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Obas101:
No na... I said how to stop them from getting your contacts. The info you provide about yourself and your guarantor is enough. Abeg o people should try and pay back once they have the money

blaquebelle:
Please can you explain why you said he shouldn't do it for her? I'm in a similar situation and my man has agreed not to do it because of me. Can this pose a problem?

Lara113:
Have read through your comment sir, it is indeed feasible sir I will work on it

bigpicture001:
My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...

These are the proposal...

1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..

2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her

3. I will be responsible for rents

4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..

5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.

6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..

7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.

8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..

Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?

Lara113:
Sir money was the reason he didn't finish then According to what he told me ,he is yoruba ,am in my thoughts all alone I don't know who to discuss my issues with he is working as a driver now which I can't even build my life and that of my children on I have given him my school fee before to go and write a professional course in marine may be it will work it's all not working bro am tired ......only God know how am feeling now weird thought keep coming to my head ,I want to leave this state and go somewhere else to start life at this early stage of my life responsibility that is even older than me I don't have cloth is not that I didn't see rich men ,my intentions was to at least build with him the way am building is falling I was the one that even rented this apartment initially bought everything inside though he did some contributions gave it to me to add to it I rented the apartment we are staying am just feeling as if he is the one that park his load and come and meet me there is no feeling like am packing to my husband house ...make una please assist me hunger wan finish me

drnoel:
Who would write a will and leave it in the house in the reach of his children? It doesn't happen na!
It's just like not writing one in the first instance esp if the children are iberibe.
The normal thing people do is make several copies and leave the original with the lawyer. Ofcos the lawyer has to be a trusted one.
Ur story is questionable.

JONNYSPUTE:
....You have not answered my question.
Will she also show such negligence if it was her mum? Yes or no.Be honest to yourself. We are not fighting bro.

Should we also blame Silvester's parents for his death because they sent him to a boarding school knowing fully well that it is their sole right to protect and take of their son?


Me I've already told my mum that na nurse we go employ for her for old age, cause even as she's not yet old, we no dey too gree, talk more of old age.

drnoel:
Only happens if said person died intestate. Any sane person that wants to practice this kind of shit must and should have his will already written. So that if anything happens to the person only the people of his/her choice get the lion share.

SportsHD:
Pele, aunty holier than thou.

PINKJET:
Initially i felt getting something to do was the problem but after speaking with her, i realized it was far from it. She lacks confidence