dad self,na Vaseline or shearbutter him dey use gum body

Don’t worry he’s not complaining lol he jokingly calls me
A celebrity but appearance is important. How a woman looks is a direct reflection on her man.

Head to toes you have to look clean and neat.


And even without a man’s in my life I stay looking fly and neat, because how I look after my appearance shows how I view and respect myself. It’s not even about high maintenance but you have to keep a clean appearance.

This is even hurting my eyes sef

Blupen969:
Am in one Rokiat met her here 3years and counting but we have never seen each others face by God grace this year we will finally get to Meet

Awww that’s cute wish you guys the best.

Just a woman will do but then I am not dumb to not acknowledge that we are also the weaker gender and delicate as well.

That is what we are opposite sex we are different and I am not trying to be equal to a man in any way because I know my unique qualities as a woman is what makes me special beautiful and feminine, why would I want to be equal in strength to a man, when I can be a damsel in distress and get treated gently and delicately. When women realised the power they hold just by being a woman they will stop trying to be equal to a man in everything.

Blupen969:
It is, Rokiat if she's your soulmate

Looks like you are in one I wish you luck I used to be in one and I wouldn’t wish it on my enemy.

Bukola94:
They age quickly and their maintenance costs na another finance on it own. A fair woman was like, Ola I like your choice of woman, u got taste,when I crushing on this black or brown girl back in college. She gave birth to a twin. I always knew there is something special and unique in her. I like fair lady too, just have good characters and be culture

Thanks my brother. Yte women age so bad.

Now with black women my problem is not even with fair women I am all for my people and I know that we all comes in different shades. We are all beautiful.


For the maintenance no comment because my own maintenance cost not be here, as a woman you just have to maintain yourself.

defashan:
The women he posted are all beautiful. There’s nothing wrong with his perception of beauty.
I’m not sure why you are disputing that. Men’s brain are wired differently. Not everyone will like massive buttocks and thighs on a woman. Some men will find that unappealing.

Where did I write about massive ass? Smh I said black women and black women comes in many shapes and sizes. There’s billions of men in the world you think I expect them to find the same thing attractive? The brother that started this thread poster a black woman a woman of his own race and that nigga posted a yte woman saying she’s more attractive, he could have posted another black woman for comparison if he was not many of the self hating black man shm it is getting embarrassing at this point. His perception of beauty is his and his alone.
But I don’t respect men who don’t find their own race of women appealing first above other women simple as that and in all honesty not all of us has been brainwashed to the European beauty standard. Black women are the blueprint. Yte women starts looking like a truck hit them by the the time they hit 30 they age quicker than white milk lol.
But everyone has a preference so carry on ya all.

My best advice is avoid if you can not worth it.

This rivalry is like Ronaldo and Messi, the fans carry for head but the individuals involved actually have mutual respect for each other.

Danisaint112:
You again. I posted 3 African girls and two white women but because of your dislike for anything white/fair you were too blind to see that you condemned them all.

always and would always appreciate African beauty. But we all have choices. And my choice of an African woman is a woman with light/fair skin. Even the OP posted a fair lady. Kiloshele.

Lol I like any shades African women comes in. But black women way finer than yte women but it’s your taste anyway carry on I didn’t even know it was you again can’t be bother.

Danisaint112:
Oya see another one.

Is your idea of beauty white women? Lmao what a taste lol lol and lol again

And he thought he ate lol the black girl the poster posted is way finer than those white women.

Nia69:
Imagination wan kee me, part 1.

Loolzz

Nice movie what’s the name?

If what led her to be a single mother isn’t something beyond her control like she was married before and her husband passed away or she was married and got divorced because of abuse etc then be very careful.

I still can’t wrap my head around why women would be complaining about niggas but then open their legs and have a baby with them out of wedlock.

Having a man’s child is the highest honour you can give him and as a woman being a single mother comes with so many disadvantages such as well read this thread. For all we know she could be a good woman but that stigma is there hence why you are apprehensive. So I don’t know why women risk it to give niggas kids free out of wedlock when you are the one at disadvantage.


Women will be complaining about not cooking or cleaning for no man that’s not their husband but will gladly open their legs wide and receive his seeds and give him a baby free of charge out of wedlock make it make sense.


Being a single mother is tough and should not be normalised (out of wedlock offcourse) and you have other women enabling them throwing babies showers when bi..tches get pregnant for these good for nothing dudes no what we need is to bring shame back so women can stop doing this to themselves. It doesn’t do you any good in the long run to be popping babies for these men free of charge without him putting a ring on it. It is absolutely unbelievable and doing it over and over again is what baffles me. Shouldn’t women be more smarter by now in this time of information to have Educated themselves enough to know if a man doesn’t commit fully to you aka marry you, stop giving them children just stop.

Ya all out here flipping the game on us, making men the prize giving them kids free of charge. What did that man give you in return other than his presence? The worst one is seeing 3 different women being baby mama for the same man fighting ove that man attention. Goodness gracious someone that couldn’t even give you his last name. Using your bodies and wombs and risking your lives to give children to men without marriage. My generation so damn lost.

God help women with boys children because this foolishness is not near here.

So what advice are you looking for? Smh. This is how you want to be and there’s women that are low maintenance and love 50/50 guys and enjoys the struggle love. Men called them ride and die chicks.

Heck some of them will even work and give you their salary.

There’s someone for everyone stick to your type problem solve.

If you have to go through all this hustle then there’s trust issues just end the relationship.

None of the above.

I just know his other baby mamas burning with envy.
Chioma finally won and she deserves it.

snthesis:
well noted, my point is how can she suddenly just say this and every other thing she's planning to do...

What do you mean by how can she suddenly just say this?

Maybe she didn’t want to hurt you before, or maybe she didn’t have the guts to say it before or maybe you was indeed romantic before but now you are not.

It’s been 10 years. After so many years many people in marriage stopped courting their partners, planning dates nights and stopped being romantic.
Life gets busy the kids comes and everything just becomes a routine everyone goes through it but this is when you put in extra effort. Start planning dates nights atleast twice a month. Have turns she can have one you can have one. When it is her turn she carry it out, when it is your turn plan it. This will bring you guys together even more.


Also I asked you what her love language was and you didn’t answer, this alone is a problem.

This is very important because if her love language is receiving gifts for example and you are spending quality time with her, and giving her words of affirmation but not getting her random thoughtful gifts or forgetting anniversaries and birthdays and not bringing in flowers once a while just because she will swear you are unromantic because you are not meeting her love language and because you don’t know it you think you are doing your best, but your best wouldn’t be enough. She needs to knows yours too.

I suggest you both read the the five love languages secrets to love that last by Gary Chapman if you haven’t already it is life changing.

Maybe you are actually not romantic but you can change that if you want.

Just a simple
Question, if I was to ask you what your wife love language was do you know it?


Now for your wife, wanting to get a tattoo etc just have a talk with her if that is something you are against.

Also ask her what she means by you not being romantic. Ask her what are things she considered romantic and start implementing those in your relationship. People make relationship harder than it is really.

There was no need to even come online with this, you could have simply have a conversation with her and fix things but your male ego got hurt because she called you unromantic so now you came online and highlight some bad things she’s considering doing just so we can now bad mouth her for those and deflect the attention from on you thereby stroking your own ego.


That is not how marriage work my gee you have to put your ego aside if you want to make it work.


Many people married young when they have no clue even what marriage is all about and what they even really want and then enter their 30s and start questioning all their decisions.


Because the 30s
Is when you truly know who you are and what you really want.

Lesbians are indeed confused. You claim to be a lesbian be will be using fake di..cks on each other mimicking a real penis confusion of the highest order.