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Rhesusmonkey:
Which stupid wisdom, why is it that ladies of this generation always planning the end before even starting the marriage, see the kind thing you dey imagine, kwantinu
If you are marrying to a guy and be hoping to be chased out somebody, then why not remain in your Father's house or become a baby mama. Some of you dont just know what marriage is all about

It's the same reason you give a marriage your all so it doesn't crash and if it does, you'd know you gave it your best shot.


Again, ladies, work o, have your own money.
Contribute to the home, contribute to joint projects in the home.

E get why o.

MALIGNANTGuest:
.....So the LADY should move to a Guy that's ready and no longer the Guy that's Tall, Dark and WEALTHY ..
when Age starts creeping in, the Guy that's ready becomes the potential man & no longer the classy man.

The tall, dark and handsome that she is loving is already chickening out because of her age.

Na still Una go insult her if she's marrying at 35, the old newspaper tag comes to mind.

OscarJaden:
I just hope your husband is not on nairaland


I don't want to read any story that touches the hrt about your marriage here

Let me even know if you understand my comment, what do you think I meant?

ThatFairGuy1:
It can't be ordinary. It's either psychosis or ritual purpose

It is nothing like that.

Some men have no sense of boundaries and self control.

They believe a man and woman can't be friends without sexual feelings so any woman is game.

That's how many end up defiling their own daughter. Imagine having an erection for your own daughter.

gaius01:
Wow wow i succumb.

Romanoff, all this days you are just doing the opposite of your name (RomanOn) on this Romance section wit the numbers of advise you are just dishing eh ! how far show us the way out, I want to start advising the people of my community on the danger of bad relationship, I will be needing keynote from you.

Can you help me out?

My dear na from experience and poor choices of mine, friends and people around me, na him I use wise up o.

If you know she'd be too old for you when you're ready to marry, please tell her to move on to a guy that's ready.

No use your reggae spoil her Fuji.

Imagine being asked to pack out of a house whose rent you're contributing to.

Wisdom Wisdom Wisdom.

Wait for dating scan to know if na your own.

If she's around 9 weeks as of today, na you get am.

Meanwhile, you no dey fear STIs and HIV? Considering the fact that young people sleep with any and everyone, would you not rather protect yourself?

paix:
The husbands also go through some hustles to get their women pregnant. Their efforts should be commended as well. What do you think?

Well, is this post about the hustles of the husband?

No. When a post is made about the husbands, we will commend them.

I lost a friend this week after giving birth to twins, don't make light of maternal mortality please.

paix:
The husband nko?

The mother is the one who goes through the pregnancy.

Kindly read on maternal mortality rates.

Thank you.

A woman that's in her late 30s, you want her to abort.

Let her keep the baby o. Age is not on her side anymore.

Mrlcredible:
Mynd44
Seun
OAM4J
Justwise

rule 2

Tell the Mods which rule you broke.

This is a ban I'd joyfully go on. E go sweet me die cause I took you to school and back.

Mods, over to you.

EbenezerTriumph:
I don see say you no get sense.
I pity the man who marries you cos you selfish greedy fools only care about yourselves and the kids leaving the struggling husband out of the picture.

I knew you were an idiot from your previous comment but because I didn't want to state it, I tried to be diplomatic in my reply but still, you chose to kabukun.

Go ask your mother what it takes to carry a pregnancy, maybe she'll restore to you the sense you have refused to have.

Odenson.

EbenezerTriumph:
and what about the father?

Well, a healthy father too since he's the one that carried the child for 9 months.

She said she has a large uterus.

Kudos to her, all that matters is healthy baby and a healthy mother.

How about "Ladies, close your legs till you're married and if you want a baby, adopt one"?

Eillyeillz:
I can't change your mind can I??

No you can't.

zimmaking:
Will you keep shut! Twisted mind, dey form holy,holy.Benny hinn self fvcked one Lady evangelist Paula Whyte,that cause Benny hinn wife to divorce him untill the church intervened.No one is above these things.What you won't chop don't smell it.Them no born any lady/woman try such oriburuku with me.

I've said what I need to say. It's obvious it hit a nerve. Bye sir.

[quote author=Oyiboman69 post=100582663][/quote]Being immoral includes dressing.

FILEBE:
A saying goes like this : What kind of play is dog and lion having if not for the lion to eat the dog?
Nothing wrong in having an opposite sex bestie. Nothing wrong at all if you both have a limit . Sexual strenght is different from physical strenght. The best way to avoid coitus is not to be around the opposite. Sex has fallen many great men, one mistake leads to another and then it happens.

We are besties doesnt mean we shoulf sleep on same beds or we should wear suggestive clothings around each other.

Limit is the key. Avoid tempations and keep your friendship.

This what you people use to encourage yourself to continue commuting fornication and adultery.

Eillyeillz:
You don't believe me!? Offer your male best friend sex, then come back and tell me how it went.

Has nothing to do with being immoral. I lived with my female bestie for two years back in school, and nothing happened. I would hit in a heart beat if it was offered me cuss I'm not one to force anything, and I made sure to avoid situations that might have lead to it.

But trust me not everyone has that much self control. Especially when y'all busy going on romantic dates and getting high off wine.

It has everything to do with immorality.

Eillyeillz:
Take it from me every male(Straight) bestie secretly want to Sleep with with their female bestie....Deep down.

There's a reason most western Females keep Gay male besties.

Rotfl.

Please, speak for yourself.

Like I said, not everyone is immoral.

Fiscus105:
Why did u shock how she dress biko, girl and guy can do wet kissing even Bleep, is still same bestie na

My definition of bestie and yours are quite different cause what you just defined is immoral and there's nothing platonic about it.

Like I said, only immoral people that have a twisted understanding of "besties" will see something wrong in opposite sex being best friends.

walkingshadow911:
we r more rational and logical dis dayz, the right words.
male and female can be friend but not bestie na abba. attraction gon dey already and something gon lead to something. fvck dat rubish called bestie.I bet u can't take dis from ur man either. entanglement things loading

Na you know where the entanglement go come from.

When young people fornicate anyhow, why won't you people think everyone fornicates with their friends or besties?

heniford2:
i hear so super story

Birds of a feather, flock together

tiswell:
your type are part of the problems we have in relationships and marriages today

No, your type are the ones that can't be trusted with the opposite sex.

heniford2:
you will not see oh make ur bestie grab u for ass when ur married and you say is nothing i pity ur husband to be him done suffer

I don't make useless and immoral friends.

Carchoice:
Nigerian ladies only do bestie with someone they can gain from. Financially or emotionally.

Financially is to use bestie to extort
Emotionally is to have him as her relationship back up plan.


I lived in Lagos. I met dozens of their type. The financial ones starts off good and later starts seducing you. Woe betide you if you fall for it. Na house rent money be first billing.

Which kind people Una dey meet so?

Carchoice:
not in Nigeria. I had BESTIES. I have a lady that still calls me big bro. We fvked. She told me she wanted it. Don’t let Nigerians deceive you with the bestie title. Na scam.

That's because both of you are immoral.

I don't see anything wrong in it.

The problem is we have become so immoral that we believe a man and woman can't just be friends.

Regarding the pictures, I'm only shocked by how she's dressed.