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Pocohantas baby,are you the one that bought lappy for mynd? That will explain a lot

Belafonte:
Sorry to say, but you’re not a real man

Mi o raye shit mehn

Ybaby:
It is what it is!

If your man pays the bills - you must be in the shape he likes

If he like big women - be that.

If he likes lepa - to the gym.

I work out everyday..... sometimes let my self go (ko easy) but kiakia I get back to the sexy game for my Oga.

Yes o
You're really a sexy babe baby. Is your name Yeni or Yemisi and do the females in your family have big nyansh and very fine face? I want to check something

Well everyone knows dat husbands die earlier than their wives on average in Nigeria, they just want to argue.

funmisticqueen2:
research actually shows that married men live longer lifespan while married women have shorter lifespan.

Also single men have shorter lifespan while single women have longer lifespan.

Marriage is more beneficial to men than women

Pipo wee just enter online and say research says without any source or study to back it up. Does this place look like pry 5 inter science class

rockstarB:
Paternity fraud will always cover up for women in case of infidelity gone wrong, if you love yourself as a man u will give yourself brain and do DNA on your children.
Because your husband is cheating you decided to cheat and have him raise a child that doesnt belong to him. You're trying to make sense of it but theres no sense in that. You dont have to be a cheat before a woman will bring home another child for you. It's not always karma as you're trying to justify it.
The result of infidelity from a man and woman in a case where pregnancy occurs can never be the same for both sexes.
Say no to paternity fraud cos theres nothing like maternity fraud
Have you ever wondered why in real and spiritual world they never ask of your fathers name? Cos he might not even be

Belafonte:
Paternity fraud will stop when men make it a duty to find out if the children they have been given truly belong to them or not.

Daz all.

If to say some women be God, they would have found a way by now to make the DNA of a bastard child match dat of the husband, but God will not let devil shame us. All the glory belongs to him.

truthsayer009:
She say na Rich oh, not working Man.

100k is the average salary in Lagos na, abi who are the Rich men bikonu, let them come forward.

At least, Nigerian men should be Rich first, how many Nigerians are Rich? Abi is it all this G Boys all over Lekki and Nicon estate that we are referring to?

Infact, in this pandemic? Hian

Just have more money than her & her papa, is what naija women call rich. If we are to go by the true definition of rich and wealthy, only abt 1% of women are married to such men and the remaining single ones will not even see enough to go round.

DeckXavier:
I don't get worked up when I hear ladies say this.
I mean, from the socio economic point of view, it has benefited the society since offsprings get to be raised in a conducive environment, thereby giving them a better chance at surviving, I think it's also a basic feeling we all have, I mean to be loved for who we are, without whatever conditions or pre conditions that comes with it, it's a paradox.

I have nothing against what is being said over the thread, love is just a stupid feeling that does a terrible job trying to mask our innate needs, the whole of human existence is geared towards survival. Tell me how many women won't make your life a living hell when you lose your job or there's no money around, what's the percentage?

The fathers before us were more logical, having multiple wives gave them options and also kids that could work on the farm or whatever business they were into, they weren't in love, it was just the common sense thing to do.

Moralists changed everything, but I stay true to myself, my needs and wants aren't to be neglected and I wouldn't sacrifice it for anything in this world. Personally I don't like fat girls, wifey has to be in shape at all times or I might lose
interest, I'm a very visual person and it's all good but what I don't like, is the society trying to shame men into accepting their wives the way they are, words like "man up" would starting flying around when she's no longer attractive, omo that one no concern me o.

I love your comment. I too am very visual person because I've made peace with the reality that love is a mask and relationships will always depend on selfish interests. I can't stand my woman looking like a whale,not when I'm responsible for her financially and all she has to do for me is look exceptionally attractive.

The day she starts to let go in the name of I gave birth to your children,na dat day I begin search for another smallie with my spec to use as sidechic. You can't be eating my money and still want to use emotion to manipulate me into liking what I hate.

Ybaby:
Hide?
Why?
It is this semi husband I mean the placeholder husband that will serve girly and real husband then when they are done he will lay the bed.

You're right, dats what I meant here

Romangalactic:
Well maybe her brother is into voyeurism and likes to watch them do it

Mariangeles:
Believe me, he doesn't even need to hide.

Well maybe her brother is into voyeurism and likes to watch them do it

Ybaby:
Mariangeles

They are flatmates!!

I hope she brought her real husband to the house from time to time.

Yea dats what I mean. They are bro & sis. Her real husband probably sneaks in and hides under the bed

Belafonte:
Oh, they don’t mind admitting money is a huge incentive. Where they have issues is where you acknowledge their game and counter play. Al of a sudden, you want a puppet and will only attract money hungry wenches. But nobody complained when they wanted walking ATMs.

Exactly. Just don't call dem golddiggers even when they know they are golddiggers. Same way we should not call a woman skinny or fat or ugly, even when she knows for real she's skinny or fat or ugly.

It's a woman thing

Mariangeles:
That man was never a husband to her.
He never protected her.
They were never a couple.

You're right,they are brother and sister

Belafonte:
It’s reverse psychology. No respect without money, they say, from the same lips they say basing your respect on money will attract money hungry wenches. The cognitive dissonance is huge in her

They don't just like to admit dat their choice of a man depends heavily on his financial standing because it makes dem seem superficial. But thank God for life,I have seen too much. Only innocent teenage girls fall in love simply on the idea of love, that genuine butterfly feeling is still very real at dat age.

Money hungry wenches are perfect for me, but they must fit my physical requirements 100%.no compromises, everyone is winning

Biglittlelois:
You didn't read his comment well, he will only attract money hungry ladies that will pretend to be exactly what he wants in a wife, it happens all the time.

This is not a problem,well to me personally it's not a problem. Which is why I have always gone for women with the best looks and biggest nyansh. She can pretend all she wants but as long as she is my perfect type physically and sexually, we gonna roll.

And God forbid money gets scarce,I won't be surprised if she leaves cos I was already expecting it. In fact, any woman staying wit me & still respecting me when I can't provide for her is wat will surprise me.

Biglittlelois:
All because you're bringing money to the table means she won't have a mind of her own? You want a "Yes sir" woman? Smh,

Spirituality is an individual race, learn to intercede for yourself, your wife can only join you, it is a mutual cooperation.

In all you typed, you only want your wife to love you because of the money you have, you never for once mentioned anything about loving her as a human that she is, and you think you wouldn't attract a money hungry lady after most of all you typed? Lol.

Nothing wrong with this. Is there anyone who is not money hungry? The idea is that by knowing exactly who she is and creating safeguards, surprises won't spring up.

Arsenate:
Are men supposed to start crying because some ladies with body count of over a hundred are not gonna marry them or what? Amazing how y'all overestimate yourselves. The most valuable things women can give their men is their beauty and youth. Y'all aren't even bringing those to the table anymore.

It is perplexful, I am flabbergasted. Bewilderment becomes me

pocohantas:
True bruv.

Golddigging is not so bad baby

Alexaonfleek:
haha lols.

There is shame in being broke ooo.
Forget gender.

Its only shameful for a man cos we don't marry for money, but for a woman, she only needs to fool a guy who is doing okay with love and level don change.
Pocohantas will agree with me here

Pocohantas & Jamariwolf,perfect combo.

Life

pocohantas:
Welcome back bruv.

It's brov, not bruv. All dis SystemSpecs staff sef

pocohantas:
Welcome back bruv.

I doubt u know my deactivated username
How far the deal?

pocohantas:
Romance section.

I said it starts from R.
Stop trying to figure me out,I'm not your type and you're not mine. I just only want to see you get fcked by a sexy woman.

Maybe it will help with ur own nl addiction
https://www.nairaland.com/5902803/nine-signs-nairaland-addiction#90300266

pocohantas:
Ban deactivated it.

Nope. I can give you a clue. It starts from R.

What do u say abt the deal?

pocohantas:
I know you are not him. I am just saying, enjoy your Nairaland addiction na. Pending when the ban on your main gets lifted.

I want to watch that guy refuck your wife and come inside her like a boss.

This is my main,I deactivated my old one before opening this at abt the same time in February.

Okay let's arrange something,you watch what u want and I get to watch what I want. Deal?

pocohantas:
I am not Poco too. Enjoy your NL addiction.
Did you think you could comment inactively for so long? Nahhh!

You're funny,there are so many other people I could be. Why would u be so fixated on dis donstan. I am not even Igbo and I've seen him typing Igbo before. And false accusations is against the rules of nl pocohantas.

I want to watch u fck a girl pls

Ladylite:
Thats because you were never her friend. You went ahead to date her without knowing who she is and without being ready to help her first before dating her.

You too were hasty. Now you are stuck and no one can help you.

What do u mean by he's stuck,even married people are not stuck. There is always an out

pocohantas:
Donstan18, please take a break or better still, come out of your shell. I know your hands are ties. You can’t say all what you wanna say without being Donstan.

You always have some “female friends”...

I am not him, believe me.
Seriously wanna watch you tribbing. Saw two lesbians doing it recently and I imagined one of them was you cos she had your exact skin tone and size of ass

Alexaonfleek:

Na their way be that.
When they have nothing to say,they will bring in the family members that are not on NL.
Since you have decided to bring in family members,lets go on.

Most dads then,were stable at least to marry.
Most importantly,most dads then had a sense of responsibility and knew from birth that they had to provide for the mums and kids.
Even parents would never allow their daughters settle for a man who cannot provide.

So honey, as long as we have good characters,we will surely see financially stable men to marry our broke asses

Good character and exceptionally tasteful cnt to keep him hooked, yes you will. And own ur brokeness baby, no shame in it.

pocohantas:
No, I won’t. I don’t cheat, neither do I get impregnated by another man without considering how my sterile horseband would feel.

Maybe inadvertently you paid for the hotel wey dem dey knack your wife anyhow.

Having sex with someone of the same gender as you is not cheating. I have some female bisexuals as friends and their partners know. Highest is having three some, life

I don't know what jamariwolf looks like but I bet she's attractive enough to turn you on. Let's arrange it so I watch please

Belafonte:
Stop arguing with yourself.

I want a woman who’s going to appreciate me for who I am, not what I can provide. If women would rather marry rich men, I really have no problem with that tbh. Just don’t come and be forming love, knowing I would disgust you if I were broke

This is the mentality I have always had. I prefer it when a woman admits she likes money and is a golddigger, makes for better trusting in our relationship.