₦airaland Forum

Did Bella just say "No be to marry fine girl, can she cook"?

No it's not.

Toddlers go through a hard time trying to figure out themselves, the world and their emotions. Not all they do should be taken seriously.

Some of us expect too much from them.

To correct them, tell them what they did is wrong and punish the behavior by taking away something they like for a short period of time, when you can get their attention, tell them the right way to behave.

Reward good behaviour, punish bad behaviour but not by flogging.

The moment kids reach 5 years, the flogging can begin.

The moment you stop wishing your partner well, the moment you don't wish them to succeed, the moment you start wishing bad things happen to them, e done become toxic be that.

If God was in the center of your marriage, na to carry the marriage go meet God wey dey involved in the marriage.

The marriage can still be fixed if both of you are still in tune with God and his leading.

Many marriages we celebrate today, the 40 years anniversary, 30 years anniversary, even the 60 years own, do we think they were free from toxicity?

As long as both of you can come together and agree to make the marriage work, it will work.

The only time to leave a marriage is on grounds of adultery and domestic violence.

Sheggz would have gone after Dotun.

Daniella didn't even wait for Dotun to leave before she started casting her net on Adekunle.

How can someone so beautiful and intelligent just be jumping from man to man?

Biggie refused to give us Sheggz.

stunning4real:
Adekunle should please not go near her oooo

I pray he can resist o. Cause this kind black widow dey fear me for am.

stunning4real:
lolzxx. But it's the truth n

It's the casual way he said it for me.

Ebuka cannot make heaven.

"Second man down for Daniella".

Dear Lord, no let her succeed with Adekunle o, make himself no go house.

Finals lomo.

Level3 housemates thinks they are going back to their level 3 house.

Rotfl.

Which kind noodles Allyson make so?

That's how the country will sleep for 8 years if he becomes president.

Is it just me or the voice of Big Brother has changed?

So Phyna has been auditioning for 5 years and she's 25.

Then she's been cooking since 1999 in her aunt's restaurant.

Isn't our God a great God?

Hazardfan1:
Everybody dey talk about their Career, Ekuke dey shout I'm beautiful, I'm beautiful....Wetin ds girl dey do b4 big brother sef, nobody don answer me.

Self love painting. Person wey love herself go still dey with person wey dey great her like Sheggz dey treat her?

Relegation on top jersey.

Sheggz for no just draw anything, make just come talk cause wetin be this jersey?

Zonefree:
Na Mumu dey expect loyalty from a Nigerian girl.
Wetin I wan i use her loyalty achieve

Maybe you go try Togo be that.

Zonefree:
Roman, how does one define relationship with a Nigerian girl? Like, you'll sit her down and say, "Nkechi, see I love you. I want to marry you in the next 2 year, until then, we'll be having coitus, cuddling, kissing and other things cos you're the girl I want to marry in 2 years time."

This defined relationship works better in writing.

Say what you want from the relationship from the start. If them no ready, move on.

I'm not an advocate for fornication but if fornication is your thing and you are looking for a partner to fornicate with, say it as it is so that anyone that's not okay with it can go.

No be the one wey you go dey situationship with person for years, no definition, no direction, you go come dey expect the person to dey loyal. Wetin you give them wey them wan dey loyal to?

obaaderemi:
Abi jare. And in the end everyone dies.

Yes o.

Zonefree:
The only thing I want to read from you is the definition of "better" in your first post.

I'm talking about regard, respect. This comes after a relationship has been defined.

If after defining the relationship you feel like the person isn't serious, why not end it and move on to a serious person?

If you think treating a n unserious person nonchalantly will make them more serious, you're in for a joker.

They will string you along till they find someone else.

Zonefree:
Can you please define "better" in that context for me please.

You claim being nonchalant to a woman will make her more serious.


If it's you that a woman is treating nonchalantly, will you pick her over a woman that holds you in high regard?

Wo, let everybody do what works for them jare.

All of us go dey alright las las.

Oil boom, the curse that befell this country.
Even the groundnut pyramids of the north fell after the oil boom.

imagrg:
Someone once gave me this advice when the lady I cared so much for left me for a Casanova. When she was dumped, she wanted a reunion which I heartily declined.

I adopted this nonchalance in other relationship and my now late wife was all over me and wanted a serious relationship which I obliged.

The marriage blossomed for 25 years until she unceremoniously passed on last year leaving me heartbroken.

This method worked while I was much younger. In my late 50s, I think I have become more subtle and affectionate now.

I believe on Nairaland, people having my kind of demeanour are called, SIMPs.

What's your say on this?

Lol.

Until you see her wedding IV with someone who treats her better.

daboy18:
I am only 20 and jobless

Sadly, you're helpless and can only be talking to your sister, if you can get someone that she respect a lot to talk to her.

You can't be tough with her, use love to be advising her, tell her your mother is destroying her life.

I've been using bolt since bolt started in Abuja and none of the drivers have ever asked me for shishi.

What I hate them for is the way they reject card trips. I never carry cash around so my card is linked to the account. Once they see it's a card transaction, they will call to ask if you can do cash, if you say no, they cancel on you.

Your mother is your sister's love-vendor.

Simple. Unless you have a source of income to take your sister away from your mum, you mum will succeed in ruining what's left of her life.

The fact that you're asking this question and still want to be friends with him means you're gay, you just don't know it yet.

A lot of education has to be done about rape culture in Nigeria.

A fresh graduate with a wife who doesn't have a source of income decided to do big wedding, if it was from your pocket, na different thing.

You borrowed to do wedding. Is wedding an investment?

Wo, all the best.

I stopped following the clown on twitter when I realized he speaks with both side of his mouth.

E go talk one thing today, talk the opposite tomorrow.

Efewestern:
You shouldn't use one state to judge an entire region. In my own side, women have equal opportunity/right as men. Infact, you dare not drag inheritance with an offspring (Male or female).

Well, the people I'm acquainted with have this issue.

We thank God.

I've always wondered what the place of a woman is in the south east and south south.

They can't inherit their father's property and they can't inherit their husband's property cause of the husband's brothers and family, worse if the man dies, na to throw her out remain.

Thank God for this law.