Politics › Re: Nigeria’s Top Politicians With A History Of Spreading Fake News by Roman7(m): 7:00am On Apr 13, 2020 |
The king of all liars is lai mohammed.sometimes I wonder how he sleeps at night n how his family sees him. |
Romance › Re: Man Dies During Sex With Pregnant Married Lover Inside Container In Lagos by Roman7(m): 1:26am On Apr 13, 2020 |
tayebest: Sex is overrated!  So so overrated |
Health › Re: 23 New Cases Of Coronavirus In Nigeria, Total Of 174 Confirmed Cases by Roman7(m): 8:57pm On Apr 01, 2020 |
E suppose Don reach 1000 cases by now |
Business › Re: Naira Depreciates To ₦410 Per Dollar As Local Currency Weakens by Roman7(m): 7:04am On Mar 28, 2020 |
Wouldn't be surprised if it gets to #1000 to $1 before this pandemic ends......that is if it's going to ever end. |
Health › Re: Corona Virus Travelled Entire World From #wuhan But It Did Not Reached Beijing by Roman7(m): 8:24pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Leezah: The Corona Virus travelled entire world from #Wuhan but it did not reached Beijing and Shanghai.
Can anybody put light?
Looks So Logical. After all Chinese Stock Market didn't crash. American and European Markets did. 1/n
How to dominate the world quickly?
THE GREAT CHINESE STAGE
1. Create a virus and the antidote.
2. Spread the virus.
3. A demonstration of efficiency, building hospitals in a few days. 2/n
After all, you were already prepared, with the projects, ordering the equipment, hiring the labor, the water and sewage network, the prefabricated building materials and stocked in an impressive volume.
4. Cause chaos in the world, starting with Europe.
5. Quickly plaster the economy of dozens of countries.
6. Stop production lines in factories in other countries.
7. Cause stock markets to fall and buy companies at a bargain price.
8. Quickly control the epidemic in your country. After all, you were already prepared.
9. Lower the price of oil you buy on a large scale.
10. Get back to producing quickly while the world is at a standstill. Buy what you negotiated cheaply in the crisis and sell more expensive what is lacking in countries that have paralyzed their Industries.
Please read the book by Chinese colonels Qiao Liang and Wang Xiangsui, from 1999, “Unrestricted Warfare: China’s master plan to destroy America”, on Amazon. It's all there.
Worth pondering.. Just Think about it.
How come #COVID19 didn't hit Russia & North Korea? Because they are staunch ally of China. On the other hand South Korea / United Kingdom / Italy / Spain and Asia are severely hit. How come Wuhan is suddenly free from the deadly virus?
China will say that their drastic initial measures they took was very stern and Wuhan was locked down to contain the spread to other areas. I am sure they are using the Anti dode of the virus.
Why Beijing was not hit? Why only Wuhan? #Wuhan is open for business now. America and all the above mentioned countries are devastated financially. Soon American economy will collapse as planned by China. China knows it cannot defeat America Militarily as USA is at present.
So China use the virus to cripple the economy and paralyse the nation and its Defense capabilities. I'm sure Nancy Pelosi got a part in this to topple Trump.
Lately President Donald Trump was always telling of how Great American economy was improving in all fronts.
The only way to destroy his vision of making 'AMERICA GREAT AGAIN' is to create an economic havoc. Nancy Pelosi was unable to bring down Trump thru impeachment. So work along with China to destroy @realDonaldTrump by releasing a virus. Wuhans epidemic was a showcase.
At the peak of the virus epidemic.
China's President Xi Jinping just wore a simple RM1 facemask to visit those effected areas. As President he should be covered from head to toe but it was not the case. He was already injected to resist any harm from the virus.
Now China is also telling that the virus was predicted well in advance. so that its agenda would play along well to match that prediction. China's vision is to control the World economy by buying up stocks now from countries facing the brink of severe ECONOMIC COLLAPSE.
China will announce that their Med Researchers have found a cure to destroy the virus. Now China have other countries stocks in their arsenal & these countries will soon be slave to their master. The Doctor Who declared this virus was also Silenced by the Chinese Authorities.
Spain buys medical equipment worth 432 million Euros from China.
Before Couple of days Donald Trump mentioned Corona Virus as Chinese Virus but after meeting Chinease President Xi, He changed his tune.
How come? Think Think Think...
Corona Virus put whole world on knees except China.
Read the First paragraph in the article where it's clearly written that China defeated the deadly Virus.
Shanghai Reopened 205 Cinemas after two months.
China created fear sycosis of #CoronaVirus so, that no one from outside can dare to visit china and see actual situation.
In a recent statement, China Said we will not allow anyone from outside to visit China due to #COVID2019.
CHINESE tycoon Tong Jinquan has sold nearly S$14 million worth of units in Singapore-focused industrial landlord ESR-Reit & European commercial Reit IReit Global over the past two weeks, amid a broad Reit sector sell-off.
China's Friend Imran Khan Said, We can't afford lockdown
Some people believe that, the virus was engineered in the lab by humans as a bioweapon. In another version, the virus was being studied in the lab (after being isolated from animals) and then “escaped” or “leaked” because of poor safety protocol.
Koren TV series made in 2018 revealed that china was going to do bio chemical terror attack.
They had already named the virus. The pharmaceutical company that will make vaccine to sell it in millions of dollars has also been named. https://twitter.com/TheSkandar/status/1243390164803522563 I knew it was all mapped out........their league in China would soon be open. |
Politics › Re: Coronavirus: Atiku Asks FG To Pay N10,000 To Each Household, As He Donates N50M by Roman7(m): 9:14am On Mar 26, 2020 |
Nigerfine3: Una Weldon, bad mouth and co, you de naija know how Much USA give to eem poeple. Let me make you know 1000$ doesn’t pay my one month rent while 10000 Naira pays rent for a month for many families. I applaud him $1000 doesn't pay ur one month rent?? Thats to say ur annual rent is over 7million |
Politics › Re: Coronavirus: Atiku Asks FG To Pay N10,000 To Each Household, As He Donates N50M by Roman7(m): 9:10am On Mar 26, 2020 |
opeyehmmy: He can do better too. He can do better?......how about those in power? |
Career › Re: 3 Productive Things You Can Do During The Stay-At-Home Period : By Amechi Okoli by Roman7(m): 8:49am On Mar 26, 2020 |
amechi213: 3 Productive Things You Can Do During The Stay-At-Home Period : Written By Amechi "Double Six" Okoli
Hello guys, hope y'all are doing great. It’s no longer news that people have begun staying, and working from home. This is all in an effort to curb the spread of the Coronavirus.
If you’re someone like me, who spends more time out of the house than inside the house, then this might feel strange or boring to you. However, it would be a shame if you don’t take full advantage of this rare opportunity.
I have listed out 3 productive things you can do while you spend time at home. One or more of these 3 activities would make the stay-at-home experience worthwhile!
1. Work
What’s more productive than working? Yeah I know, the bus drivers, okada riders, vulcanizers, and market women can’t work from home, but if your job permits you, then kick into full gear.
Take me for instance, I am a music producer, voiceover artiste, writer, and podcaster. I can make beats and record my podcasts at home (with a small set-up of course). I can also write for my clients right from the comfort of my couch. I am actually writing this article from my bed!
Working from home has some advantages too, one of them is being able to take breaks as much as you like without “Oga” or “Madam” monitoring you, lol. You can also sip some whiskey while you’re at it!
2. Learn A New Skill
Don’t lose faith if the nature of your job doesn’t permit you to work from home, there’s something else you could do that’ll be worth the effort - You could learn a new skill !!!
A time like this has shown us the importance of having at least one skill that can generate money remotely. First, you have to think of something you’ll be comfortable doing.
It could be –
• Weaving • Sewing • Cooking • Soap making • Web design • Graphic design • Beat making • Soap making • Affiliate marketing • Digital marketing
You don’t even need a real-life teacher to learn a skill, you could read articles like this one, or watch tutorials on YouTube to get the info you need. Simple!
A new skill learned can be useful in the future. Now that you have some time on your hands, use it wisely and learn something new. Thank me later!
3. Do Some Exercise
Staying at home all day long can have a big impact on your weight. If you’re not careful, you may develop flabby arms and a pot belly, lol.
Doing exercise routines will not only help you maintain a healthy weight, it will also help you keep your outer and inner body fit.
Exercise improves blood flow, reduces anxiety, improves brain functionality, and last but not least – it keeps you looking sexy for your man (or lady). As una don lock una self inside house, we know say many “private” activities go dey take place!
Conclusion
There you have it, 3 productive things you can do right from the comfort of your home. There are other things you could do during the isolation period. These include – * Building stronger bonds with your family
* Re-decorating your home (even if na one room apartment)
* Fix damaged home appliances
If you’ve got any other productive activity in mind then kindly let us know via the comment section, someone out there might need the info!
My name is Amechi “Double Six” Okoli. A producer, writer, voiceover artiste, and podcaster. You can follow me on Instagram @doublesixbeats or Whatsapp me on 08033422206 if you’re in need of my services.
Let’s have fun while we’re at it!
Stay safe! Thanks....there r couple things am interested in, currently a student but I want to learn how to make beats and also do freelance and idea how i'd learn any of the two? |
Romance › Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Roman7(m): 7:36am On Mar 26, 2020 |
7victor: I think it is common to both gender.
Me personally,I use to find myself in love with bad girls.
If you are not bad as a man and you see a bad girl/trash,you will fall in love with her.
But bad guys/trash will normally love good girls.
It seems to be that those bad girls can do things that you cannot do,
so you need them in your life to compliment what is lacking in you.
Like me I find girls that can shout,are lousy and troublesome more attractive than the good and gentle ones.
But most males who are lousy and troublesome prefers gentle and good natured females.
I believe it is a desire in us to complement what is lacking in us.
It could also be a desire to change the bad natured person into a good natured person.
By getting the trash as your partner,with time,you may change the person into a nice person.
That seems to be the psychological goal in our hearts.
Maybe that is why JESUS CHRIST as gentle,righteous and holy as HE was,received sinners and ate with them.
HE knew Judas Iscariot was a thief and a dubious man,HE still selected him among HIS disciples.
With time,HE was able to change so many of them. U never jam bad gentle guys abi... |
Romance › Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Roman7(m): 7:14am On Mar 26, 2020 |
Youngjohnosas: it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.
it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.
I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.
that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.
two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.
last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland. Oga.......u wasn't being a nice guy...u was just a "fool for love" |
Romance › Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Roman7(m): 5:54am On Mar 26, 2020 |
Vinex4uba: Learning a new approach today, I don't talk much making everything to be unpredictable, I can hurt and abandon you through my silence nature� See my type of person |
Romance › Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Roman7(m): 5:48am On Mar 26, 2020 |
Leezah: Long Post Alert I don’t think they start out looking for a guy to treat them wrongly.
They start out looking for a guy who is assertive, stands his ground, demands his dues, is confident, does not back down, is not a doormat. This would imply that he has what it takes to later on protect her and the kids. Quite justifiable from a primordial point of view.
The problem is that there are limits to acceptable behavior. If you take it to an extreme, all of the above qualities could be associated with wife and child abusers, sociopaths and psychopaths. If the woman doesn’t have a gauge for “when is this too much of a good thing”, she may end up with quite the jerk.
It doesn’t help if the woman’s Father was a guy who abused or mistreated his wife, her mother. Because whatever our rational intentions, we do tend to become and marry our parents. Find me a woman who is a doormat and I have a pretty good idea of what her Father was like.
Guys have an obligation to get our s**t together when it comes to raising our daughters. Too many women with Father issues out there. Love and attraction are based on both psychology and spark of chemistry. It has been scientifically proven that both pleasure and pain are needed to create a long lasting attraction. Therefore, hot and cold formula to spicy up love life always seems to win.
However, if one consciously chooses their romantic partner who treats them badly only its a strong indicator of one's low self esteem. The person doesnt believe s/he can be loved by their partner, thus will keep choosing people who treat them badly to get a confirmation of their own beliefs.
In many cases such as person may also refuse the other person who doesnt communicate their intentions in the way they are familiar with.
Unfortunately, this is the first step towards creating a toxic relationships. I would highly suggest working on one's self esteem before deciding to get involved with the other person. Hope this answer helps.
This is an age-old conundrum wrapped up in a riddle. I’ve heard arguments bandied back and forth between girls and there male “friend zone” counterparts. Often, I’ve heard women say that they pray for and would kill for a “nice guy” as long as he is physically attractive, funny, smart, etc. I’ve had female friends who dated these nice guys and they would complain that these men are “too nice” and they could walk all over them, hence they are no longer attracted to them.
-It goes back to the hunter-gatherer days, where the alpha male was the most sought after. 10,000 years of societal evolution has yet to ween humanity of this attraction. The beta males (or alpha aspirants) wait for the scraps of the hunt, and contend for the women who would settle for them.
-Alpha males can either be benevolent or bullies. They are seen as dominant, so even a “nice alpha male” can be resented for being seen as a tyrant. Most women see the alpha as their ideal - though alphas may not be compatible with them.
-There are also sigma males - they don’t subscribe to alpha or beta tendencies, but are in a class by themselves and don’t care for anyone’s opinion of them. They don’t necessarily treat women poorly. They do their own thing and there is that breed of woman who finds this trait attractive.
-Bad boys and rebels - women find them attractive as well. They think these men have more courage than the other men, and chutzpah is an attractive trait.
Do nice guys finish last? Not necessarily.
Many successful men exist in the workplace today that are very kind and compassionate. The smart women prize these men who bring home the proverbial bacon, or the “largest kill”, yet are generous, loving and in their eyes attractive. I love this woman. |
Politics › Re: Toyin Saraki Assembles Scientists To Reduce Coronavirus Spread by Roman7(m): 9:21am On Mar 25, 2020 |
EternalBeing: Even Israel Has Confirmed That Rapture Is About To Happen It is not a Mistake that the Military in Countries of the World are now seriously preparing to enforce the ID2020 Vacination that is said to be against Corona Virua. Don't let the "sweetness" and deceitfulness of Technology make your Soul attach and undeterchable from this now Anti-Christ possed World. You have unfulfilled Dreams and Visions and wishing that the World would return to normal soon? Then research ID2020 using other Search Engines apart from Google. You should be much more concern of missing your real chance to become Immortal and live foreverdon't miss it, it is about to happen. Please comeback and read what I am about to post here. Truly Rapture is very much about to happen. Accept JESUS YAHSHUA HaMashiach Today, it would not be tolerable to witness the Doom Day that follows after Children of YAHWEH have been taken out of this World. Do away with all your sins, flee all unholiness. Consecrate and prepare yourself to be liftable by the SPIRIT of YAHWEH at the Sounding of Trumpet that is very much about to happen! Don't be left behind to witness the terrible Doom that would start on Earth after real children of God have been taken out.
YAHWEH ALREAL has given us all the opportinity to see clearly that Satan and his evil children have fully taken ownership of this World. Satan already has his minons controlling Cointries of the Wolrd. It is not a Mistake that the Militarues in all Countries are preparing to enforce the Vacination (ID2020). Please, repent of your ains now, plead the Blood of YAHSHUA HaMashiach to wash of all your sins and the consequences so that you become fit for Rapture that is about to happen. urrently in every NTrump said Chloroquine cures Corona Virus, the evil controlled Ministry of Health and Powers that be said he shpuld shut up. As regards the Image I attached to this article, comfirm it in Revelation 6:8.
Tel Aviv, March 24: Israel Health Minister Yaakov Litzman, a deeply conservative politician, drew flak from the nation's progressive circles after he suggested that the cure for coronavirus would come along with "The Messiah". His remarks, at a press conference on March 19, led to questions being raised on whether a man with deep theological roots should be heading the Ministry of Health in such a critical stage. Coronavirus Live Map: How to Track The Spread of COVID-19 Across The Globe With This Dashboard.
Litzman, who heads the ultra-Orthodox United Torah Judaism party, is a key constituent of the Benjamin Netanyahu government in Israel. In a press conference addressed in Hebrew on March 19, Yaakov said the coronavirus crisis indicates that the world is moving towards its end, and the days are near when "The Messiah" would descend upon the earth and relieve the plight of Jewish community. “We are praying and hoping that the Messiah will arrive before Passover, the time of our redemption. I am sure that the Messiah will come and bring us out as [God] brought us out of Egypt. Soon we will go out in freedom and the Messiah will come and redeem us from all the troubles of the world," Haaretz quoted the Health Minister as saying.
As per the Jewish belief, the Messiah would be the a future Jewish king from the Davidic line who would save Israel from a major catastrophe. The Jewish estalogy attributes him as "a savior or redeemer who would appear at the end of days and usher in the kingdom of God". The arrival of Messiah would also lead to the final phase of world before the doomsday, the Jews believe. The Health Minister's remarks comes at a time when coronavirus infections toll in Israel has topped the 1,600-mark. At least one COVID-19 patient, a holocaust survivor, was confirmed to have succumbed to death on Sunday. The country has been put under a nationwide lockdown till at least April 8.
https://www.nairaland.com/5754376/even-israel-confirmed-rapture-happen#87745877 The thing is nobody knows when it will happen.....just chill |
NYSC › Re: Coronavirus: Corpers Can Go Home - NYSC DG, Shuaibu Ibrahim by Roman7(m): 10:10pm On Mar 24, 2020 |
Them go still pay the allowee? |
Romance › Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Roman7(m): 8:18pm On Mar 22, 2020 |
authentic18: You honestly don’t know millennial ladies. I can tell you single women cheat more than single men on an average day. They have so much more options. Don’t let anyone deceive you. They are just very clever at hiding it than guys.
At some point I was becoming a misogynist because of how most Nigerian ladies are with mind games etc. These days I do woo and communicate with Europeans because I feel they are better. The average looking 23 year old Nigerian female is not romantic & feels entitled. There are better women elsewhere to me. Most Nigerian women are traash to be honest They’d leave the nice guy for the bad guy, get dumped and begin yelling men are scuum U need one chilled bottle of coke for this comment |
Crime › Re: Ebonyi Lady Raped To Death By Her Brother After He Took Man Power by Roman7(m): 11:07pm On Mar 20, 2020 |
They should give him Golden dick award..... |
Romance › Re: I Met Seun Today Pictures by Roman7(m): 4:43pm On Mar 20, 2020 |
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Health › Re: Coronavirus: FG Orders Closure Of Varsities, Schools Nationwide by Roman7(m): 9:40pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Vatod: Lol, I just got a Chinese connect he's ready to take as many as possible Maddddd..........link me |
Health › Re: Coronavirus: FG Orders Closure Of Varsities, Schools Nationwide by Roman7(m): 9:25pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Vatod: Upto 1 BTC needed here at cool rate!! Now way e don be 1.9 mil abi.... Wise man so that when e go rise u go sell am |
Health › Re: Coronavirus: FG Orders Closure Of Varsities, Schools Nationwide by Roman7(m): 9:21pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
classicfrank4u: ASUU dn already shut down varsities  My stupid school no gree go strike na.....Kaduna State University, they better obey this one....cuz dem don dey play us say na Monday we dey start exams. |
Romance › Re: She Said She's Not Interested But Gets Angry When She Sees Me With A Girl. by Roman7(m): 9:16pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
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Education › Re: Aker Nguyilan: Jambite Dies In Car Accident While Travelling To Write JAMB Exams by Roman7(m): 8:40pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
And the other one way death dey sweet go drink sniper......so sad. |
Health › Re: Coronavirus: US Approves Chloroquine As Treatment - Trump by Roman7(m): 8:36pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Lilbest3: HAKIM, what exactly will Trump do that you terrorists and your terrorist sympathising leftists will not complain about? What's wrong with trying the drugs? Trump is holding press conference almost every 24 hours what has your president said since the outbreak? Wetin him wan talk?.....u cannot give what u don't have na. |
Sports › Re: Suspension Of Premier League Extended Until April 30 Amid Coronavirus Pandemic by Roman7(m): 3:39pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
The world should end already.......we're tired of all these shit. |
Nairaland General › Re: Coronavirus: Did Bill Gates Forsee The Outbreak In 2015? by Roman7(m): 3:34pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
There's more to come...this is just an icing on the cake. |
Nairaland General › Re: Coronavirus: Did Bill Gates Forsee The Outbreak In 2015? by Roman7(m): 3:33pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Benohio: Corona virus is just a population control strategy . Same thing Chris Brown said when Ebola broke out....and that got him into trouble |
Education › Re: Zainab: Student Commits Suicide Over Her JAMB Score. Leaves Note For Her Parents by Roman7(m): 9:28am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Topxcel: We need to watch our teens more closely now. There is more to this than just her failure.......people need to look after pple.....if u see someone u know who is always full of life and suddenly the person starts to withdraw from people don't hesitate to ask.....pple go through shit u won't know until u talk to them.....please this is disheartening......Depression is so f**kin real, let's be our brother's keeper. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Wants To Send Cash To Americans Suffering Financially From Coronavirus by Roman7(m): 7:22am On Mar 18, 2020 |
As I see dis news my belly sweet me.......see people way value people.....no be like one country for West Africa way no care for der citizens..... |
Romance › Re: She's Making Life Difficult For Me! by Roman7(m): 11:30pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Leezah: Choose. Your girlfriend has reason to feel the way she does and you know it.
Maybe.
2 out of 2 times I have ever been jealous of an ex boyfriend's friend (not with every ex boyfriend was this an issue) it was found out later that the female friend was indeed crushing on my boyfriend. Women unlike men tend to “read” people well, especially other women. When in love a woman's intuition especially tends to intensify. Then again so does her jealousy so this can be a tricky situation that requires some reflection and honesty with yourself and openness with your girlfriend.
Some of what made me feel jealous in these times was intuition, but some things I just simply understand by being a female myself and having many female friends. I knew certain subtle things females do when they like a guy and saw it. Even personally I crushed on guy friends before and some never suspected it. So it's definitely possible your girlfriend sees something you don't.
Anyways, aside from intuition and certain gestures i saw, I noticed that these 2 boyfriends would run to the female friend with all the problems we had as though she was his “refuge”. This is growing intimacy with your friend instead of your girlfriend and a BIG NO-NO. It would have been better that they went to an older and wiser man for counsel than to her.
Although you may go to your female friend for advice with other problems you should never ever come to her with relationship problems. Friends of the opposite shouldn't know all the intimate details of your relationship. As soon as you have a girlfriend this is the most immediate way in which your friendship to your friend should change. By you coming to her you are now showing her what sort of romantic partner you are and how “romantically compatible” you now are with her.
Women are weird. As soon as you deeply open up about these conditions of your heart, etc, we cant help but to at least wonder if we are romantically compatible especially since we come out the womb being relationship/love oriented. Unless you want your female friend trying to now question secretively if you and her are compatible its best you leave her in the dark about this “intimate” side of you or only expose this side of you when you are single. Also don't break up with your girlfriend and the next day run to your female about the issues. Especially in young love people break up then 2 months later are back together.
Overall allowing a female friend to see these aspects of you should be when you are single (via the title of being single and via emotionally being untied to anyone). Then and only then you should share your romantic/relationship characteristics with your opposite sexed friend and even then just know you are opening the strong possibility that this friend will now start qualifying and disqualifying you as a romantic partner. If you want female advice then ask older women but maybe not your mom or those who would have too much bias and too easily take your side. Maybe Nairaland could be good however take every answer with a grain of salt including my own.
Honestly relationships and determining what is acceptable and not acceptable is personal and takes personal reflection. You can't just take advice for everything.
I especially think in today's world with so many boys raised without fathers its not good to get all your relationship do's and don't from females. You shouldn't think like a female when dating a female. You should think like a man. For the most part men have to be more patient and giving in certain areas of relationships and women should be more patient in other areas.
Learning intimate relationships is not like learning to be politically correct or learning what's publicly proper. Although I do recommend reading relationship books from people who share your same vision of intimate relationships dating someone is the foundation in an intimate world you are creating and everyone is different in what they can accept or what they prefer. People's preferences in love ranges from the most traditional to the grotesque…
Meditate on what you want. Overall if this is a woman who fits every aspect of your vision of an intimate relationship than her opinion does matter. At the end of a day you and HER will be the main creators of a world between your walls and conforming to her in all aspects that's reasonably possible and vice versa is key in making a lasting relationship (keyword:reasonable).
Overall there are many questions you have to ask before you seek to end your friendship. In my own situation both of these boyfriends much later “confessed” that they deeply knew the female friend liked them since I first mentioned my jealousy but they thought it wasn't a big deal unless they fed into it.
Personally I felt these were feeding into it (again men don't tend to know the world of female emotion as well). Can you honestly and I mean SINCERELY look at all the encounters with your female friend say that beyond a shadow of a doubt this friend has absolutely, and I mean absolutely has no crush on you? Honestly not even her having a boyfriend matters. Having a boyfriend doesn't stop one from having basic human desires towards another. In divorce courts we see this clearly, so of course in simply dating we can't deny this simple fact of life.
Anywho, despite my own experiences, at the end of the day I would not say it's the best solution to always cut off the female friend just because your girlfriend is jealous especially without considering these things I mentioned.
Many times we date just to date and practice a long term commitment.
Look at everything mentioned here, reflect, keep intimate problems away from opposite sexed friend, and determine your motivation in dating the woman you're with. Is she practice or is she the one? Is she seeing something you don't or is it jealous? Is it every female friend and interaction that makes her jealous or is it just this one friend? Is not conforming to her in this way worth risking a lifetime of not having her by your side? Many questions to ask before you take any action. U need to write a book |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Is The Hope Of A Graduate Above 30? by Roman7(m): 11:19pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
juwoonn: Bros, Me that graduated at age 23, I'm 35 now... I still never get job. No be by age for naija. But I thank God; now I earn averagely around N350,000 per month from fiverr alone.. and I still get side income from amazon kindle and some offline business. Interesting.......i'd love to learn |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Is The Hope Of A Graduate Above 30? by Roman7(m): 11:17pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
Go n buy lapee.......u know what next to do |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Coronavirus: ISIS Tells Terrorist Not To Travel To Europe For Jihad by Roman7(m): 2:18pm On Mar 17, 2020 |
This corona for just go visit boko haram and all those fulani herdsmen way dey waste innocent lives |