₦airaland Forum

They shouldn't even put up any cut off marks for many northern states, cause the scores I'm seeing there is an insult to southern states.

Ajibade123:
Aren't you a banker??

I use to be.

This one wants to get out of the trenches.

I don't think it is.

There's a difference between how much accountants who have ICAN earn and those who don't. At least, is have friends in both categories.

satandeterrible:
This is the kind of wife Nigerian women would emulate.
But no, hate-filled, bitter venomous, misandrist assholes like Romanoff and co will rather the man kill himself with financial pressure.

You won't see them commenting here.
Disgusting set of people.

I beg you in the name of what you hold most dear, don't mention me ever again, especially if you're going to insult me.

E get why.

I use your mama beg you.

FreedomfromtheT:
You have a point sir. Individuals are free to engage evils like abortion and gay if they so choose which consequences they will face if they don't repent. However, such acts should not be state backed.

States in America can choose to legalize abortion. California and New York for instance.

AndyCole16:
Stop covering your face na

I dey quick vex ooo

Wetin u wan see?

criterionlas:
Nigerian women left the whatsapp group.

Who don fine don fine. It’s not a matter of bleaching. Some women bleach to the point they look like pigs. Red and smelly skin. When they reach 40, their skin becomes wrinkled and aged. Stay true to yourself, you will look better overtime and your health will be preserved.

Nigerian men now bleach o.

Righteousness2:
You Believe or you Don't Believe does not Matter. When you study GOD'S word, you will understand How HE operates.
HE has Destroyed Nations and People in time past because of Evil and Wickedness.
What matters is GOD'S Word.
And GOD will not Change his Word because of a Changing World.
GOD is full of Mercies, kind, loving and much more. HE also a Consuming Fire.

If that were the case, even Nigeria would have been destroyed by now due to the ritual killings, terrorist killings, abortions, immorality of all kinds and so much Wickedness.

Is Nigeria better than the US?

With the high rate of rape in South Africa, why hasn't God destroyed that country.

God will not destroy any country. There is a timeline for believers to leave this world and while they are in it, God will not destroy any country because of their immorality.

Thank you.

Righteousness2:
Once the cup is Full , GOD will take out the righteous and Destroy the Nation.

I don't believe so.

God is merciful and will give room for the wicked to repent.

That's his desire.

Righteousness2:
Listen, there is a Difference btw National and Personal iniquities, Wickedness and also Punishment.
The same way GOD Deals with Humanity.

When a Nation approves and advances abominations and Wickedness, GOD deals with them National
When individuals do this evils, They get the Consequences personally.

The Day Nigeria as a nation approve of these evils, you see Castrophic events that have not been seen here begin to happen.

God will not because of the choice of a nation destroy the righteous that are in it.

Drenimarcus:
About to get chaotic and bloody. Civil unrest. Jane revenge left wing militants will be on rampage all weekend. Staying in my house all weekend.

Nothing will happen. The protests will wear off after a while.

Righteousness2:
Expect various forms of Rages and destructions by the sons and daughters of Belai.

Isn't abortion illegal in Nigeria?

Isn't it still done illegally?

Isn't homosexuality banned in Nigeria, do we still not have homosexuals?

As religious as we are in this country, when it comes to Abortion we all agree it's wrong but do it codedly.

emmanuelbrown26:
F. U. Ck off bitch

Your mum must be proud of what you've become.

Nuisance.

emmanuelbrown26:
He was right, bcs u started sounding so stupid and foolish at d same time.

Please don't mention me again.

I won't be as graceful as I was with him seeing that no one called you into this conversation.

NOETHNICITY:
Thank you bro. My very line of thinking actually.
However, I intend to inform her later today that beggining next month, I'll personally be buying everything we are going to be needing at home. I'll only ask her to prepare a weekly shopping list for me.

Please, do keep us updated on how you were able to manage the money so we can learn to be more prudent from you.

Sugargul:
There are 4 weeks in a month. That’s still 80k.

OP, I did not see anything budgeted for your wife. She has needs too. Her hair, clothes, shoes, body lotion to look good for you. If you don’t give her, she might be left with no choice than to remove from the 80k to meet her needs. 80k is not a lot of money in these hard times.

My dear sis,

It's why is very necessary for a woman to have her own money.

Make them no use you shine so that you sef fit get stake for your marriage.

satandeterrible:
Sometimes, I wonder where women like you learn the craft of masterfully claiming victims in all situations and at all times.

You were the first person to put false ideas into the man's head that he was not doing enough.
This is a man providing almost everything in the house and at the same time giving a whopping sum of 80k to the wife.
Yet you imply him he is not man enough.
Can he ever do enough for your types? If he doesn't die, you'll always want to him to go above and behind his limit to provide what is above his disposable income.

How else will he find out the root cause of the problem other than discreetly investigating.
Scratch that. The inference is too lucid for extra investigations. I repeat, his wife is either misnanaging those funds or she is misusing (looting) it.
I shudder at the fact that a very unlucky, extremely unfortunate man will marry your type and live with eternal nagging and being told to 'step up' the rest of their miserable lives.

.

You obviously misunderstood all if my comments.

Sigh.

Did you read where I said their standard of living could also be a factor and I used myself as an example?

I know someone who gets 5k daily for feeding. Can I compare my family to hers?

Of course not, their own standard of living is way above mine.

Please, take your time to go through my comments again without so much anger and try to understand where I'm coming from.

If you still feel the same way you feel about my comments, don't bother mentioning me.

I'll take it that you stand by what you think.

Try not to be so rash, it makes you come off as angry, frustrated and unreasonable and I don't want to believe you're these things.

satandeterrible:
Your misandry and bias was so evident that it warranted an insult.

Sorry, but I'm not sorry.
You deserved it.

How can you tell a man who provides all the provisions, the rice and other heavy foodstuff for the house - Including even the toiletries and stuff - that his 80k monthly to his wife is not enough?
That is wicked stupidity on your part.

This man buys fruits, bread and other things at home too oo.
Yet you tell me that 80k is not enough for the wife to provide soup and other very minor stuff in the house for a month?

That is wickedness, bias, misandry and intense stupidity on your part.

I'm so sorry for you.

So all you could do was throw the wife under the bus and assume she's doing ajo.

If I'm a misandrist, what does that make you?

What have I said that would make you insult me in such manner?

I spoke based on my experience with rising cost of food stuff and if you feel differently, there are ways you could have intelligently made your point but you chose the gutter route.

What if the woman is innocent of what you accused her?

Can you change how you made the husband disbelieve and mistrust his wife?

All people like you do is cause issues between married couples when they foolishly bring their marital issues here.

I could have stooped to your level but i was raised better,plus, not today. Adios.

satandeterrible:
Mumu how much is the average disposable income of the average family in Nigeria?
And you tell me that 80k isn't enough even when the man takes care of provisions, rice and other things.

Yet 80k isn't enough?

Don't be stupid and useless.

Even if the OP says he gives her wife 200k monthly, you'll still come here to justify how 200k isn't enough.

Curb your misandry, Ode.

You have to insult me to make a point?

Did I insult you when I made my comment?

prophetwis:
Your wife is doing 'Ajo'(Daily contribution)with half of the money.

On top how much abeg?

For a family of 5 people. Ask about their standard of living first before you conclude his wife is doing ajo.

If she's working or have a business, she should augment maker the man no die.

LadySarah:
It depends on the standard you started with them oo.
But if I'm to say,it should suffice very well but it all depends on your wife's mgt ability and your location
Things are really costly so speak with her to understand what's going on.

Obodo siri ike

My husband can never eat small meat. He will ask me if we are poor.

The least I spend on meat weekly is 5k. Cooking stew now that tomatoes has become expensive, that's like 1500, other soups dey, drinking water, waste disposal, weekly housekeeping, breakfast dey inside.

I spend 15k weekly on all of this and we be just two.

It depends on the standard of life that they are living and tbh, things cost for market.
One lap of goat meat with abeg na 4500.

This is what I learnt from my MIL.

Foodstuff like Rice, beans, semi, garri, poundo yam, spaghetti, noodles, seasoning cubes, salt and wheat should be bought in bulk and will last up to six months.

For your household, provisions like the snacks your kids will take to school should also be bought in bulk cause those consume a lot of money if you're buying it everyday.

This way, it's only weekly money for soup that you will be giving her. And even at that, 20k weekly is more than sufficient.

Does she support you in your studies and other life issues as she claims?

And it's this constitutional right that will be the death of America.

The school in Uvalde where 19 people were killed by a gun man will be demolished cause the residents can't stomach having kids go back there.

limcar:
you need it in your pussy so that you go get sense

And you think you have sense with what you posted up there?

Your mother must wish she got that period that turned out to be you.

Devil's beans or karara.

It's still exploitation.

Exploiting the poor just to save your own child.

Sapa na bastard o.

pleasureosondu:
it is.

Modified.
I heard it's filled up. Old Parade Ground is worse as there's a huge turnout there.

GSS zone 4 is another centre people can register.

I will add nothing else to what Wike said.

This is the vawulence I like seeing from Wike.

pleasureosondu:
I meant

It is Lugbe Primary School

Oh. Okay.

pleasureosondu:
it is.

Nope

They lost Abuja last two presidential elections.

Check am.