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Happy birthday!!! many more years to come in Jesus Name, Amen.

chaircover: Unless the wedding is a small one, you will need a lot more than 10 servers. If you have two thousand guests then it means one server is serving 200 people and out of those 200 people there are guaranteed to be 20 fussy guests who will engage the caterers with one complaint of meat size or the other. You also cant just throw the food down at the feet of VIP guests. You ask them what they want, then you bring the food with courtesy, style and panache LOL.

Ronke catering aiye isin ti yato o! I have a caterer that only uses Damask material as table cloths.

Like Tgirl said one caterer can do one thing and the other to do something else. Even the small chops sef na another caterer I go use so that my main caterer can focus on serving my guests.

Its the food and music that makes or breaks a party. God forbid one spends millions and millions of Naira and your guests go home hungry while coolers and coolers of food are getting spoilt in the caterers van.

Gat you wella.....should we then do a caterer and an olokpo?....me, i don't want to pay 500k naira each to two different caterers ooo, i don't have that money ooo

shymex: That's what I'm saying, my sister... The mothers have left parenting to the internet, and hip videos - all in the name of feminism.. You need meet some of these rich and middle-class family kids, they're worse than kids raised in the slums..

There's always a limit to everything - but it seems most modern women are going overboard with this counterproductive ideology..

How's life treating you, anyway?

So-so!!! busy as usual and you?? busy with dem babes as usual

shymex: But how far have they gone with that? It has made the world more insane, with women being inadequate in the aspect of motherhood.. At the end of the whole pseudo-equality - the kids, and family suffer, hence, why the divorce rate has skyrocketed..

Family values is non-existent in the modern world, due to feminism...

True-dat!!! well that is what some men have caused. they have really gone far, now we have so many moral decadence because of inadequate parenting. you will see a 12yr or 13 yr old having all this sexaul imaginations and practising it, so many 12 yr olds have gone crazy...now, the 18 and 19 year olds are the new grannies.

i was driving back from work on friday and i saw this little girl, she should not be more than 15 yrs of age, walking down the street with her friend, if you had seen what she was wearing, this one is shorter than the bum-shorts, see her "cheeks" showing, all in the name of being "sexy", omo, i imagined if it was my daughter, i would have stripped her n/a/ked on that same street, since she wants to obviously expose all her private/parts. But am sure if you asked her where her parents was, they are at work working double shifts.

Tgirl4real: Since u have a trusted hand, then go for it. I was think dat way cos of 'our' kinda party. It's always too rowdy and 1 caterer can neva survive.

btw, na ya pikin wan wed.

just joking.

My sister.....pickin ke? it will take another 28 years By God's Grace oooooo

shymex: I'm not talking about men who want to eat their cake and have it at the same time. My arguments are against women who thrive in the delusion that they're equal to men...

I'm talking about women who like to challenge men, when it isn't necessary.. Such women would want to prove a point, and go left, when men are going right.. No one is saying women shouldn't be independent, but some women just overdo everything to prove a pseud-point - that's unnecessary to be honest. Hence, putting themselves in a more difficult situation..

That is one of the characteristics of a woman....they are born to overdo things because of their emotional make-up, some women who are feminist are doing it because of what they have personally suffered in the hands of men or have seen women suffer in the hands of men and because of how emotional they are, go overboard with their attitudes. The whole idea is to resent the chauvinistic men and prove to them that they are better in everyway.

Tgirl4real: 1 caterer ke? I didn't even use one caterer on one day.

Actually, u can use ur major caterer - a trusted hand on both days, but never use one caterer on d D-day, except if it's just a small gathering. Even for a small gathering sef, I would prefer to seperate d person making the general food like rice n swallow from d one making d specials like chinese, fish n fries, small chops, porridge, ewa agoin n dodo and may be tuwo.lol

No mind me o, I love good food.

Actually during my own wedding i used 1 caterer for both days, she has her own cooks like 5 different cooks and over 10 servers, all she did was oversee the cooking and everything was neat and perfect....i really enjoyed her services, i have no 'but' in all she did. She is a big time caterer in Akure....so was thinking we could use her again....but another caterer was telling me it was not advisable to use one caterer.

During the reception she had tables set in three different parts of the hall, and had servers on each side, it was really classy and her price did not cost 'ones whole body'

Ogugua....i really agree with the points you have raised. I was telling a co-worker today, about how majority of irresponsible men have driven the women out to fend for themselves and their children. Everything has been misplaced. You cannot really have your cake and also eat it; something has to 'give'.

Marraiges back then had a clear-cut role, the husband knows they are the sole provider, the women know their the care-takers, when the whole position has been turned upside-down, there is really nothing anyone can do. A man wants an independent wife and a 'real' wife, the truth is you can't have it all, you will either get a real woman or an independent woman, or a percentage of each with one dominating the other.

tessybaby: My sister
there is no where i have not looked for Aveeno Baby products
the only one i found was for adults

I use aquaphor vaseline, for my son, since i had him, my dears....if i tell you how everyone that sees my son ask him what i use on his skin...all i tell them is 'aquaphor' baby vaseline or Eucerine...they are very good, if you can find any of the two, try it out.....you will love it instead of looking for aveeno.

chaircover: Ronke Queshion re ti n poju just joking

Depends on the number and the caliber of your guests. If you are going to have lots of VIP's then I suggest that you go for at least 2 caterers for each of the days. One to deal with the VIPs and the others to deal with the other guests.

2 caterers mean that you are not held to ransom by one single caterer and the serving points & serving staff etc is automatically doubled at both events.

. . . . . .So I would use the same 2 caterers on both days. It will also reduce wastage and theft, cos they will be watching each others moves and reporting back to you

nice......ok!!!! thanks.

Thank you CC and T-girl....my second question Is it better to use one caterer for both days or use different caterers for each day??

Tgirl4real: In addition, to what you wrote. In modern day . . . the groom's family usually cater for their own guests.

That is exactly what i want, the bride should cook theirs' and the grooms should cook their own food too, it will just make the food to be more. But i guess because they have to travel from one State to the other, they want the food to be cooked together..which is not going to be a problem.

ujutonia: The welfare of the kid have been taken care of, we hve moved on jst that the talk thing is wht i dont want now. I feel like ignoring him .

You guys should discuss over the phone, let him buy enough airtime on the phone and you both should talk....there is no need for face-to-face discussion, at least not now! and if you are going to do any fac-to-face discussion, go with at least two people, infact two men!!...have it in an open place...say, an eatery, let the guys seat at another table and enjoy a solid lunch while you both 'talk'.

Sagamite: He can always replace them every 2 to 5 years.

Abi? you are right jare....but they will all be "kiri-kiri' kind of ladies

Sagamite: I see marriage by the end of this year as a curse.

I must utilise my window of generousity to spread the immense love I have very well before I report for life imprisonment if I get the world's smallest hand-cuffs placed on my finger. The prenup would be my "Get out of Jail" card.

But if the girl is hot and a nice person, the jail for my life imprisonment might just be like a UK jail (a 5 star hotel) and I would gladly take the penthouse have my meals made till I die. I am not interested in Kirikiri kind of jails most girls offer.

Ouchh!!!!!
My people!!!! I have officially signed and logged out of Sagamite's case, infact i am shutting-down, his case has no cure, there is no amount of womencimine or ladydol that you can prescribe to him. I have come to the conclusion that he only gets healed by "Okunrinnimofebalo-dol".

So Sagamilo.. you see marraige as a 'curse'?...this not good!!!! this mentality is not good ooooo... And you were thinking of knocking on my father's door....if i hear, i will just ask all those agbero boys in Ibadan- Ologun-eru to bundle you and throw you over the fence .....