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Yeah!!!!!!!! unemployed couple, everybody can get married but not everyone will stay married, lack of money will be the number one thing to break the union, unless they must have decided to go into robbing others for the sake of survival, if not they will end up as beggars.

I can see there are more re-cruits on the male-saddist-side. good for them.

What if the groom is the one holding her bumbum? did anyone think of that?

Abujafood: I just had to ask this question when I realise a lot of girls aren't interested in dating nice, easy going guys! Reminds me of MJB's I love my Mr. Wrong

Seems nice guys are dry, boring and may even seem weak to many women yet they often times prove to be loyal and caring!

[What do women really want?]

Back to topic, Ladies will you date a nice guy?

I think it depends on how you play the game....before i even answer, what is your definition of being nice? you can be nice and still be full of fun. Everyone likes fun.

Now, if you 'men' think that a lady's defininition of 'real men" is a man that cannot buy blackberry or brazillian weave or take the hungry babes out to lunch to eat mr.bigs or tantalizers' or spoil them with gifts, then that 'man' is still growing and has a lot to learn. this is what happens when majority of men shy away from the real women and prefer to date 18- 21 year old baby- girls. How would you know?

you all are the funniest species on earth....this is what Saga loves most, topics like this that differentiates" real men" from the "men". I don't know if majority of you men think the so called real men are sissies,. Every lady whether black or white, wants a man that will treat her right. Just incase you don't know the definition of real-men in the female dictionary;

- It is a man that does not hit/beat/kicks/slaps women

-A man that knows his responsibility to his immediate family not a lazy man, if you are making "a kobo" it is better than sleeping and drooling on the sofa while your wife has gone to hawk gari.

- A man who does not ridicule his wife/girlfriend in public

-A man who does not talk anyhow, men that do not talk or complain on every little thing..."a nag of a man"

- A man who is not a drunk

- A man who does not run after every bakassi in skirts and trousers... hmmmmmm!!! what else? will add the remaining to the list once i remember.


Now i will also talk about real women,;

- They are women who are full of respect, they respect themselves and respect others, especially their husbands.

- They are hardworking, "whatsoever the hand findeth to do, do it".

- They are care-takers, takes care of everything pertaining to the home, kids, hubby, family and friends

- They are not dirty.

- They are not gossips, (the clapping and pulling aside of others' kind of gossips). they do not humiliate their husbands by causing unnecessary drama in the neighbourhood

- They are good cooks and excellent b/an/ger!!!! (no jokes)

- They are highly spiritual, knows when to pray or bring out the mats for prayers, for the family.

And so on and so forth.....

Loll...SEE small boys crying when "real men" are on the go with their babes and wives......taaaa!!!! change your views.

Tgirl4real: Emails. Pls mail me.

ok! i will.

armyofone: Ronkelus, bombom keeping you busy eh? abi na oga how are you doing girl.

Tgirl4, what interview and where is the thread?

Haaaa!!! Ore-nsin!!!, been busy jare with every-every..lol, how have you been too, still marching on abi? one-army, one-spirit, one-love, one-goal.....nothing do you....

Tgirl4real: Sorry I am just replying u.

Here's d link:

https://www.nairaland.com/1083598/knowing-nairalanders-better-interviews/1#12945175

Start from d first page.


@ Ronke, when are u granting urs?

how do you go about it? do you call or send emails with the list of questions?

Hey guys, wow 162 pages, everyone is going strong, Oluite, Mightlove, HG, Modath, and everyone, thanks for asking after me faa!!!, i am doing great, feeling better, have incorporated yoga into my routine for now....just 10 minutes here and there, should be better in a couple of weeks....it is well....take care guys and keep on burning the fat and staying healthy.....

What is love especially between two people?

I will say it is first and foremost a feeling that cannot be explained. This feeling can either grow or diminish depending on how it has been watered, example of such watering processes include, individual attitudes, personalities, ambition, spiritual make-up, emotional make-up, and so on.

Love between two people should be such that, it is not selfish, there is mutual respect, excellent communication, humility, you tend to allow those things you will not allow on a normal day, you want that person to be successful, you want that person to be great, hence you want the best for that individual. you care about that person, you want to know everything about this 'wonderful person' and you want to grow together. And not forgetting how the two handle conflicts is also an important aspect of love.

The issue of 'soul mate' is beyond the physical, it is usually a spiritual connection, but it is a feeling that cannot be erased, no matter where you are that person will always be a part of you. Now, just because you have a soul mate does not mean, when you get married it will be problem free and it will all be about love, NAh!!!!!! there is more to the issue of soulmates, only very few make good partners, the maturity level of the individuals involved will help them oversome any form of conflict, when understanding is absent, then there is an issue.

Tgirl4real: eeya!

I guess u have been very busy.

Have u heard about the interview going on? I need u on board ASAP.

lol, i did ooo yesterday, i was reading through everyone's post.....that interview will bring out everyones' 411......but it is a good thing, keep up the good work.

Tgirl4real: Lol

@ Ronke,

Where have u been?

around jare, popping in and out of NL this days......

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Ronke went straight to our Grandmomma's type sayings for this kind of situation. - "Two ge four"

That cracked me when I saw it!!! [/quote] Abi naaa, no need wasting time.....

Cry-baby...lol.....don't mind me ooooo, it is just funny....

1. my dear you still have alot to learn, people that have spent 20-30 years in a marraige are still learning everyday.

2. if i were you, this first couple of years is for you to study the type of man your hubby is, regular dating relationships are usually different from a marraige...so you have a long way to go.

3. you blocked him, he pushed you....2/4, both of you were wrong and you started it.

4. stop thinking about running away from home or reporting your relationship with your hubby with family and friends on every little squabble.

5. this is your marraige....make it work and avoid unnecessary "contentions".

This is simple.......

-do not take unnecessary favours from anybody, especially when you know his/her feelings are involved. No free meal, everybody is doing something to get something. So it is best you avoid such people and don't over-use them by taking undue advantage of them.

I have a very serious face when i want to and the most loving eyes ever, whoever reads the eyes to be "come and do" will recieve a shocker when i change my looks, i don't play around and don't have time for "some type of game' even if it is a joke...let everyone draw the lines form the beginning and stop joking around whether married or not. It does not pay to lead people on and later back-out...it usually does not turn out well.

Some men!!!!, i don't know why someone will come on this forum and be seeking for unnecessary advice, some women shaa!!!! he beats you, abuses you verbally, he is irresponsible, and all what not, what he contributes is his s/.p.e.rm and his last name......Ok....i will rest my case.

NB: A beast will always remain a beast....

Thank God there are still women with senses, that knows how and when to 'run' when the going is tough....

This is what happens when people run out or "reasonable" articles to write...Sisi-kill, i am laughing with you here, drinking a bowl of gari seasoned with nice groundnuts....dan-iskas!!!!!

a husband or wife who does that is "shady".....has secrets.............

The question should be, "what won't you do?", example; submit you a/rz/e to be smashed and protect your wife.

dayokanu: I know you are saying this to seduce me. So i no gree.

Wetin you bring come from Naija? Or you think say I no go knw say you travel? Iya Mukaila said she saw you at Bodija

Lol, na real iya Mukaila, will bring iru-kpete and eja-kika, u don't have any problem...

agabaI23: My people, how body. Suggest nice hang outs for Ibadan.

411 in Sango-Bodija road

If a woman loves her family dearly, she would be willing to contribute whatever she has for the financial growth of that family, irrespective of the rule, 50-50, 80-20 or whatever. And same goes for the man, if he truely loves his home, wife and children, he will do whatever and spend whatever, irrespective of the ratio involved. It is when love is not enough that we start to see loopholes and dents.

^^^^^ you don see shiiit wey get perfume before ?

free2ryhme: selfish somebody

Lol...i like it like that...thank you...i need my space abeg...i love it when i am in the bathroom, more so my hubby loves to du-du before he takes a shower...ewwww!!!! nasty...can't stand it.

it is because all this stu/pid companies are not being sued, that is why, they are still doing their thing non-challantly. All parents should come together, open their mouths and scream at the top of their voices...."Life is very important, Life should be made the top priority". I am so angry.....nonsense marketers, My God will expose them.

Really?? bathe together ke? i like the idea, but no! thank you, i love it when i am in the bathroom and love to bathe well, from top to my toes, unless the bathroom is as big as my living room, then fine, if not, sorry, wait your turn.

This is what happens when you close your eyes while walking down the aisle.....You just had a baby through CS and he was beating you even with that....That one, even if it was done once, is a enough reason for me to leave that man, not to talk of his stingy attitude. Oh!! My!!! too bad...

^^^^^ it is a witch and a blood sucking wizard, will batter their children in such a manner that will make others raise eyebrows, there is no way on earth, you will raise a child and won't spank him or her, a little, just to drive home some point....My dad has never beaten me before, but i can't say the same for my younger sisters, my mum has never spared the rod when we were growing and i will repeat that none of us go outside to raise a fist against another. It is a mother-witch that will look at her children and in the name of correction, hit, slap and kick their children.

I was at Aleshinloye market in Ibadan last week, was buying some stuff from a lady, there was this 10 year old girl that worked for her, this woman said that the little girl steals and lies, and (she must have stolen something before i got there), if you had seen the way this woman was beating this girl, i could feel the blows from where i was standing i had to scream at her that i was going to call the police on her since she was obviously killing a child that is apparently not hers...she stopped when she heard me scream with all the energy i had left, the girl was still kneeling by the time i left, but am sure that woman was not satisfied with the beating she had given that girl and i am so sure, she will be dishing out more...That there is the abuse we are talking about.....and that woman is a witch, for those who fly at night, you can visit her coven to find out...she will be there life.

If anyone had been beaten in such a manner by their own physical parent or uncle or aunt, just go to them and tell them that they are witches and wizards.

^^^^^^do i know for you men!!!!lets assume they are both pretty and s/e@xy, abi there are no pretty and s@ex/y chics ni?