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Romance › Re: His Dad Threaten To Disown Him by ronald4lif(m): 7:24pm On Dec 30, 2015
I think the best for him to do is to leave. If the relationship between the aunt and dad has broken down he's going to feel the brunt. So he should just leave.

Was the car meant for transportation? I'm guessing so but it was a poor decision on your dad's part. A lot of those car transport business barely survives.
Romance › Re: Met Her Today And She Is Willing To Visit Me Tomorrow. Is She Worth It? by ronald4lif(m): 7:15pm On Dec 30, 2015
adonbilivit:
she just seems too easy. if she comes 2mao and gives me German juice I will just conclude she is a well packaged olosho
What kind of backward thinking is this? And tomorrow it's your type that would complain that ladies are withdrawn and denying you sex. What do you guys really want?
Romance › Re: Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Guys From Getting Married In 2015 *CT by ronald4lif(m): 7:09pm On Dec 30, 2015
lanicky:
Wow! Nicesmiley

We'll think about it bro grin
Please don't think about it o. Let's conserve the status quo biko. Make una no spoil show for mens. grin
Romance › Re: The Issue Of White Gown During Wedding. by ronald4lif(m): 7:05pm On Dec 30, 2015
The white wedding gown never had anything related to virgin or non virgins. And I've never read this theory of yours anywhere.

The wearing of white gown was copied by Christians after former Queen of England Victoria wore a white gown to her wedding. It was never said if she (Victoria) was a virgin at the time. Neither did the Christian doctrine said so.

You're just one of the suckers for virgin brides disguising under spurious claims to propagate your (anti-virgin) crusade.
Romance › Re: Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Guys From Getting Married In 2015 *CT by ronald4lif(m): 6:52pm On Dec 30, 2015
pinceprinz:
Yo brutal! Who ordered for this enlightenment or are u getting paid forit bro huh? ... I just pray the ladies don't listen to this admonition. That their hormones take over their reasoning.
You wan dey continue to dey chop without going to her villa abi? Well, e be like na wetin me mah sef want. grin
Romance › Re: Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Guys From Getting Married In 2015 *CT by ronald4lif(m): 6:31pm On Dec 30, 2015
Well, it's a good counter thread.

Fear of taking responsibility and losing grip of his freedom is another one. Since many women have made themselves available a man doesn't actually need to get married to benefits from it reward.

Traditionally, there are some female roles in a man's life which are meant to be conjugal but not anymore. I mean if I can have sex with a girlfriend, she fixes my meals and perform most of the house chores, cohabs together and even bear me kids then what's the essence to marry her?

We men knows this and also aware that once we legalise the relationship it mounts more pressure to be responsible, restricts our freedom from gambolling from one female to another, increases our monthly finances as the obligation of wifey welfare isn't in effect. Girlfriends financial responsibility can be burked but same can't be said about wife.

Perhaps, ladies should cease from making themselves available and providing all these conjugal services and some more men would think about settling down quickly.

I hope they don't stop sha. sad
Travel › Re: Mention The Funniest Bus-stops You've Ever Heard by ronald4lif(m): 6:09pm On Dec 30, 2015
Bird in hand bus stop - somewhere in Chislehurst, south London. Don't know if it's funny but I find the name awkward. They should have completed it 'it's worth more than thousands in the bush' sha. sad
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 5:56pm On Dec 30, 2015
Tamee:
Are we done here tongue
I'm not bothered about his action but the outcome of it. His conduct was poor but successful and thus can be overlooked and can regarded as a hindsight.
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 5:28pm On Dec 30, 2015
eyinjuege:
Hahahaha grin.
You have 10mins to round up.
Your questions are very spot on and brought a new dimension to the whole denouement. I think I won't trust him with any of the question asked. His conduct betrays his professional ethics.
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 5:18pm On Dec 30, 2015
eyinjuege:
Quick question.. Can you trust the OP with your life?

Not as a friend now cos you obviously don't know each other, but as a patient since he claims to be a health worker- doctor or lab scientist or warreva.

Can you allow him as a midwife to take the delivery of your wife in a setting such as ours where women share rooms and husbands are not allowed in the delivery room. Can you be fully convinced he didn't swap your baby for whatever justifiable reason.

Can you be sure that as a nurse he won't give you a lethal injection because you've ever betrayed his family?

Do you think he can swap your lab results with his brother's own because yours appear better and his brother has to travel abroad for job opportunities?

I ask again, can you really trust the OP to do what is right for you as a neutral patient.
All these examination on top which matter? Okay, I dey come make I get my exam materials.
Romance › Re: Am I Confused Or What??? by ronald4lif(m): 5:13pm On Dec 30, 2015
OP esewa go isi. Fa si unu hapu ise afifia kpolo-nkwu unu achu. Nenu ga ina ekobu si ala. undecided
Romance › Re: My Colleague And I Are Sleeping With The Same Girl - Should I Tell Him? by ronald4lif(m): 4:57pm On Dec 30, 2015
Tamee and Daretodiffer, it appears it's really bored in Britain today? Have you considered a nap? grin
Romance › Re: All The Way... by ronald4lif(m): 4:55pm On Dec 30, 2015
sad
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 4:39pm On Dec 30, 2015
daretodiffer:
HiV/AIDS is not a death sentence. can you please edit your post? You are not doing much to support anti-stigmatisation of the movement.

His action cannot be justified for whatsoever reason because HE HAD A CHOICE
Yes true, I accept that, was just giving credence to my point. I'd modify asap and thanks for calling that to my attention.

About his action being justifiable or not, that's open for seamless debate.
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 4:31pm On Dec 30, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]You dey mind am? gringringringrin[/color]
Lol. I doubt if they will hold same view had the gender be flipped and it was a guy wanting to infect a lady. I really doubt. grin
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m):
daretodiffer:
You attacked the issue with a us vs the mentality. Look at Onegig post for example, she took pains to break it down but you just can't be bothered to reason with her.
angry angry


Answer the question?
I've read the referred comment.

You see, HIV is a very sensitive issue and a serious ailment, nevermind liberal loonies who would say a carrier can live a normal life.

We don't know if the lady in question was aware she's a sufferer and if it happens she was privy of her status and insisting on unprotected sex then she's got nothing on the doctor poster. She's a criminal and can also be sued for criminal intent of infecting someone with a mortal disease.

On the flip side, if she isn't aware she's a carrier of the 'world most dreaded disease', then the doctor is culpable under criminal law of sedating and withdrawing her blood without her consent.

Without losing sight of the issue which led to his action and with the confirmation that his curiosity was positive, that the lady was HIV positive, I hold the strong view that his action was justifiable. It would have been different if she turns out negative.

But for me, to dismiss or berate is brave move even as it was a success will be foolish and a tacit support for the, deliberate or unintended, attempt to infect someone with HIV. Both circumstance are different and deserve divergent sifting and analysing.
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 3:53pm On Dec 30, 2015
daretodiffer:
Consider this, I request for a genotype test before I consider your marriage proposal. You refused but beibgbthr smartass that I am. I spike your drink and collect some blood for analysis. What would be your reaction?




Feminism or not, what the man did was wrong, very wrong






I agree with you that it is not easy to walk away. However for a person who is acting dubiously, what more do you need to walk away. I don't believe that BS about the reluctance to be tested. In fact, that should be enough to leave a partner whether or not he/she is positive.

Before you crucify the females on this thread, you need to check yourself first. You are the sexist one this thread.

Romance › Re: ***rate My Virgin Kid Sis***..picture* by ronald4lif(m): 3:47pm On Dec 30, 2015
francizy:
Well, based on the pictures she's posting on this thread, she's well dressed, well kept and even makes up. If not that she opened a thread, would you have known she's mentally challenged? grin shocked
The said picture isn't 'hers' sef. It's allegedly belonging to 'her' kid sis. And the pic might have been lifted from social media and the person unrelated to 'her'. Note that the apostrophy on the character is an indication the gender is mootable.

That said, even if the pics are that of 'her' relation 'her' mental stability still need psychiatric evaluation as I'm certain the teenager didn't give her consent to this 'her' acute display of acute schizophrenia.
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 3:37pm On Dec 30, 2015
Deejavuu:
undecided undecided undecided
E be like say you this harmattan don affect your body. Nothing to suppress the cold ni? No worry I dey show. grin
Romance › Re: ***rate My Virgin Kid Sis***..picture* by ronald4lif(m): 3:29pm On Dec 30, 2015
francizy:
There are so many mentally challenged people among us, we just can't identify them easily... shocked huh
Nwanna, this one is identifiable o. Even a mad fellow will tell this one is insane. grin
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 3:23pm On Dec 30, 2015
Deejavuu:
So, my comment reeks "painment" undecided
Oh na that one be the problem? undecided
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 3:17pm On Dec 30, 2015
Deejavuu:
undecided undecided. Just seeing this. Seriously? undecided
Yes really. The guy did right and wrong but the right outweighs his wrongdoings. This is a HIV we're talking about here, a near death sentence. tongue
Romance › Re: He Doesn't Want To See Me by ronald4lif(m): 2:49pm On Dec 30, 2015
25omega:
come on men, you know how it is. most guys will come chop even if them spend 5 kobo
You're making sense. How can anyone travel a journey of thousand miles to Nigeria and on arriving declines to see a woman he's pledging love and marriage to, and with an obvious momentous shag to wrap up the excitement. Doesn't seem right.

The guy was prolly just bored and chatting her up, and with constant chatting emotions builds up which led to flirtatious messages. The OP then misconstrued the money he sent her as an evidence to his professed love.

All I can tell her is if the guy travels back to his base without seeing her this time, the second time, she should move on.
Romance › Re: He Doesn't Want To See Me by ronald4lif(m): 2:37pm On Dec 30, 2015
25omega:
there is something off about this story. a guy has sent you money but never came by to get some puss? well just let him be and move on because if he has come to naija twice and never came to see you, then he has other options
Lol. Una no go kill person for here. So hin suppose come chop 'something' abi? grin
Romance › Re: He Doesn't Want To See Me by ronald4lif(m): 2:18pm On Dec 30, 2015
Have you tried to see him and he declined? I mean by you visiting him. Perhaps he's married and in Nigeria with his wife, or fiancé? Could it be that he's insecure or something?
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 1:40pm On Dec 30, 2015
Sagamite:
So a girl is trying to kill someone and your thought process at present is "her rights"?
Hahaha, epic response.
Romance › Re: 10 Statements Non Virgin Ladies Normally Find Offensive by ronald4lif(m): 1:38pm On Dec 30, 2015
scentmarlc:
Baba dis things for dey easy to understand with small grammar naa grin grin
cheesy grin
Romance › Re: Where Can I Meet Financially Capable Career Minded Men For Marriage by ronald4lif(m):
covbrand:
not necessarily, I think it's about knowing what you want and making hay
I sense you're young, smart and career driven yourself but don't make marriage an urgent goal. A man is supposed to find a wife, right? Let him find you. Just keep going about your daily businesses and functions and developing yourself.

Not saying you shouldn't get married as soon as you can afford but don't prioritise it. Let it happen when it is due.

You can find him anywhere; at a bus stop, inside a bus, cinema, church/mosque or even at your place of work. Don't just set out to find him, let it be a fluid coincident.
Romance › Re: Look At What Girl I Have Being Chasing For 6 Months Sent Me by ronald4lif(m): 12:54pm On Dec 30, 2015
When you chase her reach 6years you can come for my advice. undecided
Romance › Re: Where Can I Meet Financially Capable Career Minded Men For Marriage by ronald4lif(m): 12:49pm On Dec 30, 2015
You said you're not desperate but the message reeks of desperation. When you set out looking for career minded people or any caste of people for marriage then you are desperate. You've to let it happen naturally. In my opinion, one shouldn't seek for marriage, marriage and marriageable partner should find them.

Perhaps, this is why marriages keeps collapsing lately like pack of cards. People in their urgent bid to get married, driven by societal pressure and to avoid stigmatisation, fall for an incompatible partner.

With your present state of mind, you've avail yourself vulnerable and likely to succumb to relationship/marital advances from just anyone who's financially stable. And with such mindset, your sense of judgment will be rendered ineffective and as a result you won't see the negative side of him.
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 12:22pm On Dec 30, 2015
iAmCharis:
Lol
Bros na you go fit address her pass. grin
Una don divorce? undecided
Romance › Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by ronald4lif(m): 12:21pm On Dec 30, 2015
Tamee:
Hehehetongue Won't tell on the thread.
Ask me later.
Alright then.

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