₦airaland Forum

kola oloye: Did you say just? You are always there,deep right there in the nucleus of my heart

Really? isn't that sweet.... now my head is swelling....Ronke-no rival ni-yen faa!

^^^ naa!!!!my hands are up....

^^^^ Everything is going on smoothly!!! thanks for asking [since you just remembered me]

Fhemmmy: GEJ's problem isnot about public speaking . . it is more of lack of vision.
Also, if he would have called Obama lunatic and all that, people have said that many times, and yet they are alive, it is what freedom of speech is all about . . .
The man is not the only educated man, but he is one with guts . . . Remember Tunde bakare called him a fool?

He is not intelligent!, his response in every aspect has flaws. One can never compare him with Obama, he is not in the same boat as the latter, they are parallel lines.

^^^^ Really...? i can never win with you...

Who says?

londoner: He is speaking as a "Ghanaman". Even though this man is resident in the USA, do you think he would open his mouth to talk like that even when Bush was visibly and clearly embarrassing as a president.Do you think he came out to write such things then?

You do not insinuate that a president is mad and encourage Nigerians to remove him outside of the election process. Tell me which part of calling GEJ a joke, lunatic and suggesting Nigerians basically stage a coup, was he speaking as an economist?

He did not speak as an economist at all...............

Take a look again at that article and see if he spoke like an academic.



You and I both know the BH issue is not as clear cut as people would wish and it shows this Ayittey has not even looked into the roots of the issue and how difficult it is for us to come to a quick and easy solution which would not spell civil war for Nigeria.

I do not blame the Prof. the president has ridiculed himself and brought himself low to that level. A public primary school student knows what Nigeria needs and how to go about acheiving it. A well-read, grown ars/e man does not have an idea of how to rule and he is still sitting comfortably in "ASO-ROCK".

Does he care? after all, his family members are not the target of boko-haram...he is flying in and out without problems, changing hats every now and then, i supported him from the beginning, thinking that he will come around...the way i see it now, it is all total failure...

Just because he knows the 'abc's" of politics does not qualify him to be a 'Ruler or a leader ".

Majority of the women are sometimes to blame for the problems they face in their husbands home.

1. No education or half baked education.
2. Marrying for the wrong reasons...
3. Refuse to work and earn their own living...infact, having a personal business will help balance work and the home needs
4. After kids, they just let themselves go....really? what is the Gym for?, you see so many women in their 50"s in other countries, jogging and eating right.
5. Low self esteem, when the men see ladies that are ontop of their games out there, you will sit home and be wallowing in low self-pity and be feeding yourself more with carbs.
6. Dress right, i just see some women with sponge-like weavons, Really?? the weavons are not even properly combed or brushed, it is alwyas as if i should reach into my bag and start to brush it for them, they dress shabilly and expect the men to compare them with other women outside and still look at them and be happy.

Men should start opening their mouths and tell their wives how they want them to look, after 4 or 5 kids, you should still be hot for your husband.

If there is nothing to love about a spouse, then love cannot be forced.

This will never end.....

Excuzeme: Nigerian People? Always ready with an excuse, no matter how silly, to justify ineptitude!

*It is not whether Ghana is better than Nigeria...
*It is not whether this man (The prof) is a Ghananian or Nigerian....
*It is not about whether Hausas want to grab power or power should remain in the south.....
*It is not about whether l am PDP and You are ACN or whatever party name that comes to your mind....
*It is not about whether some hate or like GEJ, whether they are South-South or North-South or West-East or whatever!.....

IT IS ABOUT GOOD GOVERNANCE IN NIGERIA AND EFFECTIVE, PROACTIVE LEADERSHIP.


On these accounts, Jonathan comes across as a complete MEDIOCRE and FRAUD!

All the "paid praise-singers" on N/land can abuse me all day and night but it does not change the fact that this President is a MIS-FIT for that position!
Haaba? How low can Nigeria's Presidency get after these?

Sad indeed.

You can say this again!!!!!! Gbamest!!!

Hey peeps goodmorning......

Logs for yesterday... 30 minutes cardio and abs workout with fitness blender.....nice but very tedioous...not eating much so far, just drinking....i hope you all have a wonderful day...

^^^^ Am sure he exagerated...

2buff: Then the babe is [size=18pt]st[i]u[/i]pid [/size]and should understand better how these things work.

...that is funny.....can't stop laughing.....

2buff: Point in bolded. So why you kon dey give am yeye female-serving advice?
Ofcourse she will be the best or be willing to conform to anything to please him if she's not that attractive.
But if a man does not think his gf is beautiful in his eyes, then that one can't work oh.

You might be right!!!! people are different, it is a matter of principle...i don't love who i don't see, that is just me, the poster chose to love.....but am sure the feelings would have flown out of the window when he saw her....what if the babe used another chic to see his reactions?

2buff: Buhahaha I love how the advices of women always shifts when it is about something that favors them.
I think I remember you being one of those NL girls that are always about "I will never marry short, bald, pot belly, etc etc" and yet toryi don change for here because the tables are turned

No naaaa!!!!, did you read what he said....the guy was "inlove" or he thought he was inlove with the girl....beauty does not really make a good wife, majority of the time, it is not always about the physical looks....the girl might be "a dream come true of a woman" to the poster, he never can tell....

Personally i do not love without seeing......i gat to see what i would be loving!!!!

ogbonoeba: How can you fall in love with someone you have never met in person? Is this a joke?

I can relate to this...a liitle bit though.....

first off...let me laugh... (rolling on the floor and dancing alanta)

AFTER the laughter....
- the fact is, you thought you were inlove but it was never love, you just loved the way you both chatted and flirted on the phone and emails...am sure she was a good talker
- there is nothing you can do about the way she looks, it is either you love her like that or you leave her alone...but if i were you, i will go for the heart that is laced with GOLD and Diamond instead of an outward beauty with a heart filled with mud and filth.

awoloto: Marriage! no way thats out of the question, i will happily remain single . I am not looking to get married again at all. yes i live in Lagos, and i am fully aware that no guy will look at my type(four kids).
i will happily remain single, as for intimacy, no, i have passsed that stage now and am very indifferent to it, i know i dont really want to cheat so , its not an option for me.i married a man who right from the start was never really interested in being intimate anyway,and had a very low sex drive, so its never been an issue for him.
thanks for the advise, agboma i will ponder over all you have said.
I have a good job, and am doing well for myself, so i am not idle, i also have a large supportive family.
Ijust have to continue to hold on to God for now, just dont know how long i can hold on for.

You already have the solution in place, why seek for any advice? .....
it is not that you need seks or long for it...
-you know your hubby's sexual capacity....his low sekx drive..[not that he is having an affair]
- you have grown up kids...
-you are not ready for any divorce [which is great]
- you are not ready to have extra-marital affairs...

So what advice do you really need?? just wondering!!!!, i love all your resolutions....left to me...i will say you should keep hanging in.

J12: ronkelizating!

by the way, wetin "ronke" mean sef?

YOU ARE RONKELIZATING.....ronke bug must have bitten you....

jabbing!.

Laughing!!!!

Eternity

y2kaustin: ....Am sensing,arrogancy..Just my 1cent.

How expantiate please!!!

bukatyne: all d stuffs Dayomaku n Coogar re saying is just pure talk! d man DOESN'T respect his wife n marriage! no sane spouse would leave his/her better half outside for 30mins wit d opp sex in d office! i'm sure if d story was reversed, almost every1 would say d woman is cheatin! i c nothing absolutely wrong in visiting each other in d office! i wonder d kind of marriage that ends @ d entrance of d office n resumes @ d exit!

Ask them my sister!!!

Pretence.

Pounds....

J12ING.....

^^^^ Hey you....where have you been.....?