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I must commend you for the efforts you put in to actualise this weight loss. You're amazing the way you are now and pay no attention to those who have nothing positive to say. To lots of them, obesity is evidence of wealth and good living.

Loads of garbage.

damseyl:
lol ..have not been seeing you too na. Where is everyone sef? The monikers I stil cm across and aint strange to me here are very very few.

Btw how r u doing?

Yes, we have many new faces and once one stay off for a while they find it strange to mix up on their return. But will get along with time sha.

I'm good, thanks. Just been away for a while but back now. Trust you're good too.

Your list is frivolous and baseless by categorising it a world thing. You should have been specific on the climate which your observation is based on. I believe you're referring to Nigeria and that's okay but even at that no woman likes to associate with dirty and unkempt men. Neither do they want men with protruded stomach.

The problem is that these women have been conditioned to get married at a certain age and overlook such men misdeamenor when amatory entries are made their way. Until the Nigerian society cease from stigmatising unmarried ladies and mounting unceasing pressure on singles to get married, these traits will never stop. Patriarchy is responsible for our backwardness as a country.

Start giving her subtle hints that you have a girlfriend and in a committed relationship, even if you're not presently seeing anyone. While at it let her know that nothing in this world will make you cheat on your woman. She'll withhold her intentions if she's sensible.

Also, don't in any way make her feel less of herself and you may remind her how beautiful she is just not to hurt her ego.

Don't think she meant it. She just said yes to dissuade the interviewer from repeating the question. People will always read meaning to everything celebrities says.

They both look good together though. Were she from Anambra I'd have said they might end up together as couple but Flavour being a typical nwa Anambra may not want to marry away from his home state.

This internet virus is out again oh lawd. How we get rid of this cyber nuisance

Over flogged issue. The era when it was common for guys to thank ladies for FB addy has long gone, last saw it over 2-3years ago. If you still do, then the problem is with you having juveniles and unserious minds as FB friends, sorry.

Yawns.

Following...

Situation like this makes you support jungle justice and people taking laws into their hands. If I were the man I'll make sure I bathe her with boiling water if not acid. What nonsense.

Try girls then. Problem solved.

Where do you lots meet such girls? Perhaps, money is the only thing you use in attracting a girl's interest

Dygeasy:
The thread went this way because it remained in the romance section and the admin is not supporting us in anyway. We aren't even getting them to give us clear responses.

There's only little I can do here so until those issues are resolved, we'll stop hurting one another all in the name of campaigning.

Hmmm, perhaps the admin are acting based on orders from séun. Could it be that they aren't in support of the competition anymore? Oh well, let's see how it pans out.

daretodiffer:
I have been applying since morning. I am about to leave their sorry ass.

Can you do this for me please? can you say something about what they are doing? What is your opinion? Do you think it is okay for adults baby adults to make fun of others based on their physical attractiveness? Can these people get any lamer?

What do anyone have to say? I think it's clear to every sound mind that anyone who unprovokedly revile another's appearance and make caricature of them only does so to give their piteous lives some fillip. You notice none of them were bold enough to use their main handle or have a pic up? Tells you how cowardly they are too.

Observing these schmucks lives punctiliously beyond the cyber space you'd realise that they are frustrated idiots who have nothing going for them out there so they resort to Internet bullying, their only source of merriment, for succour and to drag others to their crestfallen pathetic predicament. The more attention they get, the more daring they become and you just should let them revel in their folly.

daretodiffer:
You seem to know yourself so well.
Upload their pictures! Stop trying to look for an easy way out! You are not too smart for that

Must be a less busy day for you today. Or just in the mode for some joshing?

A year should be max, if he isn't ready to wrap it up within a year then no need for the engagement. Just leave it at relationship or courting level.

Dygeasy:
WE MIGHT HAVE TO PUT THE WHOLE PROCESS ON HOLD FOR NOW TILL WE ARE ABLE TO RESOLVE THE PENDING ISSUES ON GROUND.

THE THREAD HAS ALSO DEVIATED FROM IT'S ORIGINAL PURPOSE TILL WE HAVE A CLEAR DIRECTION.

What are these unresolved issues, sir? Does it include the low turn out of verified nominees and can the contest hold with just 9 contestants

damseyl:

Hey, where have you been? You scarce pass fuel o.

Vinshu:
Shut your mouth kid.

Don't fail your wife and kids. Do your job as a man and let your wife do her job as a woman. Not being a sissy looking for the woman that will feed you and buy you phones.

And the man should be the one to feed and buy the woman phones? Sponging lazy ass, don't go and hustle for your money you hear. Be there waiting for a man who'll spoon feed you coz you got a hole in between your rusty legs. Nonsense

Vinshu:
Dude, you continue to make no sense thinking you are. Do You know why I enjoy replying you? Its because you are going to Asia thinking you are going to America.

On a good day I'd just ignore you and wouldn't even read your epistle and save my eyes the stress. But I enjoy it.

You have been blabbing about feminism. But let's see somethings:

- All my threads I have created recently doesn't in anyway depict feminism or encourage it.
- My comments do not depict feminism neither does it encourage it.

All I have been preaching about is for men to cater for their women. Why is that hard for you to swallow?

Why have you been making noise about feminism all along? Dude, read all your epistles. Its off the point here. No one is talking feminism. Find something else to say.

If I want to talk feminism I will. I ain't talking that on this thread.

Lame retort. You're a renown feminist on this board and always quick to propagate gender equality hence I'm mentioning feminism coz encouraging leeching off men betrays every tenets of that struggle. You're fake as hell and lecherous numpty who has been exposed as one whose noise on gender equality holds no grounds.

Again, I reiterate why should a man cater for his woman and the woman doesn't contribute financially when they are meant to relate on equal footing? Fake ass feminist.

Vinshu:
And @embolden

When you get married you'd understand. Even the bible made it clear that a man who cannot take care of his family is worse than an Infidel. Search the verse out. That answers your question. Like I said, it's natural order.

However, everyone is free to make their own choices. A woman is free to do the job of her man while man is free to not do anything. Live and let live but we should deny the natural order of things.

I'd expected you to rise above pettiness and come up with a robust averment to affirm your point and not this drivel. Only unsound minds and those who lack the mental shrewdness to engage in intellectual jostling cite the bible or any sectarianism doctrine as a basis for any argument.

Natural order, job of her man bla bla bla. You have not been able to provide a logical a priori antithesis nor table these 'jobs' of a man. You've only succeeded in exposing yourself as a pseudo feminist who only champion the cause when it's convenience to them.

Here you are discouraging women taking up financial resoonsibility and offering gifts to their man but shamelessly encouraging receiving gifts whilst tacitly fueling the culture of women sponging on a man. Hypocrite.

Not that I'm surprised though, online rodents of your ilks feminism clatter has always been a farce to sound minds.

Vinshu:
No. A man is supposed to take care of his woman. That's the order of nature. Like I said, if woman wants to do all that for her man, it's her choice. But ideally, it's a man's job.

In an egalitarian climate of which you pride yourself as an advocate of that course, financial responsibility isn't balked to one gender. It's a 50/50 responsibility and to employ nature as a factor to abdicate one's individual's financial responsibility is laughable.

Same nature you pseudo feminists employ when it suites you has it that women are 'naturally' astute in culinary duties, chores and nursing of babies but feminist has rubbished that orthodox tradition and aim to enforce that men should cook, perform house chores and change diapers while also feeding babies. Equality without equal responsibility is no equality.

Btw, what study has established that it's natural for a man to take care of a woman's financial needs? Please highlight it let's scrutinise them.

Vinshu:
It is wrong.

However, if your heart wants to, fine.

Is it also wrong to give a girlfriend money?

Even naira can't help but admire the excellent savor of the dollar. Ife di na ukwu erika o.

Marlvin:
Nicely said, then again you know Parents and dramas, they'd give you instances on broken marriages and parents blessings, and may even threaten to boycott the wedding or engagement, saying you should count them out..


what would you do ?

If the instances are credible then fine I may heed to their advice. But whatever exemplification they are citing shouldn't have any religious or tribal undertone for that will fall on deaf ears.

And while they are citing these instances I'll rebut them as unfounded coz that it didn't pan out well with A or B doesn't mean I'll experience similar fate.

Should they decide to boycott the wedding coz they refused to respect my decision, as the one who's to live and bear the consequences of the marriage, then so be it. My decision stands.

I'll proceed with the marriage plans coz their reasons are baseless. The decision on who to marry lies with the parties involved only and any interferance isn't welcome to me.

PoliticalThuG:
she is a busy lady lately.. She is trynna secure her third job. So we hardly take pictures together these days.

The ones we took together got lost with my memory card.

She is not a jobless person like u

Lame excuses. You must be assuming you're addressing a numpty like you. She's too busy to take pics, lost my data on memory card blablabla.

A woman you claim to love so much but don't have even one pics of you both together. Keep stealing pics until you're busted and charged for identity theft and impersonation. Olodo.

No pics of you both together. How are we then sure she's your woman or just pics you lifted from social media?

Miscreants seeking for cheap attention. Serious minds don't issue vague threats, they strike. These wetbacks are looking for amnesty perks and will fail. Where were they when the clueless ineffectual buffoon was in power? Nonsense.

Since Bukola Saraki is also under investigation by EFCC and CCT can he disqualify himself as the chair of NASS? What is good for the goose should be sauce for the gander.

Lol. Just like I recently saw a Range Rover in Abuja with customised plate number as "witch". Stopped and did all I could to take pics but the car was on speedy motion. Weird.