₦airaland Forum

ifyalways: Rofl @ sagamite.
I think we are in the same page sha,as long as other factors are present and constant(sexu.al attraction included) love is the least factor anyone should worry about. It falls in and happens along the line.
Btw, sagamite, which one be "intense" sexual attraction?how dem dey kpekus dat one?

With the heart my sister, with the heart....have you ever kpekused opening your heart to your hubby.....? try it, you will see it is different from love making and bang..ing.

My people, Nigerians do no not know what love, marraige and respect is, for the sake of the good ones, i will say "some". There is nothing long courtship...say 5-10 yrs will bring if not immorality and fornication. I personally love the Indians and the way they love and marry, majority of the times, their marraiges are arranged, but they know what "for better or worse means", and to say majority of them have their own gods, and do not follow the Biblical "keep yourself till marraige" thingy.

I have thought about it and made my resolutions that what marraiges are going through in Nigeria now, is just because of the immoralities. "sex before marraige" is a platform for failure already, that is with a partner, not adding or counting a lady that has slept with 5- 50 men, now, add abortions ontop...what did they expect their marraiges to be in the long-run?? if not a big sham and failure. I tire.

Beaf: ^
You don't even know what your village looks like. You are a failed human being.

So what is his going to and knowing his village do for Nigeria at this present moment?

uzomagic: Neighbouring countries are well aware of our previously unharnessed potential and fear that we'll get it right this time. The sad part is that they have been hired by Nigerian paymasters to discredit our govt. failure is their newest habit

Oh really? you think they need to get paid before they actually say something for themselves, what will we be getting right?? because i don't know how long it will take for us to get it right.

ubandire: Somebody should please tell this stupid professor to shut up.

And why should he? The country has been ridiculed by the so-called rulers and leaders....Maybe it will take insults from neighbouring countries to get out acts together.

Captainajama: We had years of misrule under the military,yes! We are coming out of the ashes like a Phoenix,renewed and reenergised,yes. We are under a new era of change and vibrancy,bu we have never been broken or battered. We have always been giants, this senile old man should be mindful of his utterances.

Or so you thought or are still thinking!!!!!

armyofone: Ronkebp, you are right there. I wouldnt want to be any guy's sampling barbie

some gal can play nice for the duration of that courtship only to rear their real self after the marriage.

1 year
2 years
etc no proposal, na wetin biko what's a gal waiting for?
some people can be in a relationship just to piranha

anyway:

To each their own sha.

6 months gan sef is too much for me oooo...i can't fit, i get bored easily...so i don't know what we will be doing for 10 years.

coogar: i think the age they started dating is the key. a guy of 19 yr-old dating
a 17-yr old chic in nigeria would get married when? at 21? hell to the no...
of course, debarring any ugly issue, their relationship would last 6-10 yrs before
marriage comes into play.

You are right..that is why it is good to wait before going into any relationship....i had a friend who was in a relationship with her ex since her JSS1, they kept on dating through out university and did not end up marrying themselves, apart from the relationship...she aborted like 6 different times during the course of their relationship...she is married to someone else and has not given birth yet.. so long courtship is just a waste of time.

armyofone: why court for long with the gal playing wifey roles? Why?

am with you on this one....i hate long courtship....just get married already and save us unnecessary time....some people claim to have dated their husbands for 6- 10 years before getting married..i don't know how they survived those times....God knows i would have dated 10 guys in-between....

That is uni-Ilorin for you, once you are caught, that person is graduating immediately.....they should start re-writing jamb.

heygal: Read all your posts aπϑ ‎​​†h♌nkڪ y'all for your opinions aπϑ suggestions,i needed τ̣̣ђё trashing aπϑ every thing i got from you guys,that's y i came †☺ nairaland,ΒƱζ it still didnt make ‎​♍Ε feel any better cos wat kind of a man claim †☺ love a woman aπϑ not care abot her wellbeing,
Just last night,he called †☺ tell ‎​♍Ε he bought some clothes,shoes aπϑ other stuffs for ‎​♍Ε aπϑ τ̣̣ђё unborn baby, aπϑ he has excess luggage from τ̣̣ђё things he bought. He prefers i wear clothes aπϑ shoes than sending money for his wife's aπϑ unborn baby's upkeep?
Ɣ☺ΰ‎​​ guys have said Ÿ̲Ơ̴̴̴̴͡uя bit aπϑ i understand perfectly,ΒƱζ he who wears the sgoes knows where it pinches him

My dear...stop blaming your hubby..do you want to kill him?..do you know what type of job he is doing where he is to make ends meet? do you know all the bills he has to pay and how many jobs he has to work??

He asked you to leave your job, am sure only because you had been bugging him about leaving it in the first place, and you did, without no "back-up plan' [as jenny has said] and now you are looking for a boyfriend to meet your financial needs, really It is women like you that give women bad names and bad image....you better go and be teaching or find something to do. you had not even gotten the visa yet and you left your job!!!! this is serious!!!

Nope.....those eyes do not look the same to me...

Turns around to give kolly-nana a big hug, thanks for being there for me, i really do not care if she pulls the house down, as long as you remain in my arms....am happy...

jennykadry: ^^i was allergic to players sagamu if you like date a girl for 6 years, a girl that wants to play you will, without any drama. Why are you still single saga? Still trying to know the girl? continue kpekusing diaa, no go marry

He is afraid...my sister.....na fear dey catch am.

Sagamite: Mba!

Not it the time of 50 percenting.

- 50% marriage failures.
- 50% of my sweat gone to some woman.

I no dey for that.



Bloody frigid prude!

So you are one of those girls that refused to open for me?

On the other hand, I prefer to mainly know someone before marriage than in marriage. I think it would also be to her benefit to want that as well with me because you yourself can see the 2 personalities I have on NL. On one hand the jovial and banter person, on the other hand, the aggressive stubborn basher.

In real life, most people would see the jovial, convivial side of me virtually everytime. It is rare for the aggressive side to come out but it is there, lurking under the surface. One must have really taken a piss for that shyt to happen. Like the murrafcker that once came to attack me because im babe dey cheat with me (I no know say im get man o and I no know the guy). For him attacking me, as a matter of basic fcking principles, mo lati fck e up (I had to fck him up). Any woman that thinks this babyface is always smiley and friendly is in for a very, very rude shock. Im fit unfortunately see a real-life Chucky (from the "Child's Play" movie).

We both have to see a decent spectrum of our personalities and I don't think a short relationship would give me that privilege.

Marry none of the above, only marry who God has chosen for you.

Van Vicker ko...Van Vicker ni......he has so expired....

my latest is IMRAN KHAN.....i love those lips......

Geisha

Sitting on the sofa in my bump shorts and fly top, with legs crossed, watching a movie....reaches out to "Kolinton peperi-dodo"...plants a kiss on his cheeks and asked him for the keys to his RR Sport and his DC...need to do some shopping...do not have time to fight abeg....!!!!

Looks over to Benyc and tells her....."please will need you to move your toyota and remember you are just an angel, do not forget to watch over us"....going out to shop!!! blows her a kiss....and leaves the living room to get dressed.

michelin89: I'm actually not rude or harsh in my everyday interactions. what bothers me is my intolerance which i think it's too developed. i'd rather not be around people who annoy me!

My dear when you eventually have your kids, you will learn to be really tolerant, there is nothing wrong in tolerating other people's excesses to an extent, it just differentiates you from them, and you will be able to teach others one or two things.

The cultural differences will always matter no matter how you hide or disguise it. Now, is the love you have for each other strong enough to withstand the problems when they arise??. If it is not, then stick to your culture jejely, if it is, then marry whoever.

@ Michelin....do not let anyone make you aggressive or harsh, such attitudes will just keep on inviting and attracting the wrong set of people....a lady who has the right attitudes have not gotten the right man yet, talk more of lacing your attitude with harsh words and rudeness. You can still be firm and not let anyone walk over you as opposed to coming off as rude and immature [you get my drift? ]. it is all in the approach.

Running away......

^^^ you know that word was exactly on my mind...

Twist

Spirit of Okija: Someone just disrespected an entire Country and you salute him?!

You are worse than an infidel..

But is it a lie, what that someone said?? Our Nation is a complete rididcule and you are defending what is not there?? what did you expect?? Yorubas' will say.." when big problems push you down, smaller ones will climb on top" what this man has said is just part of the smaller problems Naija will face or is facing.

J12Pimping!!!