Sports › Re: Anthony Joshua And Tyson Fury Agree A Deal For Two Historic Fights by rolams(m): 10:52am On Jun 11, 2020 |
If AJ can beat Klitschko, he can beat Fury |
Politics › Re: Sale Mamman: Nigerians Now Enjoy 18 To 24 Hours Of Electricity Daily by rolams(m): 10:17am On Jun 11, 2020 |
God will punish the mouth that the man use to say this. |
Romance › Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by rolams(m): 9:56am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Happy989: I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.
There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.
During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.
Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.
The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.
I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart. If I hear you call the innocent guy your boyfriend again! You ingrate! You will still come and tell us how you find another guy interesting after this one again. Women are so dangerous!!! |
Sports › Re: €180m Mbappe Remains Most Valuable, Messi 9th, 35-year-old Ronaldo Out Of Top 40 by rolams(m): 3:56pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Bomboiy: Messi is evergreen.
Penaldo at 33 was not even in the top 10. Stop taking brukutu! It's not good for your health. Messi and Ronaldo, who is older? |
Sports › Re: €180m Mbappe Remains Most Valuable, Messi 9th, 35-year-old Ronaldo Out Of Top 40 by rolams(m): 3:53pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
paulolee: thats whatsup..even at that age he is still number 9..I dare any player to remain at top 10 when they clocks 35...its too impossible because at that age all players are on the last phase of thier carear and thinking of switching to smaller club, going to mls or to asia than sitting on the bench because u cant get game time easily at dt age but my goat is still fit enough and still performing at top levels to be included in the top 10....but wait o, i think its an old or fake list because the current first billionare footballer that have most Instagram earnings isn't even in the top 40.....cr7 fans pls you guys should help confirm it this source is legit....years back, i remembered Beckham was the richest earning footballer in football because he was also modeling and gat alot of endorsement deals, but currently becks isnt mentioned when talking abt football richest, meaning u can beat the richest with short time but can't beat the greatest in years to come and i hope dt rings a bell...time shall tell...congrats to u mbappe, our new upcoming goat.. What is this one saying? Messi a 35 year old player? Factory settings required! |
Crime › My Kidnappers Were Fulani, Claimed To Be Muslims But I Never Saw Them Pray- Can by rolams(op): 8:20pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
The kidnapped Chairman of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) in Nasarawa State, who recently regained his freedom days after he was kidnapped by gunmen in his home, Bishop Joseph Masin, in an interview published by punchng.com, has revealed that his kidnappers were Fulani and claimed to be Muslims but he never saw them pray for days.
The 78 years old man of God said his only prayer when they came for him was that, they should not touch his family and that he wasn't scared because nothing happens without God’s permission.
He explained that, the kidnappers numbering over 10 took him to a mountain in the thick of a forest and left 3 as guards with him.
According to him, they were Fulanis but not Nigerian Fulanis and allegedly told him they were hired by an unnamed person to kidnapp and kill him and will not hesitate to do so if the demanded ransom was not paid.
He said, doo armed with AK47 rifles and machetes, his kidnappers did not assault or insult him but assured him that he will be killed, unless his family caugh up the demanded ransom of N50m which was later reduced to 15 and eventually 10.
He was eventually taken to a place at Mada station and asked to wait there.
After laying on the ground for hours, waiting but not seeing them, he found his way to Ngoshi village following the direction of sounds.
Bishop Joseph Masin is now happily reunited with his family and is grateful to God for saving his life.
He said, he had noticed that the young men between the ages 18 and 20 were driven by money and overheard them several times on phone communicating with ladies, telling them how they planned to enjoy with them.
The menace of kidnapping fueld by the desire to get rich quick has become a nightmare to Nigerians and the Buhari administration must immediately check the insecurity in the country that give room for it or citizens may opt to protect themselves.
Thank God the bishop was freed but what about the dozens that have been killed by their kidnappers.
Our security agencies must rise up to their task and protect us.
Source: FatNews |
Sports › Re: Floyd Mayweather Jnr Rated Greatest Boxer Of All Time by rolams(m): 6:38am On Jun 02, 2020 |
ValCon888: Any list where Cassius Clay a.k.a Muhammad Ali isn't the no.1 boxer of all time is a useless list.
I'm shocked beyond belief the list doesn't include Joe Frazier.
The Baddest Man on the Planet, the only boxer who throws punches in bunches, and the youngest heavy weight champion of all time Iron Mike Tyson is not even in the top 10.
The clowns that compiled this list are high on angel dust. Agreed! |
Sports › Re: Floyd Mayweather Jnr Rated Greatest Boxer Of All Time by rolams(m): 6:37am On Jun 02, 2020 |
espn: You mean boxing or the play those kids do this days... boxing must be a joke...we are talking about flesh for flesh...blood for blood...not clowns called boxers... You mean boxing or what are you talking about? |
Properties › Re: Lagos To Create More Islands To Curb Land Scarcity by rolams(m): 3:15pm On May 30, 2020 |
juman: Another party need to lead the state to give different approach to issues. Sure. That's the best solution |
Properties › Re: Lagos To Create More Islands To Curb Land Scarcity by rolams(m): 9:18am On May 28, 2020*. Modified: 5:31pm On May 28, 2020 |
Can good thing ever come out of this APC government? Both the governor and the commissioner in this state need a serious brain reset. Ask me why
1. Lagos have been facing serious erosion problem every raining season. The readily Man made island created have not be fully protected and they want to create more problem.
2. Epe, Ikorodu, Badagry are really craving for development. Vacant land everywhere, no development. Yet no vision to develop these areas.
3. No good road to link both Urban and rural areas together to aid smooth natural development. Yet you want to keep congesting the urban center.
4. No good plan to make the rural areas attractive, no visible projects channel to these areas, existing structures are not working, so many projects abandoned and there is no plan work on them. No plan to bring in sustainable development programs to these areas.
5. No plan to end corrupt practices in order to block leakages, no reasonable ministry created so as to enable a sustainable development.
6. Power abuse everywhere
Infact, I can keep mentioning series of problems we have in this APC administration. |
Properties › Re: Lagos To Create More Islands To Curb Land Scarcity by rolams(m): 8:56am On May 28, 2020 |
Akaegwu: Creating new areas for the rich while Ikorodu and Badagry is still under developed God bless you! |
Family › Re: Seeing Dead Aunty In My Dreams Repeatedly. I Need Any Solutions Please by rolams(m): 10:07pm On May 27, 2020 |
The simple truth is "you failed to erase the past incidence from your heart". You always remember your encounter with her, that's the number one reason that makes you see her in your dream. Free your mind and forget the past, you won't see her again.
Move closer to God and ask for forgiveness too.
Make sure you always assist your mum both financial and morally and let her feeling fill your heart.
Remember your late Dad in prayer and never forget your uncle.
Above all, move closer to your God. Nothing is bad with your dream, it is the reflection of what you have in your heart! |
Romance › Re: A Nairalander Wedding In Pics by rolams(m): 1:43am On May 27, 2020*. Modified: 10:19pm On May 27, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Mmanti Umoh Raped: KanKan And Dada Twin Story by rolams(m): 10:45am On May 26, 2020 |
Davash222: That woman would have shut her mouth cos of comments like this. She didn't consider the boys before opening up to something like this online. Exactly! I don't know why she decided to tarnish the image of these innocent guys!! |
Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode Offers Cotonou Scholarship To 300 People, Troll Blasts Him by rolams(m): 10:24am On May 26, 2020 |
Some internet users are very stupid! |
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Family › Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by rolams(m): 7:10am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan: As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus" .
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
Cheers! Truth, oh my gush! A Bitter truth!! You nailed it!!! |
Business › Re: Which Business Can I Do With N300k As A School Teacher? by rolams(m): 9:01pm On May 22, 2020 |
DanielIkeije: I’ll advice you acquire a high income skill.
A high income skill will make you between $2000 to $10,000 monthly if you are really good at what you do.
Out of the 300k take out some money and pay for a course to learn a high income skill.
This will benefit you greatly trust me. Like what? |
Family › Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by rolams(m): 8:58pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy: I had a good uncle who passed away three years ago. His wife morned him for one year. I lived with that my uncle until I got married and parked to my own house.
I use to visit the house sometimes. After the mourning, his wife called me and told me that I should give her more children. She has only one male child. I refused. But She said I should do it for her because she doesn't want children outside the family because she loved my uncle and our family and that she can't continue to stay with only one child.
I'm completely confused. First I'm married doing that is infidelity, sencondly, the uncle was like a father to me before his death. And I see it as a big sin.
Please somebody should help me, what do I do here? How do I handle this issue? Thanks for your candid advice. That is 'opo ṣiṣu' in yoruba language nothing is wrong with it if you like her. The family will legally marry her for you. |
Career › Re: Should I Expose Them? by rolams(m): 11:45pm On May 21, 2020 |
stanliwise: There is a twist. If the company goes bankrupt and he loss his job and his prospect then it is his business. The original question is - is it worth the risk? I would not really. Best thing to do is to give the Boss some idea on how to protect her business. Not mentioning name or revealing anything or suspicion. If the boss buys the idea then fine it works. Good idea! |
Career › Re: Should I Expose Them? by rolams(m): 11:44pm On May 21, 2020 |
Godwin616: Staying on his lane is not safe either. If the fraud eventually blown open, his job too is not guaranteed .By the virtue of his position he is expected to block such a loophole as the head of Finance. It will be seen as incompetency on his part. The best thing is to let the External Auditors do their work and discover the fraud themselves. Good one! |
Career › Re: Should I Expose Them? by rolams(m): 6:26pm On May 21, 2020 |
Abbeylanre15: I work in finance company and I'm in charge of all accounts. All monies are been remitted to me. The M.D of this organization is such a generous but uneducated woman. My colleagues are leveraging on this to siphon organization's funds to their various pockets. I'm not oblivious of this fact because I'm so sensitive to things around me,but I am d God fearing type that won't participate in such a dirty act. I've called majority of those in this illicit act privately to warn them and let them know the implications. But to my utmost surprise, the bull-shit keep getting high and d MD is not the type to tell such hidden things, she will reveal the identity of her Intel. The problem now is that,if this act persist,the company may go bankrupt sooner than later. Even though,the job is not worth dying for,half bread they said it's better than none. I can't afford to be jobless. Please advise me on what to do?
NB: I'VE SUBMITTED APPLICATION TO OTHER COMPANIES BUT NO RESULT YET. You better stay in your lane, there is a lot of gain in minding your business. Expose them and all of you get sacked! |
Science/Technology › Re: Giant Fish That Lived Around 380 Million Years Ago Found In Sahara Desert (Pix) by rolams(m): 5:38pm On May 21, 2020 |
All their discoveries are always express in millions. Nonsense! |
Romance › Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by rolams(m): 3:14am On May 19, 2020 |
ModestGal: The children is for both of them. That is if the child becomes rich and how many people become rich in Nigeria? I don't even understand the kind of inequality marriage is and yet, men will still be misbehaving. I feel like cursing any man giving his wife emotional problems. Pregnancy is pains, labour is double pain, and yet one man will add to all the pains? Child's care is another mental problem. Then the man will still expect the wife to contribute to the house expenses, is that not wickedness? What is now the role of the husband? The wife will be expected to cook, respect the husband, serve him, lay his bed, wash his cloths etc. And with all these, the wife should still contribute? And when she gives attitude, its because she's a bad woman. Those idiots that made those African rules should be arrested and jailed I swear Now I understand you! |
Romance › Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by rolams(m): 2:55am On May 19, 2020 |
ModestGal: That extinction would be better. I'm starting to hate men, rubbish people. So women would go into all those labour pains and still expect the wife to do 50/50? When the child will become both theirs? I'm sorry, it's a No and No You better stop hating men before it turn to another thing. Don't you know you will be the one to eat most of the fruits (gain more from your children). Men only impose their name on the children! |
Romance › Re: My Wife Is Too Stiff, Gives Me Timetable For Sex by rolams(m): 2:50am On May 19, 2020 |
delkuf: This is not the issue of Manning up, you don't know what I am experiencing. she gives me time table for sex. is not like I am demanding. the last time I slept with is over three weeks ago. I have talked with her. Her younger sister have talked with her, she is to adamant. Don't quit, marry another wife, I swear she will change. I am talking from experience! |
Sports › Re: Who Is Your Best EPL Attacking Trio Of All Time? by rolams(m): 8:57pm On May 17, 2020 |
Liverpool trio are the best! |
Family › Re: I Am 20 And My Mom Wants To Throw Me Out. by rolams(m): 4:03pm On May 17, 2020 |
Kylekent59:

You are a thief!!!!
You stole your mum's 2k and you still had the guts to post it here. Why did you play Aja ere with it, stop paying visual with your mum's hard-earned money. Why are Nairaland moderators allowing f**ls to comment on here self? |
Sports › Re: Who Is The Most Influential Player To Have Played In The Premiere League? by rolams(m): 11:16pm On May 15, 2020 |
Messi ran out of idea against Liverpool at Anfield and Sagio Ramos for injuring MO Salah previously. Above all, Atletico Madrid, for showing Liverpool the other side of life at Anfield!
Am I talking off the topic? No
Ok, goodbye! |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy: I Am Not Worth $3.5 Million, That Won’t Even Buy My Cars by rolams(m): 4:24pm On May 15, 2020 |
Righteousness89: What a waste of Destiny!
Am pained for you bro!
I Pray For you with All of my Heart that your Understanding of Life be opened in JESUS NAME.. That's your choice! If you place all your priority on this, my brother, you are wasting your time. Those whom Jesus was sent never accepted him. So, what's your problem? |
Islam › Re: Islam's Prophet Muhammad's 'Timeless' Pandemic Advice Goes Viral In 2020 by rolams(m): 11:26am On May 15, 2020*. Modified: 10:05pm On May 16, 2020 |
Saintvik: Best religion, unlike the Roman pagans. Lol... Lets assume we are all islam the best religion in Nigeria. Majority of us here would hv been almajari, some BH and others ISWAP. May Allah be praise!!!! How many Almajiri have you seen in the southwest? Or are there no Muslims there? |
Islam › Re: Islam's Prophet Muhammad's 'Timeless' Pandemic Advice Goes Viral In 2020 by rolams(m): 11:14am On May 15, 2020 |
makapoda: "When you hear that a plague is in a land, do not enter it and if the plague breaks out in a place while you are in it, do not leave that place,"
But why is almajiri invending the southwest and southeast.why can't they stay where they are.
Make una use una tooth to count una mouth.
Practise what you preach.
Bleep Muslims. You mean all christians follow the teachings of Jesus? I don't just know why some of you suddenly become senseless just because you want to show that you hate Islam. |