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Mtchewwwww.

Na hiss be that.

omonnakoda:
I am going by what you wrote in black and white I am not a mind reader
So sex and money are corollaries of each other? Your logic is funny
Why are those the only things that should be kept aside.
People give gifts to people they don't know or their friends neighbours etc so why can't you give gifts to a sexual partner ,girlfriend etc. The issue here is giving "expensive" gifts that they later regret
What is coming out is your mentality that sex is a commodity from a female perspective which reveals a lot. Why can't sex be the real reason people are together ? What is wrong with that?

Sex is a biological function like eating and shitting.
When the itch comes we scratch it with who is there. There is always a transactional element to sex and the participants determine the currency based on their psychological profile and social circumstances.

I don't know how to explain it to you.

It has become a norm to exchange sex for gifts or favours, sadly, even in relationships.

I am married and I didn't engage in premarital sex cause I already knew what I wanted for myself from when I was a teenager.

Did it make me have relationships where I wasn't given gifts or spent on like most girls I knew of? Yes.

Did I regret my decision to avoid premarital sex? No

Thankfully, it worked for me.

I didn't get married to my partner cause he gives me money or gifts. I married him cause he's my friend and we share similar values and beliefs.

I hope you get my point now.

If you don't, I can't help you understand me anymore.

The importance of avoiding pre marital sex cannot be overemphasized.

Love wey dey shack today fit turn water tomorrow.

Some people enjoy domestic violence.

You better will all you have to your poor mother, at least, make she take hold body if them kill you.

omonnakoda:
The premise of your submission is that women GIVE or GIFT sex / their bodies to men . That is debatable

As far as what "will remain" for husband goes ..... faulty logic
Gaining sexual experience before marriage is to the benefit of the potential husband
Finally are you telling us you are a virgin or married as a virgin?
Is that realistic advice today and why does that apply only to women

Our problem is we react too much and think too little

Nope, my premise is that most women feel the need to show appreciation for gifts received through sex or most give sex for love and it's not realistic. I've heard men kuku sat they can't spend on who they are not having sex with, isn't that exchanging gifts for sexual favours?

I'm of the opinion that both sex and money or gifts should be kept aside, taken out of the equation so if you're being with someone, you'll know the real reasons you're being with them.

It's not cause you're sleeping with them or getting gifts or money from them.
Capisce?

Babara1994:
You think it is easy to have an erection? Men give more during sex. See ur mouth like gifts.

Keep your erection and let her keep her body o.

pointblank247:
thanks bro

Sis, actually.

Babara1994:
During is not for giving or receiving; it is for sharing. You give nothing during sex.

You give yourself during sex.

I'm team no premarital sex and I stand by it. If you no wan give me gifts because of that, keep your gift, I no kuku dey ask.

Akuruoulo:
IF U GIVE GIFT GIVE AM BECAUSE U WAN GIVE . IS THIS ALSO APPLY TO GALS?

Yes o. No expectations or entitlements to sex.

Akuruoulo:
U TOO THE TRY WITH UR COMMENTS.
BUT THAT BODY OWN GET ERROR NA.
U GIVE BODY , U COLLECT BODY. SO , NOBODY LOSE THERE.

Make everybody hold body. If you give gifts, give am cause you want give am, no be cause you dey expect something in return.

racerve:
So you're equating sex with money. Na olosho work you dey, abi na relationship?

That's all you got from my comment?

Really sad.

Netherlands is the country, Holland is a Province and part of the country, Dutch is the name the people of the country are called.

This statement is enough to make Tinubu sell SW for one naira.

stanliwise:
There is something called transactional relationship. Women love it more than men from my personal experience

Not all women o. Biko nu.

I support him. It's the same reason I tell women not to sleep with men they are not married to.

Wetin go remain for your husband if you share everything?

Unlike gifts that can be taken back, I no know how you wan collect body wey you done give.

You'll know why you're dating someone if money and sex is off the table.

My two cents o.

Rotfl.

The man was a fine man and he raised fine men.

Na papa wey do well children dey do remembrance for.

Venom442:
He be like say this one didn't pass through school. Does not even know the meaning of entitlement mentality.

Na you no pass through any school. How can someone feel so entitled to another person's body that they demand for sex when you're not married to the person?

You obviously need the education. Just take it and move on.

Drsnives:
This guy likes suffer head.

Nawaooooo

Dude is not broke. He has a trust fund left to him by his mother Diana.

It's this entitlement mentality that makes some men rape girls who come to visit them.

It's this entitlement mentality that makes some men spend on you and give you gifts cause they expect sex in return.

It's this same entitlement mentality that makes some men tell you they can't be in a relationship without sex.

It's this entitlement mentality that has made some girls Oloshos, exchanging sex for gifts and money.

It's this entitlement mentality that makes some men intimidated by independent women who don't need their money.

I rest my case.

Rotfl.

By the time they are done with Nigeria, it won't be worth one dollar.

Odiegwu

This is why it's important to raise the male child as much as the female child is raised.

Your daughter could end up with an idiot like this.

Why is the relationship failing?

KevMitnick:
Lol... Don't be too quick to exonerate your church... I think it's an individual thingy; that is some pastors are naturally greedy for money or material things and will go as far as embarrassing or guilt tripping church members into giving money albeit not from their heart.

My friend got married last week and he did his thanksgiving RCCG, even after dancing and giving an envelope of money during the thanksgiving, the PP still publicly stated that he didn't pass his test of thanksgiving and insisted that he must bring "something" to thank God for the success of his wedding. The guy was angry and embarrassed. So it's like that in some places.

I no longer attend the RCCG cause I got married and left.

But honestly, I've never heard it before.

Thanksgiving offering is between you and God. Too bad we have greedy pastors amongst the bunch.

I've never heard it before.

The RCCG does not do it and I was literally born in the RCCG.

I've attended weddings and taken part in weddings, I am married and I've never heard that anyone has to pay a dime to pastors for wedding, naming and dedication.

Just package food for them and they'll be alright.

Marriage is honourable.

And it's the south west that's spos to be the highest users of drugs.

Charmingrascal:
No region abuse drug like the North.


They get high on everything but Marwa thinks otherwise

I shock when I see one small boy for North dey high on petrol. Never heard of it before.

Nothing wey weave on and wigs no fit cover.

Looking like a bald headed ostrich.

Panacea278:
Mine is not hereditary tho as i am the only one with it in my family. So its safe to say environmental factors

About 50% of people who have asthma are due to genetics and 50% it's due to environmental factors. It depends which you both were

Since you both have mild asthma and you can stay off your triggers, I believe you can go ahead and marry.

My grand father had asthma, my dad didn't but I do. The asthma manifested when I was 8 years old after consuming lots of ice block after a party in my house.

It is allergic asthma and I've managed it since then by staying off triggers and following doctor's orders.

In short, I no longer use inhalers now sef.

I have allergic asthma, my grand father had it but my dad didn't.

I've been told it skips a generation.

But since you both have mild asthma and you manage it well, I don't see anything wrong in both of you getting married.

She is kuku not a broke woman and she has said it in the tweet announcing the break up that gifts and birkin bags don't make up for infidelity.

So, he's entitled to take his gift back.