₦airaland Forum

IAMPEDRO:
You see ehn, sometimes I begin to question some Africa belief or should I say tradition. The Father to an African girl child died and the father's family flew for more than 20yrs no support, no advise, no words of encouragement. The young girl and the mother managed to survive and God doing it, she met a man she like to spend the rest of her life with. Boom! the father's family up from nowhere, even telling the husband what to bring in other for the marriage to commence.
Is that not wickedness?
You dey always talk about this bride price thing, that your mum paid all the sacrifices but then they just gave her the ice on the cake lol..... sorry about that.

My dear, it angered me and still does.

That woman suffer no be small.

Unless it is open for private individuals to own ambulances and render ambulance services, e no go work.

The government managed ambulances will end up looking like police vans within a month.

I like her audacity.

I know women who were widowed at a young age, abandoned by the family of their husbands.

These women struggled to bring up children only for these yeye husband's family to come and collect everything on bridal list and even bride price.

My mum is one of such women. Na 5 can malt and five tubers of yam reach her.

Meanwhile a family friend of mine, also widowed, collected and chopped her daughter's bride price alone, nothing do the woman.

See the garbage in that place.

Are you sure it's not blocking a water way?

Na wa o

Rotfl.

mofedamijo:
Don't be brainwashed. Did yoi ask your self how villagers with no camera, printer, electricity got the pictures of Prince.

Media propaganda.

That's my point. They always use dark skinned people for this yeye propaganda.

chuksville:
Bootifull waist with sexy waist beards.

I think she bought that waist beard from Jaruma to help her keep her current relationship.

Vaseline crew over to you...

Waist beards?

Na wa o.

How many there truly have a relationship with Jesus?

No be by statue o.

Children are not a retirement plan.

Chop well before you go wedding. Wedding food is not do or die.

Every profession and occupation gas become hazardous because of hunger, protect yourself o.

I knew they would be dark skinned.

If we check the people wey dey call us old women here, maybe we fit count number of years wey we use old pass them with one finger.

Imagine using transfer to the North East as a threat.

Na wa o

Did she buy it from Ondo?

But why haven't you addressed the issue of the wrong order you sent?

Me I will not patronise you until you sort it out.

lilvicky68:
They said girls not old women

Oya, knee down make I pray for you, as per old woman.

You self go reach age wey we reach and you go also pass am in Jesus name.

You go even get daughters wey go reach our age and also pass our age in Jesus name.

You go reach age wey them go call you grand daddy and great grand daddy.

Na better prayer I pray so, so say amen to them.

This is why many women lie to y'all.

They don't want the judgement and rejection.

A born again Christian doesn't need deliverance as long as they are in right standing with God and their repentance is genuine and they didn't go back to their vomit.

The blood of Jesus cleanses and delivers.

sanyablaze:
If you are not beckoned to speak at a meeting, you don't jump

Yet I got mentioned.

IAMPEDRO:
If not the Nigeria mentality, we shouldn't see people the way they are, instead the law should interpret everything. if guilty the law punish and if not let the person go.

Toh, na so we see am.

IAMPEDRO:
Ok, police now pass through different training?

The fear is, the police in town behave better cause they don't know who is who.

So you're likely to get better treatment there.

walkingshadow911:
listen to yourselves, How can a man who is not husband be your bestie. u are a woman who is only wired to think within d confine of your emotion. you can't think outta the box.

those factors that make someone ur bestie can also make you to slide into each other. it just a matter of time and space.
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How can you tell how someone thinks?

It's okay to have a best friend who isn't your husband.

If you're incapable of being faithful, that's when it becomes an issue.

Weathered:
no wonder some of your advice reek of social complexity from a skewed individual.

Yours that is not skewed, we thank God.

He should get himself a good lawyer and both of them should go to a police station to report the death. (They should go to police station in a city, no be all those village police station o, police men in the city are a bit more civil than the local ones).

amrichy:
I guess for now we should just agree to disagree on our difference about whether or not relationship should be regarded as a marital matter (na very trivial matter anyway). I'm sure there are more important and perhaps interesting issues we can argue about.
So here is the first "case" i need your knowledge on:
Should a guy or lady be in more than one relationships at a time? what are the pros and/or cons of doing so?

Well, me I will always present it from the Christian angle. If you are not fornicating and you are dating for marriage, there's nothing wrong with getting to know other people.

The moment you've decided this is the person I'd like to marry, that's when courtship starts.

I see relationship as friendship. You can't court someone you're not friends with, abi?

sanyablaze:
Wetin spectacular about the advise she gave.. You people go just dey fall hand because of orange

If you read again, his comment was based on comments I made on other topics and this one.

No be everybody dey reason with wetin dey between their legs.

amrichy:
Technically, relationship can still be classified as a marital matter.
About you learning enough, do you mind sharing some of your knowledge with me then (i'm serious)?

No. Relationship isn't the same as marital matter.

As per sharing what I've learned, it's on a case by case basis.

amrichy:
Believe you me, you can never "wise up" enough when it comes to marital matters. The sorts of issues that can crop up during relationship or in marriage are manifold and dynamic!

Thank God I've learned enough and I'm hoping to learn more.

And marital matters are not the topic here but relationship.

Silentgroper:
Wasnt ur moniker extracted 4rm d movie "the romanoffs".

Nah. It's actually from Natasha Romanoff. A Marvel character.

The black widow.

Eya