^^^^^^ .....you are just a looser Richy......really? i can't stop laughing......Fela in 2012.... no, i don't know how to dance that one ooooo....

Kobojunkie:

Oh!! So you were the one who made that silly comment . . . . . Well, see . . . you see a Nigerian child here has once again shown yet another one of your argument's full of Shi0t.

P.S. If I were 40, and single, I would be proud cause it takes a Stronger Person to stand on own at that age, don't you think? Now, for a woman to do it, that is even stronger because when Men do it, African societies considers it NORMAL-- it is almost like there is even more respect accorded him for being a man and single at that age and beyond. But in the same Africa (majority of the people with your mindset in that society), when a woman does exactly the same thing, it is not only harder, but she is DEMONIZED, as if she were carrying a curse, or committed a crime. There was a movie made a couple of years ago that highlighted this problem. It was sad but true.

Well, I probably shouldn't expect someone with your brain capacity to know that the significance of all this(especially given the ridiculous comments you have more than once confirmed did come from that case of yours), should I?

Shut-up!!!! my two lines has given birth to your 9 lines......you are still smoking d/o/p/e? at your age you need to retire and leave the kids to it.

jennykadry:

No be PATRA dance be that in those days

My dear, don't ming him, i think he meant the Shina Peters "open and close".....

Shollypopz: KAI!! Where hv i been??
Family section is fun oo, I enjoyed reading this thread
@Ronkebp....Kai, I feel ur post die!
I would hv done d same thing on his birthday ooo....... Anything i do for him, I'll tell him that's how it should be done!
Emi ke, I go show am pepper indirectly. He'll just notice he's falling down too much @ home, shirts getting tighter, pants getting smaller.
Me, Shollypopz, i 4 show am shege. Shebi he said I'm exaggerating, he 4 see better exaggeration!

And that is what i am talking about....by the time i am walking around the house with my a/r/z/e clapping together as i walk....he will so...oooooooooo REMEMBER......it is all about using "dem powers"

chaircover:

Agreed We dont like him, but we dont want him to jump off a bridge naw

. . . . However we still have a problem on who to choose to make the speech;

Ronke will burn the place down, efe go kill us with upside down logic and sisi is too much in love to be able to give the speech without breaking down in tears and thanking her hairdresser, eyebrow threader, Brazilian weave supplier etc etc

Time to recruit more cabalites . . .Ya'll too hard jare

Armyofone will do the job just fine......

Richvkunt: All I can say is that these women have no lifes without brother richy. I wonder how they will cope without me when I leave the family section. It will be so empty withoui me.
@Ronke, Can you do the open and close dance?
@Sisi,Wait till the missing moremi dramatically appears soon,then maybe mt point would not be illogical.
@Efe,be careful what you wish for.

Upgrade man!!!! and stop living in the caves, in what year....open and close ko!!!!!

Kobojunkie:

And this caused me to remember that only a couple of days ago, someone tried to LIE to us that Boys in Africa don't think sex at all. That only kids raised in the West think Sex everytime of the day. This Nigerian raised boy/child here says he averages 50 girls a week . . . . what for? What for? So he could brush their hair?

No need for the "someone", Say Ronkebp said.....blablabla....when will you recover from my post? Iya-single @ 40 and still counting......

Sisi_Kill:
Bwahahahahahaha!!!!!

I didn't do it! Nobody saw me do it! You can't prove I did it!



@ Ronkebp
Pastor Mrs. . .The dancer, please carry that ya Ikeba away from Richy ooh! Ahn, Ahn, since I mentioned I couldn't dance if my life depended on it, all these Ikeba Super Dancers have tried to lure Richy away from me with their dance moves! So much for together loving in the Cabal

Mother Superior I can't believe you sat back and watched Ronke dance in Richy's face!!

@ All
Y'all I wanna apologize on behalf of my one and only Richy. I bet some of you were reading his posts and scratching your head wondering where the logic is in his claim that one of the prominent members of our so called cabalites, not wanting to soil her good name. . .as a cabalite, created another ID to become. . .errr. . .a prominent Cabalite.

Sorry guys, this is what happens when you feed someone too much popcorn!! To avoid future incidence such as this, I have enrolled myself in a cooking class. I swear by the time I am done, the head chef of the best restaurant in the world won't have anything on me! I may not know how to dance but by josh. . Amma learn how to cook.

What do you think about that now. . .Mrs. Ikebe Super, Mrs. Danceology??

Yeah, that's what I thought!

No vex dear..trying to test his man-hood on your behalf

Richvkunt:

Do you also know how to do the jigida dance?

All of the above......

drnoel: Well for men still in the market playing hard to get can be very irritating. I remember then when I was younger, I suffered so much under the hands of several girls but then while in university and after I started working I learnt to give myself just a 2 weeks deadline for any girl I took interest in. It always worked, cos almost all the silly girls turned around after a while. No one has that time to spend time programming a lady. There are better things to do besides guys know when one lady hold its back several others give it up. Where I used to draw my line while I was single was going after married women or men,..I abhor that and find it irritating when I see it happening.

yeah....when the lady comes back after two weeks, is because she has liked you from the beginning, you know it is not easy seeing someone you like and just "jumping the gun" immediately. But there are some, that no matter what you do, will not come to you because that "attraction" is not there.

drnoel:
Oh! then u know very little about men. Cos if a man feels u hurt his ego, he´d do almost anything to get ur ass and when he has u are finished.

Really educate me more!!!

dayokanu: It depends on the culture you were brought up in and your religion.

200yrs ago It was no big deal actually it was my own Grandmom who went to pick the second wife for my grandfather.. Some cultures dont frown at it

Also in some religion its a norm. E.g islam, mormon etc

So i wont say its self esteem of whatever it depends on the culture you are brought up in and in most cases the culture determine your outlook to life

yeah!!! my grandmom did the same.....

drnoel:

True but then I´ve seen men still go after women even after they have explicitely said no and no. So what do u call that?

that does not stop you from being polite till you walk down the aisle with another man, then they will get it.

Change him this girl does not know anything.....

dayokanu:

Iwo o mo ju ijo lo ni ti e. Dem use dance do you? Any chance to shake something thats not there :8

You wan try....? mo fe jo kpa ni ( wan dance die)......i can shake the waist...ginger the swagger!!! shake the butts...and dance to the rythm on any....th..i..n.g.....

And you think you are a good competitor....................?

Lol...at thread, Jenny you are crazy.... , me too want to buy ogbono and okro ooooo :

@CC we are everly behind you.....we are dancing kaba-kaba...doing kaba-kaba...shaking everything infront of Richyvkunt....

@Johndoe....you will be alright!!!!

@Efemena...lol at Jenny wannabe......don't mind grandpa!!!!!

Richvkunt:


Ronkus,
Please you are married. This conversation is between two unmarried people.
Stop derailing the wonderful thread provided by this drama queen OP.

Oh!!!! ok.....will be waiting behind the curtain listening to the conversation, if you need help, holla at me, will be ready to give you few lines ......

Sisi_Kill:

You never stop showing yourself eh?

How many times do i hafta tell you I am waiting for you to make a honest woman out of me?

At this point even a day old baby has gotten the message.

Anyway, my people are waiting for your people.

They have only two conditions - No Photograph wedding and you have my birth date tattooed on your first head.

instead of him to ask for your hand, like a "real man", he is taking style to do "internet toasting".....

Richvkunt:

@Ronkus baby,
I only got one piece of advise for you-If you cant take the heat,please stay out of my kitchen!

Laughing n clapping my hands......osawa baby pancake...iyah!!!!!

For your mind you get kitchen ooooo, ....kai, grandfather..you never cease to amaze me!!!!! better go and marry and stop loitering around your kitchen and burning foods.

lol....................

dayokanu:

What do you want us to take from what the Poster said?

That the Husband forgot and later remembered, He apologized and she is throwing the usual tantrum expected of Juveniles?

Mrs Analyst.

Shhhhhssh!!!! you!!!, iyawo......like you.

Richvkunt:


Ronke,
I gave the OP sound advise and you came in with a snide remark,so I asked you if I should recommend divorce or burning down of her hubbys house as an alternative. Did I hit a raw nerve somewhere? After all Dayo talked about divorce too and you did not fly off the handle.
What is all this preaching? Is sister Ronke about to open a synagogue? I see all these funky pastors buying jets and aeroplanes don dey enter your eye?
Ronkus baby,you need to loosen up and stop hating the player.
For your info I happen to be a muslim so all your preaching is in vain-sorry o!

Then you need more of Muhammed in your life....infact i recommend 90 days muslim fasting for you...to get rid of every bitterness. I said advice of the century.....how is that a snide remark? you see what sawa belle causes??

dayokanu: ^^ You should know most women thrive on drama. If they dont have any major issues they come up with the most ridiculous things just to get attention

- "The way you look at me, I think you dont like me enough", "Something tells me you prefer other type of women", "You seem so perfect, I have never caught you with anything wrong, That must mean you are cheating and covering your tracks", "You dont use Versace cologne" etc

This woman doesnt have any major issue in her wedding and she wants to create one out of a birthday when she herself said for the past 20yrs no one has ever cared about her birthday, Not father, not mother, not siblings, not friends. But if the husband does the same heaven must fall.

Even though the guy said happy birthday, he didnt say it in a sonorous voice and invite Spice girls to perform at the event

And even when he said he was sorry, he didnt jump from Eiffel tower to show how sorry he was.

Someone already says she can equate it to forgetting food and sex, Well she can as well divorce the guy because he forgot the birthday

woman wrapper.....Mr. Analyst....take what the poster has written literally, no need bringing out unnecessary matter into it...it is the type of you that will tie headtie around the waist to fight the wife...stop being petty.

Richvkunt:

You should know by now that I only spit undiluted truth on these threads.
Maybe I should take a cue from you and your fellow feminists and advise her to divorce her husband over as mudane an issue as forgetting a b/day or better still I could advise her to burn down her husbands house to get attention?
Maybe if she did dramatic things like that the unloving husband could see reason and celebrate her b/day. Talk about cutting the nose to spite the face!

What are we saying and what are you saying? who is talking about divorce and burning down houses? Richy accept Christ into your life so that this bitterness of yours will cease....You have a problem of letting things go, that initself is a major sickness. Give your life to HIm, so that your internal healing will begin. Because your case no be ordinary eye...(kin nse oju lasan)

Richvkunt:


True!
Most women are just drama queens looking for trouble where there is none.
He said sorry when he realised his mistake,why not deal with it and move on.
@op,
i feel you are making a mountain out of a mole hill,if you feel your husband has offended you,why not talk to him directly and get it out of your system instead of allowing resentment eat you up.
I feel you are bitter because you were planning a suprise b/day for your husband and expected him to reciprocate the gesture on your b/day too.
You have a good thing going in your life,do not destroy it with bitterness.
Lots of the feminists on this forum will give you advice that will destroy your marriage and will be the same people to accuse you of lacking self esteem when you open another thread about having issues with your husband,smartly forgetting the fact that they put you in a quagmire with their ill advise in the first place. Many of these women/feminists are in worst marriages than yours be will provide you with all kinds of vile advise and sit back and poke fun at you when it happens!
Use your brains and solve this matter yourself. A birthday is just like any other day.
Do not look for non existent trouble in your marriage. A word is enough for the wise!

Here we go!!!!advice of the century!!!!!

vanitty: Eeyah.

Anyway, thrash it out, don't do the understanding wife thing, your marriage is relatively new, start setting your boundaries now, what you will tolerate and what you won't . Birthday is a big deal to you, so be it. Every damn year whether he likes it or not, he must acknowledge it. If that is what will make you happy, then he must to do it!

Naso!!!!!!

dayokanu: The guy said Happy birthday when he remembered.

The guy said he was sorry later when she said she didnt like it

What more does she want? A human sacrifice?

Lol.....he said "sorry"...how sorry was he really? just sorry and it is over....."happy birthday" just like that....to who your enemy?...puhlease!!!! it is soooooo unromantic.

Dayo....this is her "husband" we are talking about...not family members nor friends...and she did not say heaven must come down because her hubby did not remember, infact she took the whole matter well with enough maturity....to some people (like me), birthdays, valentine's day, anniversary...mean alot to me....i do not expect my spouse, my husband, to forget those special days....if every day cannot be valentines day or birthdays, at least remember some important days that matter.

dayokanu: ^^ Washere. Oshi o da nile pako.

All these mood on top birthday? when there would be another next yr. Maybe she should have killed those friends and families who didnt give her gifts on her birthday for the past 20yrs. So the frustration of 20yrs you wan put am on one man

Seriously, Oshi ko da nile pako gann ni

You are not serious!!!!!!, i am personally a birthday person....do not think you will be my husband and forget my birthdays.......Naabi!!!! it will not happen, infact i expect you to tell me once it is 12.00 midnight 23rd of April "Happy birthday"...no joke!!!! send me flowers for every hour of the day...(24 bouquet of roses in toatl) and i am expecting special stuffs.....do not bring in arsenal or manchester united winning a match into this...you celeberate your birthday once a year..and you as a husband cannot remember that....that is how special you think your wife is. :

Nile kpako!!!!!!

Really abi you just want my attention by that your post... don't worry i have noticed you...Dayo...